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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So as a single lady I have always wanted to try a MMF threesome.

I don't have any male friend that would be there for moral support and also to make sure things run smoothly, I would love to do it but not knowing who to do it with and me being actually quite shy sort of stops me being able to do it.

Any advice you can give to help me fulfil this fantasy?

(only post actually answering the question please).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have you ever visited a club? you could possibly have a night at a club and meet folk without taking the plunge then build up a bit of trust ect before you play?

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

Like most guys I fantasise of being in on or near a bed with two women. However, I love the quote from Charlie Sheen who knows a thing or two - “while it’s most guys fantasy, in reality there’s just not enough guy to go around”.

One day perhaps.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Like most guys I fantasise of being in on or near a bed with two women. However, I love the quote from Charlie Sheen who knows a thing or two - “while it’s most guys fantasy, in reality there’s just not enough guy to go around”.

One day perhaps. "

And this helps me how??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"have you ever visited a club? you could possibly have a night at a club and meet folk without taking the plunge then build up a bit of trust ect before you play?"

No, never done a club yet. I have no one to go to a club with and would not have the confidence to go by myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advice is. Get to know a decent guy on here first, there are plenty to choose from, then go from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"have you ever visited a club? you could possibly have a night at a club and meet folk without taking the plunge then build up a bit of trust ect before you play?

No, never done a club yet. I have no one to go to a club with and would not have the confidence to go by myself. "

maybe try to find similarly minded folk local to you on here that would visit with you? we have done this with single females before, once you are through the door its slightly easier

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"My advice is. Get to know a decent guy on here first, there are plenty to choose from, then go from there.

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Decent advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good club to try nearish to you is paradise spa in Bournemouth. It has a fella on the door and a woman the works within. All people there are friendly and you can either watch, relax or join in if you want. No pressure, but relaxing non the less

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was involved in a mff and l knew the guy. We had a good time. I think it helps and calms the nervous when you know one of them better. They should have a good personality(the one you know better). It was my first time to be in a threesome and to go down on a woman. They respected boundaries,l would do it again any day with them. Hope it helps xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was involved in a mff and l knew the guy. We had a good time. I think it helps and calms the nervous when you know one of them better. They should have a good personality(the one you know better). It was my first time to be in a threesome and to go down on a woman. They respected boundaries,l would do it again any day with them. Hope it helps xx"

just wish I had a male friend that I could do it with.. unfortunately all my male friends are strictly friendzoned lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was involved in a mff and l knew the guy. We had a good time. I think it helps and calms the nervous when you know one of them better. They should have a good personality(the one you know better). It was my first time to be in a threesome and to go down on a woman. They respected boundaries,l would do it again any day with them. Hope it helps xx

just wish I had a male friend that I could do it with..

unfortunately all my male friends are strictly

lol. "

Haven’t you got a decent bloke that you chat with and have fun with here and there who feels or you feel is a good guy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe a guy you've already met and trusted. Ask him to find a second guy for you. Most blokes would just at the chance

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was involved in a mff and l knew the guy. We had a good time. I think it helps and calms the nervous when you know one of them better. They should have a good personality(the one you know better). It was my first time to be in a threesome and to go down on a woman. They respected boundaries,l would do it again any day with them. Hope it helps xx

just wish I had a male friend that I could do it with..

unfortunately all my male friends are strictly

lol.

Haven’t you got a decent bloke that you chat with and have fun with here and there who feels or you feel is a good guy?"

I used to but he went and got a GF... lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish we were near each other,then we would team up and have Fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi a swingers club would be an obvious safe choice unless you have any guys you have met on here you feel comfortable with!

I'm not far if fancy getting to know a genuine nice guy! Lolx

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By *ightDiversionMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks


"have you ever visited a club? you could possibly have a night at a club and meet folk without taking the plunge then build up a bit of trust ect before you play?

No, never done a club yet. I have no one to go to a club with and would not have the confidence to go by myself. "

As has been said - a club is an easy place to fulfil the fantasy - and other ones beside ! It does take a lot to go in alone so perhaps if none of the guys you have met are willing to accompany you / help arrange a MFM then perhaps a meet with a couple (where she is straight also) is a start , assuming they may eventually take you to a club.

Alternatively look out for 'socials' they are much less pressured events where you should be able to get to know people locally.

If all else fails - I am happy to take you up to chameleons ....

Alan

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"have you ever visited a club? you could possibly have a night at a club and meet folk without taking the plunge then build up a bit of trust ect before you play?

No, never done a club yet. I have no one to go to a club with and would not have the confidence to go by myself. "

The funny thing about clubs is that they are much easier to be n alone than a vanilla pub or club. It is hard to get the confidence to go in first, but well worth the effort. Have a look at the club section, we would recomend Angels in Melksham as a first club - it is a bit of a drive, but worth the trip as it is a genuine swingers club all the time. Give the owners a call if you are going and they will show you round and introduce you to others. Give it a go, you can always leave and put it down to experience if you don’t like it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wish we were near each other,then we would team up and have Fun "

More than welcome to come and visit one weekend

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"have you ever visited a club? you could possibly have a night at a club and meet folk without taking the plunge then build up a bit of trust ect before you play?

No, never done a club yet. I have no one to go to a club with and would not have the confidence to go by myself.

As has been said - a club is an easy place to fulfil the fantasy - and other ones beside ! It does take a lot to go in alone so perhaps if none of the guys you have met are willing to accompany you / help arrange a MFM then perhaps a meet with a couple (where she is straight also) is a start , assuming they may eventually take you to a club.

Alternatively look out for 'socials' they are much less pressured events where you should be able to get to know people locally.

If all else fails - I am happy to take you up to chameleons ....

Alan

"

Thank you, good advice. Xx

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.


"Wish we were near each other,then we would team up and have Fun

More than welcome to come and visit one weekend "

The good thing about having a wingwoman is that you can keep an eye on the guys to make sure they keep their condoms on etc...

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By *MF4meMan
over a year ago

Templepatrick

See pm from me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi a swingers club would be an obvious safe choice unless you have any guys you have met on here you feel comfortable with!

I'm not far if fancy getting to know a genuine nice guy! Lolx"

Hehe am I allowed to take you up on that offer??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wish we were near each other,then we would team up and have Fun

More than welcome to come and visit one weekend

The good thing about having a wingwoman is that you can keep an eye on the guys to make sure they keep their condoms on etc..."

We need to arrange this!! Hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wish we were near each other,then we would team up and have Fun

More than welcome to come and visit one weekend

The good thing about having a wingwoman is that you can keep an eye on the guys to make sure they keep their condoms on etc...

We need to arrange this!! Hehe "

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By *ilk_TrayMan
over a year ago

South

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By *ilk_TrayMan
over a year ago

South

My advice would be to talk to a guy who is close to you, proximity wise, who is experienced in MFM threesomes.

For some guys, being naked in the presence of other guys can put them off so always better to go with someone who knows what they're doing and can perform.

Some think they can handle that scenario but when the reality hits, some can't stand to attention.

In terms of clubs, SWALKS (Portsmouth) or Liberations (different locations on the south coast) are good places to start if you want the club experience.

Again, finding someone who is willing to attend a club and knows a little about what actually goes on in there would be a bonus but not essential.

Hope that helps. Only talking from experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of great advice and I'll say that a club is a great idea maybe try to get a couple of people socially guys and girls you can go in a group. Even just chatting in a group chat on kik can build up confidence. Then meet somewhere for a drink before you head into club. Walking in with other people helps xxx

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By *shcroft27Man
over a year ago

birmingham

I’ve only ever been involved in one mmf in my life time and It was a first for the lady also but she really enjoyed it so I would say if it’s something you fantasise about and want to try just grow a pair and go do it you only live once and if you enjoy sex I’m sure you’re love it ??

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By *shcroft27Man
over a year ago

birmingham

A wing woman that’s what I need ????

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

I have done many Mmf and always great fun.

I would be up for it but as many have said a club would be the easiest way to do it in a safe way. I am still up for it thou lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if you made a male friend on here first that would be a good start! Then time will be of the essence before you feel comfortable enough with said male, my wife and I have been on here for a few years now and have had a few socials, strictly socials building trust and friendships. Good things come to those who wait and I’m sure you will get the end result your after in the end, good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Choose people you have got to know and who you trust to show respect. Try to relax and enjoy. If you have instigated you can end up feeling like the hostess at your own party - trying to make sure everyone else has a good time and forgetting that you need to as well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Choose people you have got to know and who you trust to show respect. Try to relax and enjoy. If you have instigated you can end up feeling like the hostess at your own party - trying to make sure everyone else has a good time and forgetting that you need to as well."

And knowing what I am like I am sure this would actually happen lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two fit hung professional guys here waiting to fulfill your fantasy...mmf is great fun

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By *ardiffCoupleNJCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd/Rhyfelin

Clubs are much less scary than you might imagine...although I confess we were both terrified on our first visit.

You may find a couples night would be you best bet first time. You will be completely safe. I'm sure once you get chatting you'd find it easy to try out your fantasy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's because you're a southerner, us northerners are far more friendly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve a couple I play with your more then welcome to join us your fit too lol inbox me

Marc x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you had a ffm yet? We are looking forward to our first ffm, so I hope you don’t mind us listening in on the advice you are being given.

L x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just seen your post. I've been in a few for scenarios. The hottest have been when the woman was in charge and a lot of discussion took place on preferences, kink and possible scenarios. We didn't have a tick list but had a clear idea of what everyone liked and might like to do. And it wasn't just about two fems pleasing the guy, everyone was involved at every point, a hot entanglement of bodies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U can definitely take me up on that although I can't message u due to ur preference settings!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A number of people from the Southampton head up to Kestrels. Which if you found a wingwomen would be worth a try.

Sometimes with fantasies it is best to work towards them, as the reality can differ from imagination.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you had a ffm yet? We are looking forward to our first ffm, so I hope you don’t mind us listening in on the advice you are being given.

L x"

I have done a FFM before but the guy was useless and tried to be a director more than a willing participant..

just make sure the man actually gets involved rather than just wanting to watch all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find a guy you match with, arrange couple meets with him, get to know each other and if you feel you can trust him let him help search,, the guys need to get on with each other too. I did this and it worked a treat. As long as you make it clear its your rules if they respect that then you will be in for a nice treat. Hope you get what your looking for - and have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess the obvious question is do you have a regular play partner? You used to, but is there anyone that you have seen or would like to see more than once? Then put the suggestion to them. Or as someone has suggested find a couple that interests you and ask if they have a single male that could join the three of you. More of a mfmf, but it would perhaps give you the opportunity to play with the two guys. Not sure how the other female would feel though.

There are many guys out there with experience, me for one, but I guess it's a trust issue? Perhaps find one first, then introduce a second. Not all males just want 121, some enjoy 3somes too.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Are we talking mmf or mfm?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are we talking mmf or mfm?"

MFM.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm up for arranging if you want to pm me xx

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By *heekyglintMan
over a year ago

chester


"Are we talking mmf or mfm?

MFM. "

You are exactly what I am looking for although I am slightly outside your age range , pm please xx

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"have you ever visited a club? you could possibly have a night at a club and meet folk without taking the plunge then build up a bit of trust ect before you play?

No, never done a club yet. I have no one to go to a club with and would not have the confidence to go by myself. "

Clubs are only scary the first time you go. They are safe, clean and there is no pressure to do anything you don't want to. You can just sit and chat or watch the action if you like. All my threesomes and moresomes have been in a club, and there is never any shortage of willing and decent guys to choose from.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"Are we talking mmf or mfm?"

There's no difference - an MMF can be just straight guys if it's agreed. If there was a difference how would you write a straight MMMMF?

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By *rLucky777Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Concentrate on getting one guy first. Once you have a guy that you like and trust getting a second guy off here will be a piece of cake!

If you’re shy ask your main guy to take the lead and look after you. Then just have fun!

The logistics can be tricky for DP but practice makes perfect! I’ve dp a lady and she absolutely loved it. Squirted everywhere! Horniest session ever!

If you get really stuck. I have a mate that can help out too! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are we talking mmf or mfm?

There's no difference - an MMF can be just straight guys if it's agreed. If there was a difference how would you write a straight MMMMF? "

I know what he meant though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are we talking mmf or mfm?

MFM. "

Have a look for well verified MM couple profiles. There are some guys who specialise in just such scenarios. Some can come across as a bit aggressive but do your homework, read their veris and establish your boundaries. Some are very experienced and will be able to help with confidence in the scenario

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have one planned this morning but one guy has let us down xx

Never had one and was looking forward to it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have one planned this morning but one guy has let us down xx

Never had one and was looking forward to it x"

Nightmare... need a hand lol

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Are we talking mmf or mfm?

MFM. "

Oh, my advice would be "don't bother".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are we talking mmf or mfm?

MFM.

Oh, my advice would be "don't bother"."

Really. Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My advice is. Get to know a decent guy on here first, there are plenty to choose from, then go from there.

"

The best advice

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Are we talking mmf or mfm?

MFM.

Oh, my advice would be "don't bother".

Really. Why?"

Too many lines that can be crossed, too many boundaries that need respecting. Mmf is the way forward imo.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"Are we talking mmf or mfm?

MFM.

Oh, my advice would be "don't bother".

Really. Why?

Too many lines that can be crossed, too many boundaries that need respecting. Mmf is the way forward imo. "

You obviously haven't been in one of my MMFs (or MFMs in your terminology) - everyone has a great time and comes back for more. There aren't any boundaries if the guys are straight, and any decent bi guy respects the others' boundaries without problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are we talking mmf or mfm?

MFM.

Oh, my advice would be "don't bother".

Really. Why?

Too many lines that can be crossed, too many boundaries that need respecting. Mmf is the way forward imo. "

While you may be right from your point of view, I have to disagree. From posting on other threads,I think we both know each others thoughts on certain issues. Mfm is more than possible as it's something I have experience of myself. Thats mfm, mfmf group and gb. I think the boundaries you talk of is common sense. They don't need discussion because it's not going to happen in that situation. I suppose if one of the guys were bi and one wasn't their there may need to be a discussion. But only may. In all of the scenarios I have participated in, I can honestly say it's never been a problem.

I think the problem comes if two guys aren't really into 'swinging', more interested in 121. I think those that are experienced realise it's all about the female and getting what she wants from it. As a guy, a straight guy you have to accept there will be other cocks and hands around in any of the situations I have participated in. That doesn't mean they will be pushed in your face or your cock grabbed hold of by another man. It doesn't happen, not in my experience anyway. I can also say that in a gb situation, some of the guys may have been bi, I don't know, I didn't do the inviting, but with all being there for the female and all attention on her, then it doesn't really matter. Of course I can only speak for myself but in 20 years of experience, mfm can and does work.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Are we talking mmf or mfm?

MFM.

Oh, my advice would be "don't bother".

Really. Why?

Too many lines that can be crossed, too many boundaries that need respecting. Mmf is the way forward imo.

You obviously haven't been in one of my MMFs (or MFMs in your terminology) - everyone has a great time and comes back for more. There aren't any boundaries if the guys are straight, and any decent bi guy respects the others' boundaries without problem."

no!

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

I don't want to quote all that. But i can see where the differences are. You say in an mfm the focus is giving pleasure to the female. Where as in the mmf's I've been involved with the focus was on equal pleasure for all.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"I don't want to quote all that. But i can see where the differences are. You say in an mfm the focus is giving pleasure to the female. Where as in the mmf's I've been involved with the focus was on equal pleasure for all. "

Are you implying that the guys that are fucking me or getting sucked don't find it equally pleasurable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't want to quote all that. But i can see where the differences are. You say in an mfm the focus is giving pleasure to the female. Where as in the mmf's I've been involved with the focus was on equal pleasure for all. "

But by that thinking you are suggesting that two straight guys aren't getting any pleasure? Of course they are. And probably as equally, plus they are getting the pleasure of seeing a girl enjoying herself.

I can see from your point of view, but it's just not something I would consider. Luckily the world is big enough for both of our views and experience.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I don't want to quote all that. But i can see where the differences are. You say in an mfm the focus is giving pleasure to the female. Where as in the mmf's I've been involved with the focus was on equal pleasure for all.

But by that thinking you are suggesting that two straight guys aren't getting any pleasure? Of course they are. And probably as equally, plus they are getting the pleasure of seeing a girl enjoying herself.

I can see from your point of view, but it's just not something I would consider. Luckily the world is big enough for both of our views and experience."

Maybe you enjoy a 3-some, 3 individuals. Where i enjoy 1 group of people enjoying each other's bodies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't want to quote all that. But i can see where the differences are. You say in an mfm the focus is giving pleasure to the female. Where as in the mmf's I've been involved with the focus was on equal pleasure for all.

But by that thinking you are suggesting that two straight guys aren't getting any pleasure? Of course they are. And probably as equally, plus they are getting the pleasure of seeing a girl enjoying herself.

I can see from your point of view, but it's just not something I would consider. Luckily the world is big enough for both of our views and experience.

Maybe you enjoy a 3-some, 3 individuals. Where i enjoy 1 group of people enjoying each other's bodies. "

Thanks, I do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have got to comfortable with all parties or it won't live up to the fantasy.

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By *SD 2000Couple
over a year ago

andover

Phew just recovering from a hot MMF.

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By *SD 2000Couple
over a year ago

andover

Phew just recovering from a hot MMF.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Are we talking mmf or mfm?

MFM.

Oh, my advice would be "don't bother".

Really. Why?

Too many lines that can be crossed, too many boundaries that need respecting. Mmf is the way forward imo.

You obviously haven't been in one of my MMFs (or MFMs in your terminology) - everyone has a great time and comes back for more. There aren't any boundaries if the guys are straight, and any decent bi guy respects the others' boundaries without problem."

I think he is stirring. There is absolutely no issues in straight mmf's, and as you rightly say the 'boundaries' are kind of automatic anyway.

We've done them and loved them.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

OP, a good club that has decent single guys will be a good option. You can get to know them there or chat with other single ladies about who they have found to play well.

I think finding 2 guys through fab, and them both working well together, and turning up, might be a tall order. Unless you have played with both separately first and then arrange a mmf later.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP, a good club that has decent single guys will be a good option. You can get to know them there or chat with other single ladies about who they have found to play well.

I think finding 2 guys through fab, and them both working well together, and turning up, might be a tall order. Unless you have played with both separately first and then arrange a mmf later."

Thank you just need to find someone to come to a club with me now

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"OP, a good club that has decent single guys will be a good option. You can get to know them there or chat with other single ladies about who they have found to play well.

I think finding 2 guys through fab, and them both working well together, and turning up, might be a tall order. Unless you have played with both separately first and then arrange a mmf later.

Thank you just need to find someone to come to a club with me now "

We've been to clubs where single ladies have been there on their own for the first time. Every single one said they were nervous at first, but once inside didn't know why, as it was so easy and relaxed.

You will be swamped with offers to take you, just select carefully. Going alone may well be easier than having the wrong chaperone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP, a good club that has decent single guys will be a good option. You can get to know them there or chat with other single ladies about who they have found to play well.

I think finding 2 guys through fab, and them both working well together, and turning up, might be a tall order. Unless you have played with both separately first and then arrange a mmf later.

Thank you just need to find someone to come to a club with me now

We've been to clubs where single ladies have been there on their own for the first time. Every single one said they were nervous at first, but once inside didn't know why, as it was so easy and relaxed.

You will be swamped with offers to take you, just select carefully. Going alone may well be easier than having the wrong chaperone."

Yeah I will choose wisely

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Find a guy you match with, arrange couple meets with him, get to know each other and if you feel you can trust him let him help search,, the guys need to get on with each other too. I did this and it worked a treat. As long as you make it clear its your rules if they respect that then you will be in for a nice treat. Hope you get what your looking for - and have fun "

Bingo here is the answer.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield


"OP, a good club that has decent single guys will be a good option. You can get to know them there or chat with other single ladies about who they have found to play well.

I think finding 2 guys through fab, and them both working well together, and turning up, might be a tall order. Unless you have played with both separately first and then arrange a mmf later.

Thank you just need to find someone to come to a club with me now

We've been to clubs where single ladies have been there on their own for the first time. Every single one said they were nervous at first, but once inside didn't know why, as it was so easy and relaxed.

You will be swamped with offers to take you, just select carefully. Going alone may well be easier than having the wrong chaperone."

I’ve also heard many stories of woe centred around taking the wrong chaperone to a club. Get to know someone a bit first.

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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey

You have verifications from a few men. How about contacting a couple of them to set up an MMF meet?

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