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By *armupartist OP   Man
over a year ago

York

I have been 'chatting' for several weeks now to two different couples in different locations. Both had expressed a 'real' interest in older men. Recently I was approached by a third couple, they were making the running but have suddenly stopped picking up my messages and now the original couples are not opening messages. I noticed that the latest couple were online at similar/often the same time as the original two couples. Yes I know this is getting very convoluted but is somebody 'spoiling' my pitch or are they all the same a just playing games? Anybody any experience of this or am I being paranoid?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Part and parcel of FAB I think as it has happened to me a few times had a message sent then replied bit of back and forth then nothing don’t get yourself hung up on it just carry on. A couple have come back at a later date though and people do have lives also

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By *armupartist OP   Man
over a year ago

York

I appreciate that folk are not always going to reply and I have had plenty of conversations which suddenly stopped. It was the coincidence of all three suddenly not reading messages which made me suspicious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I appreciate that folk are not always going to reply and I have had plenty of conversations which suddenly stopped. It was the coincidence of all three suddenly not reading messages which made me suspicious. "

About what do you think it was a conspiracy or they maybe knew each other

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Being paranoid I think OP - people use the site at all times and, especially of an evening, it's entirely feasible they're all going to be on-line at the same time.

Without knowing the actual detail of the messages it's difficult to say why it went quiet - but it happens and for any number of reasons - you just have to accept and move on, don't pester and who knows they may come back to you at some point

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Definitely over thinking it op. It's not uncommon for conversations to fizzle out. And the way you phrased your post makes it sound a bit like you stopped chatting so much with the first two couples in favour of the latest one, which probably explains why they're no longer interested.

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By *armupartist OP   Man
over a year ago

York

Thanks for the observations guys. I'll let it go and hope one or more return. We appeared to have something cooking so obviously disappointed but as you say that is FAB. Cheers Al

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