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By *irtdevil78 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Brighton

Hello Fab people! We have been looking for our elusive other F for a MFF for a few months now but without success. We have chatted to a few interested parties but all dead ends so far. We are always friendly and polite. Is there anything we can do differently: put more/different photos? Change the text? Are we doing anything wrong?

Please Help! We both would love love love to meet a few interested women.

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

Have you tried going to a club or a social event?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would if you weren't so blooming far away. xx

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Hello Fab people! We have been looking for our elusive other F for a MFF for a few months now but without success. We have chatted to a few interested parties but all dead ends so far. We are always friendly and polite. Is there anything we can do differently: put more/different photos? Change the text? Are we doing anything wrong?

Please Help! We both would love love love to meet a few interested women."

I’d personally recommend clubs and socials!

If you lived near me and were interested in old farts I’d probably be interested. Some nice pics!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a Sussex Social on Nov 25th (social event held in a 'normal' pub) - really good opportunity to network and meet other real local people. I recommend coming along and getting to know people as this is by far the best way to find whatever you are looking for in this scene

See you there! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are also on the same search.. seems single F are very rare locally to us.

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By *mm and HerCouple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire


"Have you tried going to a club or a social event?"

We have tried clubs but so far to no avail. Are there particular clubs or nights that are better? Or are we just unlucky/dim/shy/unattractive/doing it wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think everyone wants a female

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As others have advised, go to socials and try different clubs on different nights, and get yourselves known in the scene a little. However there are so many couples searching for a single female, and the number of single females compared to the number of couples on here is minimal, so at that the odds are against you, but your profile does look appealing, so keep on searching and hopefully you'll reap the rewards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely recommend getting out to some socials and chatting making friends, a friendly smile goes a long way over the hundreds of messages that members get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive met couples but recently had to change my mind whether i meet them alone. Few meets I had with couples I was treated like a piece of meat no respect at all. I have searched for the elusive Fem myself to join with me for a mff. In a a way it frustrating but also understandable after the few meets Ive had with couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello Fab people! We have been looking for our elusive other F for a MFF for a few months now but without success. We have chatted to a few interested parties but all dead ends so far. We are always friendly and polite. Is there anything we can do differently: put more/different photos? Change the text? Are we doing anything wrong?

Please Help! We both would love love love to meet a few interested women."

I'd say couples looking for single women are similar to single blokes looking for anything on here:- it's a buyers' market, so be fit, flexible and compelling and bingo! And definitely loosen your inhibitions on a night out- two of our threesomes came from a night out and Chelsea initiating things with a girl on the dancefloor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello Fab people! We have been looking for our elusive other F for a MFF for a few months now but without success. We have chatted to a few interested parties but all dead ends so far. We are always friendly and polite. Is there anything we can do differently: put more/different photos? Change the text? Are we doing anything wrong?

Please Help! We both would love love love to meet a few interested women.

I'd say couples looking for single women are similar to single blokes looking for anything on here:- it's a buyers' market, so be fit, flexible and compelling and bingo! And definitely loosen your inhibitions on a night out- two of our threesomes came from a night out and Chelsea initiating things with a girl on the dancefloor. "

Haha now I know why the girls are hitting on me on the dancefloor. Normally looks like they want to give their blokes a show so I go along!!

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

There are so many couples looking (and not finding) a single female for an MFF why don't they get together and arrange it between them?

Wife A goes to meet couple B and then wife B meets couple A.

That should be easier to organise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are so many couples looking (and not finding) a single female for an MFF why don't they get together and arrange it between them?

Wife A goes to meet couple B and then wife B meets couple A.

That should be easier to organise."

Tried that I did first then they decided they Dont want to. Got what they wanted

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By *irtdevil78 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Brighton

Hello Fab people and many thanks for your advice, offers and encouragement. Hopefully we will be seeing you at social meets and on nights out.

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By *zamiWoman
over a year ago

LONDON


"Hello Fab people! We have been looking for our elusive other F for a MFF for a few months now but without success. We have chatted to a few interested parties but all dead ends so far. We are always friendly and polite. Is there anything we can do differently: put more/different photos? Change the text? Are we doing anything wrong?

Please Help! We both would love love love to meet a few interested women."

This comment wont but you have fab taste in bedroom furniture! Xx

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By *irtdevil78 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Brighton

Ha ha! And in sex toys ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before I became so obese and disabled, I used to meet many couples at clubs and socials. I always approached people, just for a natter and it went from there, mostly soft swing, but I had some fantastic times.

Sadly, I'm struggling to get out and about as most clubs aren't disabled friendly.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Think everyone wants a female"
not enough of us to go round

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