FabSwingers.com forum: Hold no punches, be honest!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all,

I've been on this site for quite a while now and had a couple of good meets but I would like to know what people make of my profile.

I get alot of views but very few takers so please take a look and be subjective and offer any sujestions to make me more appealing espically to couples. This is a friendly community on here and I like being part of it so any hint would be greatly appreciated.

Regards

Harry x

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

You're written part isn't bad,

But only 1 pic visible, can't speak for every woman on here, but personally cock shots as a profile pic are an immediate put off for me.

You mention pics in the bio, doesn't have to be a face pic, but something a bit more tasteful would be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The can't accom always puts me off straight away

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Women love photos taken near toilet cubicles. Fact.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"The can't accom always puts me off straight away"

....this and your only verification is from a hidden profile, but not much you can do about that.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Written part is ok.

Personally I find a fully dressed guy with his cock poking out of his trousers a bit of a turn off. However I'm just one woman and others might like it.

I think it's a case of being patient more than anything.

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By *ivWoman
over a year ago

Carmarthen

Pretty good profile I thought. I do tend to find that the ones who mention they want genuine people are the ones who don't turn up. I also am not sure what you mean by 'committed'.

I would remove the comment about your lack of pics being because 'we all know what men look like'. There are some very different looking men on here. I would also mention why you can't accomodate, the assumption is that you are cheating on someone, or state that you are single.

Other than that just give it time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't say what you are looking for in a woman/couples or what you would offer them. Also u don't say you u cannot accommodate. The only pick u have is off putting because of the toilet cubicles in the background and the fact ur dick is sticking out ur trousers other than that everything else looks fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since you're listed as straight, you might say your okay with incidental contact or something along those lines. Otherwise you're limiting the amount of couples who might play with you right away.

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By *otForSoftiesWoman
over a year ago

The North / Party Hard Everywhere

You say ‘I've no public pictures, you all know what a man looks like’. Seriously?

Change your profile pic, personally I like cock pics but not everyone does. It could even be the same pic if you just put you cock in your trousers as it’s nice. Otherwise you’re ok.

If you’re not getting responses it could be your first message is the issue. Go to socials or a club, I’m sure you’ll be popular.

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

" Women love photos taken near toilet cubicles. Fact.

better when you see the bowl though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile text is fine. A single pic with your cock out and you fully dressed isn't.

If I can't see the person clearly, then I don't waste time looking any further at the profile.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I would ignore a message from you because of the toilet dick pic.

I am also irritated by profiles which use the words "genuine" and "discrete".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The can't accom always puts me off straight away"
you can't accom either !!

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By *eviantdeliteWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"I would ignore a message from you because of the toilet dick pic.

I am also irritated by profiles which use the words "genuine" and "discrete". "

Discreet...lol...just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would ignore a message from you because of the toilet dick pic.

I am also irritated by profiles which use the words "genuine" and "discrete".

Discreet...lol...just saying

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lol just saying what

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More pics and say more about yourself ie likes dislikes interests this will give u a more rounded profile , remember op your selling the whole package not just a piece of it,best of luck fella I hope you take on board all the suggestions it does work and you will be the sole beneficiary of it

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By *ammyharrogateWoman
over a year ago

Harrogate

"I would ignore a message from you because of the toilet dick pic.

I am also irritated by profiles which use the words "genuine" and "discrete".

Discreet...lol...just saying

lol just saying what

He has spelt it wrong she has spelt it write lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all,

I've been on this site for quite a while now and had a couple of good meets but I would like to know what people make of my profile.

Regards

Harry x"
harry nice one harry nice one son let's have anover piccy let's Ave anover one

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"I would ignore a message from you because of the toilet dick pic.

I am also irritated by profiles which use the words "genuine" and "discrete".

Discreet...lol...just saying

lol just saying what

He has spelt it wrong she has spelt it write lol "

Right?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Let's not debate "spelled" or "spelt" again!

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By *hell and jWoman
over a year ago

Worksop

Only one pic cock agsin xx prefer torso or ass xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only one pic cock agsin xx prefer torso or ass xx "
how's my arse lol

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Blackrock

Less of the cock photo. Nice and all i looks. Let’s see more of the body torso chest. Dressed or undressed. And tidy up your bio. Get rid of opening statement

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

WOW I wasnt expecting so much input! Thanks to all of you, I'll be giving my profile an overhaul soon and taking onboard all your comments.

I mentioned I have always found this to be the most friendly site and you havent let me down. Once again thanks for taking the time to help me and I wish you all a very Merry Christmas. Discrete, discreet or otherwise!!!

Harry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Let's not debate "spelled" or "spelt" again!"
can we debate 'again'?

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

One cock pic

that was the end of my perusal of your profile

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