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"Why the 50 cutoff that so many specify. Not all of us have a beer belly and balding....lol.. Come on ladies be fair...U are stating an age cut off because a vision of a50 yr old with beer gut and no hair... " Unless you happen to appreciate bigger, bald men, in which case you are setting a limit you've decided upon. I'm guessing you'd be happy with a limit of 52....til you reach that age? | |||
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"Why the 50 cutoff that so many specify. Not all of us have a beer belly and balding....lol.. Come on ladies be fair...U are stating an age cut off because a vision of a50 yr old with beer gut and no hair... " Got a tad swelling around the tummy. Oh hi I’m. | |||
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"Choosing not to meet men over 50 isn't being unfair. Nobody has to do anything or meet anyone they don't want to on fab." I certainly wasn't stomping my feet and saying it unfair... I was curious as to the rationale. After all in a club we don't walk around with an age badge on. Just saying by putting an arbitrary cutoff people could miss out on meeting folks they might really connect with. | |||
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"Why the 50 cutoff that so many specify. Not all of us have a beer belly and balding....lol.. Come on ladies be fair...U are stating an age cut off because a vision of a50 yr old with beer gut and no hair... " Maybe the same reason my cut off point is 60 . And I'm sure any lady over 60 is not bald or has a beer gut | |||
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"Choosing not to meet men over 50 isn't being unfair. Nobody has to do anything or meet anyone they don't want to on fab. I certainly wasn't stomping my feet and saying it unfair... I was curious as to the rationale. After all in a club we don't walk around with an age badge on. Just saying by putting an arbitrary cutoff people could miss out on meeting folks they might really connect with. " Your comment "come on ladies be fair" implied to me that you do think its unfair. We put a cut off at the upper and lower age end, we might miss out but its a risk we're prepared to take. At 60 and 61 we're out of loads of people's age range, we concentrate on the profiles we are compatible with. | |||
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"Why the 50 cutoff that so many specify. Not all of us have a beer belly and balding....lol.. Come on ladies be fair...U are stating an age cut off because a vision of a50 yr old with beer gut and no hair... " Having a preference now is being unfair | |||
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"U are stating an age cut off because a vision of a50 yr old with beer gut and no hair... " Really, you know that's why I have a cut off age? Must be so cool to know everything about everyone I'd ignore you for the text speak and massive assumptions before age | |||
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"U are stating an age cut off because a vision of a50 yr old with beer gut and no hair... Really, you know that's why I have a cut off age? Must be so cool to know everything about everyone I'd ignore you for the text speak and massive assumptions before age " I have a gin gut and no hair . does that make me different ? | |||
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"U are stating an age cut off because a vision of a50 yr old with beer gut and no hair... Really, you know that's why I have a cut off age? Must be so cool to know everything about everyone I'd ignore you for the text speak and massive assumptions before age I have a gin gut and no hair . does that make me different ? " You know I want to meet you | |||
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"wait while you get to 56 . most stop at 55 . " I laugh in the face of your 56 and wave at you from the dizzy heights of 61 | |||
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"wait while you get to 56 . most stop at 55 . I laugh in the face of your 56 and wave at you from the dizzy heights of 61 " You look like you've still got a cracking body though. So why should age matter if there's an attraction? | |||
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"wait while you get to 56 . most stop at 55 . I laugh in the face of your 56 and wave at you from the dizzy heights of 61 You look like you've still got a cracking body though. So why should age matter if there's an attraction?" Aww thanks | |||
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"Why the 50 cutoff that so many specify. Not all of us have a beer belly and balding....lol.. Come on ladies be fair...U are stating an age cut off because a vision of a50 yr old with beer gut and no hair... " You'd really meet a woman of 18 or 99? | |||
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"U are stating an age cut off because a vision of a50 yr old with beer gut and no hair... I'd ignore you for the text speak and massive assumptions before age " What she said V x | |||
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"wait while you get to 56 . most stop at 55 . I laugh in the face of your 56 and wave at you from the dizzy heights of 61 You look like you've still got a cracking body though. So why should age matter if there's an attraction?" Thanks. I agree to an extent. However looks are important to me in casual encounters and I prefer a mature face and body so I'd be unlikely to meet under about 38. | |||
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"Why the 50 cutoff that so many specify. Not all of us have a beer belly and balding....lol.. Come on ladies be fair...U are stating an age cut off because a vision of a50 yr old with beer gut and no hair... Maybe the same reason my cut off point is 60 . And I'm sure any lady over 60 is not bald or has a beer gut " Just looked! Oops! | |||
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"55 and going strong here " ..a re you a Russian Weight Lifter | |||
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"Choosing not to meet men over 50 isn't being unfair. Nobody has to do anything or meet anyone they don't want to on fab." This | |||
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"We set our age range based upon those that we are most likely to connect with on a level other than sexual, not because we believe all over 50's are fat and balding. It did used to be higher but we knocked down given the amount some lie about their age. We wouldn't ask a couple in a club how old they were, that would come down simply to mutual attraction and how well we connect. Just on fab we need some degree of selectivity. I do in fact a number of older men, unfortunately they are celebrities and I've not managed to find them on Fab. So Philip Glenister, Suggs and Sean Pertwee if you're here; hi Ginger" It did used to be higher but we knocked down given the amount some lie about their age. I totally agree with this point, it's exactly why I lowered my age range. | |||
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"Why the 50 cutoff that so many specify. Not all of us have a beer belly and balding....lol.. Come on ladies be fair...U are stating an age cut off because a vision of a50 yr old with beer gut and no hair... You'd really meet a woman of 18 or 99?" what happens when they get to 100? | |||
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"when we're in a club, age never comes into it. if we all fancy each other then let the party begin. " Well said - thats us club fun | |||
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"Why the 50 cutoff that so many specify. Not all of us have a beer belly and balding....lol.. Come on ladies be fair...U are stating an age cut off because a vision of a50 yr old with beer gut and no hair... You'd really meet a woman of 18 or 99?what happens when they get to 100? " Keep my age open. Have met some wonderful people intheir 60's off here, who I didn't expect to get on with. But we clicked. So u never know... | |||
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"Why the 50 cutoff that so many specify. Not all of us have a beer belly and balding....lol.. Come on ladies be fair...U are stating an age cut off because a vision of a50 yr old with beer gut and no hair... " Actively seek 50 plus | |||
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" trust me some 50 plus guys could put much younger guys to shame sex wise" I very much agree with that miss Venus! | |||
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"I would love to find a playmate my own age but not having any luck on here, too many youngsters lol " We are not really a match but I cannot be described as a youngster !! | |||
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" trust me some 50 plus guys could put much younger guys to shame sex wise I very much agree with that miss Venus!" | |||
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"58 Is the new 40,but maybe I'm biased " | |||
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"Why the 50 cutoff that so many specify. Not all of us have a beer belly and balding....lol.. Come on ladies be fair...U are stating an age cut off because a vision of a50 yr old with beer gut and no hair... You'd really meet a woman of 18 or 99?what happens when they get to 100? " Consigned to the bargain basement! | |||
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"Why the 50 cutoff that so many specify. Not all of us have a beer belly and balding....lol.. Come on ladies be fair...U are stating an age cut off because a vision of a50 yr old with beer gut and no hair... You'd really meet a woman of 18 or 99?what happens when they get to 100? Consigned to the bargain basement! " Hardly..... | |||
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"Why the 50 cutoff that so many specify. Not all of us have a beer belly and balding....lol.. Come on ladies be fair...U are stating an age cut off because a vision of a50 yr old with beer gut and no hair... You'd really meet a woman of 18 or 99?what happens when they get to 100? Consigned to the bargain basement! Hardly....." More than likely lieing about age.....no on fabs ...NEVER | |||
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"My OH is 48, I am 34, the age difference sometimes gets to us. Our cut off age is 52 for others if both sex. We've had some couples who won't play with us because I am too young for them and vise versa with them being too old for me. Until u meet someone in person you cannot gauge how you will feel. The cut off.....t'is just guidelines. Argh! Dreamcatcher Xx " We have the same issues but have managed meets at both ends of our age range. They are few though.. S | |||
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"My OH is 48, I am 34, the age difference sometimes gets to us. Our cut off age is 52 for others if both sex. We've had some couples who won't play with us because I am too young for them and vise versa with them being too old for me. Until u meet someone in person you cannot gauge how you will feel. The cut off.....t'is just guidelines. Argh! Dreamcatcher Xx We have the same issues but have managed meets at both ends of our age range. They are few though.. S" Exactly. It's all about chemistry. | |||
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"Can over 50 men go all night and morning sex? " Hell yeah! | |||
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"I,m going to have to let my FWB go next year when he turns 50......he's not fat or bald though...." Ohh no give him a chance... | |||
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"Can over 50 men go all night and morning sex? " I would say with you yes!! | |||
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"op would you seriously meet someone at 99?" If they were lying about age..just kept age range as default...might adjust.. | |||
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"we are over 50 , anyone? ????????" Yes | |||
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"Can over 50 men go all night and morning sex? " Some can yes. | |||
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"Can over 50 men go all night and morning sex? Some can yes. " | |||
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"Why the 50 cutoff that so many specify. Not all of us have a beer belly and balding....lol.. Come on ladies be fair...U are stating an age cut off because a vision of a50 yr old with beer gut and no hair... " What's wrong with balding? | |||
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"Can over 50 men go all night and morning sex? " Hopefully not because I can’t either lol | |||
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"Why the 50 cutoff that so many specify. Not all of us have a beer belly and balding....lol.. Come on ladies be fair...U are stating an age cut off because a vision of a50 yr old with beer gut and no hair... What's wrong with balding? " Not being peladophobic....just a stereotype.. | |||
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"Can over 50 men go all night and morning sex? Hopefully not because I can’t either lol" Lol | |||
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"we are over 50 , anyone? ???????? Yes " Sorry Your too young ha ha xxxxxxxxxx | |||
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"we are over 50 , anyone? ???????? Yes Sorry Your too young ha ha xxxxxxxxxx" Isn’t it always the way - we won’t tell if you don’t!! | |||
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"Why the 50 cutoff that so many specify. Not all of us have a beer belly and balding....lol.. Come on ladies be fair...U are stating an age cut off because a vision of a50 yr old with beer gut and no hair... Maybe the same reason my cut off point is 60 . And I'm sure any lady over 60 is not bald or has a beer gut " I do! | |||
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"Can over 50 men go all night and morning sex? " I'm 30 and I could do that with you gorgeous | |||
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"We've been with a 60 and 61 year old couple. For a 61 year old, she had a much better body than most much younger and a great fuck." exactly my point... | |||
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"Can over 50 men go all night and morning sex? " Mine can! And it's bloody knackering! | |||
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"we are over 50 , anyone? ???????? Yes Sorry Your too young ha ha xxxxxxxxxx Isn’t it always the way - we won’t tell if you don’t!! " Go on then xxx | |||
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"I,m going to have to let my FWB go next year when he turns 50......he's not fat or bald though...." | |||
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"Why the 50 cutoff that so many specify. Not all of us have a beer belly and balding....lol.. Come on ladies be fair...U are stating an age cut off because a vision of a50 yr old with beer gut and no hair... " For us its more about what she wants as shes only 32, her dad is in his mid 50's, this plays on her mind. Although there is one couple who we have spoken to and he is 52 but he has and extremely good body he looks mid 20's body wise (not joking), hopefully meeting up with them soon. As we get older so will our preferences. | |||
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"As an older gent, I find clubs a much better way to meet new friends....I have been told I don’t look, act or behave my 58 years. Here on Fab when you are truthful about your age, your personality and are your demeaner is very difficult to assess in a profile. " Totally agree | |||
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"As an older gent, I find clubs a much better way to meet new friends....I have been told I don’t look, act or behave my 58 years. Here on Fab when you are truthful about your age, your personality and are your demeaner is very difficult to assess in a profile. Totally agree" Thank you | |||
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"The sense of entitlement displayed never ceases to amaze me! Some act like this is a free sexual dispensary and the women are here purely for their delight, legs akimbo. Get over yourselves! So, some people have the temerity to have a preference that excludes you...boo hoo...get over yourselves! I tire of stating this, but it's not getting through: we will NEVER have universal appeal. If people concentrated on those seeking their age/height/sexual orientation etc instead of those NOT seeking them we'd be spared the daily glut of these entitled threads. Right...I'm off to drool over the young, fit as fuck actors in Sparticus!" | |||
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"The sense of entitlement displayed never ceases to amaze me! Some act like this is a free sexual dispensary and the women are here purely for their delight, legs akimbo. Get over yourselves! So, some people have the temerity to have a preference that excludes you...boo hoo...get over yourselves! I tire of stating this, but it's not getting through: we will NEVER have universal appeal. If people concentrated on those seeking their age/height/sexual orientation etc instead of those NOT seeking them we'd be spared the daily glut of these entitled threads. Right...I'm off to drool over the young, fit as fuck actors in Sparticus! " | |||
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"Already struggle to keep up with messages from people my own age. Got to draw a line somewhere x" Well if u set preference 50 to 60 would have less messages...simples.. | |||
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"58 Is the new 40,but maybe I'm biased " No beer belly there!! | |||
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"58 Is the new 40,but maybe I'm biased No beer belly there!!" | |||
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"58 Is the new 40,but maybe I'm biased No beer belly there!! " | |||
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"Time for this old fart to go to bed and build my strength up " Don't forget your Horlicks S | |||
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"Time for this old fart to go to bed and build my strength up Don't forget your Horlicks S" I do like those | |||
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"Time for this old fart to go to bed and build my strength up Don't forget your Horlicks S I do like those " hmmm | |||
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"Time for this old fart to go to bed and build my strength up Don't forget your Horlicks S I do like those hmmm" | |||
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"Already struggle to keep up with messages from people my own age. Got to draw a line somewhere x Well if u set preference 50 to 60 would have less messages...simples.. " Think the age range I have just now works really well for me, but I'll keep it in mind though | |||
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"i,m 50+ and still win racers no beer belly here" But you say your 46 | |||
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"i,m 50+ and still win racers no beer belly here But you say your 46 " I'm so tempted to press that report button,he's confessed right there in black and white. How spiteful am I feeling this morning... | |||
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"i,m 50+ and still win racers no beer belly here But you say your 46 I'm so tempted to press that report button,he's confessed right there in black and white. How spiteful am I feeling this morning... " | |||
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"Oh well I'll be buggered next year when I turn 50 lol" Yep all stops at 50.. | |||
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"Oh well I'll be buggered next year when I turn 50 lol Yep all stops at 50.. " I'll get ready to leave ungracefully lol | |||
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"Oh well I'll be buggered next year when I turn 50 lol Yep all stops at 50.. I'll get ready to leave ungracefully lol" Best way to take it....go down kicking and screaming | |||
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"We are 50 plus. For some reason we seem to get offers from young cples. Some as young as 25. Obviously We are very flattered but not sure what it is we have that young people want. " Take a look at your fabulous pics and you will see | |||
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"Why the 50 cutoff that so many specify. Not all of us have a beer belly and balding....lol.. Come on ladies be fair...U are stating an age cut off because a vision of a50 yr old with beer gut and no hair... " I'm 51 and proud of it! | |||
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"Would love to meet a 50+ guy who's bald with a tummy " Based on your photos I'm sure you're in high demand. If i was closer... mmmmmmm xxx | |||
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"Why the 50 cutoff that so many specify. Not all of us have a beer belly and balding....lol.. Come on ladies be fair...U are stating an age cut off because a vision of a50 yr old with beer gut and no hair... " There are plenty of 50+ single ladies and couples on here and I have never had a problem meeting and playing with people around my own age at clubs | |||
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