FabSwingers.com forum: Appearances

By *kdnWelsh OP Couple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

Does the size of a person or couple put you off? Is that the first thing you see

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Size as in weight? Doesn't bother me in the slightest as long as they have an attractive face (to me) and a decent personality

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By *kdnWelsh OP Couple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

Thanks for replying. Gained a lil weight and it's knocked my confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for replying. Gained a lil weight and it's knocked my confidence "

Ah don't let a little weight knock your confidence, nothing wrong with a little something to hold on to, besides me personally I'm not that into sticks, I like a little meat on the bones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shapes and sizes don't really bother me, I care much more about face and personality

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By *cjacoupleCouple
over a year ago

wakefield

Same here we've both put a few pounds on x x x weight isnt the be all and end all. But it help just like pretty faces. confidence. Nice bum;)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does to me.

I don't find big men attractive in the slightest but I do prefer my women with a bit of meat on them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people will be bothered,some won't be. Ignore those who are bothered and have fun with those who aren't bothered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for replying. Gained a lil weight and it's knocked my confidence "

Just watch what you eat and do some exercise you will be back to yourself in no time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people will be bothered,some won't be. Ignore those who are bothered and have fun with those who aren't bothered."

Just make sure you have up to date photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is what I worry about also not just because i have excess weight, mainly around my stomach area but also because of my many stretch marks which I know couldnt be helped.

Me personally it wouldnt bother me so long as the personality was there and we got along. L x

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By *hatty GuyMan
over a year ago

The Borough of St Peter

I'm not particularly attracted to skinny women but variety is the spice of life as they say! We mostly spend more time stressing about certain aspects of our appearance and other people couldn't care less, as long as you can work what u got ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More about personality with me. Friendly and easy to talk to always makes the best meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It does to me.

I don't find big men attractive in the slightest but I do prefer my women with a bit of meat on them."

6ft plus must be small for you then love!

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not particularly attracted to skinny women but variety is the spice of life as they say! We mostly spend more time stressing about certain aspects of our appearance and other people couldn't care less, as long as you can work what u got ??"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"More about personality with me. Friendly and easy to talk to always makes the best meet."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is what I worry about also not just because i have excess weight, mainly around my stomach area but also because of my many stretch marks which I know couldnt be helped.

Me personally it wouldnt bother me so long as the personality was there and we got along. L x "

You shouldn't worry love were all here to have fun sexual pleasure just enjoy yourself no bodys perfect and even if they were for a while! Its doesn't last so live love and don't worry give it a try have plenty of fun and be happy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people will be bothered,some won't be. Ignore those who are bothered and have fun with those who aren't bothered.

Just make sure you have up to date photos "

Some people are photogenic others a hotter in the flesh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It does to me.

I don't find big men attractive in the slightest but I do prefer my women with a bit of meat on them.

6ft plus must be small for you then love!

Lol

Slight difference between big and tall

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By *adja_lazloCouple
over a year ago

Solihull

"Does the size of a person or couple put you off? Is that the first thing you see "

dont bother us at all. First thing you see is personality in our eyes

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By *om Bert2020Man
over a year ago

Jersey / Swansea

For me size is not important, it's about the persons mind and how we get on.

No matter the size dress well, look well be happy, enjoy life.

If people are worried about you size they are not worth knowing.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Yes it can.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Thanks for replying. Gained a lil weight and it's knocked my confidence

Ah don't let a little weight knock your confidence, nothing wrong with a little something to hold on to, besides me personally I'm not that into sticks, I like a little meat on the bones

I'm not into fat men I prefer a little less fat on the bones

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Yes. Not neccesarily put me off.. more I wont find attractive.. but then "big" is a relative word

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

If big means doesn't carry it well then no sorry. As the wise man said above me "big" is a relative word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would not know what to do with a skinny woman

So that means I prefer curves all round?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a preference for toned body types but curves are fantastic aswell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loves curves on a woman ??

I'm carrying a few excess pounds so can't complain about anyone else !!!!!

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By *r C Miss CCouple
over a year ago

llanelli

We love all shapes and sizes, but there does have to be some attraction for any thing to happen.

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By *ngel clawsWoman
over a year ago

Hull

A lovely smile and personality does it for me every time, size is irrelevant

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

Summit to grab hold of goes down well....well never had any complaints! Unless they are doing it behind my back! Fkers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for replying. Gained a lil weight and it's knocked my confidence "

Hun you look fab x

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

It's the connection for me, something you feel almost instantly.

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

We don't tend to be sexualy attracted to people who have body shapes obviously larger than our own. BBW etc.. But there are always exceptions if it's carried well.

Just having a few extra pounds wouldn't put us off.

We're not 'gym fit' in terms of low body fat and toned muscles but we try and keep ourselves in shape as that's what we personally find works for us and is what we look for. That said, we'll happily chat and hang out with anyone regardless, it's just unlikely to go any further.

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By *ungmagic10Man
over a year ago

Northampton

No, whether its weight, race or religion I don't discriminate, I like what I like.

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By *RnMrsFreakCouple
over a year ago

Hull,England

What irks us is double standard here in the way people describe size. WHY is it wrong to be slim? Almost all the posts above refer to slim people as 'skinny' or 'stick' or some other negative descriptor. Yet if someone was to describe a large person as fat, flabby, obese or one of the other negatives it would be pounced upon by all and sundry with a torch and pitchfork style mobbing.

Is it because the majority of people now are overweight and don't like themselves in the mirror so they have to spite those that have the body they're supposed have? If it's not that then why the animosity?

Strange it is that you never see slim people making public derogative remarks about those with 'a few extra pounds'

But it seems acceptable the other way around.

To answer the OP, no it's not an issue for us

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"What irks us is double standard here in the way people describe size. WHY is it wrong to be slim? Almost all the posts above refer to slim people as 'skinny' or 'stick' or some other negative descriptor. Yet if someone was to describe a large person as fat, flabby, obese or one of the other negatives it would be pounced upon by all and sundry with a torch and pitchfork style mobbing.

Strange it is that you never see slim people making public derogative remarks about those with 'a few extra pounds'

But it seems acceptable the other way around.

To answer the OP, no it's not an issue for us"

^^^ I agree with this, I hate the word skinny, I am slim, not skinny by any means, I really don't know why derogatory terms are always used to describe my build, I would love to know why though

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I would not know what to do with a skinny woman

So that means I prefer curves all round?"

Really? You wouldn't know how to interact with a slim female? You speak as if we're a different species

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By *RnMrsFreakCouple
over a year ago

Hull,England

Strange it is that you never see slim people making public derogative remarks about those with 'a few extra pounds'

But it seems acceptable the other way around.

To answer the OP, no it's not an issue for us

^^^ I agree with this, I hate the word skinny, I am slim, not skinny by any means, I really don't know why derogatory terms are always used to describe my build, I would love to know why though

We're gonna be brave here, it's perhaps jealousy.

If anyone would like to give an alternative reason then feel free to enlighten us.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Strange it is that you never see slim people making public derogative remarks about those with 'a few extra pounds'

But it seems acceptable the other way around.

To answer the OP, no it's not an issue for us

^^^ I agree with this, I hate the word skinny, I am slim, not skinny by any means, I really don't know why derogatory terms are always used to describe my build, I would love to know why though

We're gonna be brave here, it's perhaps jealousy.

If anyone would like to give an alternative reason then feel free to enlighten us."

I'm personally not so sure, as a lot of men use the same derogatory terms as well, can some of the men explain why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality and confidence are so sexy in my opinion.

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