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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Who uses a swingers club ? What happens at one of these clubs ?
A Swinging Club is for like minded consenting adults to attend to have sexy fun at !!
THE SWINGERS CLUB SCENE ~ if this is your first visit to a swingers club you will have a guided tour by one of the friendly professional members of staff at the club of your choice
If you have visited the club in the past then you will know that at a club the atmosphere should be relaxed, pleasant and above all none pushy!
At most clubs the aim to make your visit as pleasurable as possible, most clubs offer back ground music and on some occasions some will hold parties - The party information will always be viewable on the events page either on a poster in a club or on its website. If you want to visit one of the venues then you should book early as they are very popular and at some clubs places maybe limited !!
If you are a couple it is helpful if you and your partner discuss your limits or intentions. If you have just come to watch or for atmosphere that is fine. If you are approached a polite "No" will see that you are left alone as ALL CLUBS SHOULD RUN AND FOLLOW A " NO MEANS NO " RULE
at most clubs NO means NO and anyone breaking this rule will be barred from the club.
If you are a couple looking for another couple, it is quite normal for you to sit and chat to other couples and during conversation, mention your interests or visit the "Couples Only" Room.
If you are a couple and are looking for a single to join you, then this is the easiest scenario. Single guys are most eager to oblige and not offended in the least if you approach them.
If you are approached by a single male, he will not get right to the point, but will normally engage you in small talk conversation, but you can rest assured he is interested in joining you. If you are interested, ask him if he would like to join you in a private room.
A LITTLE BIT OF ADVICE TO YOU SINGLE GUYS WHO MAY VISIT A SWINGERS CLUB PLEASE REMEMBER TO USE THE TONGUE IN YOUR HEAD TO SPEAK TO OTHER PEOPLE THERE AND ASK IF YOU MAY JOIN OTHERS IN THEIR PLAY !! DONT just ponk yourself on the bed next to them NOT SAY anything and try to join in with them you will only get yourself quickly thrown out the club, and remember also THAT NO MEANS NO !!
Serious swingers can have the time of their lives in a club. Just enter the open rooms for serious attention from anyone in there, but most will not begin until they get the indication or you ask that you require/ seek their attention and to join them
Looking for bi ladies? lots of couples have bi ladies looking for the same, just mention it in conversation that the lady in your partnership is bi and is looking for the same.
Couples who come for the first time who just sit and expect to be approached without any input from yourselves may not enjoy their night, as regulars do not know what you are into; also they do not like to offend. The best approach is to give eye contact or make the effort to CHAT / SPEAK to others. It is normal to sit next to other people and introduce yourself, starting with with normal everyday conversation. If you find that they are regulars, ask them questions about the club and the best way to go about things, you will find them eager to help guide you in the right direction.
In a nutshell, be friendly, polite and things will happen as everyone in the club are open-minded and are there to swing. Whatever their preferences, just relax and enjoy your evening.
ALCOHOL
most clubs are not licensed and do not sell cigarettes. Most clubs will let you bring your own alcohol and leave behind the bar, soft drinks are on sale in most club. Towels are provided and there are changing rooms with lockers in most clubs. some clubs will have car parking spaces available or if you need a taxi, most clubs staff will be able to provide local numbers for you.
GENERAL INFORMATION
Most clubs now adays will have background music played all night, a big screen, videos, pool table, a pole for dancing. Some clubs will have a wet Area such has a Jacuzzi, sauna and showers. Most clubs will have Private rooms which have locks and maybe a TV with porn videos played constantly.
Most clubs will run a tab account system so if you purchase anything from behind the bar then it is put on your tab and you pay on departure. On entry, most clubs will provide you with your own box / locker ( most clubs charge a returnable fee for use of a locker ) for you to put anything of value into, until you are ready to leave.
I HOPE THE ABOVE INFORMATION WILL HELP ANYONE CONSIDERING USING OR VISITING A SWINGERS CLUB ?? |
