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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I've got a new partner and I've always liked having my arse played with whilst having a blowjob but how should I introduce her to it as I'm worried she may think I'm weird even tho I know it's perfectly normal??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In our experience it's not something that new couples do right off the bat, it often takes time for that sort of playfulness to become established, but if you can't wait then maybe just ask?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"So I've got a new partner and I've always liked having my arse played with whilst having a blowjob but how should I introduce her to it as I'm worried she may think I'm weird even tho I know it's perfectly normal??"

That's the main worry most of us have when discussing how we like sex. There's no other way to do it than actually telling her. Maybe initiate a discussion on preferences asking by her what she enjoys

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By *alkirkbairnMan
over a year ago

Grangemouth


"So I've got a new partner and I've always liked having my arse played with whilst having a blowjob but how should I introduce her to it as I'm worried she may think I'm weird even tho I know it's perfectly normal??"

For all you know she likes something but is scared to suggest as she thinks it's weird. Talk about it and find out what the other likes doing etc

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

If she's a new partner as in relationship partner, then opening a discussion about fantasies and likes as part of getting to know each other would surely be the right way.

If it's a new play partner i.e. someone you met from here, then just come out and suggest it - it is after all a site geared around sex

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Just let the sexual chemistry progress naturally so you both become more and more comfortable with each other. You never know she may start playing with it without you having to ask. And when your preforming in her try kissing and licking her If these don’t progress it then sit down and talk about both your likes and dislikes. Time is a wonderful thing. If your really wanting ur now. Buy her a strap on for Christmas and a tub of lube lol xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d give it a few weeks and see how relationship progresses. Maybe bring up the topic of sexual interests/fantasies and see if that starts a convo. Sure she won’t think it’s weird lots of guys enjoy it so possibly she’s done it before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would just have a playful session and dive right in and do it to them first.. see how it progresses and if well then it works both ways. Always worked for me I. The past.

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