FabSwingers.com forum: Ladies: no verifications after some time.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Considering the, reported, larger number of single males on the service chasing females, it's understandable - if regrettable - they get fewer meets. Therefore none to few verifications.

What should be made of female profiles with no verifications? Some people presumably choose not to display - this isn't a competition, after all.

Thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps she’s not spotted the vvvwe guy with her ideal body and handsome face that her stunning figure and drop dead looks requires

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be interested if guys would see it as a negative that the woman supposedly hadn't played for some time?

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Op, it depends, but lots of those unverified female accounts will be fake.

The owner of the account gets off on messages and pics from guys and couples.

Be very careful.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

As a single women on this site that can’t meet often, I can easily say that if they aren’t verified within a month, they aren’t worth wasting your time on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Perhaps she’s not spotted the vvvwe guy with her ideal body and handsome face that her stunning figure and drop dead looks requires

Were they to lower their standards, I'd be sorted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Considering the, reported, larger number of single males on the service chasing females, it's understandable - if regrettable - they get fewer meets. Therefore none to few verifications.

What should be made of female profiles with no verifications? Some people presumably choose not to display - this isn't a competition, after all.

Thoughts?"

I dont feel the need to broadcast my sex life to the world

Or display explicit pictures

This wont change anytime soon

Do I care whether people make assumptions

Erm, no

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Op, it depends, but lots of those unverified female accounts will be fake.

The owner of the account gets off on messages and pics from guys and couples.

Be very careful.

I'm too cautious to be taken in. Anyone showing an interest in me would instinctively be treated with a degree of apprehension.

You said the word "fake", which is what I was expecting. Some people are beneath contempt.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Considering the, reported, larger number of single males on the service chasing females, it's understandable - if regrettable - they get fewer meets. Therefore none to few verifications.

What should be made of female profiles with no verifications? Some people presumably choose not to display - this isn't a competition, after all.

Thoughts?

I dont feel the need to broadcast my sex life to the world

Or display explicit pictures

This wont change anytime soon

Do I care whether people make assumptions

Erm, no"

Like I say, some people may not choose to display; it's not a competition.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Perhaps she’s not spotted the vvvwe guy with her ideal body and handsome face that her stunning figure and drop dead looks requires

It's strange how so many of the unverified female accounts are from the most stunning women, and have even put the effort of including face pics...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As a single women on this site that can’t meet often, I can easily say that if they aren’t verified within a month, they aren’t worth wasting your time on "

"Within a month"..I don't know about that, setting a time limit.

Given the size of the field, would you apply a similar limit to a male - or non-single male - profile?

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By *utsidenakedMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

To verify someone you have to be verified yourself, so meeting fellow unverified members we have had meets but remain unverified so its a crap way of testing someone's ability to be fake or not

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Perhaps she’s not spotted the vvvwe guy with her ideal body and handsome face that her stunning figure and drop dead looks requires

It's strange how so many of the unverified female accounts are from the most stunning women, and have even put the effort of including face pics...

Maybe they're shy. Really really shy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd be interested if guys would see it as a negative that the woman supposedly hadn't played for some time?"

Ha brilliant point! I just realised why so many men chase the unverified profiles! Virgins.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP trust your gut. Not your cock.

Unverified female sounds dodgy but she may just not have met yet. Meet verifications don't necessarily always mean 'she' exists.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd be interested if guys would see it as a negative that the woman supposedly hadn't played for some time?

Ha brilliant point! I just realised why so many men chase the unverified profiles! Virgins.

Yeah, I'm a virgin

Pure, wholesome and chaste

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

It's strange how so many of the unverified female accounts are from the most stunning women, and have even put the effort of including face pics...

Maybe they're shy. Really really shy lol"

There'll be dozens of Victoria Secret models laid at night wanking themselves to sleep, thinking 'I've joined fab, put on all my best pics, and after a year still no meets, what else can I do? '.

Probably.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I get a message from a female that has been on site for quite a while and has no green tick then I ignore it. I don't need to read their veris but if they have none then it sets off the alarm bells, for sure!

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"As a single women on this site that can’t meet often, I can easily say that if they aren’t verified within a month, they aren’t worth wasting your time on

"Within a month"..I don't know about that, setting a time limit.

Given the size of the field, would you apply a similar limit to a male - or non-single male - profile?"

6-9 months on average for a single guy

Unless he’s confident enough to go to a club or social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Perhaps she’s not spotted the vvvwe guy with her ideal body and handsome face that her stunning figure and drop dead looks requires

Ah a fantasist then!, pmsl.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Throw her off the site I say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Considering the, reported, larger number of single males on the service chasing females, it's understandable - if regrettable - they get fewer meets. Therefore none to few verifications.

What should be made of female profiles with no verifications? Some people presumably choose not to display - this isn't a competition, after all.

Thoughts?"

I dont care about verification's, to me its about meeting people enjoying them and having fun.

Yes the site gives us tools to use and i have met a few LOL

people use this site how they see fit and u know what, leave them to it, they are happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Throw her off the site I say

Fab should do a site purge of those accounts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd be interested if guys would see it as a negative that the woman supposedly hadn't played for some time?

Ha brilliant point! I just realised why so many men chase the unverified profiles! Virgins.

Yeah, I'm a virgin

Pure, wholesome and chaste"

Me too.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Throw her off the site I say

Fab should do a site purge of those accounts."

Yeah timewasters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

55 veris says you meet plenty lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a single women on this site that can’t meet often, I can easily say that if they aren’t verified within a month, they aren’t worth wasting your time on "

Exactly this

I choose not to display my veries but I still have sign that proves I'm verified ......... a woman that's not verified within a month or so of being on the site probably isn't a woman or is but isn't ever going to meet

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Veris are a useful way of checking somebody's FAB history, what they've got up to, and with who.

They also give a more accurate snapshot of what they're like, usually better than their profile. A good review from a hottie speaks volumes.

We have used veris as a way to finally decide if we want to contact somebody. So veris can work for you or against you. I'm not surprised if some people don't want or don't show veris.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a huge fan of veris and therefore don't read much into them, in fact I never read them, some are just cringe worthy! It's usually another person bigging a total stranger up to get another shag!

I don't display mine, I cannot receive them anyway because of my age filters and thats fine by me. Are some without them fake? Yes, probably. Are some with them fake? Definitely! I always like to make my own decision about an individual on here and not worry about how they like to run their profile. If you think they are dodgy then leave well alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No veris means a fake account.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No veris means a fake account."

I've met a few guys who weren't verified, they certainly weren't fake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No veris means a fake account."

one photo of a woman on a couples profile means couple profile is fake

see where im going with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No veris means a fake account.

I've met a few guys who weren't verified, they certainly weren't fake. "

I think the no veries thing for men is different, women have only got to get in chat on cam show their face, asked to be verified and a list of people will verify her!

Not all verified women are genuine but that can be proved by a phone call or cam chat

#gutinstinct

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No veris means a fake account.

I've met a few guys who weren't verified, they certainly weren't fake.

I think the no veries thing for men is different, women have only got to get in chat on cam show their face, asked to be verified and a list of people will verify her!

Not all verified women are genuine but that can be proved by a phone call or cam chat

#gutinstinct "

Exactly, gut instinct is key to success on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No veris means a fake account.

one photo of a woman on a couples profile means couple profile is fake

see where im going with this

I did read one profile stating a guy had to be prepared to "take it hard" from behind from hubby before the missus would be involved. Maybe even be in the room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No veris means a fake account.

one photo of a woman on a couples profile means couple profile is fake

see where im going with this

I did read one profile stating a guy had to be prepared to "take it hard" from behind from hubby before the missus would be involved. Maybe even be in the room."
and thats to do with the verification thread why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no verifications because no meets since I joined 6 months ago.

Women can meet whoever they want but the more verifications she has the more i'm put off. Not that it matters what I think, no one wants to meet me anyway! lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No veris means a fake account.

one photo of a woman on a couples profile means couple profile is fake

see where im going with this

I did read one profile stating a guy had to be prepared to "take it hard" from behind from hubby before the missus would be involved. Maybe even be in the room. and thats to do with the verification thread why?"

I think he's suggesting it's a fake profile?

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Let’s face it .. not hard to get verified

Photo verification easy peasy

Meet verification .. even a social or pop to a club night

Webcam veri - unless you live in the dark ages even easier

Profiles that show as not verified in some way after a period of time - FAKE !!

And if you aren’t fake then to not get verified to prove you are real and a genuine contributor to Fab WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU DOING ON HERE !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had about 7-8 meets on here but I’ve asked the guys not to write anything. It was nice dates and wanted to keep that to ourselves. It doesn’t mean I’m not genuine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have no verifications because no meets since I joined 6 months ago.

Women can meet whoever they want but the more verifications she has the more i'm put off. Not that it matters what I think, no one wants to meet me anyway! lol!"

Lol im sure if a lady wanted to meet you but needed reassurance that you wasn't an ogre first then it's easy just offer to go in chat on cam, Skype or FaceTime before any meet takes place

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

"Let’s face it .. not hard to get verified

Photo verification easy peasy

Meet verification .. even a social or pop to a club night

Webcam veri - unless you live in the dark ages even easier

Profiles that show as not verified in some way after a period of time - FAKE !!

And if you aren’t fake then to not get verified to prove you are real and a genuine contributor to Fab WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU DOING ON HERE !! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No veris means a fake account.

one photo of a woman on a couples profile means couple profile is fake

see where I'm going with this

Yes, we see where you are going with it, in a completely different subject, lol.

We got fed up with the fakes and pic collectors, so after sending pics and getting no where, we're just prepared to meet and take it from there. So just one photo and strictly no more. That sorts the fakes out at the start.

We also avoid no veri people. If they're genuine, good for them, but we just generalise, class all as fake and avoid. Just our preference.

We all assess and handle risk differently, risk from suffering taste wasters. We just set our bar high.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No veris means a fake account.

one photo of a woman on a couples profile means couple profile is fake

see where I'm going with this

Yes, we see where you are going with it, in a completely different subject, lol.

We also avoid no veri people. If they're genuine, good for them, but we just generalise, class all as fake and avoid. Just our preference.

We all assess and handle risk differently, risk from suffering taste wasters. We just set our bar high."

You've never had more than that one pic on your profile tho, so what we're the pic collectors collecting from you ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No veris means a fake account."

Really????

Has discretion lost all meaning?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No veris means a fake account.

Really????

Has discretion lost all meaning?"

You can still have descretion just hide your veries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No veris means a fake account.

one photo of a woman on a couples profile means couple profile is fake

see where I'm going with this

Yes, we see where you are going with it, in a completely different subject, lol.

We also avoid no veri people. If they're genuine, good for them, but we just generalise, class all as fake and avoid. Just our preference.

We all assess and handle risk differently, risk from suffering taste wasters. We just set our bar high.

You've never had more than that one pic on your profile tho, so what we're the pic collectors collecting from you ?? "

Oh dear. We've had more pics in the past, friend pics and hidden pics. The majority of conversations get nowhere and you obviously send extra pics whilst chatting. Hence we scrapped them all bar one.

But this thread is about ladies with no veris.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No veris means a fake account.

one photo of a woman on a couples profile means couple profile is fake

see where I'm going with this

Yes, we see where you are going with it, in a completely different subject, lol.

We also avoid no veri people. If they're genuine, good for them, but we just generalise, class all as fake and avoid. Just our preference.

We all assess and handle risk differently, risk from suffering taste wasters. We just set our bar high.

You've never had more than that one pic on your profile tho, so what we're the pic collectors collecting from you ??

Oh dear. We've had more pics in the past, friend pics and hidden pics. The majority of conversations get nowhere and you obviously send extra pics whilst chatting. Hence we scrapped them all bar one.

But this thread is about ladies with no veris. "

Sorry was just making an observation that you've never displayed any other pics

Yes it is about genuine ladies with veries

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By *aughtyYorkGentMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"As a single women on this site that can’t meet often, I can easily say that if they aren’t verified within a month, they aren’t worth wasting your time on "

What a sweeping statement that is, and another example of the crazy assumptions I've started to associate with this place. Not everyone joins for the "swinging lifestyle" or frequent meets, and not everyone wants or gives a flying fig about the silly system of verifications.

Most of the women I've meet have just been after a few meets with select people. They may choose not to meet for months or even years after joining, but that doesn't automatically make them any less genuine or "not worth bothering with". That said, the fact is that yes, there are undoubtedly many fake female profiles set up by guys, so it's wise to keep that in mind.

The only difference between unverified women and unverified guys is that the guys are quite often not that way through choice!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No veris means a fake account.

Really????

Has discretion lost all meaning?

You can still have descretion just hide your veries "

This is true.

I maybe could've stated in the original post: no verifications whatsoever. I wasn't referring to verifications which were not displayed.

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By *aughtyYorkGentMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

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By *aughtyYorkGentMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Let’s face it .. not hard to get verified

Photo verification easy peasy

Meet verification .. even a social or pop to a club night

Webcam veri - unless you live in the dark ages even easier

Profiles that show as not verified in some way after a period of time - FAKE !!

And if you aren’t fake then to not get verified to prove you are real and a genuine contributor to Fab WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU DOING ON HERE !! "

Of course all those things are possible - but so is not bothering, and that's even easier and more discreet. As a single guy, I've asked for a couple of veris from meets, because not having them puts me at even more of a disadvantage than I would otherwise be, but it's hardly the same handicap for most women is it? Especially if they're not concerned about having 5 meets a week.

As for your last comment (I'll resist the temptation to shout back), last time I looked at the rules, obtaining a verification for meets isn't compulsory, so I don't understand your point?

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

I choose not to display my verifications or summary, but I have the all-important tick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Let’s face it .. not hard to get verified

Photo verification easy peasy

Meet verification .. even a social or pop to a club night

Webcam veri - unless you live in the dark ages even easier

Profiles that show as not verified in some way after a period of time - FAKE !!

And if you aren’t fake then to not get verified to prove you are real and a genuine contributor to Fab WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU DOING ON HERE !! "

Maybe they just want to perv on the pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's become a paradox, as a single guy who has been on and off here between being very busy at work I have still not had a meet, and the longer it's left without verification would make me look fake (although I'd pick better pics if I was!)

On that note I can't complain if a woman isn't verified. It looks better than a list of reviews anyway. I'm more concerned if messages just get deleted out of hand tbh, I've started to block those who do because I've had them forget and message me later haha

The whole verification thing has mutated from what it was supposed to be, PARTLY proving someone is genuine (not safe though), into a strange shallow credit rating type system of reviews.

Single male, bad ... single male without versus? I must be Satan himself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It took me over a year to be verified. Because I only meet one man at a time, which continues for some months with that one man. My first two 'meets', were non-verified, so couldn't verify me. So many reasons for not being verified I imagine.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I dont just rely on verifications,on my single profile I met unverified men in the past and had no issue.We all had to start somewhere.

Go with your instinct and you won't go far wrong.

Miss

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Let’s face it .. not hard to get verified

Photo verification easy peasy

Meet verification .. even a social or pop to a club night

Webcam veri - unless you live in the dark ages even easier

Profiles that show as not verified in some way after a period of time - FAKE !!

And if you aren’t fake then to not get verified to prove you are real and a genuine contributor to Fab WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU DOING ON HERE !!

As for your last comment (I'll resist the temptation to shout back), last time I looked at the rules, obtaining a verification for meets isn't compulsory, so I don't understand your point?"

Of course it’s not compulsory but considering the amount of fakes that everyone has to deal with if it was compulsory for everyone to get verified by any of those means it would certainly cut the risk down and make it a more pleasant site to use

I was simply stating how easy it is to get verified and that for the most , genuine swingers and Fab users have no issues simply proving they are real

And yes my last sentence is shouty as having been on here 5 years the subject of cutting out the fakes and getting verified is brought up many many times so clearly a bond of contention with users on here

Oh and if rules are important to you then so must be the law and the law is very strict regarding use of the internet to commit fraud whether financially or to impersonate another person

There’s not a week goes by where someone has used my pics to set up accounts on here and other sites - I get messages from users on here telling me. I couldn’t give a shit about the sad sacks of shit doing it just feel for people that get hoodwinked !

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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Personally use my own judgement. Its been wrong but that's life. I read veris because I am a nosey fecker and look out for amusing ones. Take no notice of them in regards to what sort of person I am reading about.

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By *hamboy69Man
over a year ago

huddersfield

If there’s no veris for 6 months without good reason admin should delete the account

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If there’s no veris for 6 months without good reason admin should delete the account "

ridiculous! so you're saying it should be compulsory to show verifications? What bout people who don't want them?

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally use my own judgement. Its been wrong but that's life. I read veris because I am a nosey fecker and look out for amusing ones. Take no notice of them in regards to what sort of person I am reading about."

That’s the same as me, I love reading them but I do cringe at most. I even found a few copy and paste ones on guys I’m friends with, 4 months apart, exactly the same feedback.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If there’s no veris for 6 months without good reason admin should delete the account

ridiculous! so you're saying it should be compulsory to show verifications? What bout people who don't want them?"

I read it as if u have 0 verifications not if u do and don't show them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If there’s no veris for 6 months without good reason admin should delete the account

ridiculous! so you're saying it should be compulsory to show verifications? What bout people who don't want them?

I read it as if u have 0 verifications not if u do and don't show them "

i still don't see why someone should be forced to have verifications they don't want to stay on the site. Also, if there was some deadline to produce them, plenty will just work a lot harder at getting fake ones. Surely if you don't want to meet someone without any verifications, then just pass them by, it's not difficult!

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"If there’s no veris for 6 months without good reason admin should delete the account "

Without good reason? Do we have to provide a Sick Note from the doctor?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If there’s no veris for 6 months without good reason admin should delete the account

Without good reason? Do we have to provide a Sick Note from the doctor?"

exactly! stupid! there's an option in the search to remove people with no verification for those who are so bothered by them, why not just use that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd be interested if guys would see it as a negative that the woman supposedly hadn't played for some time?"

I'm wary of non verified ladies profiles. I don't care if they're hidden or not or even if the summery is visible but to not be verified (even picture verification) after several months/years just sets off alarm bells with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Female with no green tick after 6 months = bloke choking his chicken.

It's no guarantee that a green tick isn't fake. At least it is a start though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Female with no green tick after 6 months = bloke choking his chicken.

It's no guarantee that a green tick isn't fake. At least it is a start though. "

which is fine , so presumably you pass by that profile?..people are all going to have their own criteria, they are all going to be different; i just object to someone saying anyone 'should have ' to do anything they don't want to do. It a ridiculous idea anyway, what happens after the initial verification?...at what point do they have to get another one before they get kicked off? 2 a year? 5 a year?

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"I'd be interested if guys would see it as a negative that the woman supposedly hadn't played for some time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can trust them until they give you their Kik name and direct you to somewhere that wants your money.

Or, asks for pics of your cock to wank over.

Or, invites you to a gang bang where you have to pay in advance by PayPal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some interesting comments here all with different insights.

For people like Scarlet I can see why veris are important given some of the fraud seen first hand, I'm no fan of them but reading some of that it opens your mind up a fair bit

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over a year ago

"If there’s no veris for 6 months without good reason admin should delete the account "

Some people aren't on here to meet for whatever reason, physical diability, married just want to chat etc. There is no requirement for anyone to be verified or meet. Everyone can use the site as they wish without pressure to do something someone else deems a requirement. As others have said, filter out non verified users and let people get on with whatever it is they want to do on here.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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Seeside has no veris after over a year but everyone loves him. No one wants him booted off the site. I am sure we would feel the same about a lady equivalent. Being wary about someone with no veris is one thing. Wanting them booted off is another thing entirely. Some people don't use the site to meet either.

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow

"If there’s no veris for 6 months without good reason admin should delete the account

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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"If there’s no veris for 6 months without good reason admin should delete the account

Yeah filters are there. People should blooming use them.

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By *hamboy69Man
over a year ago

huddersfield

"If there’s no veris for 6 months without good reason admin should delete the account

ridiculous! so you're saying it should be compulsory to show verifications? What bout people who don't want them?

I read it as if u have 0 verifications not if u do and don't show them "

That’s exactly what I meant surely if someone can’t be bothered to attend a social or something similar whereby they actually meet other people twice a year then why bother at all

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over a year ago

"If there’s no veris for 6 months without good reason admin should delete the account

ridiculous! so you're saying it should be compulsory to show verifications? What bout people who don't want them?

I read it as if u have 0 verifications not if u do and don't show them

That’s exactly what I meant surely if someone can’t be bothered to attend a social or something similar whereby they actually meet other people twice a year then why bother at all"

I dont feel the need to broadcast my sex life to the world. Who I meet, and when and how, is my business

Should I collect my mug and family photos and just leave?

Cos I clearly "cant be bothered?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The verification thing wouldn't turn me off as such.. just means you haven't found a match or right meet yet and you shouldn't be judged for that. What I don't get is the amount of pictureless female profiles that read nothing other than "I'm a female looking to meet men women and couples", nothing more nothing less. Doesn't smell right to me ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because they can't be bothered to attend a social" ... fine, so it's not acceptable to "not be bothered" to go to socials, which takes much greater effort than replying messages with a "no thank you" instead of deleting...which is acceptable

Make the rules to suit yourself

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Seeside has no veris after over a year but everyone loves him. No one wants him booted off the site. I am sure we would feel the same about a lady equivalent. Being wary about someone with no veris is one thing. Wanting them booted off is another thing entirely. Some people don't use the site to meet either."

Yes he does it’s just his perogative to not show it and also he is photo verified too

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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Yes he does it’s just his perogative to not show it and also he is photo verified too "

Its over a year old so under the delete after 6 months rule suggested above he would have been gone.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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Also my veri is 5 months old. Ive got a month till i'm gone haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also my veri is 5 months old. Ive got a month till i'm gone haha."

Quick, get to a social, if you can be bothered!!

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By *hamboy69Man
over a year ago

huddersfield

Sorry if anyone was offended but I’ve met lots of genuine peeps at clubs and socials who don’t use this site anymore because of non verified people using it instead of Facebook

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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"Also my veri is 5 months old. Ive got a month till i'm gone haha.

Quick, get to a social, if you can be bothered!!

Even more gutted i missed the manc one now. I would have been saved!

O the inhumanity of it all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry if anyone was offended but I’ve met lots of genuine peeps at clubs and socials who don’t use this site anymore because of non verified people using it instead of Facebook "

I don't see how these people affect how anyone uses the site? With filters as they are to avoid them, what they get up to has zero effect on users who choose to apply them.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Yes he does it’s just his perogative to not show it and also he is photo verified too

Its over a year old so under the delete after 6 months rule suggested above he would have been gone."

I myself never said anything about a 6 month rule I just said that there are 3 ways to be verified , meeting , cam or photo

I’m quite happy with any of them but should have at least one

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over a year ago

"Sorry if anyone was offended but I’ve met lots of genuine peeps at clubs and socials who don’t use this site anymore because of non verified people using it instead of Facebook "

You didnt offend me

I found your comments quite funny

Not at all logical, but funny

I wont be party to the verification thing. It is a nonsense. My sex life is private

Everyone else can tell the world and his wife, who they are having sex with. Thats up to them

I personally find it crass and a little bit vulgar

Guess we are all different

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over a year ago

"Sorry if anyone was offended but I’ve met lots of genuine peeps at clubs and socials who don’t use this site anymore because of non verified people using it instead of Facebook

You didnt offend me

I found your comments quite funny

Not at all logical, but funny

I wont be party to the verification thing. It is a nonsense. My sex life is private

Everyone else can tell the world and his wife, who they are having sex with. Thats up to them

I personally find it crass and a little bit vulgar

Guess we are all different"

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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Yes he does it’s just his perogative to not show it and also he is photo verified too

Its over a year old so under the delete after 6 months rule suggested above he would have been gone.

I myself never said anything about a 6 month rule I just said that there are 3 ways to be verified , meeting , cam or photo

I’m quite happy with any of them but should have at least one "

Yeah that is absolutely fine. Obviously your personal way of doing things. I was actually replying to the delete after 6 months suggestion from someone else.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"If there’s no veris for 6 months without good reason admin should delete the account "

So the pregnant/ill/incapacitated people are forced to meet so their account doesn't get deleted then? Why should they have to give a good reason for not meeting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If there’s no veris for 6 months without good reason admin should delete the account

ridiculous! so you're saying it should be compulsory to show verifications? What bout people who don't want them?"

I didn't realise it was compulsory to meet within a time frame

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over a year ago

"I dont feel the need to broadcast my sex life to the world

Or display explicit pictures

This wont change anytime soon

Do I care whether people make assumptions

Erm, no"

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over a year ago

"If there’s no veris for 6 months without good reason admin should delete the account

ridiculous! so you're saying it should be compulsory to show verifications? What bout people who don't want them?

I read it as if u have 0 verifications not if u do and don't show them

That’s exactly what I meant surely if someone can’t be bothered to attend a social or something similar whereby they actually meet other people twice a year then why bother at all

I dont feel the need to broadcast my sex life to the world. Who I meet, and when and how, is my business

Should I collect my mug and family photos and just leave?

Cos I clearly "cant be bothered?""

You have a verification tick. It's not about you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do so many people here feel the need to demand others behave in a way that suits them or require others to fit their preconceptions of what is acceptable and what is not. Why the need to target how others use fab or when who how often they meet and/or demand that others rack up verifications for public display.

If you don't like how others operate their profiles...its simple don't interact with them instead of demanding they use fab the way you require them to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do so many people here feel the need to demand others behave in a way that suits them or require others to fit their preconceptions of what is acceptable and what is not. Why the need to target how others use fab or when who how often they meet and/or demand that others rack up verifications for public display.

If you don't like how others operate their profiles...its simple don't interact with them instead of demanding they use fab the way you require them to.

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If there’s no veris for 6 months without good reason admin should delete the account

ridiculous! so you're saying it should be compulsory to show verifications? What bout people who don't want them?

I read it as if u have 0 verifications not if u do and don't show them

That’s exactly what I meant surely if someone can’t be bothered to attend a social or something similar whereby they actually meet other people twice a year then why bother at all

I dont feel the need to broadcast my sex life to the world. Who I meet, and when and how, is my business

Should I collect my mug and family photos and just leave?

Cos I clearly "cant be bothered?"

You have a verification tick. It's not about you."

Then I shall stamp my feet and sulk, until it IS about me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Perhaps she’s not spotted the vvvwe guy with her ideal body and handsome face that her stunning figure and drop dead looks requires

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By *hamboy69Man
over a year ago

huddersfield

If you don't like how others operate their profiles...its simple don't interact with them instead of demanding they use fab the way you require them to.

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By *hamboy69Man
over a year ago

huddersfield

If you don't like how others operate their profiles...its simple don't interact with them instead of demanding they use fab the way you require them to.

I don’t think I demanded anything just made a suggestion to clean up the site of fake profiles and timewasters

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

I'm guessing it's not beyond the realms of possibility that some people create separate fake accounts to give themselves verifications as well?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm guessing it's not beyond the realms of possibility that some people create separate fake accounts to give themselves verifications as well?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm guessing it's not beyond the realms of possibility that some people create separate fake accounts to give themselves verifications as well?"

It is doable.

Maybe, just maybe, there are only a handful of people here and the whole thing is an illusion?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verifications mean nothing to me. Go with your gut exchange messages, phone, webcam etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Verifications mean nothing to me. Go with your gut exchange messages, phone, webcam etc. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Considering the, reported, larger number of single males on the service chasing females, it's understandable - if regrettable - they get fewer meets. Therefore none to few verifications.

What should be made of female profiles with no verifications? Some people presumably choose not to display - this isn't a competition, after all.

Thoughts?

I dont feel the need to broadcast my sex life to the world

Or display explicit pictures

This wont change anytime soon

Do I care whether people make assumptions

Erm, no"

exactly this. I am not an Amazon product that needs reviewing.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I haven't met anyone for sex since March - My area is seriously lacking in respectful men I am attracted to.

So that is 9 months for me with no new verifications, I'm still real though whether you like it or not

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"I have no verifications because no meets since I joined 6 months ago.

Women can meet whoever they want but the more verifications she has the more i'm put off. Not that it matters what I think, no one wants to meet me anyway! lol!"

You do realise that this is a swinging site where the whole point is to meet people? So why would lots of veris put you off?

I've got loads but 3/4 are social meets from clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also my veri is 5 months old. Ive got a month till i'm gone haha."

Yeah but it's a bloody good one so you're safe for another 12 months.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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"Also my veri is 5 months old. Ive got a month till i'm gone haha.

Yeah but it's a bloody good one so you're safe for another 12 months.

Haha. It is an awesome veri

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A non verified women who's been on here more than a couple of months is fake, a time waster or not serious about meeting in my opinion.

They shouldn't be deleted but I never approach or positively respond to that type of profile. What's the point?

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over a year ago

"Considering the, reported, larger number of single males on the service chasing females, it's understandable - if regrettable - they get fewer meets. Therefore none to few verifications.

What should be made of female profiles with no verifications? Some people presumably choose not to display - this isn't a competition, after all.

Thoughts?

I dont feel the need to broadcast my sex life to the world

Or display explicit pictures

This wont change anytime soon

Do I care whether people make assumptions

Erm, no

Like I say, some people may not choose to display; it's not a competition."

You don’t need to display verifications to know if someone has been verified it shows a green tick on there profile. If there’s no green tick and they’ve been on here over a year and there profile says there looking for a meet then I would think it’s one of the many fakes.

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By *atrionaSavageWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

As a single lady I go through stages of meeting loads or just going to clubs instead. I often meet the same people more than once so we don't need to verify again. Hence I can go weeks without any veri's then get a few at once.

I display all my veri's as that's my choice to do.

However I've never got round to getting my green tick to prove I'm all woman as I've never needed to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a single lady I go through stages of meeting loads or just going to clubs instead. I often meet the same people more than once so we don't need to verify again. Hence I can go weeks without any veri's then get a few at once.

I display all my veri's as that's my choice to do.

However I've never got round to getting my green tick to prove I'm all woman as I've never needed to.

You've got your tick as you have been verified

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