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By *ptiguy OP   Man
over a year ago

Bournemouth

I find this a confusing topic with conflicting advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

do ur research on the many web sites about sexual health , oral sex carries risks of STIs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And if your bum is in the air as you’re going down you run other risks too

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It's safer than unprotected vagina or anal sex but still carries risks. I can't give you percentages or probabilities though.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

You are more likely to die in a car crash on your way to the blow job.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people are dirty...

They have warts and red eyes!

(Don't Deleat my posts)

...don't spread misinformation about stds

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Some people are dirty...

They have warts and red eyes!

(Don't Deleat my posts)

...don't spread misinformation about stds"

Having an STI is not dirty, not keeping clean is dirty.

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Some people are dirty...

They have warts and red eyes!

(Don't Deleat my posts)

...don't spread misinformation about stds

Having an STI is not dirty, not keeping clean is dirty. "

This. It happens but it’s not the end of the world. You can use condoms and still come out with Herpes. It depends on your own limits - I play safe with penetration but perfectly content to give blowjobs with a happy ending. It’s all about personal preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can be really dangerous i nearly broke my neck when I slipped out of my swing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people are dirty...

They have warts and red eyes!

(Don't Deleat my posts)

...don't spread misinformation about stds

Having an STI is not dirty, not keeping clean is dirty.

This. It happens but it’s not the end of the world. You can use condoms and still come out with Herpes. It depends on your own limits - I play safe with penetration but perfectly content to give blowjobs with a happy ending. It’s all about personal preference."

I would love a happy ending from you x

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By *inkerbell67Woman
over a year ago

Clacton on sea essex

Get checked out regular at the local clinic and ask for a throat swob if your that worried or even damms for oral sex ..

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Some people are dirty...

They have warts and red eyes!

(Don't Deleat my posts)

...don't spread misinformation about stds"

Who has spread misinformation about stds ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The risk is phenomenally low (not Google it)

I agree about the STI and dirty comment. STI's happen, that's life. Not being clean? There is no excuse for that.

The thing about risk is, there are article published every week. The risk of caffeine, the risk of wine. It goes on and on

Life is a risk, any task you are doing comes with a risk. People get hell bent on these sometimes.

Also remember articles try and grab your attention and do not give context to the risk, especially when given as a %

Just thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

This. It happens but it’s not the end of the world. You can use condoms and still come out with Herpes. It depends on your own limits - I play safe with penetration but perfectly content to give blowjobs with a happy ending. It’s all about personal preference."

Genrally speaking...

But statisticly your just bideing your time till you get something or already have something you don't know about.

Condoms are 99% effective (something like that)...blowjobs are "low risk"

But if you have 300 unprotected blow jobs you play roulette.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sti tests don't pick up on everything...

How much do you want moloscome?

Get a blowjob from someone who is currently riddled and doesn't tell you...its high risk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

This. It happens but it’s not the end of the world. You can use condoms and still come out with Herpes. It depends on your own limits - I play safe with penetration but perfectly content to give blowjobs with a happy ending. It’s all about personal preference.

Genrally speaking...

But statisticly your just bideing your time till you get something or already have something you don't know about.

Condoms are 99% effective (something like that)...blowjobs are "low risk"

But if you have 300 unprotected blow jobs you play roulette."

I'll stick with the 299 then

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By *mynclMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Not very, if you catch something your cock will fall off within hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s actually a higher risk than people realise. gonorrhea is spead really easy orally for someone giving a blow job, it is easily treated however there is now this “super” gonorrhea that is much more difficult to treat as it is antibiotic resistant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

This. It happens but it’s not the end of the world. You can use condoms and still come out with Herpes. It depends on your own limits - I play safe with penetration but perfectly content to give blowjobs with a happy ending. It’s all about personal preference.

Genrally speaking...

But statisticly your just bideing your time till you get something or already have something you don't know about.

Condoms are 99% effective (something like that)...blowjobs are "low risk"

But if you have 300 unprotected blow jobs you play roulette."
I've done a hell of a lot more than 300.. I would rather be a nun than give a bj with a condom.... the risks of hiv are so low that I'm prepared to take the risk. Yes you can catch other std' s but them I'm not so worried about.

Clinic argues with me most times as I Demand a throat swab and they are reluctant to offer them as standard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

This. It happens but it’s not the end of the world. You can use condoms and still come out with Herpes. It depends on your own limits - I play safe with penetration but perfectly content to give blowjobs with a happy ending. It’s all about personal preference.

Genrally speaking...

But statisticly your just bideing your time till you get something or already have something you don't know about.

Condoms are 99% effective (something like that)...blowjobs are "low risk"

But if you have 300 unprotected blow jobs you play roulette. I've done a hell of a lot more than 300.. I would rather be a nun than give a bj with a condom.... the risks of hiv are so low that I'm prepared to take the risk. Yes you can catch other std' s but them I'm not so worried about.

Clinic argues with me most times as I Demand a throat swab and they are reluctant to offer them as standard.

"

The clinics in Birmingham all do throat swabs as a given

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s actually a higher risk than people realise. gonorrhea is spead really easy orally for someone giving a blow job, it is easily treated however there is now this “super” gonorrhea that is much more difficult to treat as it is antibiotic resistant "

The receiver in the unprotected blow job might be in the hight of infection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

^^^^the giver = the girl (keep it simple)

From my point of view you don't want to share her mouth with 600 other guys....

But if she gets red eyes and pee pee burns it might be a month before she goes to get it sorted.

^^^^that girl is "high risk" even for blowjobs

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By *inchyorksMan
over a year ago

huddersfield

Safer than crossing the road!!

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"

This. It happens but it’s not the end of the world. You can use condoms and still come out with Herpes. It depends on your own limits - I play safe with penetration but perfectly content to give blowjobs with a happy ending. It’s all about personal preference.

Genrally speaking...

But statisticly your just bideing your time till you get something or already have something you don't know about.

Condoms are 99% effective (something like that)...blowjobs are "low risk"

But if you have 300 unprotected blow jobs you play roulette."

Your 99% stat about condoms is pregnancy prevention.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Sti tests don't pick up on everything...

How much do you want moloscome?

Get a blowjob from someone who is currently riddled and doesn't tell you...its high risk"

Do you mean moluscum contageousum? A very common viral warty thing most often found in children that goes away on its own and causes no problems other that looking a bit out of the ordinary?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"^^^^the giver = the girl (keep it simple)

From my point of view you don't want to share her mouth with 600 other guys....

But if she gets red eyes and pee pee burns it might be a month before she goes to get it sorted.

^^^^that girl is "high risk" even for blowjobs"

It’s actually the girls that end up getting it from men when giving a blow job, and having a man cum in her mouth- it doesn’t transmit easily from mouth to cock but it does when a woman or man lets a man come in her mouth. Same as it’s rare in a lesbian situation.

Oh and it rarely has indications so unless someone is tested regularly they wouldn’t know anyway!

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"^^^^the giver = the girl (keep it simple)

From my point of view you don't want to share her mouth with 600 other guys....

But if she gets red eyes and pee pee burns it might be a month before she goes to get it sorted.

^^^^that girl is "high risk" even for blowjobs"

What on earth are you on about? This is such twaddle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"^^^^the giver = the girl (keep it simple)

From my point of view you don't want to share her mouth with 600 other guys....

But if she gets red eyes and pee pee burns it might be a month before she goes to get it sorted.

^^^^that girl is "high risk" even for blowjobs"
:-

What is the red eye you refer to?

Why is it girls giving men infections from blow jobs?

Are you aware men suck cocks too?

Are you aware men get piss infections sometimes?

Why do you think a female with pain passing water won't get it sorted?

Get off your soapbox and look after your own sexual health and let others do likewise x

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"^^^^the giver = the girl (keep it simple)

From my point of view you don't want to share her mouth with 600 other guys....

But if she gets red eyes and pee pee burns it might be a month before she goes to get it sorted.

^^^^that girl is "high risk" even for blowjobs :-

What is the red eye you refer to?

Why is it girls giving men infections from blow jobs?

Are you aware men suck cocks too?

Are you aware men get piss infections sometimes?

Why do you think a female with pain passing water won't get it sorted?

Get off your soapbox and look after your own sexual health and let others do likewise x

"

This

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By *nglishCharmMan
over a year ago

Midlands

Sorry to sound dumb.. here's me thinking oral sex was talking sex or a deep low voice chat getting flirtatious on the phone..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wife hurt her neck and shoulder muscle last time we were in La Mirage

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By *ptiguy OP   Man
over a year ago

Bournemouth

Dear All,

Many thanks for feedback.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Safer than vaginal or anal but still has risks. A couple if years back I caught chlamydia from oral after a mmf meet.

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