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By *attfsg OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich

Ok I will start by saying a have a huge desire to see my girlfriend with another man. I have fantasised about it many many of times. I am sure she has the same fantasy also but can't be certain.

I feel like she has the same fantasy because almost every time we have sex she will grab my fingers or one of her dildos and start sucking. She also recently bought herself a buttplug, when I asked her why she said she wanted to know what it'd feel like to have two cocks in her at the same time. Three if you include the dildo she sucks. She also watches a lot of mmf porn.

Am I nuts or does it seem like she wants what I want? I'm scared to tell her my fantasy incase I'm completely wrong about a hers.

Any idea on how to approach this? Or try fish it out of her? Any help would be great.

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By *arkside2698Man
over a year ago

luton

Try talking to her. If you don’t ask, you don’t get! If you’re watching MMF porn together why not just casually ask if she’d like to do that some time?

Seriously, swinging is about communication and trust. If you can’t even share fantasies then it might not be for you

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Because someone watches porn or fantasises about something doesn't necessarily mean they want to make it reality. However I think your girlfriend might be trying to open up conversation with you, she seems to be ok with talking about such things.

Ask her, there genuinely is no other way to find out if she's interested.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Often people worry about opening up to the possibility of wanting to try things

Maybe watch the Mmf porn with her and gently bring it up

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By *hatterley64Couple
over a year ago

Hertford

Next time she grabs for the dildo ask her if she wishes it could be a real cock! That’s what Mr used to say to me. And now it usually is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Show her this post..

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire

How about...

"Hey, I'm a member of this site called fab swingers. I was wondering if you'd perhaps like to join on a couples profile with me and look for another man to have a threesome with? How would you feel about that?"

Or is talking to your girlfriend old fashioned?

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

Maybe she is on here looking for meets or has already had a few mmf and is trying to drop hints with you. Ask her.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Ok I will start by saying a have a huge desire to see my girlfriend with another man. I have fantasised about it many many of times. I am sure she has the same fantasy also but can't be certain.

I feel like she has the same fantasy because almost every time we have sex she will grab my fingers or one of her dildos and start sucking. She also recently bought herself a buttplug, when I asked her why she said she wanted to know what it'd feel like to have two cocks in her at the same time. Three if you include the dildo she sucks. She also watches a lot of mmf porn.

Am I nuts or does it seem like she wants what I want? I'm scared to tell her my fantasy incase I'm completely wrong about a hers.

Any idea on how to approach this? Or try fish it out of her? Any help would be great."

Great to see some progress.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a good wedding

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Ok I will start by saying a have a huge desire to see my girlfriend with another man. I have fantasised about it many many of times. I am sure she has the same fantasy also but can't be certain.

I feel like she has the same fantasy because almost every time we have sex she will grab my fingers or one of her dildos and start sucking. She also recently bought herself a buttplug, when I asked her why she said she wanted to know what it'd feel like to have two cocks in her at the same time. Three if you include the dildo she sucks. She also watches a lot of mmf porn.

Am I nuts or does it seem like she wants what I want? I'm scared to tell her my fantasy incase I'm completely wrong about a hers.

Any idea on how to approach this? Or try fish it out of her? Any help would be great."

Fish it out of her..... Ermmm think she has already told you or did you miss the bit when she said she wanted to know what two cocks felt like??? Just tell her 'well we can make that happen'

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