FabSwingers.com forum: Just watching for now?

By *essie and Joel OP Couple
over a year ago

CARDIFF

Hi guys. We are completely new to the scene and wanted to start off by just watching together. Is there any way to do this somewhere nice and comfortable for newbies where we're under no pressure to join in for now? Just to see how we get on. Baby steps and all... We're based in South Wales.

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By *oredShitlessxxxCouple
over a year ago

luton

"Hi guys. We are completely new to the scene and wanted to start off by just watching together. Is there any way to do this somewhere nice and comfortable for newbies where we're under no pressure to join in for now? Just to see how we get on. Baby steps and all... We're based in South Wales."

No you have to fuck others, its a rule on her

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

You're under absolutely no obligation to do anything you don't want to go a swinging environment. That includes clubs

Most of our club visits have been watching based (as well as putting on a show together

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You could try putting up a meet request saying you just want to watch. It's not everyone's idea of a swinging meet but there are a lot of couples who love to be watched (us included

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By *essie and Joel OP Couple
over a year ago

CARDIFF

Thank you. Great advice. Really do appreciate it

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By *oredShitlessxxxCouple
over a year ago

luton

"Thank you. Great advice. Really do appreciate it

Your welcome

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP clubs are perfect for just watching. You don't have to play if you don't want to, just say no thanks if someone asks. You can also choose to just play with each other either in a private room or where others can watch you.

I often choose not to play at clubs and everyone is very respectful.

I'm not sure how likely you are to find a private meet on fab where the other couple are happy for you to just watch them. Most want soft play as a minimum.

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By *mileandenjoyMan
over a year ago

Chippenham

We are new as well, and although the first club visit was daunting once inside we found everyone friendly. We just chilled, chatted and watched the first time, there was absolutely no pressure. Just read the club reviews and go along.

Good luck

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By *essie and Joel OP Couple
over a year ago

CARDIFF

Thank you!
"We are new as well, and although the first club visit was daunting once inside we found everyone friendly. We just chilled, chatted and watched the first time, there was absolutely no pressure. Just read the club reviews and go along.

Good luck"

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By *essie and Joel OP Couple
over a year ago

CARDIFF

Great advice. Thank you!

"OP clubs are perfect for just watching. You don't have to play if you don't want to, just say no thanks if someone asks. You can also choose to just play with each other either in a private room or where others can watch you.

I often choose not to play at clubs and everyone is very respectful.

I'm not sure how likely you are to find a private meet on fab where the other couple are happy for you to just watch them. Most want soft play as a minimum."

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By *TFSeventyMan
over a year ago

Weybridge

A club is your best bet. No pressure to play and lots going on to see. Some clubs have rooms with windows or one way glass - perfect for viewing pleasure or to be watched if it takes your fancy. Good luck OP x

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By *essie and Joel OP Couple
over a year ago

CARDIFF

Thank you!
"A club is your best bet. No pressure to play and lots going on to see. Some clubs have rooms with windows or one way glass - perfect for viewing pleasure or to be watched if it takes your fancy. Good luck OP x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you! A club is your best bet. No pressure to play and lots going on to see. Some clubs have rooms with windows or one way glass - perfect for viewing pleasure or to be watched if it takes your fancy. Good luck OP x"

Agree with the above about clubs. You can just watch and if the mood takes you find a lockable private room where just the two of you can enjoy yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As above; a club is my advice.

In wales you have Chameleons in Newport.

Personally I think it worth the extra drive and go to Chameleons in Darlaston. You can book one of their guest rooms too very cheaply so you have a private place to retreat to so you can compare notes and check each other are happy.

The guest rooms are basic but comfy and have an ensuite, tea/coffee and a simple breakfast delivered to you in the morning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm with everyone else who's commented a clubs your best bet, watching and having ppl watch is amazing.

The people we've met on clubs are so nice and friendly. Just politely say no thank you or mention your new and only there to watch when your chatting to ppl. We went for the first time a month ago and are returning for the 3rd time on Friday. So he warned they're addictive x

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By *antona7Man
over a year ago

Wigan

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