FabSwingers.com forum: People with no patience and finding that lady

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why is it so many people are so in a rush? We are a family and cannot just drop everything but we are genuine and will meet when we can, bubbly works shifts normally and can be difficult to meet.

Seems to put so many off?

Also we have decided to play alone on occasions, now of course bubbly is inundated with offers and me? not one lol. So ladies I ask you this, how do you expect a guy to approach you? You sexy ladies have your pick I know. I am not put off and will play the long game, besides no doubt I will get to watch Bubbly with a few guys and that's a sure fire way to get me going, love seeing her enjoy herself.

Just would love it the other way round lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the nature of the beast I think with there being a high ratio of women to men, so it's probably not all down to your messaging technique.

Messages that stand out for me are the honest ones, nice interesting with a little bit of humour.

I have a couples profile with my boyfriend and tbh the women can be so forward... so many asking for him to play alone with long details of what she wants to do.

Hmm it's a couples profile. That means both of us, same goes for men who message, not many ask for me to meet alone though.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Guess it's the waiting game and getting to socials.

Or just go to the local meet market pub lol

Will take on board your advice and try and be funny, always honest.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

I'm with you both on this, for sure if things happen quickly then great, but life for attached people has so many variables that it often means that things can be thrown into chaos with something happening to just one of the fabbers.

There's no reason why, having decided that something is worth pursuing, that a bit of pre-play foreplay online can't happen. It could in fact just add to the experience before you finally get to play.

Some people have complicated lives, but when those same people finally get the opportunity to get to do what they want, they, in general, tend to grab that with both hands and make the most of it, patience indeed can be very well rewarded.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because we live in the age of instant gratification...

Persevere, I always think that playing the long game pays off! (:

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have found that if not available for a instant or very fast meet, people can get the hump, get snotty and block XXX

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, I know what you mean here, in that it’s really difficult to phrase an opening message just right, so as to interest someone without boring them - and vice versa.

I’ve been here before and usually give up trying to even get replies, never mind positive results after a month or so of sending hopefull messages. I’m going to resolve to try to play the long game this time though. I’m not that useless at this am I?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *osexyCouple
over a year ago

ST AUSTELL

I think everyone at some point gets their messages deleted without reply . It’s dissapointing when you have put a bit of effort into your message . We have corresponded with people for months before meeting as we always maintain we don’t mind waiting for the right meet. Sometimes people are impatient and move on... that’s fine just be polite and we are happy. As soon as we detect the frustration it puts us off . Single guys often start off polite then their true colours show when they don’t get a meet straight away. Swinging is no different to many things, human traits show through . Patience is key ....

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"I have found that if not available for a instant or very fast meet, people can get the hump, get snotty and block XXX"

Not everyone wants an instant meet though; I received a message from a couple just this Thursday evening, the wife saying she “has sucked two cocks already today, and is sucking another right now, and as our hotel is close to you, do you want to come and join us?” Not for me thanks

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have found that if not available for a instant or very fast meet, people can get the hump, get snotty and block XXX"

rarely i get blocked. but i agree with when people see its not a instant meet

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread