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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello ladies and couples/knowledgeable gentlemen!

I'm new to the whole scene, how can I improve my profile to attract a bit of attention.

I simply don't want to just upload pictures of my downstairs, that's what privates are for but I can't upload face images due to professional discretion.

Any constructive criticism is welcomed

Thank you in advance

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I've seen much worse profiles, I think yours is pretty good.

What will be going against you is your age. Large numbers of people on here have children your age and feel they can't meet people in that age group.

Don't give up though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've seen much worse profiles, I think yours is pretty good.

What will be going against you is your age. Large numbers of people on here have children your age and feel they can't meet people in that age group.

Don't give up though "

Thank you for your kind words!

That is something I considered, whenever it gets round to arranging a meet people do realise my age and block me. Maybe I should use a header "cougar and cucks" haha

Thanks

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I've seen much worse profiles, I think yours is pretty good.

What will be going against you is your age. Large numbers of people on here have children your age and feel they can't meet people in that age group.

Don't give up though

Thank you for your kind words!

That is something I considered, whenever it gets round to arranging a meet people do realise my age and block me. Maybe I should use a header "cougar and cucks" haha

Thanks

"

Cougar can put people off, there are many threads about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Cougar can put people off, there are many threads about it "

I see, no offense was meant although I was only joking, that would be too forward!

Hopefully I find some lovely experienced ladies and couples in my time on here.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

None taken

Seeing as no one else is joining in I must say you have awesome looking lips

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"None taken

Seeing as no one else is joining in I must say you have awesome looking lips "

Thank you very much

They're plump but not overwhelming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’d probably be better off attending clubs or organised socials where you can get your personality across. I think your age will put people off on Fab. Besides when you say you are ‘new to the scene’ - well Fab isn’t really ‘the scene’.

Mrs

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

Good text but would like to see some more pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You’d probably be better off attending clubs or organised socials where you can get your personality across. I think your age will put people off on Fab. Besides when you say you are ‘new to the scene’ - well Fab isn’t really ‘the scene’.

Mrs"

I see, maybe I shall definitely reconsider my perspective on clubs then I think age is definitely my biggest barrier - perhaps a little bit more research is due on my end. How would you recommend being more involved in other ways?

Thanks

L

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Good text but would like to see some more pics "

I'll be in smart attire tomorrow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You’d probably be better off attending clubs or organised socials where you can get your personality across. I think your age will put people off on Fab. Besides when you say you are ‘new to the scene’ - well Fab isn’t really ‘the scene’.

Mrs

I see, maybe I shall definitely reconsider my perspective on clubs then I think age is definitely my biggest barrier - perhaps a little bit more research is due on my end. How would you recommend being more involved in other ways?

Thanks

L"

I’m sorry I didn’t understand the question

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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I’m sorry I didn’t understand the question "

Apologies, I wasn't very clear - how would you recommend getting involved in the "scene" other than attending clubs? I mean socials are good but I don't feel they're very discreet.

The reason I don't enjoy the idea of attending a club is being young and 'built' the way I am, I worry of being approached by men. "The glare" I get walking down the street is enough haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More pics. Font need face in the shits, but some more body shots would be good. Your text is good, and because of the effort in the profile your age wouldn't instantly put me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I’m sorry I didn’t understand the question

Apologies, I wasn't very clear - how would you recommend getting involved in the "scene" other than attending clubs? I mean socials are good but I don't feel they're very discreet.

The reason I don't enjoy the idea of attending a club is being young and 'built' the way I am, I worry of being approached by men. "The glare" I get walking down the street is enough haha "

I’m sorry, I don’t really know to be quite honest. The swing scene to me is clubs, parties and organised socials. But if you prefer more private arrangements then I guess you would have to use Fab. But that’s not easy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"More pics. Font need face in the shits, but some more body shots would be good. Your text is good, and because of the effort in the profile your age wouldn't instantly put me off. "
that's great news, I'm glad to hear people appreciate the text. I'll add more body shots tomorrow I think.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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I’m sorry I didn’t understand the question

Apologies, I wasn't very clear - how would you recommend getting involved in the "scene" other than attending clubs? I mean socials are good but I don't feel they're very discreet.

The reason I don't enjoy the idea of attending a club is being young and 'built' the way I am, I worry of being approached by men. "The glare" I get walking down the street is enough haha

I’m sorry, I don’t really know to be quite honest. The swing scene to me is clubs, parties and organised socials. But if you prefer more private arrangements then I guess you would have to use Fab. But that’s not easy. "

It appears as much! I may try a club then as fab is very difficult perhaps a masquerade night or something... Thanks for your time and effort in posting by the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More pics. Font need face in the shits, but some more body shots would be good. Your text is good, and because of the effort in the profile your age wouldn't instantly put me off. "

Jesus christ I've just read that back and realised that has to be the worst spelt reply I've ever posted on fab. Bloody auto correct has a mind of it's own at times. Let me try again.

Don't need to put your face in the shots, but some more body pics would be good. Your text is good, and because of the effort in the profile your age wouldn't instantly put me off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"More pics. Font need face in the shits, but some more body shots would be good. Your text is good, and because of the effort in the profile your age wouldn't instantly put me off.

Jesus christ I've just read that back and realised that has to be the worst spelt reply I've ever posted on fab. Bloody auto correct has a mind of it's own at times. Let me try again.

Don't need to put your face in the shots, but some more body pics would be good. Your text is good, and because of the effort in the profile your age wouldn't instantly put me off. "

Haha don't worry I had a feeling that's what you meant I will deffo upload some tomorrow

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

As others have said the text is in the most part good - the only thing I'd possibly change as it made me go was the line "Would also love something local and regular." - It's not awful but kind of dehumanises things a little - perhaps change to "Would also love to find someone locally for regular meets" or words to that effect.

Agree more pics would help too - you've got a good body by the looks of things...flaunt it!!

Clubs/socials and getting more involved in the forums are also good ways of getting to know people.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Let me try again.

Don't need to put your face in the shots, but some more body pics would be good. "

I had tried to work it out but couldn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let me try again.

Don't need to put your face in the shots, but some more body pics would be good.

I had tried to work it out but couldn't "

I normally preview before posting, don't know how I let that gem pass through without noticing beforehand. Ah well

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Let me try again.

Don't need to put your face in the shots, but some more body pics would be good.

I had tried to work it out but couldn't

I normally preview before posting, don't know how I let that gem pass through without noticing beforehand. Ah well "

It is worthy of an award

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Awesome - thank you everyone, I've come to the conclusion that tomorrow I will be adding more body shots to my profile (this is a recurring theme)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Let me try again.

Don't need to put your face in the shots, but some more body pics would be good.

I had tried to work it out but couldn't

I normally preview before posting, don't know how I let that gem pass through without noticing beforehand. Ah well "

Hahaha, couldn't have been so bad if a simple young guy like me can decode it?

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