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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been on here for a while now and tbh just signed up to see what it was all about but i come quickly to understand that people look down on the fact that people may or may not want to have a short conversation then meet for sexual pleasures and so on.. i was just wondering because so far every person that i seem to see on here basically wants to date you for a while before anything even happens?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on here for a while now and tbh just signed up to see what it was all about but i come quickly to understand that people look down on the fact that people may or may not want to have a short conversation then meet for sexual pleasures and so on.. i was just wondering because so far every person that i seem to see on here basically wants to date you for a while before anything even happens?"

Date you for a while?

Can you elaborate please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Date you for a while?

Can you elaborate please?"

Sure. Over dinner perhaps..?

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Try a prostitute

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"Been on here for a while now and tbh just signed up to see what it was all about but i come quickly to understand that people look down on the fact that people may or may not want to have a short conversation then meet for sexual pleasures and so on.. i was just wondering because so far every person that i seem to see on here basically wants to date you for a while before anything even happens?"

I'm sure some people might be here for a fuck and go but it's never gonna float my boat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try a prostitute "

Is that you offering him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on here for a while now and tbh just signed up to see what it was all about but i come quickly to understand that people look down on the fact that people may or may not want to have a short conversation then meet for sexual pleasures and so on.. i was just wondering because so far every person that i seem to see on here basically wants to date you for a while before anything even happens?"

What you're describing that you thought the site might be like sounds more like a free escort website.

This site is not like that - most women will want to know that the are definitely interested in someone before meeting and that comes through chatting and meeting in person, perhaps for a drink or another type of social first.

Women receive a lot of messages on here and couldn't possibly say yes to meeting with everyone who was interested in them so need to find out more to decide who they want to meet with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Date you for a while?

Can you elaborate please?

Sure. Over dinner perhaps..? "

I'm a sucker for a Brummie accent, more specifically, a Black Country one

Can I bring my vest and woolly bootie slippers? Its very cold for us oldies to go out atm

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By *sRedbbwWoman
over a year ago

Amwythig

I've had quickies before and I've had long elaborate affairs, prefer the longer term play relationship though, it gets more and more intense when you find out what really floats their boat.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I had quickies when I started swinging but I wouldnt now.

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

I definately would want to meet someone socially first .its not about dropping your knickers just because someone fancies it

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By *sThunderThighsWoman
over a year ago

Toy Land

Date!

Do you mean meet for a social? find out if you actually want to take it to the bedroom? Be treated like a person not a sex aid?

If that's dating then yes I'm here for dates !!

Op like someone said already "pay for it you can have whatever you want" (and No not me b4 you ask if I'm offering my services too)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a bit different for couples I feel , we would not be interested in going on dates with you unless it’s part of our scenario .. we usually invite a single guy over to ours at short notice and he would do what we wanted him to do then go , probably never to be seen again by us .. the fun for us comes after he’s gone , the reclaim sex is amazing x

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Sometimes things line up, and you can meet quickly.

I once met and was playing with a couple, in less than an hour.

But normally, when people say "meet now" I'm busy and when I'm available, nobody else seems to be.

Prefer planning a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on here for a while now and tbh just signed up to see what it was all about but i come quickly to understand that people look down on the fact that people may or may not want to have a short conversation then meet for sexual pleasures and so on.. i was just wondering because so far every person that i seem to see on here basically wants to date you for a while before anything even happens?

What you're describing that you thought the site might be like sounds more like a free escort website.

This site is not like that - most women will want to know that the are definitely interested in someone before meeting and that comes through chatting and meeting in person, perhaps for a drink or another type of social first.

Women receive a lot of messages on here and couldn't possibly say yes to meeting with everyone who was interested in them so need to find out more to decide who they want to meet with.

"

Well done I agree wholeheartedly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make some friends first, once you've met people a couple of times then it's not un known that booty calling may happen

Generally though a lot of folk won't just jump into bed quick with a stranger from the web..it's not always the safest thing to be doing.

There are however some people on here that will meet right off the bat but far fewer i feel

Honestly though, it's well worth the groundwork to get to know some folk one, because it's just a very human thing to do and two, it means you can have some known sexual connections on here who are more likely to respond if you ask if they fancy doing something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Date you for a while?

Can you elaborate please?

Sure. Over dinner perhaps..?

I'm a sucker for a Brummie accent, more specifically, a Black Country one

Can I bring my vest and woolly bootie slippers? Its very cold for us oldies to go out atm"

I'll have a spare pair of primark slippers to go with a fluffy robe ready for you.... Netflix sub will have been renewed, super sized mug of horlicks with option of marshmallows on your side of the sofa, remote control on mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All things are available here...different people play it differently.

Certainly do not expect everyone to offer a “quickie”. Though some, particularly couples at home may do this.

Anyone is entitled to and most will, ask to meet socially first...just to check you out. Particularly single ladies. (Though I have found, in my experience, at least. That things can often go further quite quickly).

The site is called fabSWINGERS for a reason. I’m sure you could look for “grabaquickshag.com” to find what you are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Date you for a while?

Can you elaborate please?

Sure. Over dinner perhaps..?

I'm a sucker for a Brummie accent, more specifically, a Black Country one

Can I bring my vest and woolly bootie slippers? Its very cold for us oldies to go out atm

I'll have a spare pair of primark slippers to go with a fluffy robe ready for you.... Netflix sub will have been renewed, super sized mug of horlicks with option of marshmallows on your side of the sofa, remote control on mine "

Oh bloody hell, Horlicks is my drink

Can I swap marshmallows for Maltesers though? I'm a weird vegetarian type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We tend to avoid the guys who came to this site, because they thought it meant they could bypass the date (or social, as it seems called on the swing scene), and head straight for the sack. Always thought those type of guys would be better off on an escort site, but I guess it’s always worth trying for a freebie. Why aren’t we using a dating site, given that we like the social aspect of the lifestyle? Because we are swingers?

Mrs

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By *aisyDDWoman
over a year ago

North West

I never rush into meeting anyone off her. If I did meet everyone that messaged I’d be a bit busy, most ladies get loads of messages.

There’s a safety aspect to it as well. You could be meeting anyone. Plus if you can’t be bothered having a bit of a chat first can you really be bothered when it comes to sex?

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

My feeling is that's why gay/bi guys do well on here.

I think some of us are for more likely to indulge in 'cum and go'.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Seeing as the OP hasn't been back to his own thread, I'd say he wasn't really interested lol

Or he might just be planning on going to the local nightclub, preying a local d*unk women and getting his kicks that way, the same as what happened when I was 26

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"Seeing as the OP hasn't been back to his own thread, I'd say he wasn't really interested lol

Or he might just be planning on going to the local nightclub, preying a local d*unk women and getting his kicks that way, the same as what happened when I was 26 "

He may of course have been to work.

Are you suggesting it's immaturity and he will grow out of it when he's 43?

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By *eviantdeliteWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"I had quickies when I started swinging but I wouldnt now. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Date!

Do you mean meet for a social? find out if you actually want to take it to the bedroom? Be treated like a person not a sex aid?

If that's dating then yes I'm here for dates !!

Op like someone said already "pay for it you can have whatever you want" (and No not me b4 you ask if I'm offering my services too) "

This

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Seeing as the OP hasn't been back to his own thread, I'd say he wasn't really interested lol

Or he might just be planning on going to the local nightclub, preying a local d*unk women and getting his kicks that way, the same as what happened when I was 26

He may of course have been to work.

Are you suggesting it's immaturity and he will grow out of it when he's 43? "

Where the hell did you conjure up that from?

I was basing it on when I was 26, and seeing as he hasn't been back to his own thread yes, I don't think he is actually interested.

But I love how people like to interject their own thoughts in other peoples posts

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Hit and run thread, unless he's out on a date?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve done very quick message to neeet before but now I tend to just chat.

If I want fucking I usually go to a club so I can take my pick and be sure I’ll get what I need.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"It’s a bit different for couples I feel , we would not be interested in going on dates with you unless it’s part of our scenario .. we usually invite a single guy over to ours at short notice and he would do what we wanted him to do then go , probably never to be seen again by us .. the fun for us comes after he’s gone , the reclaim sex is amazing x "

He would do what you wanted him to do?

Do you see single guys as performing seals?

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

Yes there is OP. Usually the lady halves of couples in my case lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I understand what you’re saying about getting tk know the person but its like building a relationship without having a relationship it just seems a bit foreign to me that you have to be in the position to build it and also to take the time to get to know the person and etc, like i’m busy 90% of my week i work long hours and there is no difference from a quickie to going out and dogging random people that you have no idea about join in and the same with orgys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I understand what you’re saying about getting tk know the person but its like building a relationship without having a relationship it just seems a bit foreign to me that you have to be in the position to build it and also to take the time to get to know the person and etc, like i’m busy 90% of my week i work long hours and there is no difference from a quickie to going out and dogging random people that you have no idea about join in and the same with orgys?"

You think having one drink with someone is like building a relationship??

Without meeting how would you know there's any chemistry between you?

Just because you find a picture of someone on the internet attractive doesn't mean that in person you will definitely have chemistry for something to happen.

I've also met people from here who looked nothing like their pictures in person and I didn't find them attractive so a social meet helped with the awkwardness of me saying I wasn't interested!

Like someone else has said there is also a safety aspect of going round or having someone to yours who is a complete stranger.

You might be better just going to clubs and meeting people in person if you don't want to put the effort into speaking to someone on here first!

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By *eather_Loves_SexWoman
over a year ago

Halfway Between London and Brighton


"Yeah I understand what you’re saying about getting tk know the person but its like building a relationship without having a relationship it just seems a bit foreign to me that you have to be in the position to build it and also to take the time to get to know the person and etc, like i’m busy 90% of my week i work long hours and there is no difference from a quickie to going out and dogging random people that you have no idea about join in and the same with orgys?"
well in this case I suggest a club - only exception I make to meeting chatting to someone first then the next time we see each other be at it like rabbits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I understand what you’re saying about getting tk know the person but its like building a relationship without having a relationship it just seems a bit foreign to me that you have to be in the position to build it and also to take the time to get to know the person and etc, like i’m busy 90% of my week i work long hours and there is no difference from a quickie to going out and dogging random people that you have no idea about join in and the same with orgys?"

So basically, you are too busy to be bothered with the niceties like going for a coffee?

Finding out whether you have sexual chemistry is 'foreign'?

I'm sure you'll be fighting them off now

You sound like a lovely bloke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I understand what you’re saying about getting tk know the person but its like building a relationship without having a relationship it just seems a bit foreign to me that you have to be in the position to build it and also to take the time to get to know the person and etc, like i’m busy 90% of my week i work long hours and there is no difference from a quickie to going out and dogging random people that you have no idea about join in and the same with orgys?"

It’s a question of what people want from Fab. Some will want a ‘quickie’, some will want to go dogging, some will want a gang bang, some will want to form a friendship with their sex partners. Some will want a mixture of options. There’s no right and wrong. However there are probably more men than women seeking the more anonymous non-friendship sex, such as dogging or quickies. Women are much more likely to want to form a friendship with their sex partners. That may be foreign to you, but that is your problem really. Swinging has traditionally had a social element to it, so it shouldn’t really be a surprise to find that people on swingers sites want to form friendships.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I understand what you’re saying about getting tk know the person but its like building a relationship without having a relationship it just seems a bit foreign to me that you have to be in the position to build it and also to take the time to get to know the person and etc, like i’m busy 90% of my week i work long hours and there is no difference from a quickie to going out and dogging random people that you have no idea about join in and the same with orgys

It’s a question of what people want from Fab. Some will want a ‘quickie’, some will want to go dogging, some will want a gang bang, some will want to form a friendship with their sex partners. Some will want a mixture of options. There’s no right and wrong. However there are probably more men than women seeking the more anonymous non-friendship sex, such as dogging or quickies. Women are much more likely to want to form a friendship with their sex partners. That may be foreign to you, but that is your problem really. Swinging has traditionally had a social element to it, so it shouldn’t really be a surprise to find that people on swingers sites want to form friendships.

Mrs"

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

You sound like the sort of guy who just wants to get cock wet tbh.

You might be lucky and find a woman that enjoys that kind of encounter....but I doubt it!

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"We tend to avoid the guys who came to this site, because they thought it meant they could bypass the date (or social, as it seems called on the swing scene), and head straight for the sack. Always thought those type of guys would be better off on an escort site, but I guess it’s always worth trying for a freebie. Why aren’t we using a dating site, given that we like the social aspect of the lifestyle? Because we are swingers?

Mrs"

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Been on here for a while now and tbh just signed up to see what it was all about but i come quickly to understand that people look down on the fact that people may or may not want to have a short conversation then meet for sexual pleasures and so on.. i was just wondering because so far every person that i seem to see on here basically wants to date you for a while before anything even happens?"

We are just in here for random hook ups , definately no dating .

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By *lackbird1000Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"We tend to avoid the guys who came to this site, because they thought it meant they could bypass the date (or social, as it seems called on the swing scene), and head straight for the sack. Always thought those type of guys would be better off on an escort site, but I guess it’s always worth trying for a freebie. Why aren’t we using a dating site, given that we like the social aspect of the lifestyle? Because we are swingers?

Mrs"
Fabulous reply ! Totally agree! Thanks for this excellent input!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for us really, we have in a club and it felt right at that time but we generally prefer to have socials and get to know people first.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"It’s a question of what people want from Fab. Some will want a ‘quickie’, some will want to go dogging, some will want a gang bang, some will want to form a friendship with their sex partners. Some will want a mixture of options. There’s no right and wrong. However there are probably more men than women seeking the more anonymous non-friendship sex, such as dogging or quickies. Women are much more likely to want to form a friendship with their sex partners. That may be foreign to you, but that is your problem really. Swinging has traditionally had a social element to it, so it shouldn’t really be a surprise to find that people on swingers sites want to form friendships.

Mrs"

^^ This is soo true! I have a guy who is chasing me but doesn't understand that I don't want cold sex but he thinks it is perfectly acceptable as 'this is a sex site after all' and that is what I should settle for, so there is no chance in hell I will be meeting him

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Yeah I understand what you’re saying about getting tk know the person but its like building a relationship without having a relationship it just seems a bit foreign to me that you have to be in the position to build it and also to take the time to get to know the person and etc, like i’m busy 90% of my week i work long hours and there is no difference from a quickie to going out and dogging random people that you have no idea about join in and the same with orgys?"

OP if you don't have time for one coffee/drink and a chat how the hell will you have time for sex?

Or are you a 2 minute wonder?

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Yeah I understand what you’re saying about getting tk know the person but its like building a relationship without having a relationship it just seems a bit foreign to me that you have to be in the position to build it and also to take the time to get to know the person and etc, like i’m busy 90% of my week i work long hours and there is no difference from a quickie to going out and dogging random people that you have no idea about join in and the same with orgys?

OP if you don't have time for one coffee/drink and a chat how the hell will you have time for sex?

Or are you a 2 minute wonder?"

We certainly don’t have the time nor inclination to travel for a coffee or drink if there’s not an option to play if we click . So the op has said the same thing really , and that’s cool as far as we see it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I understand what you’re saying about getting tk know the person but its like building a relationship without having a relationship it just seems a bit foreign to me that you have to be in the position to build it and also to take the time to get to know the person and etc, like i’m busy 90% of my week i work long hours and there is no difference from a quickie to going out and dogging random people that you have no idea about join in and the same with orgys?

OP if you don't have time for one coffee/drink and a chat how the hell will you have time for sex?

Or are you a 2 minute wonder?

We certainly don’t have the time nor inclination to travel for a coffee or drink if there’s not an option to play if we click . So the op has said the same thing really , and that’s cool as far as we see it .

"

You guys are rare, especially in this mire. He'd be better making an effort to have a brew some day as well as still looking for a decent quickie, being on as a single guy who are easily picked through means moving his goal posts on this one might aid his quest to meet someone, should he be prepared to do that but that's a whole other thread

Your right though, he should be entitled to look for a quickie as much as anyone else. And without name calling

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Yeah I understand what you’re saying about getting tk know the person but its like building a relationship without having a relationship it just seems a bit foreign to me that you have to be in the position to build it and also to take the time to get to know the person and etc, like i’m busy 90% of my week i work long hours and there is no difference from a quickie to going out and dogging random people that you have no idea about join in and the same with orgys?

OP if you don't have time for one coffee/drink and a chat how the hell will you have time for sex?

Or are you a 2 minute wonder?

We certainly don’t have the time nor inclination to travel for a coffee or drink if there’s not an option to play if we click . So the op has said the same thing really , and that’s cool as far as we see it .

You guys are rare, especially in this mire. He'd be better making an effort to have a brew some day as well as still looking for a decent quickie, being on as a single guy who are easily picked through means moving his goal posts on this one might aid his quest to meet someone, should he be prepared to do that but that's a whole other thread

Your right though, he should be entitled to look for a quickie as much as anyone else. And without name calling

"

Of course he is entitled to look for what he wants, but as a quick fix, I'd recommend dogging not using a site like this tbh as you can see his expectations were already on the unreal side of things but if any hole is goal I'm sure he will be lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I understand what you’re saying about getting tk know the person but its like building a relationship without having a relationship it just seems a bit foreign to me that you have to be in the position to build it and also to take the time to get to know the person and etc, like i’m busy 90% of my week i work long hours and there is no difference from a quickie to going out and dogging random people that you have no idea about join in and the same with orgys?

OP if you don't have time for one coffee/drink and a chat how the hell will you have time for sex?

Or are you a 2 minute wonder?

We certainly don’t have the time nor inclination to travel for a coffee or drink if there’s not an option to play if we click . So the op has said the same thing really , and that’s cool as far as we see it .

You guys are rare, especially in this mire. He'd be better making an effort to have a brew some day as well as still looking for a decent quickie, being on as a single guy who are easily picked through means moving his goal posts on this one might aid his quest to meet someone, should he be prepared to do that but that's a whole other thread

Your right though, he should be entitled to look for a quickie as much as anyone else. And without name calling

Of course he is entitled to look for what he wants, but as a quick fix, I'd recommend dogging not using a site like this tbh as you can see his expectations were already on the unreal side of things but if any hole is goal I'm sure he will be lucky "

'A site like this'?

What does that even mean..oh, because we're 'swingers' is it? And not just a collection of people looking to fuck in our own ways on here? Is this some 'it's swinging dahling, not merely sex' type elitist stuff?

You do know the site is full of men women and couples using it for a quick fuck...

Come on the forum though you think it was the f**king high Masonic order

It's a quick fuck, it's ok to look for that here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s a bit different for couples I feel , we would not be interested in going on dates with you unless it’s part of our scenario .. we usually invite a single guy over to ours at short notice and he would do what we wanted him to do then go , probably never to be seen again by us .. the fun for us comes after he’s gone , the reclaim sex is amazing x "

Would love to join you

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Yeah I understand what you’re saying about getting tk know the person but its like building a relationship without having a relationship it just seems a bit foreign to me that you have to be in the position to build it and also to take the time to get to know the person and etc, like i’m busy 90% of my week i work long hours and there is no difference from a quickie to going out and dogging random people that you have no idea about join in and the same with orgys?

OP if you don't have time for one coffee/drink and a chat how the hell will you have time for sex?

Or are you a 2 minute wonder?

We certainly don’t have the time nor inclination to travel for a coffee or drink if there’s not an option to play if we click . So the op has said the same thing really , and that’s cool as far as we see it .

You guys are rare, especially in this mire. He'd be better making an effort to have a brew some day as well as still looking for a decent quickie, being on as a single guy who are easily picked through means moving his goal posts on this one might aid his quest to meet someone, should he be prepared to do that but that's a whole other thread

Your right though, he should be entitled to look for a quickie as much as anyone else. And without name calling

Of course he is entitled to look for what he wants, but as a quick fix, I'd recommend dogging not using a site like this tbh as you can see his expectations were already on the unreal side of things but if any hole is goal I'm sure he will be lucky

'A site like this'?

What does that even mean..oh, because we're 'swingers' is it? And not just a collection of people looking to fuck in our own ways on here? Is this some 'it's swinging dahling, not merely sex' type elitist stuff?

You do know the site is full of men women and couples using it for a quick fuck...

Come on the forum though you think it was the f**king high Masonic order

It's a quick fuck, it's ok to look for that here."

Exactly our point too .

The forums are fine , but the majority of swingers on them are looking to implement their thoughts onto everyone else .

There are so many different ways that people like to swing , and a quick fuck without dating , socialising or whatever it’s called , is perfectly acceptable .

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"Yeah I understand what you’re saying about getting tk know the person but its like building a relationship without having a relationship it just seems a bit foreign to me that you have to be in the position to build it and also to take the time to get to know the person and etc, like i’m busy 90% of my week i work long hours and there is no difference from a quickie to going out and dogging random people that you have no idea about join in and the same with orgys?

OP if you don't have time for one coffee/drink and a chat how the hell will you have time for sex?

Or are you a 2 minute wonder?

We certainly don’t have the time nor inclination to travel for a coffee or drink if there’s not an option to play if we click . So the op has said the same thing really , and that’s cool as far as we see it .

You guys are rare, especially in this mire. He'd be better making an effort to have a brew some day as well as still looking for a decent quickie, being on as a single guy who are easily picked through means moving his goal posts on this one might aid his quest to meet someone, should he be prepared to do that but that's a whole other thread

Your right though, he should be entitled to look for a quickie as much as anyone else. And without name calling

Of course he is entitled to look for what he wants, but as a quick fix, I'd recommend dogging not using a site like this tbh as you can see his expectations were already on the unreal side of things but if any hole is goal I'm sure he will be lucky

'A site like this'?

What does that even mean..oh, because we're 'swingers' is it? And not just a collection of people looking to fuck in our own ways on here? Is this some 'it's swinging dahling, not merely sex' type elitist stuff?

You do know the site is full of men women and couples using it for a quick fuck...

Come on the forum though you think it was the f**king high Masonic order

It's a quick fuck, it's ok to look for that here.

Exactly our point too .

The forums are fine , but the majority of swingers on them are looking to implement their thoughts onto everyone else .

There are so many different ways that people like to swing , and a quick fuck without dating , socialising or whatever it’s called , is perfectly acceptable ."

I don't think it's representative of the site here.

It's like where swingers retire to talk about swinging.

I feel like I'm becoming one of them too...

I need to get my finger out in 2018! Swiftly followed by my cock!

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