FabSwingers.com forum: Newbie Here

By *lex94Lnd OP Man
over a year ago

London

Hey everyone! So, I just rejoined the site and decided to try this for real! I would appreciate any advice from men and women on my profile

Should I get more pics, should I just go to socials, think more about the writing? Any help, much appreciated

Happy Fabbing and Merry Christmas !

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By *lex94Lnd OP Man
over a year ago

London

Bump? : )

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

Needs more work.Not new to swinging but no verifications .....why??

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By *infulSandyCouple
over a year ago

London

"Hey everyone! So, I just rejoined the site and decided to try this for real! I would appreciate any advice from men and women on my profile

Should I get more pics, should I just go to socials, think more about the writing? Any help, much appreciated

Happy Fabbing and Merry Christmas !"

Yes you should get more pics,

Going to socials it's a good way to get yourself out there, show you're genuine and get to know other people.

Definitely think about the text, it's generic and doesn't stand out.

And wait more than 20 minutes before you bump your own thread, makes you look impatient.

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By *lex94Lnd OP Man
over a year ago

London

Well I tried swinging abroad where this site is not as popular, I am still quite new to this online thing! What do you mean by more work? Should I have a broader intro? Try to get some verifications are those that important?

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By *lex94Lnd OP Man
over a year ago

London

Thank you for that Sandy! It is great to hear some constructive criticism!

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By *infulSandyCouple
over a year ago

London

"Well I tried swinging abroad where this site is not as popular, I am still quite new to this online thing! What do you mean by more work? Should I have a broader intro? Try to get some verifications are those that important?"

Your text is all about you, nothing about what you can offer and when it comes to describing what you're after you give the vaguest explanation.

How did you get into swinging before this site? Maybe think about that and it will help you improve your profile.

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By *lex94Lnd OP Man
over a year ago

London

Hi Sindy, thank you for all those advice! I think it helped me improve by miles! Have a look again? : )

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By *lex94Lnd OP Man
over a year ago

London

Bump, profile changed

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Just a minor point, but I've never met a genuine person who had to tell me they were genuine.

Every man on here thinks he's genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i didnt see it before but it says nothing much about what you offer, what you like, as posters above have said..

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By *lex94Lnd OP Man
over a year ago

London

Bump, changed: )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

As you have been on here for over a year

without a verificion I

I would suggest deleting your profile and start again x

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By *lex94Lnd OP Man
over a year ago

London

Well, any other thoughts on that? I am not sure if people look at veris that much? It shouldn't matter that I have none, as I have simply have not had time to use this site before

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By *lex94Lnd OP Man
over a year ago

London

Bump

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Stop bumping your post. Give people time to look at it and reply. All the bumping makes you look like you want things immediately and need attention and is a little immature.

Your profile is fairly good . It's lovely that you will wine and dine a lady, but that sounds like you are after a date, not a brief social drink and then if you click hope to take things further. But that is my opinion.

It's good you state what age you are looking for. You have altered your profile following people's advise . Maybe don't talk about wining and dining twice , just say you could do that if the lady would like .

Mao thing is to improve your photos. You have three very similar. Maybe add one of your shirt open to show your chest or abs or one of your back. Just add a bit of variety. But overall not bad profile

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Why do you keep bumping? It's making you look very impatient OP.

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

"Well, any other thoughts on that? I am not sure if people look at veris that much? It shouldn't matter that I have none, as I have simply have not had time to use this site before"

To some people veris do matter.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Well, any other thoughts on that? I am not sure if people look at veris that much? It shouldn't matter that I have none, as I have simply have not had time to use this site before"

A lot of people will look at veries, gives some indication that the person is genuine etc. You need better pics, bare torso, that sort of thing. Definitely get rid of the middle pic.

Good luck

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