FabSwingers.com forum: Renew membership

By *lwaysdiscreet OP Man
over a year ago

Ashford Kent and Dartford

So into my last day of membership on here.

Been here for a bit now but finding it hard not to be tar with the same brush as all the guys that don't turn up or are rude.

So do you keep on going hoping or cut your losses and call it a day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personally speaking

if i get bored of here i delete, fuck the subscription or not as a fiver isnt really gonna make me stay

the same as buying a drink in a pub, if i dont feel the vibe i leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a fiver... youd pay more for parking for a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what benefit you feel you get from paying,more pictures for others to perv at(may as well be a picture sharing site then) or being able to look at who has looked at you,which can be annoying as if they were interested surely they would contact you ?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bye, see you in a couple of weeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gotta be in it to win it!

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By *lwaysdiscreet OP Man
over a year ago

Ashford Kent and Dartford

I know it's only a fiver but it's the time you put in as well.

From writing all those messages and people not even replying to you.

Its a shame that they dont even want to get to know you a d judge you on one message.

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By *ptimusDMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

If I understand you correctly, you can afford the fiver. So renewing your subscription is neither here no there with regards to your main problem. Which is that you're not getting the results you were hoping to get from the site.

Perhaps your question should be focused on your main problem instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know it's only a fiver but it's the time you put in as well.

From writing all those messages and people not even replying to you.

Its a shame that they dont even want to get to know you a d judge you on one message."

You don't need to pay to keep your membership do you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know it's only a fiver but it's the time you put in as well.

From writing all those messages and people not even replying to you.

Its a shame that they dont even want to get to know you a d judge you on one message.

You don't need to pay to keep your membership do you?"

You don't have to pay, the paid membership just gets you extra features.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Why not stay on as a non paying member, what have you got to lose?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you leave you lose your veris as well. If you need a break just hide your profile.

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

You know its a free site don'y you, you can carry on with out the extra's

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

"If you leave you lose your veris as well. If you need a break just hide your profile."

Plus the people who you’d verified will lose their veri text as well which, can be a little annoying!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winners never quit & quitters never win.

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By *ineMan
over a year ago

In cave behind a waterfall on a hill

Do you really need someone to tell you what to do...

Mmmmmm

If it looks like a look at me thread

If it smells like a look at me thread..

If it reads like a look at me thread...

Awww well I guess it is nearly the weekend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you leave you lose your veris as well. If you need a break just hide your profile.

Plus the people who you’d verified will lose their veri text as well which, can be a little annoying!!"

Indeed it can....but we all suffer from that from time to time.

As for OP....take a break, hide your profile for a little while. Come back when you're feeling a bit more confident. You have verifications under your belt so must be doing something right...

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

"Its a fiver... youd pay more for parking for a day"

Exactly it’s not like your taking on a new morgage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't feel down

It's five quid, keep it on in the back ground and get on with life. Check your emails every so often

There may be a stunning lady and you are right up her street

Or a couple may think yeah he is close and seems sound, let's chat

My two pence worth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its a fiver... youd pay more for parking for a day"

Not if you know the right parking spots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe have a look closer to home rather than blaming others for finding it hard work. All the fools on here make it easier for the good guys to stand out.

You don't have to be a site supporter to keep your profile but we think you have to make an effort to do well on here so even if you're not investing a fiver it will take time.

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By *RnMrsFreakCouple
over a year ago

Hull,England

"Maybe have a look closer to home rather than blaming others for finding it hard work. All the fools on here make it easier for the good guys to stand out.

You don't have to be a site supporter to keep your profile but we think you have to make an effort to do well on here so even if you're not investing a fiver it will take time. "

We'll second that, we see a few guys at socials and parties which is odd as they are open to all so you'd expect to see a lot more considering the vast number on the site. Couples need to put the effort in and lets face it the 'swing' scene is about couples, hence the name. So single guys need to put a lot more effort in to get anywhere, that means going out and mingling with real people and impressing them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you leave you lose your veris as well. If you need a break just hide your profile.

Plus the people who you’d verified will lose their veri text as well which, can be a little annoying!!"

Dito! Really annoying... It's happened to me twice

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