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By *ustme6 OP   Man
over a year ago

tamworth

How quickly should u respond to a message..Too quickly =desperate...too slow equals...not interested. At rule of thumb.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How quickly should u respond to a message..Too quickly =desperate...too slow equals...not interested. At rule of thumb."

I never even consider any of this. If I'm online, I'll reply (if I'm checking messages). If it's a message that requires a bit of time to reply to, I'll leave it and reply when I have time. I don't play any games and I don't judge others for their response time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no rule of thumb, if you're going to reply, just do it. If you're not, file the message in File B1N.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i cant say ive ever had any time frame in mind at all..i do get annoyed if someone hassles me for not answering within their own private time limit though..other than being aware people have lives, i think its a bit childish to play daft games about time limits on messages..i think certain times meaning certain things is ridiculous..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm online and have time, I'll reply straight away. If not I wait until you I do.

I've never thought anyone was desperate for replying straight away, but I do think their not interested if they leave it days at a time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*they're

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never timed myself if I'm honest.

If I'm online then I think I'd just reply and not look at the clock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A quick reply isn't desperate lol.

Just means you were online

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By *ustme6 OP   Man
over a year ago

tamworth


"A quick reply isn't desperate lol.

Just means you were online

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

8 minutes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think there are any rules. If I'm online, not busy reading a long forum thread, and I've got time to send the reply a message deserves I'll do it there and then. If I'm not I'll reply when it's convenient, the speed of reply often correlates to the quality of the message in honesty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How quickly should u respond to a message..Too quickly =desperate...too slow equals...not interested. At rule of thumb."

We normally reply same day, at worst, the next day.

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By *ustme6 OP   Man
over a year ago

tamworth


"How quickly should u respond to a message..Too quickly =desperate...too slow equals...not interested. At rule of thumb.

We normally reply same day, at worst, the next day."

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