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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Outfits would a lady wear to a social and swing event at a club?

Never been before, nervous and excited but the dreaded don't want to be over dressed or underdressed

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By *imandher84Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

Best way we find is dress as you would on a normal night out. Alternatively think of people you would like to talk to and what would attract you to talk to them dress wise..

Unless of course what attracts you is a gimp suit with purple piping down the sides and a bunny tail butt plug..could be a touch much for socials....you bloody pervert!

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By *nvercoupleCouple
over a year ago

Inverness

I have only been twice to a club but both times I wore a sheer blouse with a sheer bra underneath.

Pencil skirt with stockings and suspenders.

No knickers but that's something I do whenever I'm out anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best way we find is dress as you would on a normal night out. Alternatively think of people you would like to talk to and what would attract you to talk to them dress wise..

Unless of course what attracts you is a gimp suit with purple piping down the sides and a bunny tail butt plug..could be a touch much for socials....you bloody pervert!"

Hey... Nothing wrong with perverts.

I would go with a sexy dress. Something you feel comfortable in. Heels and your pretty face is all that's needed. Have a drink, relax and enjoy your self.

The annex is a good place to go. Lots of friendly people, you will have a good night xx

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By *imandher84Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Best way we find is dress as you would on a normal night out. Alternatively think of people you would like to talk to and what would attract you to talk to them dress wise..

Unless of course what attracts you is a gimp suit with purple piping down the sides and a bunny tail butt plug..could be a touch much for socials....you bloody pervert!

Hey... Nothing wrong with perverts.

I would go with a sexy dress. Something you feel comfortable in. Heels and your pretty face is all that's needed. Have a drink, relax and enjoy your self.

The annex is a good place to go. Lots of friendly people, you will have a good night xx"

It was the purple piping i found perverted, everybody knows leather tassels is classier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The very first time I went to a club I was well over dressed only had a skirt nice top and heels on but felt uncomfortable because it was to much, now I go in things that are very revealing and short unless it’s a bodystocking etc but I’ve always got heels on, the things you see in my pics on here (outfits) are usually the things I wear to clubs

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire


"Outfits would a lady wear to a social and swing event at a club?

Never been before, nervous and excited but the dreaded don't want to be over dressed or underdressed

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I usually wear a decent pair of suit trousers, some nice shoes, and then a shirt or similar.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'll leave the gimp suit at home then haha thanks ladies, much appreciated, don't want to be to revealing so short shirt dress with stockings possibly?

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire


"I'll leave the gimp suit at home then haha thanks ladies, much appreciated, don't want to be to revealing so short shirt dress with stockings possibly? "

If you like wearing those kinds of clothes, then wear those kinds of clothes! I don't like wearing dresses or stockings so I don't usually wear them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the club & the dress code. If it’s a club that requires dress down on arrival, then it doesn’t matter what you wear to arrive in!

The Townhouse dress code is Smart Casual, so the sort of thing you’d wear for a night out in town is a good marker. I tend to wear a babydoll for dress down but any lingerie that you’re comfortable in should be fine.

I’d suggest checking the club website & see what it says x

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By *hell and jWoman
over a year ago

Worksop

Dress in what ever you feel comphy in then take a change of clothes to wow with xx enjoy rekax

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ladies is as sexy as you dare so thought I'd go for the inbetween

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire


"Ladies is as sexy as you dare so thought I'd go for the inbetween "

Pretty sure all clubs say women should be as sexy as they dare. Never expect the men to be as sexy as they dare though...

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I would suggest wearing some think within the clubs dress code, that you feel confident I'm good in, and having one or two more revealing outfits or lingerie to change into if you feel like you would like to.

The most inportant bit is to feel comfortable in what you are wearing so that you relax and enjoy yourself.

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"I would suggest wearing some think within the clubs dress code, that you feel confident I'm good in, and having one or two more revealing outfits or lingerie to change into if you feel like you would like to.

The most inportant bit is to feel comfortable in what you are wearing so that you relax and enjoy yourself."

We would recommend exactly the same as the lovely Glitterbabe.

Xx

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By *imandher84Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"I'll leave the gimp suit at home then haha thanks ladies, much appreciated, don't want to be to revealing so short shirt dress with stockings possibly? "

Uh hum some of us were men giving advice thank you very much!

Nevertheless whatever you do, do you;)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've only been to one club which was dress down from the start however I still turn up and go home in a sexy little dress.

Underneath I wear a slip of some sort and sexy underwear and stockings. When we went to just a social I wore skinny jeans and a lace top x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Think I'm going for short short dress with nice underwear stockings and suspender belt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think I'm going for short short dress with nice underwear stockings and suspender belt "

That would be my choice x

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"Think I'm going for short short dress with nice underwear stockings and suspender belt

That would be my choice x"

And it sounds awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think I'm going for short short dress with nice underwear stockings and suspender belt

That would be my choice x

And it sounds awesome "

Pwarr you will look great I'm sure. Lucky buggers.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks ladies

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"Think I'm going for short short dress with nice underwear stockings and suspender belt "

That would work for me

Loss of women go in short dresses and stockings then change in to an outfit that’s more lingerie at dress down time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some clubs have a dress code.

Mr wears his suit when we first arrive.

Mr's wears smart evening wear.

Once we have found who we are meeting got over the initial nerves,

Mr wears a towel round his waist until we are playing.

Mr's wears a shirt and nothing else until we are play. (shirt just about covers everything)

Once in the sauna/tub/playrooms it's our birthday suites.

Hope that is helpful OP.

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By *mm and HerCouple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire


"Some clubs have a dress code.

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We'd also suggest finding someone who goes to that club and ask them - we've found that the dress code isn't always followed. You want to strike the balance between being comfortable but fitting in.

There is also the practical - Her wears something different before we go in the hot tub at Jaydees than after purely because it's trick to put some things back on elegantly at the side of a hot tub with an audience!

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