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By *eady and Willing 9 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

Can anyone tell me why my fwb profile has again been changed to a couples profile without her requesting it?. Admin haven't changed mine to a couples profile,but they have rejected a picture of myself and Lexi,and their reason for doing so is i'm not in the picture..baring in mind that the picture had been on my profile for 2 month's or so. Lexi has the same picture on her profile but that picture is still on her profile. Neither can she post in the forums. Now excuse me if i'm wrong but shouldn't we have the choice whether we want a couples profile or not and not be forced to have one?. She has asked admin numerous times about why this has been done and admin have still not replied to her. It's getting her down as she can't use fab as intended. If anyone could shed any light on the matter,she would really appreciate it. Thanks in advance.

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By *eady and Willing 9 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

Oh and admin wouldn't allow her to change her location unless she entered details for a male who doesn't exist as we're not a couple!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both your profiles read as though you meet together rather than on your own so if that’s the case, then they should both be couples profiles.

Do you have a separate couples profile too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both your profiles read as though you meet together rather than on your own so if that’s the case, then they should both be couples profiles.

Do you have a separate couples profile too?"

This

Screams couples profile to me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A singles profile should be about that person meeting if your profile is more about you meeting together then it’s not a singles profile. Maybe set a couples profile up for meets together and then have a singles profile for meeting on your own that way she can use her single profile how she wants.

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By *eady and Willing 9 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"Both your profiles read as though you meet together rather than on your own so if that’s the case, then they should both be couples profiles.

Do you have a separate couples profile too?"

I get what you're saying,but even so,ahould we not be allowed to still keep our own single profiles?. We do meet together as we're fb . I know plenty people who do the same thing without any intervention from fab. We also meet alone too. A separate couples profile?. Don't get what you're asking as if we had a couples profile why would she be bothered then?. But no we don't have a couples profile besides her single female profile,which fab have turned into a couples profile.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Both your profiles read as though you meet together rather than on your own so if that’s the case, then they should both be couples profiles.

Do you have a separate couples profile too?

This

Screams couples profile to me! "

But both your single profiles are actually couples profiles.

When it comes to pictures it’s best to let it go, the rules for us haven’t been given to those that moderate them.

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By *eady and Willing 9 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"A singles profile should be about that person meeting if your profile is more about you meeting together then it’s not a singles profile. Maybe set a couples profile up for meets together and then have a singles profile for meeting on your own that way she can use her single profile how she wants. "

Did you read my initial post?. Fab has changed her single profile for the 2nd time into a couples profile. If that's the case then why didn't they do it to mine also?. Our profiles say we meet together if we see other couples that we like,Just as lots if others do,as we've seen them and spoken to people who aren't a couples but come together to meet other couples etc. But again we do meet alone if again we see singles we like

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By *eady and Willing 9 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"Both your profiles read as though you meet together rather than on your own so if that’s the case, then they should both be couples profiles.

Do you have a separate couples profile too?

This

Screams couples profile to me!

But both your single profiles are actually couples profiles.

When it comes to pictures it’s best to let it go, the rules for us haven’t been given to those that moderate them."

That's fare to assume but we're not a couple and my profile says who we would like to meet and also the types of people I like to meet alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both your profiles read as though you meet together rather than on your own so if that’s the case, then they should both be couples profiles.

Do you have a separate couples profile too?

I get what you're saying,but even so,ahould we not be allowed to still keep our own single profiles?. We do meet together as we're fb . I know plenty people who do the same thing without any intervention from fab. We also meet alone too. A separate couples profile?. Don't get what you're asking as if we had a couples profile why would she be bothered then?. But no we don't have a couples profile besides her single female profile,which fab have turned into a couples profile. "

Yes, you can have separate single profiles where you meet alone and then a couples profile where you meet together.

A single profile is where you only meet alone, and never as a couple otherwise it’s a couples profile if you meet together.

And I’ve seen other single profiles where the person meets with their other half being changed by Fab into a couples profile once it’s been reported.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look at my prprime OP only a bit at the end does it say I'm part of a couple hence why I've retained my single profile as I play both ways.

Just put at the end of your profile it's a single profile but I do have a couples one on here too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A singles profile should be about that person meeting if your profile is more about you meeting together then it’s not a singles profile. Maybe set a couples profile up for meets together and then have a singles profile for meeting on your own that way she can use her single profile how she wants.

Did you read my initial post?. Fab has changed her single profile for the 2nd time into a couples profile. If that's the case then why didn't they do it to mine also?. Our profiles say we meet together if we see other couples that we like,Just as lots if others do,as we've seen them and spoken to people who aren't a couples but come together to meet other couples etc. But again we do meet alone if again we see singles we like "

Because her profile shows a picture with both your names on OP

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By *eady and Willing 9 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

There's one section that talks about Lexi as that's the easiest way to let couples know i'm not a guy pretending to have a female who i meet with as i was getting loads of questions about her,when I have spoken to couples. That's the only reason I put it in there bcz so many single guys lie and make it near impossible for most couples to take me seriously. So again if that's the case and fab think we're a couple why only hers has been changed and forced up on her. I'm just trying to understand why that has happened for the 2nd time. She very angry about and having a fb does not equal to having a partner and being a couple in a relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's one section that talks about Lexi as that's the easiest way to let couples know i'm not a guy pretending to have a female who i meet with as i was getting loads of questions about her,when I have spoken to couples. That's the only reason I put it in there bcz so many single guys lie and make it near impossible for most couples to take me seriously. So again if that's the case and fab think we're a couple why only hers has been changed and forced up on her. I'm just trying to understand why that has happened for the 2nd time. She very angry about and having a fb does not equal to having a partner and being a couple in a relationship "

It’s nothing to do with the relationship between the two of you. Whether you are married, living together, having an affair together or just fwbs, if you meet together then you are a couple on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A singles profile should be about that person meeting if your profile is more about you meeting together then it’s not a singles profile. Maybe set a couples profile up for meets together and then have a singles profile for meeting on your own that way she can use her single profile how she wants.

Did you read my initial post?. Fab has changed her single profile for the 2nd time into a couples profile. If that's the case then why didn't they do it to mine also?. Our profiles say we meet together if we see other couples that we like,Just as lots if others do,as we've seen them and spoken to people who aren't a couples but come together to meet other couples etc. But again we do meet alone if again we see singles we like "

Yes I did read and again if your saying on your profiles that you meet together then that is not a singles profile. Has to why I’m assuming that fab are more strict on single females profiles than single guys or witch is more likely a couple or single fem have read her profile and reported it as not being a single female. Fab then view the profile and has she is advertising meets with you they will then change it to a couples.

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By *eady and Willing 9 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"A singles profile should be about that person meeting if your profile is more about you meeting together then it’s not a singles profile. Maybe set a couples profile up for meets together and then have a singles profile for meeting on your own that way she can use her single profile how she wants.

Did you read my initial post?. Fab has changed her single profile for the 2nd time into a couples profile. If that's the case then why didn't they do it to mine also?. Our profiles say we meet together if we see other couples that we like,Just as lots if others do,as we've seen them and spoken to people who aren't a couples but come together to meet other couples etc. But again we do meet alone if again we see singles we like

Because her profile shows a picture with both your names on OP "

Yeah so people who she talks to will know she's not lieing about me and so they can see what i look like,well bodywise anyway. She has been asked lots of questions as she's not believed by potential people she wants to meet,so I suggested she put up a picture if us both and I did the same on my profile but now my picture has been rejected due to fab saying that I'm not in the picture. Makes no bloody sense any if it to me. She just wants to enjoy using fab and at the moment she can't and has even considering coming off it as she hardly gets any mail from singles as they believe she's a couple,when she's not

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By *ensualcouple99Couple
over a year ago

Colchester

On her profile as the heading it reads

Thick lady and dominant male for KINKY females and INTERRACIAL couples

To me that reads that it is a couples profile even before I've read any of the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On her profile as the heading it reads

Thick lady and dominant male for KINKY females and INTERRACIAL couples

To me that reads that it is a couples profile even before I've read any of the profile "

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By *eady and Willing 9 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"A singles profile should be about that person meeting if your profile is more about you meeting together then it’s not a singles profile. Maybe set a couples profile up for meets together and then have a singles profile for meeting on your own that way she can use her single profile how she wants.

Did you read my initial post?. Fab has changed her single profile for the 2nd time into a couples profile. If that's the case then why didn't they do it to mine also?. Our profiles say we meet together if we see other couples that we like,Just as lots if others do,as we've seen them and spoken to people who aren't a couples but come together to meet other couples etc. But again we do meet alone if again we see singles we like

Yes I did read and again if your saying on your profiles that you meet together then that is not a singles profile. Has to why I’m assuming that fab are more strict on single females profiles than single guys or witch is more likely a couple or single fem have read her profile and reported it as not being a single female. Fab then view the profile and has she is advertising meets with you they will then change it to a couples. "

I get all of that. But so do a lot of other single females have same meets saying they will meet with a fwb or fb. Yeah maybe they have,but why. She's even put in her bio that she's a single female. So if someone has done it then when fab look,surely common bloody sense would prevail. She a single female who has a fwb nothing more and nothing less. We still will meet alone

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By *eady and Willing 9 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"On her profile as the heading it reads

Thick lady and dominant male for KINKY females and INTERRACIAL couples

To me that reads that it is a couples profile even before I've read any of the profile "

Yes true. Now read the rest. And she also states she is not a couple. Can't take one on face value but not the rest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I only meet that way through my couples profile. My single profile is for me and and they meet me alone on that. If they want a couple they obviously message me via the other one.

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By *ensualcouple99Couple
over a year ago

Colchester


"On her profile as the heading it reads

Thick lady and dominant male for KINKY females and INTERRACIAL couples

To me that reads that it is a couples profile even before I've read any of the profile

Yes true. Now read the rest. And she also states she is not a couple. Can't take one on face value but not the rest "

Of we were looking for a single female we wouldn't read the rest as the heading says that she isn't playing alone. Maybe she needs to change the heading as it's misleading if she plays as a single female too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP everyone has looked at Both profiles and offered advise. It's up to fab Admin to decide not you or us.

Neither of you want to change your wording on your profile or listen to us to sadly you'll be stuck with a profile like this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A singles profile should be about that person meeting if your profile is more about you meeting together then it’s not a singles profile. Maybe set a couples profile up for meets together and then have a singles profile for meeting on your own that way she can use her single profile how she wants.

Did you read my initial post?. Fab has changed her single profile for the 2nd time into a couples profile. If that's the case then why didn't they do it to mine also?. Our profiles say we meet together if we see other couples that we like,Just as lots if others do,as we've seen them and spoken to people who aren't a couples but come together to meet other couples etc. But again we do meet alone if again we see singles we like

Yes I did read and again if your saying on your profiles that you meet together then that is not a singles profile. Has to why I’m assuming that fab are more strict on single females profiles than single guys or witch is more likely a couple or single fem have read her profile and reported it as not being a single female. Fab then view the profile and has she is advertising meets with you they will then change it to a couples.

I get all of that. But so do a lot of other single females have same meets saying they will meet with a fwb or fb. Yeah maybe they have,but why. She's even put in her bio that she's a single female. So if someone has done it then when fab look,surely common bloody sense would prevail. She a single female who has a fwb nothing more and nothing less. We still will meet alone"

No plenty of people have had there single profiles changed by saying they want their fwb or fuck buddy to meet with them. Plus as you said yourself there’s so many fakes on here fab are going to be strict when it comes to single fems profiles. There’s more change of a couple or single guy trying to pass a profile off as a single fem than a couple or single fem trying to pass off as a single guy.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

1.delete both profiles

2.make 2 new single profiles without mentioning each other in them at all

3.make a fwb couples profile

Both profiles read as though they ate couples profiles OP, as lots of previous posts have stayed on your thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The easiest thing to do would be to set up a couples profile from where you both meet together and make both your single profiles where you only meet separately and make no reference to each other on your single profiles except to say you have a couples profile and the name of it.

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By *eady and Willing 9 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"On her profile as the heading it reads

Thick lady and dominant male for KINKY females and INTERRACIAL couples

To me that reads that it is a couples profile even before I've read any of the profile

Yes true. Now read the rest. And she also states she is not a couple. Can't take one on face value but not the rest

Of we were looking for a single female we wouldn't read the rest as the heading says that she isn't playing alone. Maybe she needs to change the heading as it's misleading if she plays as a single female too. "

She only did that after they made her change it. So again I get what you're saying but you're still wrong unfortunately.

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By *eady and Willing 9 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"OP everyone has looked at Both profiles and offered advise. It's up to fab Admin to decide not you or us.

Neither of you want to change your wording on your profile or listen to us to sadly you'll be stuck with a profile like this. "

The wording only got changed after they changed hers to a couplesprofile. Just answer one question for me. Does having a friend with benefits equal to being a couple?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP everyone has looked at Both profiles and offered advise. It's up to fab Admin to decide not you or us.

Neither of you want to change your wording on your profile or listen to us to sadly you'll be stuck with a profile like this.

The wording only got changed after they changed hers to a couplesprofile. Just answer one question for me. Does having a friend with benefits equal to being a couple?. "

On Fab, yes it does.

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By *eady and Willing 9 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"A singles profile should be about that person meeting if your profile is more about you meeting together then it’s not a singles profile. Maybe set a couples profile up for meets together and then have a singles profile for meeting on your own that way she can use her single profile how she wants.

Did you read my initial post?. Fab has changed her single profile for the 2nd time into a couples profile. If that's the case then why didn't they do it to mine also?. Our profiles say we meet together if we see other couples that we like,Just as lots if others do,as we've seen them and spoken to people who aren't a couples but come together to meet other couples etc. But again we do meet alone if again we see singles we like

Yes I did read and again if your saying on your profiles that you meet together then that is not a singles profile. Has to why I’m assuming that fab are more strict on single females profiles than single guys or witch is more likely a couple or single fem have read her profile and reported it as not being a single female. Fab then view the profile and has she is advertising meets with you they will then change it to a couples.

I get all of that. But so do a lot of other single females have same meets saying they will meet with a fwb or fb. Yeah maybe they have,but why. She's even put in her bio that she's a single female. So if someone has done it then when fab look,surely common bloody sense would prevail. She a single female who has a fwb nothing more and nothing less. We still will meet alone

No plenty of people have had there single profiles changed by saying they want their fwb or fuck buddy to meet with them. Plus as you said yourself there’s so many fakes on here fab are going to be strict when it comes to single fems profiles. There’s more change of a couple or single guy trying to pass a profile off as a single fem than a couple or single fem trying to pass off as a single guy. "

Oh right. Yeah that's true and I do get what all are saying. But either people aren't reading all posts or just ignoring them. The wording only changed after fab made her single profile into a couples one.

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By *eady and Willing 9 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"OP everyone has looked at Both profiles and offered advise. It's up to fab Admin to decide not you or us.

Neither of you want to change your wording on your profile or listen to us to sadly you'll be stuck with a profile like this.

The wording only got changed after they changed hers to a couplesprofile. Just answer one question for me. Does having a friend with benefits equal to being a couple?.

On Fab, yes it does. "

Okay. So she has taken off all to do with me. So we'll see. Thanks for the help all

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By *eady and Willing 9 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

Would you suggest me taking mine off also?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The point is someone has reported her profile it’s come across as a couples not a single fems fab have looked into and they have agreed and changed it to a couples. Now wether you like it or not agree or disagree or it makes you angry it’s happened and the only way for it not to happen is for her not to mention you on her singles profile and have it solo as a single fem profile. Also so many have said that both profiles read as if your more into meeting together yet you keep saying there wrong unfortunately for so many to be saying the same thing they can’t all be wrong and your going to have to accept that no matter how much ranting you do on here it’s not going to change anything unless she changes the way her profile reads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you suggest me taking mine off also?"

Yes I would.

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By *eady and Willing 9 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

Well she has changed it now as then they have no reason to still assume we're a couple,and even if so many say it does,doesn't mean they're right because a large number say so. If i'm telling you that we're not a couple why do you still think we are lol. What would be the point in lieing. Yes the wording in parts may suggest,but the fact she says she's not a couple,what just goes unoticed. Can't have it one way and not the other. Why not just simply as are you a couple. They took the time to look at it and change it. Why not take the time to actually get the decision right. Anywho. She's changed it now and i'll do the same. So they won't and can't have any excuse to not change hers back to what she wants it to be. Thanks again

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By *eady and Willing 9 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"Would you suggest me taking mine off also?

Yes I would."

All done. Fingers crossed. Think I better get off here and get ready for tonight. Hope all have a naughty weekend and thanks to all for your thoughts and views.

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