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By *antsbelle OP   Woman
over a year ago

basingstoke

Why do some men lie about their age?! Can you report sometime who is a lot older than they say on their profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes you can report them but it may be difficult to prove. They lie to get meets obviously, it's the aching balls you see, they force them to lie. XXX

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Why do some men lie about their age?! Can you report sometime who is a lot older than they say on their profile?"

I had a message a while back from a guy who insisted he was 57. His pictures were taken inside his residential home and it was obvious he was in his 70's

Seems thinking with their other brain is a lifelong condition.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

They do it sometimes to get around filters,annoying and used to really irritate me when I had my old single profile.

Definately report op..miss

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Or younger?

When you get messages from a newish profile, almost identical to one you politely turned down for being way below your age range, but is now 2yrs over it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some men lie about their age?! Can you report sometime who is a lot older than they say on their profile?

I had a message a while back from a guy who insisted he was 57. His pictures were taken inside his residential home and it was obvious he was in his 70's

Seems thinking with their other brain is a lifelong condition."

Maybe he was trying to hook you up with his [younger] carer

- Mrs. J -

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By *edMan
over a year ago

cambridgeshire


"Why do some men lie about their age?! Can you report sometime who is a lot older than they say on their profile?"

I don't lie about my age...

I don't even like when I hear the dreaded question, "does my bum look big in this..."

maybe this is why I'm still single??

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By *edMan
over a year ago

cambridgeshire

don't even lie, I mean..

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Some of the lovely ladies lie about age too.

Some people have been 40 for years now. Either that or they use a different system

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people look older or younger than they are. Without passport verification we will never be able to combat this.

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By *revor1940Man
over a year ago

Near Haverfordwest

I lie by a few weeks to not put my genuine birthday on the site, I have actually said I am a bit older than my real age. The overall result is a belief I cant perform and exclusion by many. Better than pretending something else.

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

This does happen a lot... Along with old or very flattering pics to accompany the profiles.

Its annoying for sure but just a part of the 'game' I guess

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By *enuine 17Couple
over a year ago

Coventry

One thing we have never got our heads around will meet 18 to 99 years old we had a mail years ago from a man telling us he was 50 we arranged a meet think the zimmer frame gave it away as we sat in pub car park was totally shocked!!!when he arrived hence did not get out of the car

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple on here accused us of lying about our ages.

Said we looked older than we put on our profile..

Bit of a kick in the teeth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The same reason women do, I would guess.

Personally I don't see the point, but then that's me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im 33 look older but dont bother me age tbh as long as i like the look of you and get on who cares but dont lie thats just stupid tbh youll look different couple of years maybe but alot older or younger dont see the point

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Why do some men lie about their age?! Can you report sometime who is a lot older than they say on their profile?"

Lol how much older are they ? Like decades ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How is age so relevant? There are 30 years old that look worn out and 50 years old that could model.

Looks mean nothing if you dont pay as well attention to personality and attitude.

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By *exinthesunWoman
over a year ago

far far away

On a previous profile I met 2 guys who confessed to being 10 years older than their profile ages. The 1st of them could almost pass for his fake age but the other, lord knows how he thought he was going to get away with it. Both were told to toddle off again, I do not like being lied to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes looks don’t matter a lot when it comes to me but uploading 5 years ago pics. And we meet in a car park,it’s a unforgiven sin. Be happy with your age,someone will like you for who you are. I was pissed off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a good point, im 44, probably look 44 lol, ive always loved older women, 40,60 ish, as ladies seem to age better!, dont see the point in lying, age ,height, etc, whats the point?, telling someone you are a seven foot mass of rippling muscled sex god, ...they will notice that youve been fibbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a good point, im 44, probably look 44 lol, ive always loved older women, 40,60 ish, as ladies seem to age better!, dont see the point in lying, age ,height, etc, whats the point?, telling someone you are a seven foot mass of rippling muscled sex god, ...they will notice that youve been fibbing

Mate you are So right just be honest then save the disappointment and the _ed faces if you actually me "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some men lie about their age?! Can you report sometime who is a lot older than they say on their profile?"

some women lie too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im always told im too young!

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"How is age so relevant? There are 30 years old that look worn out and 50 years old that could model.

Looks mean nothing if you dont pay as well attention to personality and attitude.

"

Worn out

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By *ustalittleKinkWoman
over a year ago

in the shadows

I had someone message me the other day . Fab age said 35 ... on his profile he said he was 44. He couldn't get his head around why I wasn't interested in chatting to him !! Errr because you're a liar

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Lots lie about age along with body shape etc its not just single men either

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By *taceylacyCouple
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

Mine says 55, I'm actually 62 - but had no complaints so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im 43. I dont lie bout my age. Most say i look younger and im flatte_ed but i am 43

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

I am really 53 or 43 or 26 or 35 depending on how many meds I've taken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fast approaching the big five-oh. I know that will exclude me from contacting a whole swathe of ladies....but I guess I'll just have to suck it up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How is age so relevant? There are 30 years old that look worn out and 50 years old that could model.

Looks mean nothing if you dont pay as well attention to personality and attitude.

"

Pffffft oh my days...

"Worn out" you know

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"I'm fast approaching the big five-oh. I know that will exclude me from contacting a whole swathe of ladies....but I guess I'll just have to suck it up!"

Me next May but thankfully we meet in clubs no probs but if on here get swerved lol Fi x

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By *lderukmale2005Man
over a year ago

basingstoke


"A couple on here accused us of lying about our ages.

Said we looked older than we put on our profile..

Bit of a kick in the teeth "

Worry not you look fabulous

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By *hickone48 and christinaMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

Don't forget the age stays same on profile even tho you been on site for years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't forget the age stays same on profile even tho you been on site for years "

No it doesn’t, it changes each year.

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By *azielMan
over a year ago

Midlands

Most guys lie because they think it'll help them meets. Alot of older guys think women want younger men. I've been tempted to I have to admit. I found a woman who sounded great and I thought we'd hit it off but her profile aid no younger than 30. I didn't in the end but it's a shame cos I think we'd have a great time. Not worth lying in my eyes as your obviously gonna get found out.

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

We are what we are

What's this age thing ? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I wonde_ed how long it would take for someone to take another opportunity to bash guys, mainly single ones, in a forum post.

Women lie about their age too !!!!

If you meet someone and enjoy their company is age really a major issue?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wouldnt worry, you both look great!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

....i think i was just worried you wouldnt go through with marrying me!,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some men lie about their age?! Can you report sometime who is a lot older than they say on their profile?"

I never lie about my age. Didn't stop people thinking I lying though. Apparently I don't look anywhere near 38 to a lot of people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some men lie about their age?! Can you report sometime who is a lot older than they say on their profile?"

I agree I know a guy her who says he's 42 when he's 50.

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By *ohnkezCouple
over a year ago

shefiield

Lol I'm 96

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

If people lie about their age what else are they lying about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what's wrong with being 70 or more? Too many women immediately rule out men over a certain age. It's blatant ageism.

Age = experience and wisdom. And we can 'perform'!

We have more to talk about and most of us know how to manage a good relationship. We are not 'past it' and we don't all have 'carers'!

70 is the new 50.

It's not about age of the body, it's about the spirit inside.

Get rid of your prejudices, you don't know what you're missing!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"So what's wrong with being 70 or more? Too many women immediately rule out men over a certain age. It's blatant ageism.

Age = experience and wisdom. And we can 'perform'!

We have more to talk about and most of us know how to manage a good relationship. We are not 'past it' and we don't all have 'carers'!

70 is the new 50.

It's not about age of the body, it's about the spirit inside.

Get rid of your prejudices, you don't know what you're missing!"

It isn't ageism or prejudice and when choosing casual sex partners the age of the body might well come in to it.

This is about people lying about their age however, not about not wanting to meet people who are truthful about it.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"So what's wrong with being 70 or more? Too many women immediately rule out men over a certain age. It's blatant ageism.

Age = experience and wisdom. And we can 'perform'!

We have more to talk about and most of us know how to manage a good relationship. We are not 'past it' and we don't all have 'carers'!

70 is the new 50.

It's not about age of the body, it's about the spirit inside.

Get rid of your prejudices, you don't know what you're missing!"

I think you must have meant preferences there, not prejudices, people are allowed them, I have my age preferences the way they are for very good reasons.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Its more if you meet up and they are way older than said and not looking good its misrepresentation. Happened to us hence we only clubs now no prearranged meets, connect on here after

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

I got a mail a few weeks ago..profile said 43... the writing on it said 21.. his pic was pretty clearly 21..

I reported it.. nothing happened.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes you can report them but it may be difficult to prove. They lie to get meets obviously, it's the aching balls you see, they force them to lie. XXX"

sorry thats good

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By *hat The CuckCouple
over a year ago

Croydon Area

We had a guy in the chatroom who's profile stated 28 to reveal he's actually 24 but put a different age so he wouldn't be identified

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"So what's wrong with being 70 or more? Too many women immediately rule out men over a certain age. It's blatant ageism.

Age = experience and wisdom. And we can 'perform'!

We have more to talk about and most of us know how to manage a good relationship. We are not 'past it' and we don't all have 'carers'!

70 is the new 50.

It's not about age of the body, it's about the spirit inside.

Get rid of your prejudices, you don't know what you're missing!"

Not that you are biased or anything

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By *exinthesunWoman
over a year ago

far far away


"So what's wrong with being 70 or more? Too many women immediately rule out men over a certain age. It's blatant ageism.

Age = experience and wisdom. And we can 'perform'!

We have more to talk about and most of us know how to manage a good relationship. We are not 'past it' and we don't all have 'carers'!

70 is the new 50.

It's not about age of the body, it's about the spirit inside.

Get rid of your prejudices, you don't know what you're missing!"

I don’t want to meet a guy old enough to be my father, simple as that. So I will be prejudiced, tough shit if you don’t like it!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people just look like they had a hard life wont matter what age they put .

Just dont bother meeting them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't see the point to be honest. There are lots of other people that seem to like older. Us oldies have so much experience and imaginations honed from years of sexy fun

I'd shag me if I was a 20 something LOL

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"So what's wrong with being 70 or more? Too many women immediately rule out men over a certain age. It's blatant ageism.

Age = experience and wisdom. And we can 'perform'!

We have more to talk about and most of us know how to manage a good relationship. We are not 'past it' and we don't all have 'carers'!

70 is the new 50.

It's not about age of the body, it's about the spirit inside.

Get rid of your prejudices, you don't know what you're missing!

I don’t want to meet a guy old enough to be my father, simple as that. So I will be prejudiced, tough shit if you don’t like it!!! "

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lying people get caught out at some stage ie;

Married

Bisexual

Age

Lets be honest, if you meet eventually, someone will catch you out

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Lying people get caught out at some stage ie;

Married

Bisexual

Age

Lets be honest, if you meet eventually, someone will catch you out

"

How do you catch a bisexual out?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Lying people get caught out at some stage ie;

Married

Bisexual

Age

Lets be honest, if you meet eventually, someone will catch you out

How do you catch a bisexual out? "

no idea but would be interested to find out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lying people get caught out at some stage ie;

Married

Bisexual

Age

Lets be honest, if you meet eventually, someone will catch you out

If on fab guys

How do you catch a bisexual out? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

similar to putting sexyily dressed pics up that are 3 years old ??

im sure our bodies change a bit but we dont notice to a degree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"similar to putting sexyily dressed pics up that are 3 years old ??

im sure our bodies change a bit but we dont notice to a degree

"

But alot delete profiles stay off for a while and come back different name and same pics that are years old .

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By *alkirkbairnMan
over a year ago

Grangemouth


"Why do some men lie about their age?! Can you report sometime who is a lot older than they say on their profile?"

There's one guy on here that's been the same age since I was 18. I know his real age but sadly there will be a lot who are mislead. Did report the profile but it gets remade weekly so no point

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By *ozy couple d lCouple
over a year ago

DROMORE


"Why do some men lie about their age?! Can you report sometime who is a lot older than they say on their profile?"
or their body size lol

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By *inkycouplespainCouple
over a year ago

Malaga Spain but sometimes Manchester and


"Why do some men lie about their age?! Can you report sometime who is a lot older than they say on their profile?"

It isnt just men women do it too! We see ot all the time it pisses us right off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't understand why they do it?

You are who you are if people don't want to meet you that's ok. If you lie you only get found out in the end.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Broken Missgives and Sweet

Has a bisexual man, I get dozens of invites to meet from "straight married men" ergo, it follows that they are already living a lie - equally those men who attended the organised odd mixed M/F session as being "straight" but end up touching another man etc, are at the very least Bi cur .......

The same applies to females , I think ???

But that's based on my views as a Bi sexual man - nowt else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't understand why they do it?

You are who you are if people don't want to meet you that's ok. If you lie you only get found out in the end....."

totally agreed

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Don't understand why they do it?

You are who you are if people don't want to meet you that's ok. If you lie you only get found out in the end....."

this happened to me...the guy turned out to be 78

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife


"Lying people get caught out at some stage ie;

Married

Bisexual

Age

Lets be honest, if you meet eventually, someone will catch you out

If on fab guys

How do you catch a bisexual out? "

when the profile states straight then they display a graphic verification from a male or tv

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am what I am a Bi male, who through my antics of sexual group meetings over the years with my first wife 9who was/is Bi), ended up in close company to other men, one thing led to another

So its on my profile - I have a separate profile on the sister site and yet - I still get abusive messages if ever I dare message someone on here that are not by - I cant help it if they not set their "filters" correctly can I

Mini rant over .......sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol people who lie about their size

curvy is a body shape not a body size!!

Why can’t fat women just put fat !!

We call curvy-? FAB FAT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't lie about my age,i am 39 but by wife keeps saying I act like I'm 13 does that count?

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth


"Lol people who lie about their size

curvy is a body shape not a body size!!

Why can’t fat women just put fat !!

We call curvy-? FAB FAT"

Well it IS a size in Fab's size options!

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By *ogerNesszonesMan
over a year ago

Northern England


"Don't understand why they do it?

You are who you are if people don't want to meet you that's ok. If you lie you only get found out in the end.....this happened to me...the guy turned out to be 78 "

Strewth! seeing as your max age is 45; This has got to be the porky of the decade!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alot of women on here lie about bum sizes and boob sizes but you don't see men ranting

When I first joined fab I set my age on my profile to 25 but I was actually 20 and didnt really take the website seriously as i thought it was just one of those silly dating sites.

My first meet was unexpected and really took me by surprise (omg this site actually works )

Anyway as time went by I adjusted my profile to show my actual age and people actually wrote to me asking why I never got older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some men lie about their age?! Can you report sometime who is a lot older than they say on their profile?"

I imagine for the same reasons women do.

You can report them for anything you like..... admin will decide if they want to act upon it.

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By *G29Man
over a year ago

Northampton

So many people these days like to "live the lie" they may fool others for a while but all they're actually fooling is themselves...leave them to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some men lie about their age?! Can you report sometime who is a lot older than they say on their profile?"

Wow I can only say us single men are missing out on a stunning lady

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

A few things have jumped out at me from posts on here.

1. The older guys saying "Give us a chance, experience yada yada" So why are you not looking for females nearer your own age? Or do you?

2. Ladies saying the have no intention of meeting men old enough to be their dad, while having age preferences set low enough to be shagging their son

Strange ole world innit.

S

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By *ungmagic10Man
over a year ago

Northampton

As long as theirs mutual attraction I don't see the problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One thing we have never got our heads around will meet 18 to 99 years old we had a mail years ago from a man telling us he was 50 we arranged a meet think the zimmer frame gave it away as we sat in pub car park was totally shocked!!!when he arrived hence did not get out of the car "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A few things have jumped out at me from posts on here.

1. The older guys saying "Give us a chance, experience yada yada" So why are you not looking for females nearer your own age? Or do you?

2. Ladies saying the have no intention of meeting men old enough to be their dad, while having age preferences set low enough to be shagging their son

Strange ole world innit.

S"

don't forget to mention the mingers out there with standards You would expect of super models!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Alot of women on here lie about bum sizes and boob sizes but you don't see men ranting

When I first joined fab I set my age on my profile to 25 but I was actually 20 and didnt really take the website seriously as i thought it was just one of those silly dating sites.

Some Very good points

Most people don't take this site seriously enough because there's to many fakes and not enough women on here to balance out the ratios plus its ok for women to cheat lie and steal but as soon as a guy get caught with his pants down its game over unfortunately can't keep everyone happy to best just to go with the flow. Tv acting like real women real women looking like cds wtf.

My first meet was unexpected and really took me by surprise (omg this site actually works )

Anyway as time went by I adjusted my profile to show my actual age and people actually wrote to me asking why I never got older "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a guy close to me who has two profiles, with an age difference of 10 years, apart from that, they are totally identical, even the profile name has just a digit change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some men lie about their age?! Can you report sometime who is a lot older than they say on their profile?

I don't lie about my age...

I don't even like when I hear the dreaded question, "does my bum look big in this..."

maybe this is why I'm still single??"

Nowadays however plenty of women WANT their bum to look big in what they're wearing ha, so it's far easier to just be honest than play a guessing game of what they would prefer.

To answer the OP, I've found more women lie about their age than men, but then again I've had more actual chats or meets with women than men so I'd have simply come across more of them. For the OP I'd guess the opposite is true.

Most men who message me sometimes ask if I fancy having an mfm with a lady as they feel their chances would be improved by "doubling up" so to speak, or far more often they simply want to suck my appendage with "nothing in return."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The age lying is annoying, but so are the lies on size, height and cock length.

Men that describe themselves as 'curvy' or 'rugby player' and end up as morbidly obese as myself. I can't meet fellow fatties, having sex is like a game of weebles. It just doesn't work!

Then there's those who say they are 6 foot and you meet and they're 5'7"

A guy who bragged his cock was 8 inches and when we met, my 6 inch sub from subway was far larger. Wouldn't mind, but I'm happy with a 5 inch cock, so why lie? Where do these men measure from? Their anus?

I wouldn't dream of saying I was curvy, gym fit, 5'10, 27 with neat and trim labia. If someone messages me, first thing I ask is if they're aware I'm a very ample lady and disabled.

#Baffled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The age lying is annoying, but so are the lies on size, height and cock length.

Men that describe themselves as 'curvy' or 'rugby player' and end up as morbidly obese as myself. I can't meet fellow fatties, having sex is like a game of weebles. It just doesn't work!

Then there's those who say they are 6 foot and you meet and they're 5'7"

A guy who bragged his cock was 8 inches and when we met, my 6 inch sub from subway was far larger. Wouldn't mind, but I'm happy with a 5 inch cock, so why lie? Where do these men measure from? Their anus?

I wouldn't dream of saying I was curvy, gym fit, 5'10, 27 with neat and trim labia. If someone messages me, first thing I ask is if they're aware I'm a very ample lady and disabled.

#Baffled"

Imagine the disappointment on the person(s) I met if I lied like some of the people on here? I'd be devastated.

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire

A couple of years either side and a false DofB is a security thing. That info is very identifiable. Discretion is often sensible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I turned 35 last month. That is my real age. Don't see the point in using false information to trick people into meeting. That goes for height and other things people lie about on their profiles.

Honesty is the best policy.

I know I know...

I am not as young as I was when I joined Fab in 2015, but the following comes to mind:

Age is a question of mind over matter. If you don't mind it don't matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some men lie about their age?! Can you report sometime who is a lot older than they say on their profile?

Lol how much older are they ? Like decades ? "

I met a guy who claimed to be 46. I told him he looked 10 years older. He was shocked but i was spot on. He still claims to be 46 on his profile though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had someone message me the other day . Fab age said 35 ... on his profile he said he was 44. He couldn't get his head around why I wasn't interested in chatting to him !! Errr because you're a liar "

To be fair that's an obvious foiling the filters as he then elaborates. It's not the same as tricking you to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine says 55, I'm actually 62 - but had no complaints so far."

You're still lying here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what's wrong with being 70 or more? Too many women immediately rule out men over a certain age. It's blatant ageism.

Age = experience and wisdom. And we can 'perform'!

We have more to talk about and most of us know how to manage a good relationship. We are not 'past it' and we don't all have 'carers'!

70 is the new 50.

It's not about age of the body, it's about the spirit inside.

Get rid of your prejudices, you don't know what you're missing!"

Prejudices my arse. I'm happily ageist. I don't want anyone old enough to be a parent or young enough to be a child.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what's wrong with being 70 or more? Too many women immediately rule out men over a certain age. It's blatant ageism.

Age = experience and wisdom. And we can 'perform'!

We have more to talk about and most of us know how to manage a good relationship. We are not 'past it' and we don't all have 'carers'!

70 is the new 50.

It's not about age of the body, it's about the spirit inside.

Get rid of your prejudices, you don't know what you're missing!"

And at not wanting older than 70. Not ageist either i see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what's wrong with being 70 or more? Too many women immediately rule out men over a certain age. It's blatant ageism.

Age = experience and wisdom. And we can 'perform'!

We have more to talk about and most of us know how to manage a good relationship. We are not 'past it' and we don't all have 'carers'!

70 is the new 50.

It's not about age of the body, it's about the spirit inside.

Get rid of your prejudices, you don't know what you're missing!"

Preferences not prejudices you choose not to meet anyone older than you so why can’t other people choose?? I know what I’m looking for and it’s certainly not people the same age as my parents!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely difficult to prove but its dishonest thus making it fake in my opinion as purely a deceptive and inaccurate profile. Report for sure.

I see no need for people to lie. Take me for example, I am young at the age of twenty one so naturally I come across a lot of profiles I like and the minimum age is 25, would I deceive someone despite being able to pull it off? No, of course I wouldn’t. There’s just no need for it, more so a lot of women have their filters set a certain way but are not strict on it, they have it to restrict age groups that tend to be an issue for them. But anyone who does have an interest me can always mail me if they need to so nothing lost through lying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm honest on my profile about my age but when you look at most upper age limit they cut off at 45 to 48 so there loads I can't message as I'm 50 but I refuse to lie about my age aching balls or not lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate the bit when you're honest about your age and you still don't get believed lol

I'm not taking my birth certificate to a meet to prove my age for less that ideal genetics and lifestyle choices

Guess it's about having recent and accurate photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I turned 35 last month. That is my real age. Don't see the point in using false information to trick people into meeting. That goes for height and other things people lie about on their profiles.

Honesty is the best policy.

I know I know...

I am not as young as I was when I joined Fab in 2015, but the following comes to mind:

Age is a question of mind over matter. If you don't mind it don't matter."

In terms of appealing to the highest number of people, 35 is probably bang on the best age to be as many have their upper age limit and many as their lower age limit at that number due to it being halfway between 30 and 40.

Which means you are "suitable" for both of these wishlists. That being said I haven't noticed much difference in my appeal to others between being 35 and 39 really.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"Why do some men lie about their age?! Can you report sometime who is a lot older than they say on their profile?"

Same reason women lie about their age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some men lie about their age?! Can you report sometime who is a lot older than they say on their profile?

Same reason women lie about their age "

vanity and hope they appeal to younger people

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By *uffolkman1974Man
over a year ago

bury st edmunds

I don't lie about my age, I'm 43

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Mine says 55, I'm actually 62 - but had no complaints so far."
Perhaps change it to correct age then so you aren't deceiving anyone?

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Why do some men lie about their age?! Can you report sometime who is a lot older than they say on their profile?"

Some women lie about their age too.

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By *exinthesunWoman
over a year ago

far far away

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