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"In a perfect world we could all partake, but I prefer not to play Russian roulette. Since I have taught sex education and done great big charts on the board to show how two people are actually technically fucking hundreds" ive used that very same chart lol | |||
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"In a perfect world we could all partake, but I prefer not to play Russian roulette. Since I have taught sex education and done great big charts on the board to show how two people are actually technically fucking hundreds" Whilst I agree to sentiment of being careful, I hate when the point is said like this. In no way are you fucking everyone your chosen partner has, and their partners and so on. You're fucking your partner, and anyone they've slept with who wasn't clean. If I sleep with a million people, but the first person had aids, I will expose 999,999 others to the disease. If everyone was clean, none of them had anything to worry about. If I was tested after each 1 and turn up clean then each person will be demonstrably fine. This only matters if someone has an STI/STD. | |||
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"Is it me or does other like feel of bare messy fun and wet creamy knickers xx" I like to cause them | |||
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"Love it with a trusted guy" Had one lately? | |||
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"I don’t wear knickers " brilliant | |||
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"No, Not just you. we love it. " Same here. | |||
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"2 Russian roulette posts nearly a line in fab bareback bingo!" If we get someone on there soap box I have bingo lol | |||
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"I don’t wear knickers " I only wear Knickers | |||
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"Is it me or does other like feel of bare messy fun and wet creamy knickers xx" Not sure on that feeling but love the feeling if cumming inside someone then knowing I will leave them with my sperm inside them instead of in a condom | |||
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"I don’t wear knickers I only wear Knickers " I only wear thongs. | |||
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"Oh defo more horny xx" Agree 100% just too much of a coward to indulge in casual sex unprotected. I do think the risks may well be overstated however the propaganda has worked on me. Just wish I wasn't so scared and could enjoy casual acquaintances to the full. | |||
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"That could be arranged" Name the time and place | |||
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"Go to club f if your into Russian roulette ...a swinging club in the north east almost everyone goes bareback....just be careful if your meeting anyone who plays there" That's just plain crazy. We're new to swinging. Only had sex with my partner in the last 22yrs, we don't use condoms. Love the feel of him and tasting me on his bare dick. We're not looking for me to go with another guy but even if that was the case, I could never imagine not using condoms. Can you really 100% trust someone you've met on here? | |||
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"Go to club f if your into Russian roulette ...a swinging club in the north east almost everyone goes bareback....just be careful if your meeting anyone who plays there" Have you been there? We've been going to ClubF for years and can honestly say we have never seen any one (other than married couples of course) going BB. | |||
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"adult ..choices ..enough said" Yeah, I know.... | |||
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"Go to club f if your into Russian roulette ...a swinging club in the north east almost everyone goes bareback....just be careful if your meeting anyone who plays there" And this statement is based on what? Presuming this is sour grapes.. didn't you score? Absolute tosh | |||
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"Go to club f if your into Russian roulette ...a swinging club in the north east almost everyone goes bareback....just be careful if your meeting anyone who plays there" Russian roulette is a six to one chance of instant death. Absolutely fuck all like un protected sex. Why people use is as a shit and completely in accurate comparison I'll never know, it just sounds thick | |||
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"In a perfect world we could all partake, but I prefer not to play Russian roulette. Since I have taught sex education and done great big charts on the board to show how two people are actually technically fucking hundreds" That's why I always check verifications, you can tell a lot by simply following the trail to see where people have been. It can be very illuminating and helpful in saying no especially when you'd like to say yes | |||
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"Love it with a trusted guy Had one lately?" nope | |||
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"Go to club f if your into Russian roulette ...a swinging club in the north east almost everyone goes bareback....just be careful if your meeting anyone who plays there Russian roulette is a six to one chance of instant death. Absolutely fuck all like un protected sex. Why people use is as a shit and completely in accurate comparison I'll never know, it just sounds thick " | |||
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"Go to club f if your into Russian roulette ...a swinging club in the north east almost everyone goes bareback....just be careful if your meeting anyone who plays there That's just plain crazy. We're new to swinging. Only had sex with my partner in the last 22yrs, we don't use condoms. Love the feel of him and tasting me on his bare dick. We're not looking for me to go with another guy but even if that was the case, I could never imagine not using condoms. Can you really 100% trust someone you've met on here? " I think it's plain bullshit rather than plain crazy | |||
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"Go to club f if your into Russian roulette ...a swinging club in the north east almost everyone goes bareback....just be careful if your meeting anyone who plays there That's just plain crazy. We're new to swinging. Only had sex with my partner in the last 22yrs, we don't use condoms. Love the feel of him and tasting me on his bare dick. We're not looking for me to go with another guy but even if that was the case, I could never imagine not using condoms. Can you really 100% trust someone you've met on here? I think it's plain bullshit rather than plain crazy " Aye well. You know what they say..."Opinions are like arseholes.... Everybody's got one." | |||
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"Go to club f if your into Russian roulette ...a swinging club in the north east almost everyone goes bareback....just be careful if your meeting anyone who plays there That's just plain crazy. We're new to swinging. Only had sex with my partner in the last 22yrs, we don't use condoms. Love the feel of him and tasting me on his bare dick. We're not looking for me to go with another guy but even if that was the case, I could never imagine not using condoms. Can you really 100% trust someone you've met on here? I think it's plain bullshit rather than plain crazy Aye well. You know what they say..."Opinions are like arseholes.... Everybody's got one."" | |||
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"Is it me or does other like feel of bare messy fun and wet creamy knickers xx" we are fully bareback we hate condoms they totally ruin sex for us | |||
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"In a perfect world we could all partake, but I prefer not to play Russian roulette. Since I have taught sex education and done great big charts on the board to show how two people are actually technically fucking hundreds" If you could just run me through it one more time. | |||
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"Is it me or does other like feel of bare messy fun and wet creamy knickers xx" I love it too and all too often cant wait to pull my knickers up to catch the leakage. Feeling it spread in my thighs as i walk mmm. X | |||
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"Is it me or does other like feel of bare messy fun and wet creamy knickers xx I love it too and all too often cant wait to pull my knickers up to catch the leakage. Feeling it spread in my thighs as i walk mmm. X" Love to be the supplier of that. Mmm. x | |||
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"In a perfect world we could all partake, but I prefer not to play Russian roulette. Since I have taught sex education and done great big charts on the board to show how two people are actually technically fucking hundreds Whilst I agree to sentiment of being careful, I hate when the point is said like this. In no way are you fucking everyone your chosen partner has, and their partners and so on. You're fucking your partner, and anyone they've slept with who wasn't clean. If I sleep with a million people, but the first person had aids, I will expose 999,999 others to the disease. If everyone was clean, none of them had anything to worry about. If I was tested after each 1 and turn up clean then each person will be demonstrably fine. This only matters if someone has an STI/STD." That as an argument for is flawed as you've said it, it only takes one to be infected. I'm not going into the rights and wrongs as each to their own BUT I'm sure most are aware of a certain lady on here with nearly 600 BB veris. What frightens me is if you read most of the guys profiles she's been with I'd say 90% say they practice safe sex where the reality is totally different. Does this mean the next person they meet who fancies BB thinks they're clean as their profile states safe sex??? The type of site this is I take everything someone tells me as the truth with a pinch of salt (or in this case a very strong antibiotic!!!) | |||
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"Is it me or does other like feel of bare messy fun and wet creamy knickers xx" I would love to fill you up anytime xx | |||
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"In a perfect world we could all partake, but I prefer not to play Russian roulette. Since I have taught sex education and done great big charts on the board to show how two people are actually technically fucking hundreds Whilst I agree to sentiment of being careful, I hate when the point is said like this. In no way are you fucking everyone your chosen partner has, and their partners and so on. You're fucking your partner, and anyone they've slept with who wasn't clean. If I sleep with a million people, but the first person had aids, I will expose 999,999 others to the disease. If everyone was clean, none of them had anything to worry about. If I was tested after each 1 and turn up clean then each person will be demonstrably fine. This only matters if someone has an STI/STD. That as an argument for is flawed as you've said it, it only takes one to be infected. I'm not going into the rights and wrongs as each to their own BUT I'm sure most are aware of a certain lady on here with nearly 600 BB veris. What frightens me is if you read most of the guys profiles she's been with I'd say 90% say they practice safe sex where the reality is totally different. Does this mean the next person they meet who fancies BB thinks they're clean as their profile states safe sex??? The type of site this is I take everything someone tells me as the truth with a pinch of salt (or in this case a very strong antibiotic!!!)" This is exactly my point. I'm not saying it's 100% safe, as we know that's a blatant lie. However, to say that one person has technically slept with someone else because they share a lover is blatantly wrong. The only thing you might ever share from sleeping with someone a part we has, if all participants are diseases free of course, is fluids if it was recent enough, or the knowledge that you've shared a partner. | |||
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"Go to club f if your into Russian roulette ...a swinging club in the north east almost everyone goes bareback....just be careful if your meeting anyone who plays there" Are you stating a fact or just making things up? | |||
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"Go to club f if your into Russian roulette ...a swinging club in the north east almost everyone goes bareback....just be careful if your meeting anyone who plays there That's just plain crazy. We're new to swinging. Only had sex with my partner in the last 22yrs, we don't use condoms. Love the feel of him and tasting me on his bare dick. We're not looking for me to go with another guy but even if that was the case, I could never imagine not using condoms. Can you really 100% trust someone you've met on here? " Exactly how we feel. Love the thought of it all but holds us back a lot with how careful we are and don't want to take risks. Be nice to find that 100% clean couple you could let yourselves go with | |||
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"We always go bareback as a married couple together and we do have 1 couple who we do it with too as we love it and know them very well . But as much as condoms put a downer on things and kind of spoil the moment , we really couldn't risk it with anyone else so the only way we play is safe . Xx ( the Mrs here ) " Very wise ..... | |||
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"Go to club f if your into Russian roulette ...a swinging club in the north east almost everyone goes bareback....just be careful if your meeting anyone who plays there That's just plain crazy. We're new to swinging. Only had sex with my partner in the last 22yrs, we don't use condoms. Love the feel of him and tasting me on his bare dick. We're not looking for me to go with another guy but even if that was the case, I could never imagine not using condoms. Can you really 100% trust someone you've met on here? Exactly how we feel. Love the thought of it all but holds us back a lot with how careful we are and don't want to take risks. Be nice to find that 100% clean couple you could let yourselves go with " | |||
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"Is it me or does other like feel of bare messy fun and wet creamy knickers xx" A dollop of cream on the thighs Increases the loudness of sighs Bareback for the masses Should be done up the asses (At least pregnancy would not arise) | |||
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"It’s so much naughty fun getting cream inn mmmmm xx " We totally agree. mmmmm | |||
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"As I was reading there are strains of gonnereah that are now untreatable I feel condoms are the only way unless in long term relationship" Indeed I’ve heard bad spelling is one of the first symptoms | |||
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"As I was reading there are strains of gonnereah that are now untreatable I feel condoms are the only way unless in long term relationship Indeed I’ve heard bad spelling is one of the first symptoms " | |||
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"I don’t wear knickers " neither do I for a meet | |||
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"Great feeling when a woman tells you to unload in her " This | |||
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"Condoms... regardless. Having been talked into bare back by several women on fab, who have since gone onto have bare back at clubs not knowing the history of said club patrons. I was stupid having trusted them. I can firmly say no glove no love..." "Having been talked into bare back" you could have said no!! | |||
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"Condoms... regardless. Having been talked into bare back by several women on fab, who have since gone onto have bare back at clubs not knowing the history of said club patrons. I was stupid having trusted them. I can firmly say no glove no love... "Having been talked into bare back" you could have said no!!" Maybe they told him it was an invisible condom they were putting on | |||
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"Condoms... regardless. Having been talked into bare back by several women on fab, who have since gone onto have bare back at clubs not knowing the history of said club patrons. I was stupid having trusted them. I can firmly say no glove no love... "Having been talked into bare back" you could have said no!!" Maybe they used Jedi mind tricks...always work on weak minded people with no sense of self preservation | |||
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"In a perfect world we could all partake, but I prefer not to play Russian roulette. Since I have taught sex education and done great big charts on the board to show how two people are actually technically fucking hundreds" A very sobering thought | |||
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"Is it me or does other like feel of bare messy fun and wet creamy knickers xx" I'd fuck you anytime your gorgeous.. Call me.x | |||
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"Is it me or does other like feel of bare messy fun and wet creamy knickers xx" Yes please lol x | |||
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"Condoms... regardless. Having been talked into bare back by several women on fab, who have since gone onto have bare back at clubs not knowing the history of said club patrons. I was stupid having trusted them. I can firmly say no glove no love... "Having been talked into bare back" you could have said no!! Maybe they used Jedi mind tricks...always work on weak minded people with no sense of self preservation " "Those aren't the contraception you're looking for" | |||
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"It’s the best feel guy unload in you mmmm xx" I agree mmmmmmm but not just to give it out randomly either-our health is important | |||
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"There's a difference between bareback and Cumming in a pussy Safety is wearing a condom while penetrating but can always unload without it " Read it three times and still don't get it? | |||
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"Condoms... regardless. Having been talked into bare back by several women on fab, who have since gone onto have bare back at clubs not knowing the history of said club patrons. I was stupid having trusted them. I can firmly say no glove no love... "Having been talked into bare back" you could have said no!! Maybe they used Jedi mind tricks...always work on weak minded people with no sense of self preservation "Those aren't the contraception you're looking for"" (As I wave my hand in an Alex gunniuss style) You don’t need me to wear a condom!!!! Could be a porn Star Wars parody | |||
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"There's a difference between bareback and Cumming in a pussy Safety is wearing a condom while penetrating but can always unload without it " Please explain how you can ejaculate in a pussy without penetration? On, yes. Near, yes. In? Not unless the lady opens up and you shoot into her. That would be safer for you, not for her. | |||
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"Condoms are a passion killer, neither of us like them. We'll try them but 99 times out of 100, it kills the moment." We agree with this 100% | |||
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"Love the feeling of bare back Hate the feeling of death Bare back lasts one night Death is forever Never trust anyone with your life you don’t know!! Why are we even asking!! Sorry guys but it freaks me out " Couple of things, chances of dying from an std are stupidly low...getting in a car is waaay more likely to kill you, bet you still do that with no thought right? And really? What is it about the feeling of death you don't like? I've never experienced it personally. | |||
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"There's a difference between bareback and Cumming in a pussy Safety is wearing a condom while penetrating but can always unload without it " And spray your disease riddled spunk in her eyes or over her bare pussy instead. That sounds safe. | |||
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"There's a difference between bareback and Cumming in a pussy Safety is wearing a condom while penetrating but can always unload without it And spray your disease riddled spunk in her eyes or over her bare pussy instead. That sounds safe. " Few seem to know or accept that the eyes are and can be one more common area to to catch an std. Facials arent as safe as many initially think. The eye is very vulnerable to infection and the blood source which will carry the infection is closest to the surface than anywhere on the body. | |||
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"I don't like it. I feel uncomfortable and on edge with sticky skin and knickers. " This ^ plus I can't sleep with wet pussy and thighs | |||
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"Jesus some real doom mongers made it onto this thread. Nobody is forcing anybody to do anything they don’t want to do. " I agree, some on here have got issues. | |||
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"Jesus some real doom mongers made it onto this thread. Nobody is forcing anybody to do anything they don’t want to do. I agree, some on here have got issues. " And everyone is entitled to an opinion. Not only that, they can express them here. It doesn't make them wrong just because you don't agree. If you like bareback, great for you, but no one who only does bareback will be invited to our place. Not that it would bother you superstuds... | |||
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"Jesus some real doom mongers made it onto this thread. Nobody is forcing anybody to do anything they don’t want to do. I agree, some on here have got issues. And everyone is entitled to an opinion. Not only that, they can express them here. It doesn't make them wrong just because you don't agree. If you like bareback, great for you, but no one who only does bareback will be invited to our place. Not that it would bother you superstuds... " Fine to express an opinion but why rain on somebody’s parade? If somebody started criticising people for being bi or gay or trans, it quite rightly wouldn’t be tolerated. Why should people be criticised for enjoying something that is 100% legal and fun? | |||
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"Jesus some real doom mongers made it onto this thread. Nobody is forcing anybody to do anything they don’t want to do. I agree, some on here have got issues. And everyone is entitled to an opinion. Not only that, they can express them here. It doesn't make them wrong just because you don't agree. If you like bareback, great for you, but no one who only does bareback will be invited to our place. Not that it would bother you superstuds... Fine to express an opinion but why rain on somebody’s parade? If somebody started criticising people for being bi or gay or trans, it quite rightly wouldn’t be tolerated. Why should people be criticised for enjoying something that is 100% legal and fun? " So whose parade have I rained on? Nobody's! If you post on a forum with such a contentious subject, it is going to polarise opinion. If you can't take the heat, don't post the subject. Perhaps those like yourself who like bareback with strangers don't like to be reminded of the dangers your choices leave you exposed to. | |||
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"Jesus some real doom mongers made it onto this thread. Nobody is forcing anybody to do anything they don’t want to do. I agree, some on here have got issues. And everyone is entitled to an opinion. Not only that, they can express them here. It doesn't make them wrong just because you don't agree. If you like bareback, great for you, but no one who only does bareback will be invited to our place. Not that it would bother you superstuds... Fine to express an opinion but why rain on somebody’s parade? If somebody started criticising people for being bi or gay or trans, it quite rightly wouldn’t be tolerated. Why should people be criticised for enjoying something that is 100% legal and fun? So whose parade have I rained on? Nobody's! If you post on a forum with such a contentious subject, it is going to polarise opinion. If you can't take the heat, don't post the subject. Perhaps those like yourself who like bareback with strangers don't like to be reminded of the dangers your choices leave you exposed to. " The threads..we know he dangers..there was a good vibe then the ubiquitous and tiresome do gooders arrive to 'remind' us of the dangers. Like the Jehovah witnesses of fab..... | |||
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"Jesus some real doom mongers made it onto this thread. Nobody is forcing anybody to do anything they don’t want to do. I agree, some on here have got issues. And everyone is entitled to an opinion. Not only that, they can express them here. It doesn't make them wrong just because you don't agree. If you like bareback, great for you, but no one who only does bareback will be invited to our place. Not that it would bother you superstuds... Fine to express an opinion but why rain on somebody’s parade? If somebody started criticising people for being bi or gay or trans, it quite rightly wouldn’t be tolerated. Why should people be criticised for enjoying something that is 100% legal and fun? So whose parade have I rained on? Nobody's! If you post on a forum with such a contentious subject, it is going to polarise opinion. If you can't take the heat, don't post the subject. Perhaps those like yourself who like bareback with strangers don't like to be reminded of the dangers your choices leave you exposed to. " Lmfao! Grow up! You really think that "those like yourself who like bareback" (especially in the swinging community) don't know and understand the risks at LEAST just as much as you do, if not more? Who are you to get sarky about other people's choices? Scenario for you: You meet somebody who has never said anything about having bareback sex in their past.. (although most people have, although the following still probably applies if they haven't..) and you have sex with them, or go down on them, or vice versa, with no protection (how many people use dental dams really?)... This person contracted type 1/2 herpes on their mouth/genitals but they don't know it because they've never had symptoms (very common).. They could be shedding that day and never know it. You could contract herpes. Even with a condom. Have you ever considered that before meeting someone? Have you ever considered that you may carry the herpes virus and not know it? Maybe you're endangering other people and not knowing it. | |||
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"Jesus some real doom mongers made it onto this thread. Nobody is forcing anybody to do anything they don’t want to do. I agree, some on here have got issues. And everyone is entitled to an opinion. Not only that, they can express them here. It doesn't make them wrong just because you don't agree. If you like bareback, great for you, but no one who only does bareback will be invited to our place. Not that it would bother you superstuds... Fine to express an opinion but why rain on somebody’s parade? If somebody started criticising people for being bi or gay or trans, it quite rightly wouldn’t be tolerated. Why should people be criticised for enjoying something that is 100% legal and fun? So whose parade have I rained on? Nobody's! If you post on a forum with such a contentious subject, it is going to polarise opinion. If you can't take the heat, don't post the subject. Perhaps those like yourself who like bareback with strangers don't like to be reminded of the dangers your choices leave you exposed to. Lmfao! Grow up! You really think that "those like yourself who like bareback" (especially in the swinging community) don't know and understand the risks at LEAST just as much as you do, if not more? Who are you to get sarky about other people's choices? Scenario for you: You meet somebody who has never said anything about having bareback sex in their past.. (although most people have, although the following still probably applies if they haven't..) and you have sex with them, or go down on them, or vice versa, with no protection (how many people use dental dams really?)... This person contracted type 1/2 herpes on their mouth/genitals but they don't know it because they've never had symptoms (very common).. They could be shedding that day and never know it. You could contract herpes. Even with a condom. Have you ever considered that before meeting someone? Have you ever considered that you may carry the herpes virus and not know it? Maybe you're endangering other people and not knowing it. " So what you are saying is that we who don't do bareback for a very good reason shouldn't have a voice? And you tell me to grow up! Thing is, those who get narked about comments like mine and others saying how bad it can be, are mad because they want to live in denial of the facts. I don't care but you won't silence me because if frightens the shite out of you to be reminded. If it wasn't a worry, posts against wouldn't be a problem! But anyway, your scenario. Of course we all know the dangers of what we do. We all know that condoms are not the be all and end all of safe sex, but what you fail to acknowledge is that it is far safer than bareback sex! And your scenario is even more backing for not having unprotected sex! Run along and do what you will, It bothers me not. But I will post my views on whatever I like! | |||
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"Jesus some real doom mongers made it onto this thread. Nobody is forcing anybody to do anything they don’t want to do. I agree, some on here have got issues. And everyone is entitled to an opinion. Not only that, they can express them here. It doesn't make them wrong just because you don't agree. If you like bareback, great for you, but no one who only does bareback will be invited to our place. Not that it would bother you superstuds... Fine to express an opinion but why rain on somebody’s parade? If somebody started criticising people for being bi or gay or trans, it quite rightly wouldn’t be tolerated. Why should people be criticised for enjoying something that is 100% legal and fun? So whose parade have I rained on? Nobody's! If you post on a forum with such a contentious subject, it is going to polarise opinion. If you can't take the heat, don't post the subject. Perhaps those like yourself who like bareback with strangers don't like to be reminded of the dangers your choices leave you exposed to. The threads..we know he dangers..there was a good vibe then the ubiquitous and tiresome do gooders arrive to 'remind' us of the dangers. Like the Jehovah witnesses of fab....." Spot on | |||
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"In a perfect world we could all partake, but I prefer not to play Russian roulette. Since I have taught sex education and done great big charts on the board to show how two people are actually technically fucking hundreds" "Two people are actually technically fucking hundreds"... Think about it; if we are talking specifically about STI risk and not some emotionally driven perception of the other person's character or desirability as a life partner based on their number of sexual experiences, then a properly conducted, full spectrum, CLEAN STI check resets the "hundreds" to zero? | |||
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"In a perfect world we could all partake, but I prefer not to play Russian roulette. Since I have taught sex education and done great big charts on the board to show how two people are actually technically fucking hundreds "Two people are actually technically fucking hundreds"... Think about it; if we are talking specifically about STI risk and not some emotionally driven perception of the other person's character or desirability as a life partner based on their number of sexual experiences, then a properly conducted, full spectrum, CLEAN STI check resets the "hundreds" to zero?" That doesn't sound as alarmist as fucking millions though | |||
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"In a perfect world we could all partake, but I prefer not to play Russian roulette. Since I have taught sex education and done great big charts on the board to show how two people are actually technically fucking hundreds "Two people are actually technically fucking hundreds"... Think about it; if we are talking specifically about STI risk and not some emotionally driven perception of the other person's character or desirability as a life partner based on their number of sexual experiences, then a properly conducted, full spectrum, CLEAN STI check resets the "hundreds" to zero? That doesn't sound as alarmist as fucking millions though " Absolutely!! You can catch a STI from a someone who has had sex once in their life and be safe with someone tested clean on their 1000th sexual partner. In the developed world no one dies of treated STIs these days yet if you ask someone if they would rather have Flu or chlamydia. 90% would say Flu because of the stigma attached to STIs. Russian roulette has a 1 in 6 chance of killing you. Cancer actually kills 1 in 5. On average over 12,000 die each year in the UK of Flu. No one has died of chlamydia in modern times. So let us be realistic and not "alarmist" | |||
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"In a perfect world we could all partake, but I prefer not to play Russian roulette. Since I have taught sex education and done great big charts on the board to show how two people are actually technically fucking hundreds "Two people are actually technically fucking hundreds"... Think about it; if we are talking specifically about STI risk and not some emotionally driven perception of the other person's character or desirability as a life partner based on their number of sexual experiences, then a properly conducted, full spectrum, CLEAN STI check resets the "hundreds" to zero? That doesn't sound as alarmist as fucking millions though Absolutely!! You can catch a STI from a someone who has had sex once in their life and be safe with someone tested clean on their 1000th sexual partner. In the developed world no one dies of treated STIs these days yet if you ask someone if they would rather have Flu or chlamydia. 90% would say Flu because of the stigma attached to STIs. Russian roulette has a 1 in 6 chance of killing you. Cancer actually kills 1 in 5. On average over 12,000 die each year in the UK of Flu. No one has died of chlamydia in modern times. So let us be realistic and not "alarmist" " You are a one woman education machine! | |||
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"In a perfect world we could all partake, but I prefer not to play Russian roulette. Since I have taught sex education and done great big charts on the board to show how two people are actually technically fucking hundreds "Two people are actually technically fucking hundreds"... Think about it; if we are talking specifically about STI risk and not some emotionally driven perception of the other person's character or desirability as a life partner based on their number of sexual experiences, then a properly conducted, full spectrum, CLEAN STI check resets the "hundreds" to zero? That doesn't sound as alarmist as fucking millions though Absolutely!! You can catch a STI from a someone who has had sex once in their life and be safe with someone tested clean on their 1000th sexual partner. In the developed world no one dies of treated STIs these days yet if you ask someone if they would rather have Flu or chlamydia. 90% would say Flu because of the stigma attached to STIs. Russian roulette has a 1 in 6 chance of killing you. Cancer actually kills 1 in 5. On average over 12,000 die each year in the UK of Flu. No one has died of chlamydia in modern times. So let us be realistic and not "alarmist" " Stop thinking things through and being sensible..it's Willy and vajayjay based so it's icky ok more knee jerk and less sense please | |||
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"In a perfect world we could all partake, but I prefer not to play Russian roulette. Since I have taught sex education and done great big charts on the board to show how two people are actually technically fucking hundreds "Two people are actually technically fucking hundreds"... Think about it; if we are talking specifically about STI risk and not some emotionally driven perception of the other person's character or desirability as a life partner based on their number of sexual experiences, then a properly conducted, full spectrum, CLEAN STI check resets the "hundreds" to zero? That doesn't sound as alarmist as fucking millions though Absolutely!! You can catch a STI from a someone who has had sex once in their life and be safe with someone tested clean on their 1000th sexual partner. In the developed world no one dies of treated STIs these days yet if you ask someone if they would rather have Flu or chlamydia. 90% would say Flu because of the stigma attached to STIs. Russian roulette has a 1 in 6 chance of killing you. Cancer actually kills 1 in 5. On average over 12,000 die each year in the UK of Flu. No one has died of chlamydia in modern times. So let us be realistic and not "alarmist" Stop thinking things through and being sensible..it's Willy and vajayjay based so it's icky ok more knee jerk and less sense please " Yeah! With your fooking facts and calm approach | |||
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"In a perfect world we could all partake, but I prefer not to play Russian roulette. Since I have taught sex education and done great big charts on the board to show how two people are actually technically fucking hundreds "Two people are actually technically fucking hundreds"... Think about it; if we are talking specifically about STI risk and not some emotionally driven perception of the other person's character or desirability as a life partner based on their number of sexual experiences, then a properly conducted, full spectrum, CLEAN STI check resets the "hundreds" to zero? That doesn't sound as alarmist as fucking millions though Absolutely!! You can catch a STI from a someone who has had sex once in their life and be safe with someone tested clean on their 1000th sexual partner. In the developed world no one dies of treated STIs these days yet if you ask someone if they would rather have Flu or chlamydia. 90% would say Flu because of the stigma attached to STIs. Russian roulette has a 1 in 6 chance of killing you. Cancer actually kills 1 in 5. On average over 12,000 die each year in the UK of Flu. No one has died of chlamydia in modern times. So let us be realistic and not "alarmist" Stop thinking things through and being sensible..it's Willy and vajayjay based so it's icky ok more knee jerk and less sense please Yeah! With your fooking facts and calm approach " Honestly...how we gonna form an angry pitchfork bearing mob with people talking like this! This would never happen if.....condoms | |||
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"Down with naked willies! *shakes pitchfork*" Nooo! Up with them! Up up up the naked Willie's I say! | |||
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"In a perfect world we could all partake, but I prefer not to play Russian roulette. Since I have taught sex education and done great big charts on the board to show how two people are actually technically fucking hundreds" Very sensible its not worth the risk! | |||
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"Go to club f if your into Russian roulette ...a swinging club in the north east almost everyone goes bareback....just be careful if your meeting anyone who plays there That's just plain crazy. We're new to swinging. Only had sex with my partner in the last 22yrs, we don't use condoms. Love the feel of him and tasting me on his bare dick. We're not looking for me to go with another guy but even if that was the case, I could never imagine not using condoms. Can you really 100% trust someone you've met on here? " best be safe than sorry! | |||
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"Down with naked willies! *shakes pitchfork* Nooo! Up with them! Up up up the naked Willie's I say! " I've got a flaming torch...mind your pubes!! | |||
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"Is it me or does other like feel of bare messy fun and wet creamy knickers xx" Yummy x | |||
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"Down with naked willies! *shakes pitchfork* Nooo! Up with them! Up up up the naked Willie's I say! I've got a flaming torch...mind your pubes!!" Fire would kill the pube AIDS though | |||
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"Down with naked willies! *shakes pitchfork* Nooo! Up with them! Up up up the naked Willie's I say! I've got a flaming torch...mind your pubes!!" They're pretty much none existent anyhow | |||
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"Down with naked willies! *shakes pitchfork* Nooo! Up with them! Up up up the naked Willie's I say! I've got a flaming torch...mind your pubes!! Fire would kill the pube AIDS though " Maybe that's the answer..just incinerate people once they've had bareback? That would help scour he world of winky germs! | |||
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"Down with naked willies! *shakes pitchfork* Nooo! Up with them! Up up up the naked Willie's I say! I've got a flaming torch...mind your pubes!! Fire would kill the pube AIDS though Maybe that's the answer..just incinerate people once they've had bareback? That would help scour he world of winky germs! " And would appeas the Daily HateMail forum elite | |||
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"Down with naked willies! *shakes pitchfork* Nooo! Up with them! Up up up the naked Willie's I say! I've got a flaming torch...mind your pubes!! Fire would kill the pube AIDS though Maybe that's the answer..just incinerate people once they've had bareback? That would help scour he world of winky germs! And would appeas the Daily HateMail forum elite " Light the torches!! | |||
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"Down with naked willies! *shakes pitchfork* Nooo! Up with them! Up up up the naked Willie's I say! I've got a flaming torch...mind your pubes!! Fire would kill the pube AIDS though Maybe that's the answer..just incinerate people once they've had bareback? That would help scour he world of winky germs! And would appeas the Daily HateMail forum elite Light the torches!! " Down with that sort of thing! | |||
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"All thoughts of the risk aside, bareback definitely feels better;)" Condoms are such a passion killer. How have they not advanced in 30 years? ?!lol | |||
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"All thoughts of the risk aside, bareback definitely feels better;) Condoms are such a passion killer. How have they not advanced in 30 years? ?!lol " Lol I agree! In all honestly bareback now would be preferable over my hand again lol | |||
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"All thoughts of the risk aside, bareback definitely feels better;) Condoms are such a passion killer. How have they not advanced in 30 years? ?!lol Lol I agree! In all honestly bareback now would be preferable over my hand again lol" Have a posh wank | |||
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"Down with naked willies! *shakes pitchfork* Nooo! Up with them! Up up up the naked Willie's I say! I've got a flaming torch...mind your pubes!! Fire would kill the pube AIDS though Maybe that's the answer..just incinerate people once they've had bareback? That would help scour he world of winky germs! And would appeas the Daily HateMail forum elite Light the torches!! Down with that sort of thing! " Careful now | |||
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"Down with naked willies! *shakes pitchfork* Nooo! Up with them! Up up up the naked Willie's I say! I've got a flaming torch...mind your pubes!! Fire would kill the pube AIDS though Maybe that's the answer..just incinerate people once they've had bareback? That would help scour he world of winky germs! And would appeas the Daily HateMail forum elite Light the torches!! Down with that sort of thing! Careful now" Haha! You got the quote! ! | |||
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"Go to club f if your into Russian roulette ...a swinging club in the north east almost everyone goes bareback....just be careful if your meeting anyone who plays there That's just plain crazy. We're new to swinging. Only had sex with my partner in the last 22yrs, we don't use condoms. Love the feel of him and tasting me on his bare dick. We're not looking for me to go with another guy but even if that was the case, I could never imagine not using condoms. Can you really 100% trust someone you've met on here? " Very well said | |||
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"The actual activity is good. But got to be risky on here. How do you ‘trust’ someone. Like someone said earlier it’s like shagging a million people on here to shag one. There are risk takers on fab here and then many more on fab guys. What I discovered was that someone with HIV taking the drugs actually then can’t give HIV to someone else. It’s all risky and worth getting tested often. " Not quite. If there taking hiv drugs & there viral load count is undetectable the risk drops big time. But is it worth that tiny risk even if it's just 1%.. But there are also different strains of the virus. My ex was head of 4gum clinics in Manc few years back & I knew the staff & I asked questions. But times I know have moved on. But hey oh safe unless I'm 100% sure here & these days the spot on instand blood test I've been told now is very accurate to a point of 99%. Calderdale nhs in places you can actually get paid £10 to get a test. But to me If it takes some folk to get paid a tenner how much is there life worth to them. But if it takes £10 to stop someone else getting it great. | |||
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"Very so doom xx " I bet some who have said no bareback ever on this thread, regularly do in fact go bareback with strangers. At least people like us are happy to admit our preferences. X | |||
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"Very so doom xx I bet some who have said no bareback ever on this thread, regularly do in fact go bareback with strangers. At least people like us are happy to admit our preferences. X" and take the moral, if not hypocritical, high ground ....and THEY are the ones that cannot be trusted.... | |||
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"It’s the best feel guy unload in you mmmm xx I agree mmmmmmm but not just to give it out randomly either-our health is important" | |||
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"Very so doom xx I bet some who have said no bareback ever on this thread, regularly do in fact go bareback with strangers. At least people like us are happy to admit our preferences. X" to be fair we have seen on many threads where people have objected but we have been approached by them in the past for bare. To be fair we have found it lots in clubs. To the fact I have actually pulled Mr' s cock away from a woman as she was about to slip on bare... x | |||
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"In a perfect world we could all partake, but I prefer not to play Russian roulette. Since I have taught sex education and done great big charts on the board to show how two people are actually technically fucking hundreds "Two people are actually technically fucking hundreds"... Think about it; if we are talking specifically about STI risk and not some emotionally driven perception of the other person's character or desirability as a life partner based on their number of sexual experiences, then a properly conducted, full spectrum, CLEAN STI check resets the "hundreds" to zero? That doesn't sound as alarmist as fucking millions though Absolutely!! You can catch a STI from a someone who has had sex once in their life and be safe with someone tested clean on their 1000th sexual partner. In the developed world no one dies of treated STIs these days yet if you ask someone if they would rather have Flu or chlamydia. 90% would say Flu because of the stigma attached to STIs. Russian roulette has a 1 in 6 chance of killing you. Cancer actually kills 1 in 5. On average over 12,000 die each year in the UK of Flu. No one has died of chlamydia in modern times. So let us be realistic and not "alarmist" Stop thinking things through and being sensible..it's Willy and vajayjay based so it's icky ok more knee jerk and less sense please Yeah! With your fooking facts and calm approach Honestly...how we gonna form an angry pitchfork bearing mob with people talking like this! This would never happen if.....condoms " | |||
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"Very so doom xx I bet some who have said no bareback ever on this thread, regularly do in fact go bareback with strangers. At least people like us are happy to admit our preferences. X and take the moral, if not hypocritical, high ground ....and THEY are the ones that cannot be trusted...." they're the ones that do it on the quiet, don't get tested and end up spreading things. Rather someone be up front and honest then you can decide if you want to shag them. I love BB and I'm honest about it so the person knows exactly what they're getting. Test every 6months......always clear. Must be lucky then or bb'ing the right people. | |||
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"Very so doom xx I bet some who have said no bareback ever on this thread, regularly do in fact go bareback with strangers. At least people like us are happy to admit our preferences. X and take the moral, if not hypocritical, high ground ....and THEY are the ones that cannot be trusted.... they're the ones that do it on the quiet, don't get tested and end up spreading things. Rather someone be up front and honest then you can decide if you want to shag them. I love BB and I'm honest about it so the person knows exactly what they're getting. Test every 6months......always clear. Must be lucky then or bb'ing the right people." | |||
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"Bareback would always be preferred cause everyone knows rubbers take most the feeling from it. It's like you're only getting half the experience. But these are dangerous times and I'm strapped when I'm playing. " Dangerous times? Not half as dangerous as 20+ years ago | |||
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"Bareback would always be preferred cause everyone knows rubbers take most the feeling from it. It's like you're only getting half the experience. But these are dangerous times and I'm strapped when I'm playing. Dangerous times? Not half as dangerous as 20+ years ago" Still dangerous though To each their own | |||
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