FabSwingers.com forum: Request for long messages ...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Most profiles state "no one liners " and "make an effort" only for your personalised message to be deleted.

We all have our own types but surely a simple "no thanks" isnt too much to expect?

Whilst not all ignore or delete, it is frustrating.

I dont ignore my messages even if i am not interested

It makes you wonder whether you make so much effort on the first message.

Anyone else feel the same?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most profiles state "no one liners " and "make an effort" only for your personalised message to be deleted.

We all have our own types but surely a simple "no thanks" isnt too much to expect?

Whilst not all ignore or delete, it is frustrating.

I dont ignore my messages even if i am not interested

It makes you wonder whether you make so much effort on the first message.

Anyone else feel the same?

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Site FAQ’s state no reply = not interested op

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

What do you expect us to say to someone that just says 'how's you?'

Say 'no thanks' when they haven't actually asked anything? Or just ignore? I prefer ignore personally!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most profiles state "no one liners " and "make an effort" only for your personalised message to be deleted.

We all have our own types but surely a simple "no thanks" isnt too much to expect?

Whilst not all ignore or delete, it is frustrating.

I dont ignore my messages even if i am not interested

It makes you wonder whether you make so much effort on the first message.

Anyone else feel the same?

I dont think it makes a difference either way. Most look at profile before reading / deleting messages anyway, whilst in stealth mode so you will never know

Even then, your profile will probably appeal to 5% of viewers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most profiles state "no one liners " and "make an effort" only for your personalised message to be deleted.

We all have our own types but surely a simple "no thanks" isnt too much to expect?

Whilst not all ignore or delete, it is frustrating.

I dont ignore my messages even if i am not interested

It makes you wonder whether you make so much effort on the first message.

Anyone else feel the same?

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the ladies especially the beautiful ones are going to tell you that get 200 to your one so figure the numbers and time involved

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

You’re not obliged to send anyone a message, long or otherwise, but if you do, no-one is obliged to reply.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Most profiles state "no one liners " and "make an effort" only for your personalised message to be deleted.

We all have our own types but surely a simple "no thanks" isnt too much to expect?

Whilst not all ignore or delete, it is frustrating.

I dont ignore my messages even if i am not interested

It makes you wonder whether you make so much effort on the first message.

Anyone else feel the same?

No. Well yes, all the other guys who whine about this in countless threads feel the same.

No one owes anyone anything on here. The combination of a good first message, a good profile and decent pics, but not of your cock, is the winning formula.

But so many guys think all they need to do is turn up and the women will come running.

That's not how Fab works. Stop whining and get to making an effort

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By *ornysxcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Maldon

"What do you expect us to say to someone that just says 'how's you?'

Say 'no thanks' when they haven't actually asked anything? Or just ignore? I prefer ignore personally!

You didn’t actually read what the OP said. He gets the idea on one liners, but when he’s written out much more than that an it gets deleted without so much as a “no thanks” he finds it frustrating

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

There's plenty of choice, so you may as well pick those who match you and invest in messages that have the highest chance of introducing you and supplementing high quality profiles that recipients usually look at, before reading messages.

Unsolicited mail should not be sent with any expectations of it being read or replied to, just as you don't send replies to unsolicited mail at home.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

OP to look at it another way - am sure you get leaflets put through your door from your local pizza delivery place, that provide lots of detail about the various toppings they offer, and special deals etc - do you call them to say no thanks?

Same principle here really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So how many messages do you receive?

Our profile is Purely for organising the social, but every day we have messages saying Hi or how you, or even fancy a fuck

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

Little effort in means no reward generally. There are exceptions of course.

Just as equally lots of effort with no to little reward means somone is just not going to continue bothering with the effort after a while. Again there are exceptions.

Do I have a solution to this?

No.

3 choices.

1. Keep plugging away with the messages and hope you catch a break.

2. Give up and leave the site.

3. Interact with people. Forum cam rooms etc, and see what happens.

I have done all 3 at different points. Number 3 is my happy zone.

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