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By *andsome_Chef88 OP   Man
over a year ago

London

I met this woman off pof back in March this year. We spoke and got very close. I actually really liked her and didn't meet anyone from fab while we were seeing each other. She always wanted to take things really slow and I feel she was just looking for friends with benefits. Anyway I got deeply involved and instead of being straight to the point she tried to get me not to like her or cooling things down which in fact upset me because we got on really well. Anyway we agrued a lot after this. Things got heated and her last ever text message to me before blocking me on every app and social media was "you ever message me again. I swear to god I will not be fucking nice and tear you to pieces, no goodbye and have a good life"

So I did that. I never spoke to her since which I couldn't anyway as I was blocked. Fast forward to last week. She's signed up as a couple on fab. And weirdest thing is everytime she logs on fab she views me. I am 100% sure she knows it's me. And I am 100% she owns the profile and not the fella. By the way the text is written and the photos are of her and she's the first couple info written.

So guys what you think do I message and say hi or be cheeky and say what do I owe you or continue to leave it. Mind you I still have little feelings for her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tough as it is, don’t give her the satisfaction

Block her if you can bring yourself to. If you really don’t want to block her, let her make the first move but don’t hang around waiting for it

And don’t cyberstalk her profile! You’ll do yourself more damage than she ever could

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I think you're better off concentrating on the present and the future rather than the past.

Block and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leave it you'll get nicked

If yoy contact after being asked not too it's harrassment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met this woman off pof back in March this year. We spoke and got very close. I actually really liked her and didn't meet anyone from fab while we were seeing each other. She always wanted to take things really slow and I feel she was just looking for friends with benefits. Anyway I got deeply involved and instead of being straight to the point she tried to get me not to like her or cooling things down which in fact upset me because we got on really well. Anyway we agrued a lot after this. Things got heated and her last ever text message to me before blocking me on every app and social media was "you ever message me again. I swear to god I will not be fucking nice and tear you to pieces, no goodbye and have a good life"

So I did that. I never spoke to her since which I couldn't anyway as I was blocked. Fast forward to last week. She's signed up as a couple on fab. And weirdest thing is everytime she logs on fab she views me. I am 100% sure she knows it's me. And I am 100% she owns the profile and not the fella. By the way the text is written and the photos are of her and she's the first couple info written.

So guys what you think do I message and say hi or be cheeky and say what do I owe you or continue to leave it. Mind you I still have little feelings for her"

Might be the bloke viewing you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met this woman off pof back in March this year. We spoke and got very close. I actually really liked her and didn't meet anyone from fab while we were seeing each other. She always wanted to take things really slow and I feel she was just looking for friends with benefits. Anyway I got deeply involved and instead of being straight to the point she tried to get me not to like her or cooling things down which in fact upset me because we got on really well. Anyway we agrued a lot after this. Things got heated and her last ever text message to me before blocking me on every app and social media was "you ever message me again. I swear to god I will not be fucking nice and tear you to pieces, no goodbye and have a good life"

So I did that. I never spoke to her since which I couldn't anyway as I was blocked. Fast forward to last week. She's signed up as a couple on fab. And weirdest thing is everytime she logs on fab she views me. I am 100% sure she knows it's me. And I am 100% she owns the profile and not the fella. By the way the text is written and the photos are of her and she's the first couple info written.

So guys what you think do I message and say hi or be cheeky and say what do I owe you or continue to leave it. Mind you I still have little feelings for her"
if you think she knows it's you then I'd block her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd block and save yourself the emotional torment. It's not good for you and you deserve better. Life is too short for that kinda shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I were in your situation I would stay quiet and let her keep looking at your profile. It would give me a sense of satisfaction to tell myself that the person who kept looking at me is realising what they are missing.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd block her and move on, you'll end up annoying yourself thinking about her when you could be out having fun.

Mrs

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By *losbMan
over a year ago

gloucester

Block then leave a status.... just so she knows!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block and forget about her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"I'd block and save yourself the emotional torment. It's not good for you and you deserve better. Life is too short for that kinda shit "

Bingo

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By *infulSandyCouple
over a year ago

London


"I met this woman off pof back in March this year. We spoke and got very close. I actually really liked her and didn't meet anyone from fab while we were seeing each other. She always wanted to take things really slow and I feel she was just looking for friends with benefits. Anyway I got deeply involved and instead of being straight to the point she tried to get me not to like her or cooling things down which in fact upset me because we got on really well. Anyway we agrued a lot after this. Things got heated and her last ever text message to me before blocking me on every app and social media was "you ever message me again. I swear to god I will not be fucking nice and tear you to pieces, no goodbye and have a good life"

So I did that. I never spoke to her since which I couldn't anyway as I was blocked. Fast forward to last week. She's signed up as a couple on fab. And weirdest thing is everytime she logs on fab she views me. I am 100% sure she knows it's me. And I am 100% she owns the profile and not the fella. By the way the text is written and the photos are of her and she's the first couple info written.

So guys what you think do I message and say hi or be cheeky and say what do I owe you or continue to leave it. Mind you I still have little feelings for her"

Tough love here:

I can't believe you're even contemplating contacting her. Grow a spine and block the profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like maybe it was her bloke that found the messages and blocked you.

Block and avoid i would say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She is probably looking at your profile and fabbing your pics to get your attention so you make the first move contact wise. Don't give her the satisfaction x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met this woman off pof back in March this year. We spoke and got very close. I actually really liked her and didn't meet anyone from fab while we were seeing each other. She always wanted to take things really slow and I feel she was just looking for friends with benefits. Anyway I got deeply involved and instead of being straight to the point she tried to get me not to like her or cooling things down which in fact upset me because we got on really well. Anyway we agrued a lot after this. Things got heated and her last ever text message to me before blocking me on every app and social media was "you ever message me again. I swear to god I will not be fucking nice and tear you to pieces, no goodbye and have a good life"

So I did that. I never spoke to her since which I couldn't anyway as I was blocked. Fast forward to last week. She's signed up as a couple on fab. And weirdest thing is everytime she logs on fab she views me. I am 100% sure she knows it's me. And I am 100% she owns the profile and not the fella. By the way the text is written and the photos are of her and she's the first couple info written.

So guys what you think do I message and say hi or be cheeky and say what do I owe you or continue to leave it. Mind you I still have little feelings for her"

Plenty more fish in the sea mate...

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By *exinthesunWoman
over a year ago

far far away

Block her, she’ll know you know it’s her and it’ll stick in her throat a little that you’ve taken back a little control by doing so.

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By *s_bettyboopWoman
over a year ago

-3

Block ain't nobody got time for dat!

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