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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Finding it rather difficult to converse with ladies on here.

Any particular things women do or don't like when striking up a conversation or when they look on your profile??

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

How would you approach a lady in a pub?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone had their own style. It's whatever works for you.

Trial and error.

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By *ature studentsCouple
over a year ago

Near Bournemouth Dorset.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like guys who are themselves and speak to me the way they would in normal life.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Think for some, have a wank before you message....

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

A normal conversation suits me! If a first message contains anything sexual I will just ignore (after making a note on their profile)

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Look on the countless profile advice threads...

Also, LUFC in a user name will put most people straight off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately, there is no magic remedy to this. No two women are the same. What will work for one, may not work for another. Apologies if that's not what you want to hear, but that's the long and short of it. Just be yourself, be polite and hopefully someone will bite OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If writing a message to a lady, don’t do the following:

Hi

I like giving oral for hours (don’t get me wrong the thought is nice but think ahead, really are you going to have your head stuck between a ladies thighs for hours?)

How’s you?

Just a few examples of messages I used to get, you are in the forums which is an excellent place to get to know the ladies, find out what they like and don’t like etc.

Geeky x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At our young age just being yourself will prove if you stand out dude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i would say maybe try and fill your profile out a bit...bit more about you, what you like, what you offer..something that shows your personality a bit...but you're polite! which in itself is a rarity!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t talk about sex straight off. Maybe compliment them if they have pictures showing or strike up a conversation over an interest. When I was on as a single woman, jumping straight into sex talk was a major turn off for me.

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By *oubyLoverWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

I think you need to decide who you are and what you’re looking for before carrying on. From your profile it looks like you’re trying g to be all things to all people, result will more likely be you’re nothing to no one. Hope that helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can say anything if they like the look of your pictures.

The last message I had which led to a meet was off a guy and he just said you sound rather awesome what say we get acquainted... I looked at his pictures, gorgeous then asked for his number and had a chat and met him the next day!

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Always read their profile

Tru and relate to something in it of poss and just be friendly .

Miss

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice people

It well definitely be taken on board. Also changed up my profile a bit after some advice.

Let's hope things get better for me and I wish you all the best of luck aswell

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I think you'll find a lot of ladies will look at a profile before they read your message. If they don't find you attractive or you're too far away from them for example at best you'll get a 'thanks but no thanks' kind of message.

So I guess it's best to only try and chat to ladies whose boxes you tick

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"How would you approach a lady in a pub? "

Well going off alot of my messages - oii fancy a fuck luv...here's a pic of my cock/gag on that!

Yeh OP normal conversation or you risk being put in the bit of a prick catagory.

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By *oubyLoverWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire


"How would you approach a lady in a pub?

Well going off alot of my messages - oii fancy a fuck luv...here's a pic of my cock/gag on that!

Yeh OP normal conversation or you risk being put in the bit of a prick catagory."

Wuu2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Help please new to this site and I’m finding most ppl are just not replying even if they’re not interested that’s fine but to not even message bk it’s knocking my confidence abit coz I’ve cum from dating sites where men chatted me up day and night any tips anyone?.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some good tips!I struggle on here but find it a lot easier in a club, maybe its just more natural approaching someone face to face than something which is like email?

Tom x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks tom was supposed to be going to quest tonight but now my partner has to work typical!!??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will only meet guys in parties or clubs

I struggle to find a sensible conversation with a lot of the men on fab but will chat if they are able to form a reasonable message without including how big the penis is and what they want to do with it.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Just talk to us normally, be fun.

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