FabSwingers.com forum: New girlfriend

By *iguy ls12 OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

I've got a new girlfriend that is pitty open-minded and is great in bed best I've had so why do I feel the need to suck cock (sucked one this morning in car) I would love a bi 3some with her how do get to do this she don't know am bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell her you want to watch her with another man, ask her if you can kiss her while she is sucking him, let him come on both your faces etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tell her you want to watch her with another man, ask her if you can kiss her while she is sucking him, let him come on both your faces etc"

Perfection ????

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By *oresexMan
over a year ago

South West coast

Give her some gift cards for Christmas that entitle her to the opportunity to see or have you do anything she wants sexually, each time she uses one do what she asks immediately, telling her you are happy to comply, if she doesn't choose it herself suggest it to her on her last card, 6 cards should do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your bi then why does it say your straight on your profile ?? Just asking ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If your bi then why does it say your straight on your profile ?? Just asking .. "

Hes called "_iguy ls12" ???

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

The first thing you need to do is tell her you're bi. It's important to realise that really enjoying sex doesn't mean she will be up for literally anything before you take things any further. The next thing is to discuss your fantasy with her.

It will never happen by accident or with no prior discussion.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Tell her you want to watch her with another man, ask her if you can kiss her while she is sucking him, let him come on both your faces etc"

He wants to suck cock not her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tell her you want to watch her with another man, ask her if you can kiss her while she is sucking him, let him come on both your faces etc

He wants to suck cock not her. "
never heard of playing the long game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to find that the best way for me to let someone that I’m starting to care about know that I’m bisexual is to say “just think you need to know, I’m bisexual”.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

"I tend to find that the best way for me to let someone that I’m starting to care about know that I’m bisexual is to say “just think you need to know, I’m bisexual”. "

And it really is as simple as that.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"I tend to find that the best way for me to let someone that I’m starting to care about know that I’m bisexual is to say “just think you need to know, I’m bisexual”.

And it really is as simple as that.

To be fair I think it's probably easier for women than it is for men. But deffo a conversation you need to have. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The truth is, there is no easy way to tell her, get her to be in to this etc. You are going to have to sit down with her and use your words; tell her that you are bisexual and tell her what you want.

She might be completely up for it. She might be fine with you being bi but not want to be involved. She might consider it to be a deal breaker and not want to see you again. But whatever the outcome, surely it's better to just know now rather than later?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you genuinely are bi you will probably always have the urge for fun with men, even when you have a girlfriend. That's what being bi is.

As for telling her, you need to do it sooner rather than later. I told my partner fairly soon after we met, as being bi is a part of who I am and I didn't want to have to hide it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First date when I was younger always told my date I was bi and enjoyed group sex, resulted in losing a lot of girlfriends and gaining some serious long term girlfriends/boyfriends and ultimately resulted in two wonderful marriages, my first wife died of breast cancer before you start having a pop.

Just tell the truth about your sexuality otherwise it's never going to work.

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple
over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine

"If your bi then why does it say your straight on your profile ?? Just asking ..

Hes called "_iguy ls12" ???"

think that might be ls12 is a post code round leeds

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

Tell her asap believe me it helps x I told my new girlfriend straight off and she was cool as shes bi also we even discussed once shes transitioned for her to have a threesome with me and another woman x Honesty pays

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just tell her your bi while your in the early days of the relationship

If it's not for her then at least she'll appreciate your honesty and you can go on looking for missus right...

If it is her thing then fill your boots you lucky git

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tend to find that the best way for me to let someone that I’m starting to care about know that I’m bisexual is to say “just think you need to know, I’m bisexual”.

And it really is as simple as that.

Yep.

I thought mine would run for the hills but it brought the barriers down, we started swinging and then we got married!!

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