FabSwingers.com forum: asking for quick cam b4 sending pics and vids

By *hesmiths1990 OP Couple
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Hi every1 just looking for a bit of advice.

Was just talking to a girl on here. She has been verified by 1 person on cam 4 weeks ago and she was askin me to send a pic and vid but u can see my partners face in it doing naughty things to me lol.

I asked for a quick 2 min cam just soo we cud see we r both genuine and then id send wat ever she wanted. bt wen i asked she took alot of offence and blocked us. She said she sudnt hav to jump through hoops to prove who she is.

Was i in the wrong for askin to cam 1st or was she fake. What do you guys think?

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I think you are well within your rights, I can't comment as to what she was thinking or feeling, but I certainly don't feel you have done anything offensive.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

I'd put any money she is fake. All the tell-tale signs are there.

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By *hesmiths1990 OP Couple
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Thanks guys. I thought i was out of line askin to cam 1st bt im glad someone agrees with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bet she's fake

probably a man trying to collect pic n video's

never send video or pics off u unless you know them specially with face on it

yet

u did the right thing

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By *hesmiths1990 OP Couple
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Thanks guys. We r new to all this soo still learnin lol.

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

When you send a picture or video via any form of communication you risk releasing it to the whole of the internet in fact to be honest we always treat as if we are doing just that.

You are entitled to ask for whatever proof you want to that someone is genuine. Even a cam can be faked easily if you don't ask someone to do something specific. If 'she' took offence then clearly it just means 'she's' not for you. I wouldn't let it worry you at all.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Thanks guys. We r new to all this soo still learnin lol."

99.9% of girls aren't interested in receiving a vid. It's a guy.

Keep it on here. They can watch you on cam if that's what you like. No need to send anything.

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By *hesmiths1990 OP Couple
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Realy?? I didnt no u cud fake a cam. We clearly hav alot still to learn lol. Thanks for the advice

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Realy?? I didnt no u cud fake a cam. We clearly hav alot still to learn lol. Thanks for the advice

A guy can get verified on cam, then set up a female profile and verify it on cam.

meet veri's from other well verified people are best.

If you like pics and cam, just do it all on here.

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"Realy?? I didnt no u cud fake a cam. We clearly hav alot still to learn lol. Thanks for the advice

Oh yeah dead easy with a pc.

They play you a recording of a cute girl while they type. They know the recording very well so they know what to type when.

While the whole time they are recording your live feed you are sending them.

If you go on cam always ask the to do something specific like 'can you raise your left hand showing 3 fingers' make it a joke and offer a signal in return.

If anyone refuses then at least you understand you are running your own risks of having any of your videos released on amateur open sites for example.

It's better doing it live in club's and safer

lol

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By *infulSandyCouple
over a year ago

London

"Realy?? I didnt no u cud fake a cam. We clearly hav alot still to learn lol. Thanks for the advice

Very easy to fake a cam, you did nothing wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's definitely a guy, genuine people understand the request for proof!

One cam veri doesn't mean they are real .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, when it comes to sharing naughty stuff you may want to protect yourself and hide your face, there are some crack pots out there who may use it against you. There are lots of apps , video editors etc... that you can download which will help you with privacy issues

Good luck and be careful

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"Thanks guys. We r new to all this soo still learnin lol.

99.9% of girls aren't interested in receiving a vid. It's a guy.

Keep it on here. They can watch you on cam if that's what you like. No need to send anything."

But what percentage of women on here are women?

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Thanks guys. We r new to all this soo still learnin lol.

99.9% of girls aren't interested in receiving a vid. It's a guy.

Keep it on here. They can watch you on cam if that's what you like. No need to send anything.

But what percentage of women on here are women?

There's the million dollar question! I don't know. We would only get into a pic swap with someone who was well meet verified. Beyond that we'll chat on here, (not sex talk) but just say we'll see them at xyz club if they fancy going.

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By *hesmiths1990 OP Couple
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"OP, when it comes to sharing naughty stuff you may want to protect yourself and hide your face, there are some crack pots out there who may use it against you. There are lots of apps , video editors etc... that you can download which will help you with privacy issues

Good luck and be careful

Thanks for the advice

i will start lookin into that now because i wud say it will come in handy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We say yes . Had a experience were the couple seemed very gen ,sent pictures of then together on first message and friends invite Held off on the invite from are end as seemed to good to be true Did the old tin eye and reverse search ,nothing came back . So my single guy alarm bell went off in my head . So suggested cam chat or mobile phone chat for the ladies .thats when the excuses started ,she was at work or they had the little one with them . So it turns out he was using the wife's pictures and she new sweet fa about it

So if they won't chat you have every right to be wary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi every1 just looking for a bit of advice.

Was i in the wrong for askin to cam 1st or was she fake. What do you guys think?"

If you want a quick cam chat before you go any further then stick to your guns.

The wife was meeting single men for a while and always asked for a 5 mins Skype chat before hand, if they didn't want to then no problem, she wouldn't meet them.

It's your profile and your body so manage it how your comfortable with.

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