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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do yous get abusive messages from men like single women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not as yet. I always think it's because the guys never know who is going to reply. Me or Tom.

We do get a lot of guys 'asking' Tom if I am playing, like I need his permission lol.

And single men saying that they are part of a couple, soon shift when I ask to speak to the lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not had any yet but get the usual rude ones like wanna fuck now messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup we have just block and move on ,sad when they come back on another id to abuse again but just keep blocking,its them wasting their time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair we get very polite messages from fellas most of the time. We get the odd one that has taken no effort like "very hot".

Always got time for a chat with someone who has made a bit of effort wether they are what we are looking for or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve only ever had single guy be rude and that was after we met him. He sent a message asking if he could meet again and bring 2 if his friends. I (male half) replied saying she’s not a whore for you to bring your mates around to get laid. He then went on to send abuses messages like I’m sick for allowing my partner to play with other guys and I must be shit in bed and that’s why she looks for other guys. It was laughable we reported him and blocked him.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

No, but before we blocked them we still got messages from those that thought they were special & should be the exception to the rule, We soon went from a polite "no thanks", to just deleting to eventually blocking all as it makes life easier.

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do yous get abusive messages from men like single women? "
sometimes.. been told what sort of man lets his woman fuck about.

We have had from a woman. " she doesn't blame my man for fucking about with a partner looking like me"

We do get them but not that much

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"Do yous get abusive messages from men like single women? "

Have had on other sites but in fairness not on here as yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, but they're easily dealt with.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I've had a previous couples profiles, the abuse is nowhere near as bad, ironically, some who were abusive to me as a single were very polite on our couples profile, go figure!

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Quite a few times it’s happened, usually something derogatory towards Mrs N but as with all forums you do get the odd keyboard warrior amongst us. Report, block, move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do yous get abusive messages from men like single women? "

Yes. Lots. Lots of very pushy messages also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

men have become abusive towards me if I decline a "fuck now" msg

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Yes we do, one particular nasty one last night that really put a downer on my birthday.

He sent a succession of messages and when I replied thank but no thank you we are not looking for Men at this moment in time I was every derogatory name under the sun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the insight.

My curiosity was pricked by a reply from a couple saying they weren't interested.

I replied :' no worries '

And they replied' thanks for not being an arsehole'

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *r C Miss CCouple
over a year ago

llanelli

Nope, Not once

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes we do, one particular nasty one last night that really put a downer on my birthday.

He sent a succession of messages and when I replied thank but no thank you we are not looking for Men at this moment in time I was every derogatory name under the sun. "

Hes not worth thinking about Dont let that or another tosser spoil your birthday x hope u had a good one

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Not so far, though we've had some strange ones, and one potential meet got a little possessive.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No we have never had an abusive message. The occasional message that is inappropriate from a sexual perspective, but that's rare. But never abusive.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had them, not lots bitba few over the years.

The latest was a few months ago from a guy whose message we had read but not responded to( we rarely respond to messages and cant even remember what it said)

The gist of his abusive message was that Mrs Bendy was fat as fuck and we should consider ourselves lucky that he even contemplated messaging us in the first place.

He is still on here and a huge part of me wants to name and shame but there is little point.

When someone is abusive there are a few people we mentuon it tonand tell them to be wary of that person and our consolation in this wad that a week after messaging us , he sent a perfectly pleasant message to a friend of ours, he didnt get a pleasant response back though

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Not yet most guys when we turn them down are pretty graceful about it. We get the odd weird message or "wana fuck message" which are ignored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had a few, but on the hole most are OK with been ternd down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had an abusive message yet

Silly, ridiculous, idiotic, random. Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The worst we had was a woman, so far we've not had any to bad rude messages a polite not my type seems to be acceptable x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At even the first sign of abuse, deploy the block button!

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By *ancduoCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Once or twice but only if we didn’t reply within 2 seconds I’d they are impatient

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only abusive messages I tend to get are from single men who I have said "no thanks" to after their initial one line message with cock shot attached. When they get a "no thanks" they feel they need to tell me actually I am too ugly / fat / horrendous to ever interest them anyways

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

We get plenty of messages from couples and singles of both sexes, but I don't think we have ever had anything but positive and polite messages.

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By *ust Ms LovinWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

Me and cheeks have separate profiles cheeky has had messages telling him to Kill himself !! Lol we just delete and block profile I swear some people are ranking their little cocks while they abuse you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try this..

-mate you let other guys fuck your wife..

-yes i enjoy the show and i join in ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do yous get abusive messages from men like single women? "

In the past, we had moments of finding a guy. So we changed our profile to state what we're looking for. Messages go from a few a day to some 50+

Their messages often -

1) Ignore what we wrote on the profile.

2) Get bombarded from the needy few over and over.

3) Start off polite and then make demands

4) Get many, "Fancy a fuck" messages.

5) Get rude replies to a question that we may ask.

So we simply no longer bother with guys. Had the odd good meet but the effort and no shows simply doesn't warrant the time and aggro.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do yous get abusive messages from men like single women? "

nope...never had

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"Do yous get abusive messages from men like single women? "

Yes, frequently. Normally after declining an offer from a guy that describes himself as a perfect gentleman etc

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By *ave-and-LouiseCouple
over a year ago

Torquay

The only one we've had was a guy who we responded to, as a 'maybe', as he ticked most of the right boxes for what we were looking for at the time. He then sent about 12 messages in the space of an hour (none of which were particularly interesting) and then got arsey and abusive when we didn't respond straight away. Bloooock.

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