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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How would you start a conversation of on here I've tried loads of different ways to start and they always get deleted

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"How would you start a conversation of on here I've tried loads of different ways to start and they always get deleted "
just the same as you would in a non fab social situation.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Many people on here read a profile before they start a conversation. Maybe there lies your problem as opposed to your opening message.

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By *rladytoyMan
over a year ago

bournemouth


"How would you start a conversation of on here I've tried loads of different ways to start and they always get deleted "

Dont buy into the bullshit to much, sure be polite, tailor your message to there requirements. Ultimately tho your one of many! If u match what they want and they like the look of you then u might get lucky. Probably not in most cases but hey thats life. There one of many to , remember that never feed there ego.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yo

Howz u

Fancy a fuck

Like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Say you've brought cake...that's always a winner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How would you start a conversation of on here I've tried loads of different ways to start and they always get deleted "

Women are amazing. They are forever giving us guys things to start conversations about. Read her status updates. Read her profile from beginning to end.

Do NOT ask her how she is. Do NOT ask her what she is doing. Do NOT ask her what she is wearing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How would you start a conversation of on here I've tried loads of different ways to start and they always get deleted

Dont buy into the bullshit to much, sure be polite, tailor your message to there requirements. Ultimately tho your one of many! If u match what they want and they like the look of you then u might get lucky. Probably not in most cases but hey thats life. There one of many to , remember that never feed there ego."

some good advice in there. Fab women have highly tuned bullshit detectors. Just be honest and sincere and yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How would you start a conversation of on here I've tried loads of different ways to start and they always get deleted

Women are amazing. They are forever giving us guys things to start conversations about. Read her status updates. Read her profile from beginning to end.

Do NOT ask her how she is. Do NOT ask her what she is doing. Do NOT ask her what she is wearing."

Hey im ok

And im in a long hot bubble bath so wearing ziltch

Next

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"Say you've brought cake...that's always a winner "

Someone mention cake?

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By *rladytoyMan
over a year ago

bournemouth

Hey, your just so amazing in every way i will just wait here for 3 days for you to reply then repeat for another 2 months until finally you stop replying all together. Then a week later when u get a verification from someome who is the complete opposite of what u say your after. A straight guy who actually sent me a message also, saying fancy a bj ? . Then finally i give up and laugh myself to death for a few days before starting the process again with someone new. Ahhn gotta love the internet....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Say you've brought cake...that's always a winner

Someone mention cake? "

Perhaps

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"Say you've brought cake...that's always a winner

Someone mention cake?

Perhaps "

I'll swap a slice for...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Say you've brought cake...that's always a winner

Someone mention cake?

Perhaps

I'll swap a slice for... "

Try and reference their profile, for that you would of course have to read the profile.

Try and pay a compliment to a feature which is particularly prominent.

Introduce yourself.

Try to be articulate.

Try to be funny.

It seems like a lot of effort for what will probably be a 10% success rate, but it does make the difference.

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By *hamboy69Man
over a year ago

huddersfield

Try this no face pic needed

I fancy a fuck are you free now?followed by loads of cock pics with a remote control for scale.

Remember to update your status to 'absolutely anything anywhere '

Then you've cracked it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How would you start a conversation of on here I've tried loads of different ways to start and they always get deleted

Women are amazing. They are forever giving us guys things to start conversations about. Read her status updates. Read her profile from beginning to end.

Do NOT ask her how she is. Do NOT ask her what she is doing. Do NOT ask her what she is wearing.

Hey im ok

And im in a long hot bubble bath so wearing ziltch

Next "

One day I decided I would try something different when a guy asked me how I was. I plundered into a long diatribe about how crap my life was and how depressed I was and how my goldfish had died and how I had dropped the car keys in the toilet etc etc.

His reply was "Great. Wanna hook up?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Say you've brought cake...that's always a winner "

Is it cheesecake? Because that could be the clincher! Haha

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By *r and Mrs B xxCouple
over a year ago

Chippenham


"How would you start a conversation of on here I've tried loads of different ways to start and they always get deleted

Women are amazing. They are forever giving us guys things to start conversations about. Read her status updates. Read her profile from beginning to end.

Do NOT ask her how she is. Do NOT ask her what she is doing. Do NOT ask her what she is wearing.

Hey im ok

And im in a long hot bubble bath so wearing ziltch

Next

One day I decided I would try something different when a guy asked me how I was. I plundered into a long diatribe about how crap my life was and how depressed I was and how my goldfish had died and how I had dropped the car keys in the toilet etc etc.

His reply was "Great. Wanna hook up?""

So going to try this. That'll learn him.....

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By *veragecouple321Couple
over a year ago

Leamington Spa

If it’s a cheesecake the wife says she’s in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How would you start a conversation of on here I've tried loads of different ways to start and they always get deleted "

That's a smashing blouse you're wearing.

On a serious note, we wouldn't be concerned. We can send messages and not receive a reply. There might be a hundred reasons why people just read and delete, or just delete, but either way, we just then place them on block.

If they can't be bothered to reply, we can't be bothered wasting time seeing their profile again.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"How would you start a conversation of on here I've tried loads of different ways to start and they always get deleted "

Oh the irony.

Starts a conversation about how to start a conversation and five hours later hasn't said anything else!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I do apologise. I've been at work all day not had time to check and totally forgot by time I finished. Would like to thank you all for advice though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How would you start a conversation of on here I've tried loads of different ways to start and they always get deleted

Women are amazing. They are forever giving us guys things to start conversations about. Read her status updates. Read her profile from beginning to end.

Do NOT ask her how she is. Do NOT ask her what she is doing. Do NOT ask her what she is wearing.

Hey im ok

And im in a long hot bubble bath so wearing ziltch

Next

One day I decided I would try something different when a guy asked me how I was. I plundered into a long diatribe about how crap my life was and how depressed I was and how my goldfish had died and how I had dropped the car keys in the toilet etc etc.

His reply was "Great. Wanna hook up?""

Did you??

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains


"How would you start a conversation of on here I've tried loads of different ways to start and they always get deleted

Women are amazing. They are forever giving us guys things to start conversations about. Read her status updates. Read her profile from beginning to end.

Do NOT ask her how she is. Do NOT ask her what she is doing. Do NOT ask her what she is wearing.

Hey im ok

And im in a long hot bubble bath so wearing ziltch

Next

One day I decided I would try something different when a guy asked me how I was. I plundered into a long diatribe about how crap my life was and how depressed I was and how my goldfish had died and how I had dropped the car keys in the toilet etc etc.

His reply was "Great. Wanna hook up?""

I was chatting to a guy off here a few years back and he asked what I was up to and I said in Asda buying an outfit for my grandads funeral, bit busy at the mo. His response was similar to the above I blocked him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually

'Give me your number and I'll let your mum/cousin/pet dog* go free'

or something similar

Then call them once they relent** and just breathe a lot for the first couple of weeks..drives 'em crazy

*best doing your research here,

Hacking facebook, fab or other social media accounts, their hard drive and the contents of their bin bags provide useful information on the intended lovers likes and lifestyle for those serious about looking for love in the modern world

**again, plan ahead and have several accounts to woo them with, women like to tease and play hard to get hard to get by blocking you 20 or 30 times before paying you attention..remember, it's all part of loves intricate dance.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"How would you start a conversation of on here I've tried loads of different ways to start and they always get deleted

That's a smashing blouse you're wearing.

On a serious note, we wouldn't be concerned. We can send messages and not receive a reply. There might be a hundred reasons why people just read and delete, or just delete, but either way, we just then place them on block.

If they can't be bothered to reply, we can't be bothered wasting time seeing their profile again."

I don't think it could be put more honestly or fairer than that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find sharing my political views is a great way to start. The ladies love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yo

Howz u

Fancy a fuck

Like that "

You forgot :

wuu2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find sharing my political views is a great way to start. The ladies love it "

Asking if she thinks they will ever free Nelson Mandela is a sure fire way to guarantee a response

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find sharing my political views is a great way to start. The ladies love it

Asking if she thinks they will ever free Nelson Mandela is a sure fire way to guarantee a response "

You mean he’s not free yet? Whatever happened to justice!?!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How would you start a conversation of on here I've tried loads of different ways to start and they always get deleted just the same as you would in a non fab social situation. "
see I disagree there. As in real life id say hi... and see if they say hi back.. but on fab that would be deemed a very poor first message.. yet in real life its often how conversations start..

Although I have also maybe complimented someone on something.. it simply asked is this seat taken.

Fab doesn't normally start the normal way as people are often told dont send.. " hello.. how are you?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find sharing my political views is a great way to start. The ladies love it

Asking if she thinks they will ever free Nelson Mandela is a sure fire way to guarantee a response

You mean he’s not free yet? Whatever happened to justice!?!? "

See? Impossible to get told that and not say something back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to add to my last post... People are generally eager to share their knowledge and enter into light debate. So for all you guys who can't get a response try this message: "I believe that all women should serve men and not be allowed to drive cars". I can almost guarantee that will grab their attention and get a response. Good luck!

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