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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi

Newbie to the website, and have read the forums to best optimise my chances of a meet. Detailed profile, photo verified you name it.

Countless (unique to the person) messages sent to interesting women and nothing back lol

On the verge of giving up and deleting account, but just wanted to throw it out there for advice before I depart.

Thanks for reading

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi, and welcome Plaything!

I hope you have fun on Fab..... but the thing to remember is that..... men outnumber women by about 10 to 1, and also that you are very young (time will take care of that! LOL)

Take things slowly, remember to join in with the Forums, chat, socials, clubs etc, and before long you will be having fun! x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ha I think your right. If only you lived in London, I have read your profile

thanks for the reply

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By *riendlymasseurMan
over a year ago

birmingham Warwickshire &Worcestershire

Hi mate, chin up it takes a while . I wish I was younger. I am sure I would have better luck Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

lol cheers mate, yh I dont want to wish my life away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You claim you'll meet 99 year olds: good for you but most have a lower age limit as we don't term comfortable playing with people younger than our children.

You've not been here long and threatening to leave already makes you seem petulant.

There's someone for everyone here, so relax, join in chat and the forums and have fun.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Hi

Newbie to the website, and have read the forums to best optimise my chances of a meet. Detailed profile, photo verified you name it.

Countless (unique to the person) messages sent to interesting women and nothing back lol

On the verge of giving up and deleting account, but just wanted to throw it out there for advice before I depart.

Thanks for reading"

Get rid of the first line on your profile and filter messages from guys and TVs so you don't get them. Your first line should be a positive, not a negative. Also, complaining about getting no meets on your profile might put people off. Thats what the forums are for!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks Sassy + Wyrdwoman

Advice taken on board

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dunt he have lovely abs, though, Sassy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dunt he have lovely abs, though, Sassy!"

He certainly does!!!! Woof ms

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Hi

Newbie to the website, and have read the forums to best optimise my chances of a meet. Detailed profile, photo verified you name it.

Countless (unique to the person) messages sent to interesting women and nothing back lol

On the verge of giving up and deleting account, but just wanted to throw it out there for advice before I depart.

Thanks for reading"

I am going to sound like a broken record..

Time.... Patience..... Common sense

It can take months for people to get their first meets... for example i was on sites for 6 months before I got my feet in the door... if you were thinking swinging would be "insta-shag" it doesn't tend to work that way

if you are already departing then I think your mind is already made up...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Real friendly people on here so I will be patient

Cheers _abio

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sorry, but 4 weeks on here is nothing, there's guys complaining about having no meets after several months!

Patience is the watchword!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

back to the drawing board for me paha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sorry, but 4 weeks on here is nothing, there's guys complaining about having no meets after several months!

Patience is the watchword!

"

It is indeed, it can be an awful long wait, but well worth it. I will say that once your talents are.. erm.. recognised, advancement can be rather.. meteoric after that

All the very best

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your pe states you are looking for females/couples and yet your friends list is a guy? A Little confusing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your pe states you are looking for females/couples and yet your friends list is a guy? A Little confusing "

he private messaged me some good advice after seeing my post. a very honest and helpful guy, nothing sexual tho lol

what a keen eye you have

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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago

south staffs

Hello Joe

Nice abs indeed !

- And if you had at least Some hair on your head . . ? ? But your age preference counts me out, so sigh I am back to the drawing board too. lol

Jane x

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