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By *cedHoney OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bristol

The best way to get over someone, is to get under someone else?

Does this work for you and why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all depends.

Not going to say it changes everything but I know I was in a relationship previously and when it ended I thought the world was going to end along with it.

After getting under or on top of someone else though, my mindset changed I realised that one person wasn't the be all and end all.

Other people to have fun with and others to talk to and make connections with to move on.

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Worked for me. If he didn't want me there were plenty that did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has certainly helped me in the past.

Angel

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By *cedHoney OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bristol


"Worked for me. If he didn't want me there were plenty that did. "

Oooo good way of thinking about it!

Just wondering if, as much as it's some fun, it kind of helps you forget?

In the past it's been ok in the moment but afterwards you still get pangs of sadness that it wasn't your ex etc...

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By *ticky_vikkiWoman
over a year ago

Herts

It’s all good fun until you find yourself alone and all you want is a cuddle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Worked in the past but only a temporary feeling. Sex doesn't fix everything sadly!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Eventually yes,but not straight away that wouldn't do my soul any good.

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By *cedHoney OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bristol


"It’s all good fun until you find yourself alone and all you want is a cuddle "

Well exactly!

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By *cedHoney OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bristol


"Worked in the past but only a temporary feeling. Sex doesn't fix everything sadly! "

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"Worked for me. If he didn't want me there were plenty that did.

Oooo good way of thinking about it!

Just wondering if, as much as it's some fun, it kind of helps you forget?

In the past it's been ok in the moment but afterwards you still get pangs of sadness that it wasn't your ex etc..."

Probably helped that after a week I didn't want my ex back anyway. I wasn't going to sit and wait to see if he changed his mind, so I just went for it and had two years of complete madness. Sure there were times I was lonely but those moments soon passed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The best way to get over someone, is to get under someone else?

Does this work for you and why?"

Well you look great in your pics. So I'd say it won't be long before your snapped up again and you find the right person that will treat you as you deserve and make you more happy that you have been in a previous relationship. His loss and someone else's gain

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By *oubyLoverWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

It works but it’s just a distraction. Just don’t choose someone who’s not right in the wrong ways for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, doesn't work for me

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?


"The best way to get over someone, is to get under someone else?

Does this work for you and why?"

Wouldn't work for me or my appendage and I'd have to deal with my head afterwards.. Wait for the right one..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has never worked for me.

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By *wisted2000Woman
over a year ago

under my rock cleethorpes

It’s not worked for me so far but I’m still trying

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Usually works for me, hope springs eternal!!

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By *RnMrsFreakCouple
over a year ago

Hull,England

It won't make you forget but it will but things to the back of your mind. If you're looking forward, whats behind you won't interfere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I lost my gf I was a little lost for a while, but being on here makes it all ok again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if dumped the feeling of been wanted off someone else who fancy makes the bad situation feel better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The best way to get over someone, is to get under someone else?

Does this work for you and why?"

id like to say yes but no doesnt always work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It works but it’s just a distraction. Just don’t choose someone who’s not right in the wrong ways for you. "

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found that it helps replace good memories of the old with good memories of the new.

EspecI ally if they are mostly sex memories.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The best way to get over someone, is to get under someone else?

Does this work for you and why?"

spooning works as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have to say if it's someone who you really connected with you will never get over them....

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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago

coventry..ish


"The best way to get over someone, is to get under someone else?

Does this work for you and why?"

Only one way to find out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I not sure it's the best way but it's always a good way. X

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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago

coventry..ish


"I not sure it's the best way but it's always a good way. X"

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