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By *ord and Lady J OP   Couple
over a year ago

Deal

Hi guys,

We are considering trying the bdsm scene but have no idea where to start looking. We have dabbled in light bondage, but are looking to take things further, but don't know much about the scene or where to go. Any advice would be greatly received!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's an excellent Sunday fet event at Eureaka's, think it's twice a month. Other than that go find your local munch and get to know people on the scene and got to other events. It;s the best way to see what sort of play others do and what might interest you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some profession dominatrix/masters also offer couplensessions and couple training if one party in your couple wants to be the dom.

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By *r MatlockMan
over a year ago

Stratford-upon-Avon


"Hi guys,

We are considering trying the bdsm scene but have no idea where to start looking. We have dabbled in light bondage, but are looking to take things further, but don't know much about the scene or where to go. Any advice would be greatly received!!"

Happy to offer any help and support you need, i dont claim to know everything about everything but ive done a fair bit so happy to discuss my experiences if you like

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

There are some very good books on the subject too. Have a look on any internet retail site and see what seems suitable for you.

When it comes right down to it if you decide between yourselves what direction you want to go in and research around the subject a bit (as you are doing)you are in for a lot of fun and an exciting time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could also try watching some bdsm videos on xhamster or similar.

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By *oubyLoverWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Go on a fetish lifestyle site and look for local munches, they’re socials where you can chat to

Other people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not try visiting a professional Dom or Dominatrix? That way you know it's not just someone pretending to be a Dom, as this site is full of them.

Do your research though on professional Doms or better still have a recommendation from someone who has been.

Feel free to PM us and I can give you a name. I highly recommend a visit.

WC

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By *ord and Lady J OP   Couple
over a year ago

Deal

Many thanks for the replies guys, much appreciated. A lot to consider!! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would suggest that you separately take the bdsm test to check that you are on the same page in regard to what each of you are looking for from bdsm. The result can guide you in the direction that you require and open your eyes to the range of kink.

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Also Google a bdsm checklist and both fill that in seperately and then swap and compare notes.

You won't be into everything on it but also approach it with an open mind regarding What you may be prepared to try.

Then on the things you match up start researching

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