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"Sorry meet is aimed at single guys, should have said " That's quite a loaded statement  | |||
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"Because we have posted a meet? " That in itself isn't a reason to contact you though. You're assuming that single males will message in response to your meet request without being able to see anything about you | |||
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"Because we have posted a meet? That in itself isn't a reason to contact you though. You're assuming that single males will message in response to your meet request without being able to see anything about you" This,i assume they will still want to know if you are compatible and who they would meet. Miss | |||
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"Which would indicate they are interested in us as people, not just the pics we share and titilation from arranging a meet that they never have any intention of turning up to " I think it may work the opposite way from how you intended. I think the decent guys wont contact you as they do want to know something about you. The fantasists amd any hole will do brigade will still contact you as it doesnt matter to them that they know nothing about you | |||
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"Which would indicate they are interested in us as people, not just the pics we share and titilation from arranging a meet that they never have any intention of turning up to I think it may work the opposite way from how you intended. I think the decent guys wont contact you as they do want to know something about you. The fantasists amd any hole will do brigade will still contact you as it doesnt matter to them that they know nothing about you" Absolutely this.  | |||
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"The reality of it is 30 mins into hiding profile and no messages,although meet is still visible to all site members, but thats better than endless timewasters messages " I have a better way to avoid timewasters. I don't post meets and have a shit profile. No-one bothers me.  | |||
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"We are just in the process of trying this to reduce the amount of fantasists/pic collectors contacting us, any feedback from anyone who has tried this would be welcome? " Good luck with finding your meet. I wouldn't bother messaging anyone with a hidden profile as there's no information available to check compatibility. Why not just do your own searching and use your filters?  | |||
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"The reality of it is 30 mins into hiding profile and no messages,although meet is still visible to all site members, but thats better than endless timewasters messages " I'm assuming you are answering all the messages you get then? If so, you're only wasting your own time and give them the wank fodder they want. Tell them you want to chat on the phone or see them on cam, that will get rid of most of them straight away. | |||
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"Which would indicate they are interested in us as people, not just the pics we share and titilation from arranging a meet that they never have any intention of turning up to " What would you do if a single guy with a hidden profile responded to the meet? | |||
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"Which would indicate they are interested in us as people, not just the pics we share and titilation from arranging a meet that they never have any intention of turning up to What would you do if a single guy with a hidden profile responded to the meet?" Nothing as they won't be able to see the other persons info to check if they are suitable lol | |||
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"Which would indicate they are interested in us as people, not just the pics we share and titilation from arranging a meet that they never have any intention of turning up to What would you do if a single guy with a hidden profile responded to the meet? Nothing as they won't be able to see the other persons info to check if they are suitable lol "Funny that eh | |||
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"Which would indicate they are interested in us as people, not just the pics we share and titilation from arranging a meet that they never have any intention of turning up to What would you do if a single guy with a hidden profile responded to the meet? Nothing as they won't be able to see the other persons info to check if they are suitable lol
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"Also be 6 your profile is hidden people can't see the meet without trawling through the meets section. How many hoops do you expect them to jump through? " didnt realise the meets sectoin was a hoop? | |||
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"Section*" Most people go by profiles not the forums or meet section on here. | |||
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"Exactly, wank Fodder no intentions of meeting " So per take the hood advice given to you by nicecouple earlier, it obviously works well for them | |||
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"Exactly, wank Fodder no intentions of meeting " Trust your gut. If they start wanting sex chat it's usually wank fodder. It's easy enough to figure out who is likely to meet. Maybe try mailing people you like the look of rather than waiting for men to mail you. | |||
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"Exactly, wank Fodder no intentions of meeting Trust your gut. If they start wanting sex chat it's usually wank fodder. It's easy enough to figure out who is likely to meet. Maybe try mailing people you like the look of rather than waiting for men to mail you." Exactly this x | |||
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"The reality of it is 30 mins into hiding profile and no messages,although meet is still visible to all site members, but thats better than endless timewasters messages " The issue with that is it doesn't show in news feeds which is where most people look. It will only show in the meet section and there could be loads to trawl through  | |||
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"The reality of it is 30 mins into hiding profile and no messages,although meet is still visible to all site members, but thats better than endless timewasters messages The issue with that is it doesn't show in news feeds which is where most people look. It will only show in the meet section and there could be loads to trawl through "Oh didn't realise it was all hidden there as well.  | |||
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"The reality of it is 30 mins into hiding profile and no messages,although meet is still visible to all site members, but thats better than endless timewasters messages The issue with that is it doesn't show in news feeds which is where most people look. It will only show in the meet section and there could be loads to trawl through
Oh didn't realise it was all hidden there as well. "Yeah it's the same with updating status, posting pics etc. If you're hidden it doesn't go into anyone's feed. Including friends | |||
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"The reality of it is 30 mins into hiding profile and no messages,although meet is still visible to all site members, but thats better than endless timewasters messages The issue with that is it doesn't show in news feeds which is where most people look. It will only show in the meet section and there could be loads to trawl through
Oh didn't realise it was all hidden there as well.
Yeah it's the same with updating status, posting pics etc. If you're hidden it doesn't go into anyone's feed. Including friends "So the only way is to trawl through the meets section then? I doubt that many won't bother with that, especially in a more heavily populated area. | |||
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"The reality of it is 30 mins into hiding profile and no messages,although meet is still visible to all site members, but thats better than endless timewasters messages The issue with that is it doesn't show in news feeds which is where most people look. It will only show in the meet section and there could be loads to trawl through "would have thought trawl through would be less in couples meets in local area than newsfeed in local area? | |||
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"The reality of it is 30 mins into hiding profile and no messages,although meet is still visible to all site members, but thats better than endless timewasters messages The issue with that is it doesn't show in news feeds which is where most people look. It will only show in the meet section and there could be loads to trawl through would have thought trawl through would be less in couples meets in local area than newsfeed in local area? "Most will check newsfeed and profiles local to them its a lot easier and quicker | |||
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"The reality of it is 30 mins into hiding profile and no messages,although meet is still visible to all site members, but thats better than endless timewasters messages The issue with that is it doesn't show in news feeds which is where most people look. It will only show in the meet section and there could be loads to trawl through would have thought trawl through would be less in couples meets in local area than newsfeed in local area? "When you search a meet for Coventry you have to search the whole of the West Midlands | |||
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"The reality of it is 30 mins into hiding profile and no messages,although meet is still visible to all site members, but thats better than endless timewasters messages The issue with that is it doesn't show in news feeds which is where most people look. It will only show in the meet section and there could be loads to trawl through
Oh didn't realise it was all hidden there as well. "Yes when you hide your profile the only things it shows are forum posts and meets in the meet section only | |||
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"The reality of it is 30 mins into hiding profile and no messages,although meet is still visible to all site members, but thats better than endless timewasters messages The issue with that is it doesn't show in news feeds which is where most people look. It will only show in the meet section and there could be loads to trawl through would have thought trawl through would be less in couples meets in local area than newsfeed in local area?
When you search a meet for Coventry you have to search the whole of the West Midlands "Same here the southwest goes right up to Bristol lol | |||
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"Absoloutley nothing, but we have'nt had the site from timewasters either, so would say its a fifty fifty split really, maybe not a very valid experiment lol" Lol, did you try searching yet? | |||
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"I wouldn't contact anyone who had a hidden profile. You can put up a status, post a meet, but with no information to go, I can't see why anyone would follow up contact. " Status won't show if profile is hidden either. | |||
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"Absoloutley nothing, but we have'nt had the site from timewasters either, so would say its a fifty fifty split really, maybe not a very valid experiment lol" But if you are looking to meet, isn't the point to get at least one message? | |||
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"Absoloutley nothing, but we have'nt had the site from timewasters either, so would say its a fifty fifty split really, maybe not a very valid experiment lol But if you are looking to meet, isn't the point to get at least one message? "no the point is to try and get a meet not endless messages going nowhere | |||
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"Absoloutley nothing, but we have'nt had the site from timewasters either, so would say its a fifty fifty split really, maybe not a very valid experiment lol But if you are looking to meet, isn't the point to get at least one message? no the point is to try and get a meet not endless messages going nowhere "In order to meet, I'd assume that messages would be the first line of communication. | |||
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"Absoloutley nothing, but we have'nt had the site from timewasters either, so would say its a fifty fifty split really, maybe not a very valid experiment lol But if you are looking to meet, isn't the point to get at least one message? no the point is to try and get a meet not endless messages going nowhere "But you need messages to actually meet. | |||
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"Absoloutley nothing, but we have'nt had the site from timewasters either, so would say its a fifty fifty split really, maybe not a very valid experiment lol But if you are looking to meet, isn't the point to get at least one message? no the point is to try and get a meet not endless messages going nowhere
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"I wouldn't contact anyone who had a hidden profile. You can put up a status, post a meet, but with no information to go, I can't see why anyone would follow up contact. Status won't show if profile is hidden either. " Totaly screwed then! Well, actually not screwed | |||
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"I wouldn't contact anyone who had a hidden profile. You can put up a status, post a meet, but with no information to go, I can't see why anyone would follow up contact. Status won't show if profile is hidden either. Totaly screwed then! Well, actually not screwed "Unscrewed? | |||
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"Nothing ventured nothing gained, just no wasted time, and expectations leading to dissapointment, from endless messages " But.. No messages at all in the 2 hours since you started this thread. | |||
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"We are just in the process of trying this to reduce the amount of fantasists/pic collectors contacting us, any feedback from anyone who has tried this would be welcome? " I wouldn't contact you as i would either assume that something has cropped up and you are no longer meeting or that you have found the guy you want. I would also find it impossible to approach you in any meaningful way. Are you bi, in my age range, into the same things as me. In fact it would both be impossible for me to know if I want to meet you and to sell myself so that you want to meet me | |||
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"We are just in the process of trying this to reduce the amount of fantasists/pic collectors contacting us, any feedback from anyone who has tried this would be welcome? I wouldn't contact you as i would either assume that something has cropped up and you are no longer meeting or that you have found the guy you want. I would also find it impossible to approach you in any meaningful way. Are you bi, in my age range, into the same things as me. In fact it would both be impossible for me to know if I want to meet you and to sell myself so that you want to meet me" | |||
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"We are just in the process of trying this to reduce the amount of fantasists/pic collectors contacting us, any feedback from anyone who has tried this would be welcome? I wouldn't contact you as i would either assume that something has cropped up and you are no longer meeting or that you have found the guy you want. I would also find it impossible to approach you in any meaningful way. Are you bi, in my age range, into the same things as me. In fact it would both be impossible for me to know if I want to meet you and to sell myself so that you want to meet me" | |||
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"This was originaly posted on the back of messaging a guy, who was 20 mins walk away from us at about 4pm today, and willing to meet at ours at 7pm, 2 hours later no weather change, other than colder and he couldnt make it because it would take an hour, it just seems like endless Fodder on here " So why not try taking the advice given to you by people who have taken the time to give it to you? | |||
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"This was originaly posted on the back of messaging a guy, who was 20 mins walk away from us at about 4pm today, and willing to meet at ours at 7pm, 2 hours later no weather change, other than colder and he couldnt make it because it would take an hour, it just seems like endless Fodder on here " That is obviously frustrating but the outcome has been the same you still don't have a meet and I would say the odds are significantly reduced due to you having hidden your profile. | |||
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"Thanks msgives just looked last veri was 2 yrs ago its the small things we miss lol " but 19 veri's in total? | |||
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"Thanks msgives just looked last veri was 2 yrs ago its the small things we miss lol " Check more thoroughly next time. Did you speak on phone or cam? | |||
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"Thanks msgives just looked last veri was 2 yrs ago its the small things we miss lol Check more thoroughly next time. Did you speak on phone or cam? " no didnt seem important as we are a true honest couple we just expect the same back? | |||
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"Thanks msgives just looked last veri was 2 yrs ago its the small things we miss lol Check more thoroughly next time. Did you speak on phone or cam? " no didnt seem important as we are a true honest couple we just expect the same back? | |||
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"I generally only respond to meets where its clear what your looking for. To show i'm genuine i'm always willing to give my number out and talk on the phone first. I would say thats the least they should do. Maybe meet in a club first?" | |||
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"Well then you've really wasted you own time by not even doing the most basic of checks. Sounds to me like the guy is genuine with 19 veris. At least he had the decency to let you know that he wasn't able to make it, he could have been a no show. If he's reading this it's unlikely he'd want to meet you at all now. " its unlikely that we will want to meet him considering he lives 20 mins walk away but couldnt make it | |||
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"Well then you've really wasted you own time by not even doing the most basic of checks. Sounds to me like the guy is genuine with 19 veris. At least he had the decency to let you know that he wasn't able to make it, he could have been a no show. If he's reading this it's unlikely he'd want to meet you at all now. its unlikely that we will want to meet him considering he lives 20 mins walk away but couldnt make it " 20 minutes walk? It's bloody Baltic out. He'd freeze his balls off! I'd cancel too | |||
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"Well then you've really wasted you own time by not even doing the most basic of checks. Sounds to me like the guy is genuine with 19 veris. At least he had the decency to let you know that he wasn't able to make it, he could have been a no show. If he's reading this it's unlikely he'd want to meet you at all now. its unlikely that we will want to meet him considering he lives 20 mins walk away but couldnt make it 20 minutes walk? It's bloody Baltic out. He'd freeze his balls off! I'd cancel too it was less baltic at 7pm than it is now " | |||
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"Well then you've really wasted you own time by not even doing the most basic of checks. Sounds to me like the guy is genuine with 19 veris. At least he had the decency to let you know that he wasn't able to make it, he could have been a no show. If he's reading this it's unlikely he'd want to meet you at all now. its unlikely that we will want to meet him considering he lives 20 mins walk away but couldnt make it 20 minutes walk? It's bloody Baltic out. He'd freeze his balls off! I'd cancel too "Did it snow in Coventry? If it did I would cancel too. | |||
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"Well then you've really wasted you own time by not even doing the most basic of checks. Sounds to me like the guy is genuine with 19 veris. At least he had the decency to let you know that he wasn't able to make it, he could have been a no show. If he's reading this it's unlikely he'd want to meet you at all now. its unlikely that we will want to meet him considering he lives 20 mins walk away but couldnt make it 20 minutes walk? It's bloody Baltic out. He'd freeze his balls off! I'd cancel too it was less baltic at 7pm than it is now "Was he getting a lift home then? Or was he expected to walk home too? | |||
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"Well then you've really wasted you own time by not even doing the most basic of checks. Sounds to me like the guy is genuine with 19 veris. At least he had the decency to let you know that he wasn't able to make it, he could have been a no show. If he's reading this it's unlikely he'd want to meet you at all now. its unlikely that we will want to meet him considering he lives 20 mins walk away but couldnt make it 20 minutes walk? It's bloody Baltic out. He'd freeze his balls off! I'd cancel too
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"Well then you've really wasted you own time by not even doing the most basic of checks. Sounds to me like the guy is genuine with 19 veris. At least he had the decency to let you know that he wasn't able to make it, he could have been a no show. If he's reading this it's unlikely he'd want to meet you at all now. its unlikely that we will want to meet him considering he lives 20 mins walk away but couldnt make it 20 minutes walk? It's bloody Baltic out. He'd freeze his balls off! I'd cancel too it was less baltic at 7pm than it is now "anyway no more distracting messages from wasters, note to self do more basic checks,lol | |||
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"Well then you've really wasted you own time by not even doing the most basic of checks. Sounds to me like the guy is genuine with 19 veris. At least he had the decency to let you know that he wasn't able to make it, he could have been a no show. If he's reading this it's unlikely he'd want to meet you at all now. its unlikely that we will want to meet him considering he lives 20 mins walk away but couldnt make it 20 minutes walk? It's bloody Baltic out. He'd freeze his balls off! I'd cancel too
Did it snow in Coventry? If it did I would cancel too.
I checked and it did x"Can't say I blame him then. It would take a lot longer to walk in it. An hours walk each way? No thanks lol. | |||
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"Well then you've really wasted you own time by not even doing the most basic of checks. Sounds to me like the guy is genuine with 19 veris. At least he had the decency to let you know that he wasn't able to make it, he could have been a no show. If he's reading this it's unlikely he'd want to meet you at all now. its unlikely that we will want to meet him considering he lives 20 mins walk away but couldnt make it 20 minutes walk? It's bloody Baltic out. He'd freeze his balls off! I'd cancel too it was less baltic at 7pm than it is now anyway no more distracting messages from wasters, note to self do more basic checks,lol "Lol and good luck to you both x | |||
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"Well then you've really wasted you own time by not even doing the most basic of checks. Sounds to me like the guy is genuine with 19 veris. At least he had the decency to let you know that he wasn't able to make it, he could have been a no show. If he's reading this it's unlikely he'd want to meet you at all now. its unlikely that we will want to meet him considering he lives 20 mins walk away but couldnt make it " Sounds like you had a decent single guy there and you're cutting your nose off to spite your face. You can hardly blame the bloke for cancelling with a couple of hours notice due to the extreme weather conditions that he would be WALKING in | |||
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"Well then you've really wasted you own time by not even doing the most basic of checks. Sounds to me like the guy is genuine with 19 veris. At least he had the decency to let you know that he wasn't able to make it, he could have been a no show. If he's reading this it's unlikely he'd want to meet you at all now. its unlikely that we will want to meet him considering he lives 20 mins walk away but couldnt make it 20 minutes walk? It's bloody Baltic out. He'd freeze his balls off! I'd cancel too
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I checked and it did x"The meet was arranged 5pm, to go ahead 7 pm, snow was already on the ground 3-4 inches at 5 | |||
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"Well then you've really wasted you own time by not even doing the most basic of checks. Sounds to me like the guy is genuine with 19 veris. At least he had the decency to let you know that he wasn't able to make it, he could have been a no show. If he's reading this it's unlikely he'd want to meet you at all now. its unlikely that we will want to meet him considering he lives 20 mins walk away but couldnt make it 20 minutes walk? It's bloody Baltic out. He'd freeze his balls off! I'd cancel too
Did it snow in Coventry? If it did I would cancel too.
I checked and it did xThe meet was arranged 5pm, to go ahead 7 pm, snow was already on the ground 3-4 inches at 5 "And no doubt turning to ice underneath. Personally I think he was right to cancel under those circumstances he could have slipped and broken a bone | |||
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"Well then you've really wasted you own time by not even doing the most basic of checks. Sounds to me like the guy is genuine with 19 veris. At least he had the decency to let you know that he wasn't able to make it, he could have been a no show. If he's reading this it's unlikely he'd want to meet you at all now. its unlikely that we will want to meet him considering he lives 20 mins walk away but couldnt make it 20 minutes walk? It's bloody Baltic out. He'd freeze his balls off! I'd cancel too
Did it snow in Coventry? If it did I would cancel too.
I checked and it did xThe meet was arranged 5pm, to go ahead 7 pm, snow was already on the ground 3-4 inches at 5
And no doubt turning to ice underneath. Personally I think he was right to cancel under those circumstances he could have slipped and broken a bone "at least something would have happend to his bone, rather than nothing lol | |||
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"Unhide your profile, put all your photos in private except a couple of innocuous ones, block all messages then send messages out to men you like the look of. " This. I wish more women and couples would do this. I for one would never contact a hidden profile... Its like going into a shop blindfolded hoping to get a present for your best friend. May not be ur best friend for long. | |||
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"Well then you've really wasted you own time by not even doing the most basic of checks. Sounds to me like the guy is genuine with 19 veris. At least he had the decency to let you know that he wasn't able to make it, he could have been a no show. If he's reading this it's unlikely he'd want to meet you at all now. its unlikely that we will want to meet him considering he lives 20 mins walk away but couldnt make it 20 minutes walk? It's bloody Baltic out. He'd freeze his balls off! I'd cancel too
Did it snow in Coventry? If it did I would cancel too.
I checked and it did xThe meet was arranged 5pm, to go ahead 7 pm, snow was already on the ground 3-4 inches at 5
And no doubt turning to ice underneath. Personally I think he was right to cancel under those circumstances he could have slipped and broken a bone at least something would have happend to his bone, rather than nothing lol "I don't understand why you are calling him a time waster to be honest. You were happy for him to put himself at risk for a fuck. He was right to cancel and you are on the forums having a go about it. I would have never expected a man to walk to a meet in this weather conditions. In fact, I would have made him cancel. The fact that you are slagging him off on here says more about you than him. No fuck is special enough for someone to risk their personal safety over. | |||
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"Well then you've really wasted you own time by not even doing the most basic of checks. Sounds to me like the guy is genuine with 19 veris. At least he had the decency to let you know that he wasn't able to make it, he could have been a no show. If he's reading this it's unlikely he'd want to meet you at all now. its unlikely that we will want to meet him considering he lives 20 mins walk away but couldnt make it 20 minutes walk? It's bloody Baltic out. He'd freeze his balls off! I'd cancel too
Did it snow in Coventry? If it did I would cancel too.
I checked and it did xThe meet was arranged 5pm, to go ahead 7 pm, snow was already on the ground 3-4 inches at 5
And no doubt turning to ice underneath. Personally I think he was right to cancel under those circumstances he could have slipped and broken a bone at least something would have happend to his bone, rather than nothing lol
I don't understand why you are calling him a time waster to be honest. You were happy for him to put himself at risk for a fuck. He was right to cancel and you are on the forums having a go about it. I would have never expected a man to walk to a meet in this weather conditions. In fact, I would have made him cancel. The fact that you are slagging him off on here says more about you than him. No fuck is special enough for someone to risk their personal safety over."Very well said, I'd never expect anyone to put themselves at risk either, I've cancelled meets before because I don't want them travelling in bad weather. If anything happened I'd feel awful. | |||
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"Well then you've really wasted you own time by not even doing the most basic of checks. Sounds to me like the guy is genuine with 19 veris. At least he had the decency to let you know that he wasn't able to make it, he could have been a no show. If he's reading this it's unlikely he'd want to meet you at all now. its unlikely that we will want to meet him considering he lives 20 mins walk away but couldnt make it 20 minutes walk? It's bloody Baltic out. He'd freeze his balls off! I'd cancel too
Did it snow in Coventry? If it did I would cancel too.
I checked and it did xThe meet was arranged 5pm, to go ahead 7 pm, snow was already on the ground 3-4 inches at 5
And no doubt turning to ice underneath. Personally I think he was right to cancel under those circumstances he could have slipped and broken a bone at least something would have happend to his bone, rather than nothing lol
I don't understand why you are calling him a time waster to be honest. You were happy for him to put himself at risk for a fuck. He was right to cancel and you are on the forums having a go about it. I would have never expected a man to walk to a meet in this weather conditions. In fact, I would have made him cancel. The fact that you are slagging him off on here says more about you than him. No fuck is special enough for someone to risk their personal safety over."who exactly are we slagging off, if you feel at 40 you are too old to go out in this weather thats up to you, im 53 and would go out cycling safe in this weather, you are only as old as you feel doris | |||
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"Well then you've really wasted you own time by not even doing the most basic of checks. Sounds to me like the guy is genuine with 19 veris. At least he had the decency to let you know that he wasn't able to make it, he could have been a no show. If he's reading this it's unlikely he'd want to meet you at all now. its unlikely that we will want to meet him considering he lives 20 mins walk away but couldnt make it 20 minutes walk? It's bloody Baltic out. He'd freeze his balls off! I'd cancel too
Did it snow in Coventry? If it did I would cancel too.
I checked and it did xThe meet was arranged 5pm, to go ahead 7 pm, snow was already on the ground 3-4 inches at 5
And no doubt turning to ice underneath. Personally I think he was right to cancel under those circumstances he could have slipped and broken a bone at least something would have happend to his bone, rather than nothing lol
I don't understand why you are calling him a time waster to be honest. You were happy for him to put himself at risk for a fuck. He was right to cancel and you are on the forums having a go about it. I would have never expected a man to walk to a meet in this weather conditions. In fact, I would have made him cancel. The fact that you are slagging him off on here says more about you than him. No fuck is special enough for someone to risk their personal safety over.who exactly are we slagging off, if you feel at 40 you are too old to go out in this weather thats up to you, im 53 and would go out cycling safe in this weather, you are only as old as you feel doris "We all have choices in life, clearly this was his choice, what you are prepared to do has no bearing on what he's prepared to do. Everyone is different. Age is not a factor at all. Sounding like sour grapes and throwing toys out of the pram. | |||
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"I don’t quite get it. Why would you post a meet then hide your profile? Surely no ones going to reply? That’s if the meet is still visible with a hidden profile. If you’re getting too much crap increase your filters. " yes the meet is still visible | |||
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"I don’t quite get it. Why would you post a meet then hide your profile? Surely no ones going to reply? That’s if the meet is still visible with a hidden profile. If you’re getting too much crap increase your filters. yes the meet is still visible " seems filters is the way forward | |||
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"Well then you've really wasted you own time by not even doing the most basic of checks. Sounds to me like the guy is genuine with 19 veris. At least he had the decency to let you know that he wasn't able to make it, he could have been a no show. If he's reading this it's unlikely he'd want to meet you at all now. its unlikely that we will want to meet him considering he lives 20 mins walk away but couldnt make it 20 minutes walk? It's bloody Baltic out. He'd freeze his balls off! I'd cancel too
Did it snow in Coventry? If it did I would cancel too.
I checked and it did xThe meet was arranged 5pm, to go ahead 7 pm, snow was already on the ground 3-4 inches at 5
And no doubt turning to ice underneath. Personally I think he was right to cancel under those circumstances he could have slipped and broken a bone at least something would have happend to his bone, rather than nothing lol
I don't understand why you are calling him a time waster to be honest. You were happy for him to put himself at risk for a fuck. He was right to cancel and you are on the forums having a go about it. I would have never expected a man to walk to a meet in this weather conditions. In fact, I would have made him cancel. The fact that you are slagging him off on here says more about you than him. No fuck is special enough for someone to risk their personal safety over.who exactly are we slagging off, if you feel at 40 you are too old to go out in this weather thats up to you, im 53 and would go out cycling safe in this weather, you are only as old as you feel doris "Why don't you go and pick him up? | |||
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"Well then you've really wasted you own time by not even doing the most basic of checks. Sounds to me like the guy is genuine with 19 veris. At least he had the decency to let you know that he wasn't able to make it, he could have been a no show. If he's reading this it's unlikely he'd want to meet you at all now. its unlikely that we will want to meet him considering he lives 20 mins walk away but couldnt make it 20 minutes walk? It's bloody Baltic out. He'd freeze his balls off! I'd cancel too
Did it snow in Coventry? If it did I would cancel too.
I checked and it did xThe meet was arranged 5pm, to go ahead 7 pm, snow was already on the ground 3-4 inches at 5
And no doubt turning to ice underneath. Personally I think he was right to cancel under those circumstances he could have slipped and broken a bone at least something would have happend to his bone, rather than nothing lol
I don't understand why you are calling him a time waster to be honest. You were happy for him to put himself at risk for a fuck. He was right to cancel and you are on the forums having a go about it. I would have never expected a man to walk to a meet in this weather conditions. In fact, I would have made him cancel. The fact that you are slagging him off on here says more about you than him. No fuck is special enough for someone to risk their personal safety over.who exactly are we slagging off, if you feel at 40 you are too old to go out in this weather thats up to you, im 53 and would go out cycling safe in this weather, you are only as old as you feel doris
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"This was originaly posted on the back of messaging a guy, who was 20 mins walk away from us at about 4pm today, and willing to meet at ours at 7pm, 2 hours later no weather change, other than colder and he couldnt make it because it would take an hour, it just seems like endless Fodder on here " 20 minutes walk in summer would be an hour's walk in snow and ice. Maybe he set off and fell on the ice. | |||
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"This was originaly posted on the back of messaging a guy, who was 20 mins walk away from us at about 4pm today, and willing to meet at ours at 7pm, 2 hours later no weather change, other than colder and he couldnt make it because it would take an hour, it just seems like endless Fodder on here 20 minutes walk in summer would be an hour's walk in snow and ice. Maybe he set off and fell on the ice. " This was my point earlier. | |||
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"Which would indicate they are interested in us as people, not just the pics we share and titilation from arranging a meet that they never have any intention of turning up to " Just hid your pics then. Would contact someone if you could see there profile or new nothing about. I can’t see many will infact it would probably be time wasters who would. Seems like you have a low opinion of singles guys. | |||
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"Well then you've really wasted you own time by not even doing the most basic of checks. Sounds to me like the guy is genuine with 19 veris. At least he had the decency to let you know that he wasn't able to make it, he could have been a no show. If he's reading this it's unlikely he'd want to meet you at all now. its unlikely that we will want to meet him considering he lives 20 mins walk away but couldnt make it 20 minutes walk? It's bloody Baltic out. He'd freeze his balls off! I'd cancel too
Did it snow in Coventry? If it did I would cancel too.
I checked and it did xThe meet was arranged 5pm, to go ahead 7 pm, snow was already on the ground 3-4 inches at 5
And no doubt turning to ice underneath. Personally I think he was right to cancel under those circumstances he could have slipped and broken a bone at least something would have happend to his bone, rather than nothing lol
I don't understand why you are calling him a time waster to be honest. You were happy for him to put himself at risk for a fuck. He was right to cancel and you are on the forums having a go about it. I would have never expected a man to walk to a meet in this weather conditions. In fact, I would have made him cancel. The fact that you are slagging him off on here says more about you than him. No fuck is special enough for someone to risk their personal safety over.who exactly are we slagging off, if you feel at 40 you are too old to go out in this weather thats up to you, im 53 and would go out cycling safe in this weather, you are only as old as you feel doris
Why don't you go and pick him up?
Very good point you just made here... "I had 3 beers, girlfriend has never driven her car or mine in snow, hence we advetised for a meet at ours, didnt realise that part of that deal was for us to arrange his transport and safe arrival? | |||
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"Which would indicate they are interested in us as people, not just the pics we share and titilation from arranging a meet that they never have any intention of turning up to Just hid your pics then. Would contact someone if you could see there profile or new nothing about. I can’t see many will infact it would probably be time wasters who would. Seems like you have a low opinion of singles guys." They were looking to meet single guys. At least he cancelled rather than not turn up at all, which is the general definition of a timewaster. | |||
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"Well then you've really wasted you own time by not even doing the most basic of checks. Sounds to me like the guy is genuine with 19 veris. At least he had the decency to let you know that he wasn't able to make it, he could have been a no show. If he's reading this it's unlikely he'd want to meet you at all now. its unlikely that we will want to meet him considering he lives 20 mins walk away but couldnt make it 20 minutes walk? It's bloody Baltic out. He'd freeze his balls off! I'd cancel too
Did it snow in Coventry? If it did I would cancel too.
I checked and it did xThe meet was arranged 5pm, to go ahead 7 pm, snow was already on the ground 3-4 inches at 5
And no doubt turning to ice underneath. Personally I think he was right to cancel under those circumstances he could have slipped and broken a bone at least something would have happend to his bone, rather than nothing lol
I don't understand why you are calling him a time waster to be honest. You were happy for him to put himself at risk for a fuck. He was right to cancel and you are on the forums having a go about it. I would have never expected a man to walk to a meet in this weather conditions. In fact, I would have made him cancel. The fact that you are slagging him off on here says more about you than him. No fuck is special enough for someone to risk their personal safety over.who exactly are we slagging off, if you feel at 40 you are too old to go out in this weather thats up to you, im 53 and would go out cycling safe in this weather, you are only as old as you feel doris
Why don't you go and pick him up?
Very good point you just made here... I had 3 beers, girlfriend has never driven her car or mine in snow, hence we advetised for a meet at ours, didnt realise that part of that deal was for us to arrange his transport and safe arrival? "Ahhh so it was not safe for your g/f to to drive, but fine for a guy to walk.... And walk back later. Let's not forget that, which certainly would have been far later than 7pm. Okay | |||
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Right, let's go back to the man cave and have a lovely cosy ffm "I concur | |||
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Right, let's go back to the man cave and have a lovely cosy ffm
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"Well then you've really wasted you own time by not even doing the most basic of checks. Sounds to me like the guy is genuine with 19 veris. At least he had the decency to let you know that he wasn't able to make it, he could have been a no show. If he's reading this it's unlikely he'd want to meet you at all now. its unlikely that we will want to meet him considering he lives 20 mins walk away but couldnt make it 20 minutes walk? It's bloody Baltic out. He'd freeze his balls off! I'd cancel too
Did it snow in Coventry? If it did I would cancel too.
I checked and it did xThe meet was arranged 5pm, to go ahead 7 pm, snow was already on the ground 3-4 inches at 5
And no doubt turning to ice underneath. Personally I think he was right to cancel under those circumstances he could have slipped and broken a bone at least something would have happend to his bone, rather than nothing lol
I don't understand why you are calling him a time waster to be honest. You were happy for him to put himself at risk for a fuck. He was right to cancel and you are on the forums having a go about it. I would have never expected a man to walk to a meet in this weather conditions. In fact, I would have made him cancel. The fact that you are slagging him off on here says more about you than him. No fuck is special enough for someone to risk their personal safety over.who exactly are we slagging off, if you feel at 40 you are too old to go out in this weather thats up to you, im 53 and would go out cycling safe in this weather, you are only as old as you feel doris
Why don't you go and pick him up?
Very good point you just made here... I had 3 beers, girlfriend has never driven her car or mine in snow, hence we advetised for a meet at ours, didnt realise that part of that deal was for us to arrange his transport and safe arrival?
Ahhh so it was not safe for your g/f to to drive, but fine for a guy to walk.... And walk back later. Let's not forget that, which certainly would have been far later than 7pm. Okay "My heads hurting lol | |||
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"Well then you've really wasted you own time by not even doing the most basic of checks. Sounds to me like the guy is genuine with 19 veris. At least he had the decency to let you know that he wasn't able to make it, he could have been a no show. If he's reading this it's unlikely he'd want to meet you at all now. its unlikely that we will want to meet him considering he lives 20 mins walk away but couldnt make it 20 minutes walk? It's bloody Baltic out. He'd freeze his balls off! I'd cancel too
Did it snow in Coventry? If it did I would cancel too.
I checked and it did xThe meet was arranged 5pm, to go ahead 7 pm, snow was already on the ground 3-4 inches at 5
And no doubt turning to ice underneath. Personally I think he was right to cancel under those circumstances he could have slipped and broken a bone at least something would have happend to his bone, rather than nothing lol
I don't understand why you are calling him a time waster to be honest. You were happy for him to put himself at risk for a fuck. He was right to cancel and you are on the forums having a go about it. I would have never expected a man to walk to a meet in this weather conditions. In fact, I would have made him cancel. The fact that you are slagging him off on here says more about you than him. No fuck is special enough for someone to risk their personal safety over.who exactly are we slagging off, if you feel at 40 you are too old to go out in this weather thats up to you, im 53 and would go out cycling safe in this weather, you are only as old as you feel doris
Why don't you go and pick him up?
Very good point you just made here... I had 3 beers, girlfriend has never driven her car or mine in snow, hence we advetised for a meet at ours, didnt realise that part of that deal was for us to arrange his transport and safe arrival? "It was good of him to let you know he couldn't make it after all. Good luck for next time.
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"OP. Just put a thread up saying you are sick of timewasters. That's basically what you wanted to get across all along. Would have been better than this meeting but hiding our profile nonsence." But then we get sick of people posting timewaster threads as well | |||
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"Which would indicate they are interested in us as people, not just the pics we share and titilation from arranging a meet that they never have any intention of turning up to " As you can't see anything on a hidden profile they would be looking at you as I piece of meat a hole nothing more as there is nothing more to go on would be better to make all your pics private but leave your profile up so they could read what you are about | |||
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"OP. Just put a thread up saying you are sick of timewasters. That's basically what you wanted to get across all along. Would have been better than this meeting but hiding our profile nonsence. But then we get sick of people posting timewaster threads as well "Yup | |||
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"Well then you've really wasted you own time by not even doing the most basic of checks. Sounds to me like the guy is genuine with 19 veris. At least he had the decency to let you know that he wasn't able to make it, he could have been a no show. If he's reading this it's unlikely he'd want to meet you at all now. its unlikely that we will want to meet him considering he lives 20 mins walk away but couldnt make it 20 minutes walk? It's bloody Baltic out. He'd freeze his balls off! I'd cancel too
Did it snow in Coventry? If it did I would cancel too.
I checked and it did xThe meet was arranged 5pm, to go ahead 7 pm, snow was already on the ground 3-4 inches at 5
And no doubt turning to ice underneath. Personally I think he was right to cancel under those circumstances he could have slipped and broken a bone at least something would have happend to his bone, rather than nothing lol
I don't understand why you are calling him a time waster to be honest. You were happy for him to put himself at risk for a fuck. He was right to cancel and you are on the forums having a go about it. I would have never expected a man to walk to a meet in this weather conditions. In fact, I would have made him cancel. The fact that you are slagging him off on here says more about you than him. No fuck is special enough for someone to risk their personal safety over.who exactly are we slagging off, if you feel at 40 you are too old to go out in this weather thats up to you, im 53 and would go out cycling safe in this weather, you are only as old as you feel doris
Why don't you go and pick him up?
Very good point you just made here... I had 3 beers, girlfriend has never driven her car or mine in snow, hence we advetised for a meet at ours, didnt realise that part of that deal was for us to arrange his transport and safe arrival?
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