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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Both me and my partner are hoping to take our next step tomorrow. Currently she has tossed someone off while I watched, which I loved and at the time although she was nervous she loved it.

Our next adventure is to use a curtain separating our living room/ bedroom for anonymous bj and then to be pounded by a second one.

The reason for it is the mrs gets very nervous about people seeing her, I don’t know why because to me she is stunning. All I want for her is to have fun and enjoying it. She is very excited but I’m not sure if people will find this weird.

Thanks for the feedback guys

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable


"Both me and my partner are hoping to take our next step tomorrow. Currently she has tossed someone off while I watched, which I loved and at the time although she was nervous she loved it.

Our next adventure is to use a curtain separating our living room/ bedroom for anonymous bj and then to be pounded by a second one.

The reason for it is the mrs gets very nervous about people seeing her, I don’t know why because to me she is stunning. All I want for her is to have fun and enjoying it. She is very excited but I’m not sure if people will find this weird.

Thanks for the feedback guys "
each to there own I am fine with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both me and my partner are hoping to take our next step tomorrow. Currently she has tossed someone off while I watched, which I loved and at the time although she was nervous she loved it.

Our next adventure is to use a curtain separating our living room/ bedroom for anonymous bj and then to be pounded by a second one.

The reason for it is the mrs gets very nervous about people seeing her, I don’t know why because to me she is stunning. All I want for her is to have fun and enjoying it. She is very excited but I’m not sure if people will find this weird.

Thanks for the feedback guys "

There is no right and wrong, only whats right for you. If you have a specific angle or way you want to play, and whoever you play with approves and respects boundarys, its all good. Communication is key before hand, tell your meets about insecurities/ no go's. If all still happy, game on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not about what others think. It's about how it makes you feel.

If that is what your girl.is comfortable with then that's that.

Good luck, and have fun. I'm sure it will be a positive and empowering experience for her.

Shel x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for your reply. That’s how we feel just new to us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what you're both comfortable with, our first experience we met another guy, started with a good old spit roast and went from there, wife was very nervous to begin with, I came way too quickly (Nerves?) however we had a great time and keep going for more.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

You could ask the man to wear a blindfold.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With a bum like that......im certain she has very little to worry about

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"You could ask the man to wear a blindfold. "

This.

You could arrange it so that when the guy comes in you blindfold him

(S is not yet in the room.)

You all play.

She leaves the room.

He removes the blindfold and goes on his merry way with an empty sack.

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

I think it sounds really hot to be honest! As others have said, if it works for all concerned then go for it!

A potential issue you may encounter is convincing a participant that this is a legitimate thing and not just a trick by a guy pretending to be a couple. Would you consider attending a club that had a glory hole?

Good luck, whatever you choose!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I wouldn't want to engage in any sexual activity when I couldn't see that the other person was even the gender they claimed to be. Other people might be ok with that and they're the ones who will want to meet you. Nothing legal and consensual is weird

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it sounds really hot to be honest! As others have said, if it works for all concerned then go for it!

A potential issue you may encounter is convincing a participant that this is a legitimate thing and not just a trick by a guy pretending to be a couple. Would you consider attending a club that had a glory hole?

Good luck, whatever you choose!

Yes would consider

A gloryole at a club that might be our next move.

Yeah we thought that might be a potential problem too. My partner has stubble so hopefully they can tell the difference ha"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our fem half can be very shy, but keen to do stuff, so she uses a blindfold a lot for blowjob meets, it helps her be able to enjoy herself more and the guy also benefits.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Explain to others you are interested in your concerns and interests, then you will be sure that who you meet is prepared and compatible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both me and my partner are hoping to take our next step tomorrow. Currently she has tossed someone off while I watched, which I loved and at the time although she was nervous she loved it.

Our next adventure is to use a curtain separating our living room/ bedroom for anonymous bj and then to be pounded by a second one.

The reason for it is the mrs gets very nervous about people seeing her, I don’t know why because to me she is stunning. All I want for her is to have fun and enjoying it. She is very excited but I’m not sure if people will find this weird.

Thanks for the feedback guys

There is no right and wrong, only whats right for you. If you have a specific angle or way you want to play, and whoever you play with approves and respects boundarys, its all good. Communication is key before hand, tell your meets about insecurities/ no go's. If all still happy, game on "

Agreed.

On a meet it's about everyone's enjoyment and you all need to be comfortable to totally enjoy yourself.

Although this type of fun just wouldn't appeal to me but wish you all the best guys.

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