FabSwingers.com forum: Visiting a swingers club for the first time

By *ornyboy17 OP Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Hi hope people could help me I'm a single guy looking to visit a club but not sure as to which and what's best day to go as I've never been to one before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Check on what club your going to and if it's accepting single guys, that's the 1st thing to do. Then look on the forums and check clubs in your area and read the reviews.

Go to the club and don't expect to play. Use it as a fact finding exercise.

Don't stalk women and couples and if your at the bar chat to the male, explain it's your first time and they might show you around.

But please be respectful at all times.

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By *ornyboy17 OP Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Cheers will do that thanks x

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

Let the staff know it's your first time as well. They should show you the ropes as it where.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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Also I think Saturdays tend to be the day that clubs don't let single chaps in. That isn't all clubs though.

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By *ornyboy17 OP Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Going browse see which is best for me

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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"Going browse see which is best for me "

Hope you enjoy bud. Be respectable and polite.

One more thing I thought of. There are dress up and dress down clubs and wet clubs. Research and decide whuch suits you best.

Good luck.

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By *ornyboy17 OP Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Check on what club your going to and if it's accepting single guys, that's the 1st thing to do. Then look on the forums and check clubs in your area and read the reviews.

Go to the club and don't expect to play. Use it as a fact finding exercise.

Don't stalk women and couples and if your at the bar chat to the male, explain it's your first time and they might show you around.

But please be respectful at all times. "

Great advice - assume you meant chat to the man as well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As the male half of a couple it always astounds me how many guys don’t make any conversation in the bar / lounge areas but as soon as we start to play they appear at the end of the bed playing with themselves !! Go and chat with a couple and make yourself known to them so that when the couple sees you around the play areas they can then give you a nod wink wave to say they are interested.

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"As the male half of a couple it always astounds me how many guys don’t make any conversation in the bar / lounge areas but as soon as we start to play they appear at the end of the bed playing with themselves !! Go and chat with a couple and make yourself known to them so that when the couple sees you around the play areas they can then give you a nod wink wave to say they are interested. "

That has been the same for us, chat in the bar area beforehand and your chance of joining in moves from zero to possibly!

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

Every one asks which is the best night to go,if you knew that buy a lottery ticket it depends who gets in that night,

The first night I went was great the next ten were rubbish just go and don’t have any expectations and you will enjoy it.

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