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By *antsbelle OP   Woman
over a year ago

basingstoke

I currently chatting to a guy, who has a single profile and a joint profile with a lady who is part of a couple, he arranges all the meets for her, I have asked if I can chat to the lady but he says she is too busy and likes him to arrange meets on her behalf? As a single girl would you be suspicous?

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By *infulSandyCouple
over a year ago

London

He could be telling the truth, we have found people who prefer to let one person in the relationship to set up meets and such.

That said I think you should trust your gut, even when we met people in this way it was not ideal and the meet did not go beyond a social.

So basically a long way of saying "up to you" sorry wish we could be more help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is the profile she is on verified? Is it verified for her recently?

I would be a bit suspicious, if I am honest. Could be an old profile and theyve since split, weve come across this a few times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% yes, my husband sometimes 'wingmans' me on our couple profile but I soon take over.

If this girls too busy to chat, how's she going to find the time to meet you?

I'd insist on FaceTimeing or at least a phone call. X

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By *antsbelle OP   Woman
over a year ago

basingstoke

On couple profile no verifcations

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By *inkyDragonsCouple
over a year ago

Ammanford

As above, it's hard to call him out for sure due to the muddied waters of cross profiles here.

Also, one is often more communicative and/or there could be only an attraction from one half etc.

I give everyone the benefit of doubt until I can flat out call bullshit..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gut feeling is it's a married man who thinks he's going to get his wife involved. She's never going to even find out she's part of a couple's profile unless he gets grassed up.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

If she's "too busy" to chat, then I'm guessing she's going to be "too busy" to meet lol!

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By *antsbelle OP   Woman
over a year ago

basingstoke

After more thought, I think it might be a guy posing as part of a couple, when in fact he is a single guy, he would find it more difficult attracting a single girl on a single guys profile, I have asked for phone call to verify! Best way

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I think hes a single man trying to lure you in with a pretend lady

None of ua are busy 24/7

Insist on facetime or phone chat or block

Miss

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If I was meeting as a single woman I would suspect everybody. This particular scenario would have me doing my very fast walk in the opposite direction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not a single girl (I hope that’s obvious), but even I find that suspicious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't meet until you've seen her on cam or spoken on the phone x

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Sounds like a crock of shit to me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would ask for a meet in a public place or web chat deffo iffy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He's just waiting for the right moment to tell his wife she's on fab...

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By *offee with MilkCouple
over a year ago

Over the roundabout and then turn right.

Dodgy. No veris on the couples profile you say? I have to wonder why. I agree with others. If she can't or won't chat to you on the phone (cam preferably) then I would call it off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be careful, meet in public a few times if you think he is genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forget it. She doesn’t exist otherwise she would happily say hi to you on the phone.

Probably just a guy who doesn’t have a wife or gf and is just looking for wank fodder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On couple profile no verifcations "

I would steer clear, sounds iffy. If he arranges all meets why no veris? Even after a social most people would verify as a genuine couple. Sounds like a loner with a boner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I currently chatting to a guy, who has a single profile and a joint profile with a lady who is part of a couple, he arranges all the meets for her, I have asked if I can chat to the lady but he says she is too busy and likes him to arrange meets on her behalf? As a single girl would you be suspicous? "

It would depend on who you were planning on meeting ... him, her or them as a couple ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If things go according to script then you will arrange to meet as a couple but as a last minute situation something will come up and she won't be able to make it. You'll then be left with the awkward decision to cancel the meet or go along...

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"On couple profile no verifcations

I would steer clear, sounds iffy. If he arranges all meets why no veris? Even after a social most people would verify as a genuine couple. Sounds like a loner with a boner. "

"loner with a boner." Brilliant lol!

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By *antsbelle OP   Woman
over a year ago

basingstoke

I agree, I did see he met a couple and the female didn't turn up at last minute, so I think he chancing his luck to be realistic, he does have another joint profile, I think he is just desperate to find another fuck buddy, I would rather go to a party where no strings or mind games lol

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By *lyreelMan
over a year ago

King's lynn

Press the block button and move on, your senses are screaming out beware, so listen to them.

Plenty more peeps out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree, I did see he met a couple and the female didn't turn up at last minute, so I think he chancing his luck to be realistic, he does have another joint profile, I think he is just desperate to find another fuck buddy, I would rather go to a party where no strings or mind games lol "

The female was never going to turn up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go with your gut instinct.

I'd be very suspicious, how many profiles does he need?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"After more thought, I think it might be a guy posing as part of a couple, when in fact he is a single guy, he would find it more difficult attracting a single girl on a single guys profile, I have asked for phone call to verify! Best way "
phone call or cam x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I currently chatting to a guy, who has a single profile and a joint profile with a lady who is part of a couple, he arranges all the meets for her, I have asked if I can chat to the lady but he says she is too busy and likes him to arrange meets on her behalf? As a single girl would you be suspicous? "

yes if i was meeting yte couple i would be speaking to both people

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By *adja_lazloCouple
over a year ago

Solihull


"On couple profile no verifcations "

we would be cautious of this, plus if the lady is really busy, how does she have time to meet

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would thinks she probably not even real, but he wishes she did. Easy for a single guy to message people has I guess a lot block single guys from messaging them. I the female do most of the chats and arrangements on here and help to do a phone chat after a few messages only way to be sure.

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