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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We joined recently and loads are interested but cos no verifications then they think we might be fake, can anyone help us as we're a genuine couple looking for a sexy lady to join us and love banter, anyone got advice or can help?

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By *wisted2000Woman
over a year ago

under my rock cleethorpes

Have you tried going to a club? You’ll get verified that way wether you play or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could go in the cam rooms together and ask someone to verify you. Or go to a social event- look in the Meets section.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Why is it so important that the single lady must love banter? You say it three times on your profile.

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By *ssex Playfull CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Grays


"Why is it so important that the single lady must love banter? You say it three times on your profile. "

bants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you tried going to a club? You’ll get verified that way wether you play or not "

+1 for this

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Arrange a banter call

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We think that the fact that Dan will be doing all the talking will to most set of the alarm bells for most on here. Why this is usually the warning sign for a fake profile . Why not reword it and let your good lady run it and tell those would be meets that you will swap numbers and the ladies can talk . Or you can chat on cam .

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Before I started chatting to a couple with a view to meet I would want to see a pic of them together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it so important that the single lady must love banter? You say it three times on your profile.

bants "

Gotta love the shants - shit banter.

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By *he RingmasterMan
over a year ago

Canford Cliffs

Might be an idea to have 'banter' added to the interest categories

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loves a bit of banter

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By *avidandjaneukCouple
over a year ago

Canterbury

Try a club - there are some good ones a short distance from Canterbury.

J x

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By *ouplelookingforadultfunCouple
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

Looking at your profile I'd completly reword it.

If we were looking for a couple we'd read yours and think fake!!!

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Sounds well dodge

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By *ex-a-frolicsCouple
over a year ago

Brizzle

Most but not all people would say they are looking for Unicorns, but not exclusively, some would also like single guys, couples, tv’s ts’s etc to add to the mix.

If you really can’t get to a club or go on cam to get verified, (you don’t have to play it just proves you’re genuine), then you need to broaden your horizons. Wanting to meet Unicorns or double Unicorns (FF) here is incredibly hard for established Swingers,,but for newbies on here with no veri’s virtually impossible I would think, as it’s a numbers game & the competition is so stiff. (Pun intended). Having said that veri’s are not the be all & end all & willl not gusrantee you meets hut it will help.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As others have said, clubs and socials are great way to start getting that important first meet verification, but also its not gets to get photo verified, and would help.

Your profile text reads as a stream of conciousness, break it up into sentences a little. So many commas!!

It's also far harder as a couple to find a single lady to join you for a night of naughty fun than a single guy or another couple. Sadly, that's us speaking from experience, though we've had plenty of good times with both of those latter two! But, good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi ..maybe if I were you and only looking for females which is always harder anyway , maybe let the mrs message them . If we talk to couples ,we both chat but from experience talking to ladies the ones ive spoken to most prefer to chat to the lady half first then the hubby when comfortable ( just how we find works best ) . Our profile probably isn't perfect or to some people's taste but if I were you I would sit down together and maybe 're word a few things ....to me ( my opinion ) it sounds like you are doing them a favour to meet you .

We are FAR from experienced but we are always polite and that seems to go a long way on here too . Take interest in others and don't just tell them what you want .

K ( Mrs) xx

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

Nothing on your profile jumps out at me to make me think 'wow got to meet them!'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well lots of advice was given , but on looking at profile its not changed so we wish you all the best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could always go to an organised social in your area, they will verifie you and you will also meet a lot of single girls there, look them up in the forum

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Well lots of advice was given , but on looking at profile its not changed so we wish you all the best."

Unfortunately so often the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They have not been on line for almost an hr, probably not had the chance to take the advice in yet

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"They have not been on line for almost an hr, probably not had the chance to take the advice in yet "

True. That's when they'll comment in their own thread too. Probably.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single guy happy to help if needed

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Single guy happy to help if needed "

They are looking for a single lady ( with a love of banter)

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Single guy happy to help if needed

They are looking for a single lady ( with a love of banter)"

Don't forget the banter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single guy happy to help if needed

They are looking for a single lady ( with a love of banter)

Don't forget the banter."

Banter is a good thing no one a boring woman with no sense of humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single guy happy to help if needed

They are looking for a single lady ( with a love of banter)

Don't forget the banter.

Banter is a good thing no one a boring woman with no sense of humour "

BANTER

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love 3somes either mfm or mff . .but love moresomes too ...makes for lots of excitement every time whatever scenario x

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