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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When ladies have no pictures on their profile, yet demand a face pic with the first message, is this fair?

Is it likely they are not even a lady but a catfish?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People can demand, you don't have to comply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if that was the case for me I wudnt be messaging in the first place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When ladies have no pictures on their profile, yet demand a face pic with the first message, is this fair?

Is it likely they are not even a lady but a catfish?!"
yes something fishy going on there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you think it's unreasonable don't message them

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

If they request anything other than money or gifts, then they are abiding by site rules.

Filter who you interact with by making your own rules.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

People only treat you how you allow them to. I just posted this on another thread and generally it's true. I wouldn't say that its a tactic as such though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They want to see who they are talking too lol apparently!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"They want to see who they are talking too lol apparently!"

If nobody ever contacted these profiles they'd stop doing it. Loads of men have face pictures on their profile, if they're that bothered why don't they contact them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put the shoe on the other foot ....

I know the answer to that lol

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"When ladies have no pictures on their profile, yet demand a face pic with the first message, is this fair?

Is it likely they are not even a lady but a catfish?!"

Block and move on.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

People can ask/request/demand anything they want, it doesn't mean they are going to get it!

I have never understood why anyone, regardless of their gender, would message someone with no pictures on their profile. Surely there has to be something that catches your attention to merit sending a message.

OP I would steer clear of those people and concentrate your efforts on people who do have public pictures and have made an effort to fill in their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When ladies have no pictures on their profile, yet demand a face pic with the first message, is this fair?

Is it likely they are not even a lady but a catfish?!"

they might have them in private...you'd never know...

OP you have to work out what your own personal boundaries are...if it's not sending a face pic to a faceless profile that makes demands that you feel are unreasonable, then don't. Other people run their profiles in the way they wish to, if it doesnt suit your wishes, move on to someone who does...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When ladies have no pictures on their profile, yet demand a face pic with the first message, is this fair?

Is it likely they are not even a lady but a catfish?!"

You could always not message them because if they don't have pictures how would you even know if they're your type or not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Possibly, or they want to see if you're pretty enough for them, before they get involved in a conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have photos on just not my face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its no worse than couples asking for a face pic without wanting to send one themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always send a face pic when asked, but I'm thinking of now replying 'Sure thing, but please send me one of yours first'.

Is that rude of me to ask that?

It's just that I get fed-up of sending them, and getting nothing in return.

I think it's my eyepatch that puts people off....

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

People demand allsorts on here,if we dont like it we just move on .

Miss

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"People can ask/request/demand anything they want, it doesn't mean they are going to get it!

I have never understood why anyone, regardless of their gender, would message someone with no pictures on their profile. Surely there has to be something that catches your attention to merit sending a message.

OP I would steer clear of those people and concentrate your efforts on people who do have public pictures and have made an effort to fill in their profile."

I have wondered this before too,they hardly stand out

We block profiles with no pics messaging us.

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