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By *ighwaylovers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Temptationville

Hi we are new to all this, we realised we liked to get naked in front of people when going into a naked spa on holiday, we are both highly sexed and have fantasies, some we were willing to act on some we aren't. We consider ourselves to be soft swingers as we will never have full sex with others. However my husband loves watching me with a woman or give head to a guy and I would love to watch a woman give him head. We have written our profile based on this to attract the right people but not sure it's what we should write. Any recommendations to how we should write a profile would be much appreciated. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you could have the best or the worst written profile on fab but you still have to look around for profiles that suit the things you are after, your wants and needs are clear enough in a slightly blunt way but theres not much else about you both on there, maybe try and soften it a little?

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By *ighwaylovers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Temptationville

Thank you for the feedback I will rewrite it and add something a little bit more personal

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By *ighwaylovers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Temptationville


"you could have the best or the worst written profile on fab but you still have to look around for profiles that suit the things you are after, your wants and needs are clear enough in a slightly blunt way but theres not much else about you both on there, maybe try and soften it a little? "
hi could you please take another look and let me know what you think also would you suggest different photos? Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think the profile looks good. It's clear about what you are looking for and your boundaries; plus the photos are good x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you could have the best or the worst written profile on fab but you still have to look around for profiles that suit the things you are after, your wants and needs are clear enough in a slightly blunt way but theres not much else about you both on there, maybe try and soften it a little? hi could you please take another look and let me know what you think also would you suggest different photos? Thanks "
that's a bit softer, its up to you guys with the photos, everyone has a different ideal, the only problem with trying to get everything into a profile is how many people don't read them anyway ha ha, we tried all ways last time we were on here, be proactive and spend time searching and messaging too and you should find what suits you both

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By *ighwaylovers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Temptationville

Hi thank you both for the feedback we will have a look around the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi guy's. We are soft swing only aswell. This makes things more limited as most want full swap.

You have made your selves very clear on your profile.

Be patient and don't be pushed to do more if your not comfy.there are some cples that enjoy soft swing.

For watching fun you may find it easier to play with single guys as lots are keen to watch cples and happy to get any extras offered .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need better pics.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

It looks good. I think you'll fulfill more of what you are looking for with club visits to be honest.

That is also the easist way to gradually feel your way and take it nice and steady, with no pressure.

Have fun x

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Your profile says you like giving oral and your husband likes receiving it. Would you receive oral from someone else and your husband give it ? How do you both envisage playing with a bi female?

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By *ighwaylovers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Temptationville


"Your profile says you like giving oral and your husband likes receiving it. Would you receive oral from someone else and your husband give it ? How do you both envisage playing with a bi female?"
No we have our boundaries and we will never cross them. For us it's not about fucking it's about fantasies, he would love to see me play with a woman that doesn't mean he has to get involved but if she felt like giving him oral then that's a bonus for him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confused

Female will give oral but not receive

Male will receive oral but not give

Seems all a bit messy, swinging is about mutual pleasure for all involved it's actually not just about your fantasies and what you both want as a couple

No problem with soft swinging, we have some regular playmates who soft swing btw

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

This is your game, only play it your way, pretty sure you will have plenty of replies and volunteers to receive oral while hubby watches you giving it, without expecting anything else, look us up if you are ever in Dorset looking for some mutual watching fun.

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