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By *oubyLover OP Woman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Got this as a second message from someone. Guys, what would you mean by this, you're genuinely thanking me for reading it or you're being sarcastic and pointing out I've read it but not replied?

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"Got this as a second message from someone. Guys, what would you mean by this, you're genuinely thanking me for reading it or you're being sarcastic and pointing out I've read it but not replied?

Could be all of the above... Who knows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I think they're just generally really grateful it's not just been deleted without being read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Got this as a second message from someone. Guys, what would you mean by this, you're genuinely thanking me for reading it or you're being sarcastic and pointing out I've read it but not replied?

I wouldn't have sent it but I'd hedge on the side of sarcasm and impatience from someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s sarcasm, men can be childish like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s sarcasm, men can be childish like that"

Lol, being childish isn't a male exclusive but we can extol is virtues rather better than most ladies.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"Got this as a second message from someone. Guys, what would you mean by this, you're genuinely thanking me for reading it or you're being sarcastic and pointing out I've read it but not replied?

I wouldn't have sent it but I'd hedge on the side of sarcasm and impatience from someone

this

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By *ocks99Man
over a year ago

Reading

"Got this as a second message from someone. Guys, what would you mean by this, you're genuinely thanking me for reading it or you're being sarcastic and pointing out I've read it but not replied?

Could be all of the above... Who knows "

You'll have to ask .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meh. Men. Can't live with them....can't shoot them!

Dreamcatcher Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Time to apply Hanlon's Razor:

Never attribute to malice that which is adequately explained by stupidity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meh. Men. Can't live with them....can't shoot them!

Dreamcatcher Xx "

Oi!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Got this as a second message from someone. Guys, what would you mean by this, you're genuinely thanking me for reading it or you're being sarcastic and pointing out I've read it but not replied?

I wouldn't have sent it but I'd hedge on the side of sarcasm and impatience from someone

That would be my guess as well

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By *andm_69Couple
over a year ago

Stevenage

"Meh. Men. Can't live with them....can't shoot them!

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Oi!"

Have to agree with her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meh. Men. Can't live with them....can't shoot them!

Dreamcatcher Xx

Oi!"

Bloody hell! Are you stalking me?! So sorry LoubyLover, he just WON'T leave me alone!

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By *oubyLover OP Woman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

"Meh. Men. Can't live with them....can't shoot them!

Dreamcatcher Xx

Oi!

Bloody hell! Are you stalking me?! So sorry LoubyLover, he just WON'T leave me alone!

Get a fucking room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meh. Men. Can't live with them....can't shoot them!

Dreamcatcher Xx

Oi!

Bloody hell! Are you stalking me?! So sorry LoubyLover, he just WON'T leave me alone!

No more bubbly for you lady. Now get to my room!

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By *oubyLover OP Woman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

"Got this as a second message from someone. Guys, what would you mean by this, you're genuinely thanking me for reading it or you're being sarcastic and pointing out I've read it but not replied?

Could be all of the above... Who knows

You'll have to ask .

Yeah I kind of think that's the tactic.

Does it make me more or less likely to reply had I just had the first one? Hmmm..,less.

I wonder if I'll get a 'thanks for the reading the thanks for reading'?!

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By *oubyLover OP Woman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

"Meh. Men. Can't live with them....can't shoot them!

Dreamcatcher Xx

Oi!

Bloody hell! Are you stalking me?! So sorry LoubyLover, he just WON'T leave me alone!

No more bubbly for you lady. Now get to my room!

If you both don't behave I shall bring my spanky shit round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Got this as a second message from someone. Guys, what would you mean by this, you're genuinely thanking me for reading it or you're being sarcastic and pointing out I've read it but not replied?

This is a guy trying to appear to be a nice guy. He's saying: You ignored me but look here I'm not getting nasty in fact I'm being super polite.

That's the way I see it anyway...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meh. Men. Can't live with them....can't shoot them!

Dreamcatcher Xx

Oi!

Bloody hell! Are you stalking me?! So sorry LoubyLover, he just WON'T leave me alone!

No more bubbly for you lady. Now get to my room!

If you both don't behave I shall bring my spanky shit round

You're going to have to bring you're spanky shit around...

Told you it would work Miss C. High 5!

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By *oubyLover OP Woman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

"Meh. Men. Can't live with them....can't shoot them!

Dreamcatcher Xx

Oi!

Bloody hell! Are you stalking me?! So sorry LoubyLover, he just WON'T leave me alone!

No more bubbly for you lady. Now get to my room!

If you both don't behave I shall bring my spanky shit round

You're going to have to bring you're spanky shit around...

Told you it would work Miss C. High 5!

There's going to be two very red bums you naughty people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meh. Men. Can't live with them....can't shoot them!

Dreamcatcher Xx

Oi!

Bloody hell! Are you stalking me?! So sorry LoubyLover, he just WON'T leave me alone!

No more bubbly for you lady. Now get to my room!

If you both don't behave I shall bring my spanky shit round

You're going to have to bring you're spanky shit around...

Told you it would work Miss C. High 5!

There's going to be two very red bums you naughty people

Oooh promises promises

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Got this as a second message from someone. Guys, what would you mean by this, you're genuinely thanking me for reading it or you're being sarcastic and pointing out I've read it but not replied?

This is a guy trying to appear to be a nice guy. He's saying: You ignored me but look here I'm not getting nasty in fact I'm being super polite.

That's the way I see it anyway..."

And having to make an effort to be nice....

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

Just ignore it like you did the first message.

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By *oubyLover OP Woman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

"Just ignore it like you did the first message."

I did just that

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"Just ignore it like you did the first message.

I did just that

Fair enough but I meant without posting a thread about it lol

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By *oubyLover OP Woman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

"Just ignore it like you did the first message.

I did just that

Fair enough but I meant without posting a thread about it lol"

But then I wouldn't have you guys opinions on how it was meant

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By *eviantdeliteWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"Got this as a second message from someone. Guys, what would you mean by this, you're genuinely thanking me for reading it or you're being sarcastic and pointing out I've read it but not replied?

Who cares? If you have just deleted message then do do again....

I don't see what the problem is?

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By *eviantdeliteWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"Just ignore it like you did the first message.

I did just that

Fair enough but I meant without posting a thread about it lol

But then I wouldn't have you guys opinions on how it was meant

Opinions are like arseholes....everyone has got one...

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"Just ignore it like you did the first message.

I did just that

Fair enough but I meant without posting a thread about it lol

But then I wouldn't have you guys opinions on how it was meant

Opinions are like arseholes....everyone has got one..."

Exactly this. Only the person who mailed you knows.

I would guess they were being sarcastic btw.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We reply to all messages, not to would be rude. If that person turns out to be an odd bod by further replies despite being declined, then we hit block.

If we send messages and they go unread for any length or time or read and no reply, then we just block them.

Unfortunately, one of our prerequisites to possibly meet them is that they must have the ability to handle a simple basic message system. If they can't, what else are they going to struggle with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After being rejected by a couple, i replied : 'no worries '

They replied :' thanks for not being an arsehole '

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont get why folk message back after being told no thanks ? does my head in as it mean more shit to delete on top of the normal shit too lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We reply to all messages, not to would be rude. If that person turns out to be an odd bod by further replies despite being declined, then we hit block.

If we send messages and they go unread for any length or time or read and no reply, then we just block them.

Unfortunately, one of our prerequisites to possibly meet them is that they must have the ability to handle a simple basic message system. If they can't, what else are they going to struggle with."

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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"dont get why folk message back after being told no thanks ? does my head in as it mean more shit to delete on top of the normal shit too lol"

I have replied in the past saying thank you for letting me know. I don't think about them having an extra message to delete. I think about myself wanting to be polite back to someone who took the time to get back to me. If you consider being polite 'more shit' that's not my problem frankly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"dont get why folk message back after being told no thanks ? does my head in as it mean more shit to delete on top of the normal shit too lol

I agree with you 100%

But unless I am misunderstanding OP she hasn't replied and still been thanked. That's different.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Sometimes I think they're just generally really grateful it's not just been deleted without being read. "

Check my latest thread out lol

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"dont get why folk message back after being told no thanks ? does my head in as it mean more shit to delete on top of the normal shit too lol

I agree with you 100%

But unless I am misunderstanding OP she hasn't replied and still been thanked. That's different."

Yes that's correct. If someone read a message and deleted it or not I wouldn't have anything to thank them for lol

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By *oubyLover OP Woman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

"dont get why folk message back after being told no thanks ? does my head in as it mean more shit to delete on top of the normal shit too lol

I agree with you 100%

But unless I am misunderstanding OP she hasn't replied and still been thanked. That's different.

Yes that's correct. If someone read a message and deleted it or not I wouldn't have anything to thank them for lol"

Yes I read the message and several others but didn't get chance to delete or reply. 10 mins after reading it he said thanks. Maybe I should get a PA for my messages to meet that service level agreement

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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"dont get why folk message back after being told no thanks ? does my head in as it mean more shit to delete on top of the normal shit too lol

I agree with you 100%

But unless I am misunderstanding OP she hasn't replied and still been thanked. That's different.

Yes that's correct. If someone read a message and deleted it or not I wouldn't have anything to thank them for lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one can say what the man was thinking when he sent the message.

It's possible it was sarcasm and it's possible it was politeness and genuine gratitude

I can understand why men want to appear polite even if rejected or ignored if there is a chance you may cross paths at a club or social etc which has happened to me and I'm happy to chat to the polite ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"dont get why folk message back after being told no thanks ? does my head in as it mean more shit to delete on top of the normal shit too lol

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