FabSwingers.com forum: Pictures or personality

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I was wondering what people most go for. My pictures aren't the greatest I know but my personality is better. Surely you have to have a bit of personality over looks.

Thoughts??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality always helps, but attractiveness comes first.

I’m not looking for a husband, I’m looking for a sexy friend

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Personality always helps, but attractiveness comes first.

I’m not looking for a husband, I’m looking for a sexy friend

Ok so as long as they look good they could have little or no personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personality always helps, but attractiveness comes first.

I’m not looking for a husband, I’m looking for a sexy friend

Ok so as long as they look good they could have little or no personality. "

Oh god no, I’ve spoke to a few beautiful guys, who turned out to be complete cock ends. Blocked after a few messages

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By *an Holo-Man
over a year ago

Yorkshire Dales

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality does matter greatly but there has to be a physical attraction too. We couldn't have sex with people that we physically don't fancy.

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By *an Holo-Man
over a year ago

Yorkshire Dales

"Personality does matter greatly but there has to be a physical attraction too. We couldn't have sex with people that we physically don't fancy."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Personality always helps, but attractiveness comes first.

I’m not looking for a husband, I’m looking for a sexy friend

Ok so as long as they look good they could have little or no personality.

Oh god no, I’ve spoke to a few beautiful guys, who turned out to be complete cock ends. Blocked after a few messages "

Well I start chatting to people get on well swap pics after a while still a few messages then arrange to meet and wow would you believe it blocked !!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Personality does matter greatly but there has to be a physical attraction too. We couldn't have sex with people that we physically don't fancy."

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

How can you assess personality from profile OP?

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

"Personality always helps, but attractiveness comes first.

I’m not looking for a husband, I’m looking for a sexy friend

Dicklips help

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

We swing to satisfy our fantasies - we are therefore far more interested in looks than personality, as long as prospective playmates are respectful.

As we play almost entirely in clubs and the sex is casual, personality isn't too important, though it can be a bonus and we have met some friends along the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures 1st

Personality 2nd

Obviously

If you’re not attracted to someone you won’t know their personality

If they’re fit but have an awful personality you’ll move on before any fucking gets near

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personality always helps, but attractiveness comes first.

I’m not looking for a husband, I’m looking for a sexy friend

Dicklips help "

Dick lips? What’s that?

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"Personality always helps, but attractiveness comes first.

I’m not looking for a husband, I’m looking for a sexy friend

Ok so as long as they look good they could have little or no personality. "

She didn't say that so stop putting words into her mouth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personality always helps, but attractiveness comes first.

I’m not looking for a husband, I’m looking for a sexy friend

Ok so as long as they look good they could have little or no personality.

She didn't say that so stop putting words into her mouth.

Thank you! Made out to be a reyt shoe horn wasn’t I?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personality always helps, but attractiveness comes first.

I’m not looking for a husband, I’m looking for a sexy friend

Ok so as long as they look good they could have little or no personality.

Oh god no, I’ve spoke to a few beautiful guys, who turned out to be complete cock ends. Blocked after a few messages

Well I start chatting to people get on well swap pics after a while still a few messages then arrange to meet and wow would you believe it blocked !!!!"

Maybe you said something they didn’t like? Or they changed their minds? There’s no contracts here

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Fab is very visual centric. It really helps if the pictures come across as attractive as a starting point. You can get a hint of someone's personality by how their profiles are written, though it is in the messaging that comes after where you get a feel for how the person may be like.

If you please on both fronts, good odds for an eventual meet

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By *anB451Man
over a year ago

Reading

Both. There's enough people on here to not need to choose one over the other

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"Personality always helps, but attractiveness comes first.

I’m not looking for a husband, I’m looking for a sexy friend

Ok so as long as they look good they could have little or no personality.

She didn't say that so stop putting words into her mouth.

Thank you! Made out to be a reyt shoe horn wasn’t I? "

My pleasure, I think you mean "tried to be made out to be a shoe horn" most people can see what you actually said and meant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I like the face I see then I will chat...if the personality keeps me interested, great! If they are an arse then that is no good to me...a crappy attitude is a massive turn off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personality always helps, but attractiveness comes first.

I’m not looking for a husband, I’m looking for a sexy friend

Ok so as long as they look good they could have little or no personality.

She didn't say that so stop putting words into her mouth.

Thank you! Made out to be a reyt shoe horn wasn’t I?

My pleasure, I think you mean "tried to be made out to be a shoe horn" most people can see what you actually said and meant"

I’m not illiterate, I’m from Barnsley, that’s how we talk haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks are always the first thing that you see and if there good looking it attracts you but sometimes the most beautiful people can become ugly as soon as they open there mouth.

So for me it's looks with a amazing personality.

That's the full package x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On Fab we find it’s easier to start the process with the visual. If I like what I see then hopefully they will have a good personality too. Although it is possible to demonstrate a personality in a profile text or first message. However at a party I might find I fancy someone, I wouldn’t normally go for, on the basis that there is a connection of personalities. It’s easier to judge by personality in person.

Mrs

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"Personality always helps, but attractiveness comes first.

I’m not looking for a husband, I’m looking for a sexy friend

Ok so as long as they look good they could have little or no personality.

She didn't say that so stop putting words into her mouth.

Thank you! Made out to be a reyt shoe horn wasn’t I?

My pleasure, I think you mean "tried to be made out to be a shoe horn" most people can see what you actually said and meant

I’m not illiterate, I’m from Barnsley, that’s how we talk haha "

Are you sure you're from Barnsley you haven't said anything northern yet

Ps what's a shoe horn I've not heard that term other than as a actual shoe horn

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

If I'm going to start chatting with someone I always ask for a face pic early on. Call that shallow if you like but it works both ways.

I'm not looking for a relationship just some nsa with people I find attractive. Although having said that they have to have something between their ears to

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Dicklips help

Dick lips? What’s that?"

Does anyone know?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dicklips help

Dick lips? What’s that?

Does anyone know?"

It’ll be something disgusting

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Dicklips help

Dick lips? What’s that?

Does anyone know?

It’ll be something disgusting

I thought it was a typo and he meant duck! Either way not a nice comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ugh it’s like calling someone’s cock, a vagina holder

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

It's usually used to describe a womans full, lush lips. As in how it would feel to receive oral sex from them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Personality always helps, but attractiveness comes first.

I’m not looking for a husband, I’m looking for a sexy friend

Ok so as long as they look good they could have little or no personality.

She didn't say that so stop putting words into her mouth.

Sorry if offended anyone. Am just asking advice and some help would be appreciated. Was just asking what you meant sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures.

Call me shallow if you like

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

On here... Then the first attraction would be from a photo, but if I found there wasn't a nice personality behind a handsome face then game over.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Pictures.

Call me shallow if you like

No not shallow at all. As i have found out everyone is different and their own individual take to meeting people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the vast majority are attracted visually. After all what draws you in to look at a profile?

Then I read the profile, see if we have any common interests or ideas, if I am within the age I am looking for possibly send a message that is relevant. Only through messaging do you get to know someone's personality.

Occasionally someone may have something on a thread or more likely there status that may cause me to look at their profile. That's probably part of their personality.

A girl I chat to on here once told me that fab for her is fantasy, so when she looks for someone to fulfill her ideas of fab he will be her fantasy figure. Everything lines up, looks, personality, intelligence etc. She is very selective who matches her fantasy. But she does get to fulfill them. I've probably not described it as well as she did to me, but it made perfect sense.

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By *ccasionalfunCouple
over a year ago

hereandthere

We are not looking to marry anyone so looks come first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pictures.

Call me shallow if you like

No not shallow at all. As i have found out everyone is different and their own individual take to meeting people

I start with looks and hope he’s nice when I meet him. If he’s super hot but a bit of a knob I’ll proba still sleep with him but it won’t be a long session.

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Dicklips help

Dick lips? What’s that?

Does anyone know?

It’ll be something disgusting

I thought it was a typo and he meant duck! Either way not a nice comment

Ah ...erm ... it was funny and complimentary in my head .. DSL ..

No offence or misogyny intended

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

"Personality always helps, but attractiveness comes first.

I’m not looking for a husband, I’m looking for a sexy friend

Ok so as long as they look good they could have little or no personality. "

Isn't that a bit of a black or white way of thinking?

If a guy looks great it's all for nothing if he's dull as ditchwater as well.

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

We found a guy the missus really fancied, but as things went on it became obvious he had no personality. He was really dull.

We never bothered meeting because she went off him.

It's worth remembering the brain is a sexual organ

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Pictures first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures are what draws, but if they have the personality range of a old sponge then it's trying....that's if you ever get the chance to put yours across in the first place.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"I was wondering what people most go for. My pictures aren't the greatest I know but my personality is better. Surely you have to have a bit of personality over looks.

Thoughts??"

On here pics first , physical attraction comes first for me as not looking to marry you just a lil naughty fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was wondering what people most go for. My pictures aren't the greatest I know but my personality is better. Surely you have to have a bit of personality over looks.

Thoughts??"
attraction first then personality dictates whether it goes further

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow

"Personality does matter greatly but there has to be a physical attraction too. We couldn't have sex with people that we physically don't fancy."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The question is so much more than an "or" one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always pictures. If I like the look of someone, then we chat to suss the rest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first thing anyone checks is visual. In any walk or way of life.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I can be drawn to either. However, if personality was the first thing to attract me then the pictures I got later have never disappointed me. I'm not saying that won't ever happen, just that it hasn't yet. If pictures attracted me first but the personality wasn't compatible then I have let contact dwindle and moved on.

It would make fab life far easier if I could just pick someone I like the look of and could tolerate temporarily but unfortunately I have to properly like someone to want to bump uglies.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"The first thing anyone checks is visual. In any walk or way of life. "

Not always, mate of mine married a girl who he met by initially exchanging emails purely for work reasons(she worked for a supplier) then the odd chat(still work) this led to joking then ages later a meet etc

She's a hotty and my mates mr average joe, in a night club I doubt she'd have talked to him

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"Pictures.

Call me shallow if you like

No not shallow at all. As i have found out everyone is different and their own individual take to meeting people

I start with looks and hope he’s nice when I meet him. If he’s super hot but a bit of a knob I’ll proba still sleep with him but it won’t be a long session. "

Like your style, me too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was wondering what people most go for. My pictures aren't the greatest I know but my personality is better. Surely you have to have a bit of personality over looks.

Thoughts??"

Personality every time, but on here pics are important too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both. Wouldn't it be nice if the guys on here bed Bo Derek or the girls bed George Clooney. So, best to meet what you find comfortable with. We've found that those who tend to be average to less than average bodies/looks tend to give the best fun in the bedroom.

We like great personalities, then check the body out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Both. Wouldn't it be nice if the guys on here bed Bo Derek or the girls bed George Clooney. So, best to meet what you find comfortable with. We've found that those who tend to be average to less than average bodies/looks tend to give the best fun in the bedroom.

We like great personalities, then check the body out."

Always personality for us, as long as the body isn’t too bad!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both for me to be honest but if I had to compromise one over the other it would be personality. A good natured woman with a gsoh goes a long way in my book.

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By *oblovesyouMan
over a year ago

poole

"Both for me to be honest but if I had to compromise one over the other it would be personality. A good natured woman with a gsoh goes a long way in my book."

this. Same for me. Even if a woman is stunningly beautiful, it ain't happening for me if she has the personality of a house brick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just seen this

Tease my mind not just my body I say and personality as to be right up there on the list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first thing you notice is there pics and if there good looking or not but even the most stunning looking people can become ugly if they have a bad personality x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

attraction for me starts with the mind way before the body. Nothing better when you meet someone you just gel with. A really really gorgeous man is nice to look at sure but if theres nothing below the surface Id be bored

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

Both. Obviously pics are what the initial attraction is then the personality has to be there to make the attraction complete

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By *eviantdeliteWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"Both. There's enough people on here to not need to choose one over the other

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