FabSwingers.com forum: wanting to broaden to couples

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey all im a young 20 year old male who has been on and off this site for the last two years to varying levels of success. as of late my mind has been drifting towards playing with couples. but heres the problem ive never done anything with a guy or with one around I don't know how to resolve this could really use some advice on this one

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Are you bi?

If not what difference does having a guy around make?

sorry but this is why i think young guys should be out there doing, not online. Explore sex and your sexuality ,then you might find swingign far more satisfying.

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By *lack_BoltMan
over a year ago

oxford

So true! There are so many young people on these sites these days, and so many of them really need to live life a little first.

Would make life less complicated for all concerned.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"So true! There are so many young people on these sites these days, and so many of them really need to live life a little first.

Would make life less complicated for all concerned. "

Shhhhhhh we will be accused of being ageist

For the record ive been swinging since i was 19,and age is just a number to me, but experience comes from doing, not waiting for things to happen.

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By *riendlymasseurMan
over a year ago

birmingham Warwickshire &Worcestershire

Hey mate ignore the negativity.. just find a genuine couple and try.it nothing will.happen, yes he will watch you and you wlll watch him so you both get to be watched and a voyeur. Have.fun and.make.sure the lady foes too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we all have to start somewhere,so dont be put off by negativity hun.

i too am new to 3sum or more-sums,but is that not what this site is about too??....introductions,widening of knowledge...and of course lots of safe fun with like-minded people??

we all know its not safe to "sleep around out there",so here we all are !!

i wish you lots of luck,and if i can be of any assistance attall,please message me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey all im a young 20 year old male who has been on and off this site for the last two years to varying levels of success. as of late my mind has been drifting towards playing with couples. but heres the problem ive never done anything with a guy or with one around I don't know how to resolve this could really use some advice on this one "

Many men, not just younger ones worry about being around other guys.. I dont play with bi guys..as I am not interested in seeing guys playing with each other..

I dont like sharing the attention... so bi guys would spoil it for me.. not to mention I dont like to even think about it..

However, I only have group times with straight guys.. and yes a few guys struggle.. but on the whole most dont notice as they are two focused on what I am doing..

you have to think to yourself if your cock happened to be next to anothers while it was in a woman.. how would you feel... remember that its for the woman..

If your bi then its different but I can only tell you from straight POV..

When I play with my Master trust me there is no contact in the sexual tense with the guys.. but they will both be hands and mouths over me.. sometimse one at each end.. sometimes both in one... sometimes Master sits back and watches..

we have had a few guys not manage to hack the group plays..

I would perhaps go to a club and see how you feel being around guys there..

and if you are lucky you may get to join in..

cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with Cali - attending a swingers club would be a good first step. This will give you experience in watching other people having sex, and if you're lucky you might meet a single girl who would help you gain experience in having sex while others watch. Once you're comfortable with watching & being watched, a MMF threesome is only a small step. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we find some guys struggle even just being watched.. and most of the time for that Master is on cam and not there..

But I think they feel under pressure to perform..

Cali

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

would love to go to a swingers club, as i live nearer enough one but i'd feel stupid goin on my own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"would love to go to a swingers club, as i live nearer enough one but i'd feel stupid goin on my own "

See if there is a social near you.. go along.. meet people, and often if not held at a club, many disapeer off to the local club..( well they do at Derby socials lol )

Cali

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Most swinging clubs have an over 21's or even over 25's rule.

And i don't think its negative to say the only way to know these things is to do them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our first few swinging meets were with very experienced easygoing friendly couples/guys who were patient enough to go at our pace and show us the ropes. Not literally!!! We were honest about being newbies and unsure about certain things and it worked briliantly. You could try that approach. Shame about your upper age limit. Ms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jemima is right (she always is!) that many clubs have an over 21 or over 25 age limit. However, your local club, La Chambre in Sheffield, has an over 18 policy, so at 20 years old you will be fine.

Saturdays are reserved for 'couples only' but Fridays and Sundays are mixed nights, meaning that you will be very welcome. No need to be shy about going on your own... lots of guys do that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So true! There are so many young people on these sites these days, and so many of them really need to live life a little first.

Would make life less complicated for all concerned. "

you just want us young guys to bugger of so you can hoover up the ladies!! not going to happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah it's definitely all about making that first step by going to a club, that or land a meet with a couple and see how you get on. Make sure they're aware that it's your first MMF though, wouldn't really be fair otherwise.

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