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"Why do some men lie about their age?! Can you report sometime who is a lot older than they say on their profile?" I had a message a while back from a guy who insisted he was 57. His pictures were taken inside his residential home and it was obvious he was in his 70's Seems thinking with their other brain is a lifelong condition. | |||
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"Why do some men lie about their age?! Can you report sometime who is a lot older than they say on their profile?" I don't lie about my age... I don't even like when I hear the dreaded question, "does my bum look big in this..." maybe this is why I'm still single?? ![]() | |||
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"Why do some men lie about their age?! Can you report sometime who is a lot older than they say on their profile?" Lol how much older are they ? Like decades ? ![]() | |||
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"This is a good point, im 44, probably look 44 lol, ive always loved older women, 40,60 ish, as ladies seem to age better!, dont see the point in lying, age ,height, etc, whats the point?, telling someone you are a seven foot mass of rippling muscled sex god, ...they will notice that youve been fibbing ![]() | |||
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"Why do some men lie about their age?! Can you report sometime who is a lot older than they say on their profile?" some women lie too ![]() | |||
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"How is age so relevant? There are 30 years old that look worn out and 50 years old that could model. Looks mean nothing if you dont pay as well attention to personality and attitude. " Worn out ![]() ![]() | |||
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"How is age so relevant? There are 30 years old that look worn out and 50 years old that could model. Looks mean nothing if you dont pay as well attention to personality and attitude. " Pffffft oh my days... "Worn out" you know ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I'm fast approaching the big five-oh. I know that will exclude me from contacting a whole swathe of ladies....but I guess I'll just have to suck it up!" Me next May but thankfully we meet in clubs no probs but if on here get swerved lol Fi x | |||
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"A couple on here accused us of lying about our ages. Said we looked older than we put on our profile.. Bit of a kick in the teeth ![]() Worry not you look fabulous | |||
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"Don't forget the age stays same on profile even tho you been on site for years " No it doesn’t, it changes each year. | |||
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"Why do some men lie about their age?! Can you report sometime who is a lot older than they say on their profile?" I never lie about my age. Didn't stop people thinking I lying though. Apparently I don't look anywhere near 38 to a lot of people ![]() | |||
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"Why do some men lie about their age?! Can you report sometime who is a lot older than they say on their profile?" I agree I know a guy her who says he's 42 when he's 50. | |||
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"So what's wrong with being 70 or more? Too many women immediately rule out men over a certain age. It's blatant ageism. Age = experience and wisdom. And we can 'perform'! We have more to talk about and most of us know how to manage a good relationship. We are not 'past it' and we don't all have 'carers'! 70 is the new 50. It's not about age of the body, it's about the spirit inside. Get rid of your prejudices, you don't know what you're missing!" It isn't ageism or prejudice and when choosing casual sex partners the age of the body might well come in to it. This is about people lying about their age however, not about not wanting to meet people who are truthful about it. | |||
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"So what's wrong with being 70 or more? Too many women immediately rule out men over a certain age. It's blatant ageism. Age = experience and wisdom. And we can 'perform'! We have more to talk about and most of us know how to manage a good relationship. We are not 'past it' and we don't all have 'carers'! 70 is the new 50. It's not about age of the body, it's about the spirit inside. Get rid of your prejudices, you don't know what you're missing!" I think you must have meant preferences there, not prejudices, people are allowed them, I have my age preferences the way they are for very good reasons. | |||
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"Yes you can report them but it may be difficult to prove. They lie to get meets obviously, it's the aching balls you see, they force them to lie. XXX" sorry thats good ![]() | |||
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"So what's wrong with being 70 or more? Too many women immediately rule out men over a certain age. It's blatant ageism. Age = experience and wisdom. And we can 'perform'! We have more to talk about and most of us know how to manage a good relationship. We are not 'past it' and we don't all have 'carers'! 70 is the new 50. It's not about age of the body, it's about the spirit inside. Get rid of your prejudices, you don't know what you're missing!" Not that you are biased or anything ![]() | |||
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"So what's wrong with being 70 or more? Too many women immediately rule out men over a certain age. It's blatant ageism. Age = experience and wisdom. And we can 'perform'! We have more to talk about and most of us know how to manage a good relationship. We are not 'past it' and we don't all have 'carers'! 70 is the new 50. It's not about age of the body, it's about the spirit inside. Get rid of your prejudices, you don't know what you're missing!" I don’t want to meet a guy old enough to be my father, simple as that. So I will be prejudiced, tough shit if you don’t like it!!! ![]() | |||
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"So what's wrong with being 70 or more? Too many women immediately rule out men over a certain age. It's blatant ageism. Age = experience and wisdom. And we can 'perform'! We have more to talk about and most of us know how to manage a good relationship. We are not 'past it' and we don't all have 'carers'! 70 is the new 50. It's not about age of the body, it's about the spirit inside. Get rid of your prejudices, you don't know what you're missing! I don’t want to meet a guy old enough to be my father, simple as that. So I will be prejudiced, tough shit if you don’t like it!!! ![]() Exactly ![]() | |||
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"Lying people get caught out at some stage ie; Married Bisexual Age Lets be honest, if you meet eventually, someone will catch you out ![]() ![]() How do you catch a bisexual out? | |||
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"Lying people get caught out at some stage ie; Married Bisexual Age Lets be honest, if you meet eventually, someone will catch you out ![]() ![]() no idea but would be interested to find out | |||
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"Lying people get caught out at some stage ie; Married Bisexual Age Lets be honest, if you meet eventually, someone will catch you out If on fab guys ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"similar to putting sexyily dressed pics up that are 3 years old ?? im sure our bodies change a bit but we dont notice to a degree " But alot delete profiles stay off for a while and come back different name and same pics that are years old . ![]() | |||
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"Why do some men lie about their age?! Can you report sometime who is a lot older than they say on their profile?" There's one guy on here that's been the same age since I was 18. I know his real age but sadly there will be a lot who are mislead. Did report the profile but it gets remade weekly so no point | |||
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"Why do some men lie about their age?! Can you report sometime who is a lot older than they say on their profile?" or their body size lol | |||
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"Why do some men lie about their age?! Can you report sometime who is a lot older than they say on their profile?" It isnt just men women do it too! We see ot all the time it pisses us right off | |||
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"Don't understand why they do it? You are who you are if people don't want to meet you that's ok. If you lie you only get found out in the end....." ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Don't understand why they do it? You are who you are if people don't want to meet you that's ok. If you lie you only get found out in the end....." this happened to me...the guy turned out to be 78 ![]() | |||
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"Lying people get caught out at some stage ie; Married Bisexual Age Lets be honest, if you meet eventually, someone will catch you out If on fab guys ![]() ![]() ![]() when the profile states straight then they display a graphic verification from a male or tv | |||
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"Lol people who lie about their size curvy is a body shape not a body size!! Why can’t fat women just put fat !! We call curvy-? FAB FAT" Well it IS a size in Fab's size options! ![]() | |||
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"Don't understand why they do it? You are who you are if people don't want to meet you that's ok. If you lie you only get found out in the end.....this happened to me...the guy turned out to be 78 ![]() Strewth! seeing as your max age is 45; This has got to be the porky of the decade! ![]() | |||
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"Why do some men lie about their age?! Can you report sometime who is a lot older than they say on their profile?" I imagine for the same reasons women do. You can report them for anything you like..... admin will decide if they want to act upon it. | |||
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"Why do some men lie about their age?! Can you report sometime who is a lot older than they say on their profile?" Wow I can only say us single men are missing out on a stunning lady ![]() ![]() | |||
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"One thing we have never got our heads around will meet 18 to 99 years old we had a mail years ago from a man telling us he was 50 we arranged a meet think the zimmer frame gave it away as we sat in pub car park was totally shocked!!!when he arrived hence did not get out of the car " ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"A few things have jumped out at me from posts on here. 1. The older guys saying "Give us a chance, experience yada yada" So why are you not looking for females nearer your own age? Or do you? 2. Ladies saying the have no intention of meeting men old enough to be their dad, while having age preferences set low enough to be shagging their son ![]() ![]() don't forget to mention the mingers out there with standards You would expect of super models! ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Alot of women on here lie about bum sizes and boob sizes but you don't see men ranting ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Why do some men lie about their age?! Can you report sometime who is a lot older than they say on their profile? I don't lie about my age... I don't even like when I hear the dreaded question, "does my bum look big in this..." maybe this is why I'm still single?? ![]() Nowadays however plenty of women WANT their bum to look big in what they're wearing ha, so it's far easier to just be honest than play a guessing game of what they would prefer. To answer the OP, I've found more women lie about their age than men, but then again I've had more actual chats or meets with women than men so I'd have simply come across more of them. For the OP I'd guess the opposite is true. Most men who message me sometimes ask if I fancy having an mfm with a lady as they feel their chances would be improved by "doubling up" so to speak, or far more often they simply want to suck my appendage with "nothing in return." | |||
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"The age lying is annoying, but so are the lies on size, height and cock length. Men that describe themselves as 'curvy' or 'rugby player' and end up as morbidly obese as myself. I can't meet fellow fatties, having sex is like a game of weebles. It just doesn't work! Then there's those who say they are 6 foot and you meet and they're 5'7" A guy who bragged his cock was 8 inches and when we met, my 6 inch sub from subway was far larger. Wouldn't mind, but I'm happy with a 5 inch cock, so why lie? Where do these men measure from? Their anus? I wouldn't dream of saying I was curvy, gym fit, 5'10, 27 with neat and trim labia. If someone messages me, first thing I ask is if they're aware I'm a very ample lady and disabled. #Baffled" Imagine the disappointment on the person(s) I met if I lied like some of the people on here? I'd be devastated. | |||
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"Why do some men lie about their age?! Can you report sometime who is a lot older than they say on their profile? Lol how much older are they ? Like decades ? ![]() I met a guy who claimed to be 46. I told him he looked 10 years older. He was shocked but i was spot on. He still claims to be 46 on his profile though. | |||
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"I had someone message me the other day . Fab age said 35 ... on his profile he said he was 44. He couldn't get his head around why I wasn't interested in chatting to him !! Errr because you're a liar ![]() To be fair that's an obvious foiling the filters as he then elaborates. It's not the same as tricking you to meet. | |||
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"Mine says 55, I'm actually 62 - but had no complaints so far." You're still lying here ![]() | |||
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"So what's wrong with being 70 or more? Too many women immediately rule out men over a certain age. It's blatant ageism. Age = experience and wisdom. And we can 'perform'! We have more to talk about and most of us know how to manage a good relationship. We are not 'past it' and we don't all have 'carers'! 70 is the new 50. It's not about age of the body, it's about the spirit inside. Get rid of your prejudices, you don't know what you're missing!" Prejudices my arse. I'm happily ageist. I don't want anyone old enough to be a parent or young enough to be a child. | |||
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"So what's wrong with being 70 or more? Too many women immediately rule out men over a certain age. It's blatant ageism. Age = experience and wisdom. And we can 'perform'! We have more to talk about and most of us know how to manage a good relationship. We are not 'past it' and we don't all have 'carers'! 70 is the new 50. It's not about age of the body, it's about the spirit inside. Get rid of your prejudices, you don't know what you're missing!" And ![]() ![]() | |||
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"So what's wrong with being 70 or more? Too many women immediately rule out men over a certain age. It's blatant ageism. Age = experience and wisdom. And we can 'perform'! We have more to talk about and most of us know how to manage a good relationship. We are not 'past it' and we don't all have 'carers'! 70 is the new 50. It's not about age of the body, it's about the spirit inside. Get rid of your prejudices, you don't know what you're missing!" Preferences not prejudices you choose not to meet anyone older than you so why can’t other people choose?? I know what I’m looking for and it’s certainly not people the same age as my parents! | |||
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"I turned 35 last month. That is my real age. Don't see the point in using false information to trick people into meeting. That goes for height and other things people lie about on their profiles. Honesty is the best policy. I know I know... I am not as young as I was when I joined Fab in 2015, but the following comes to mind: Age is a question of mind over matter. If you don't mind it don't matter." In terms of appealing to the highest number of people, 35 is probably bang on the best age to be as many have their upper age limit and many as their lower age limit at that number due to it being halfway between 30 and 40. Which means you are "suitable" for both of these wishlists. That being said I haven't noticed much difference in my appeal to others between being 35 and 39 really. | |||
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"Why do some men lie about their age?! Can you report sometime who is a lot older than they say on their profile?" Same reason women lie about their age ![]() | |||
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"Why do some men lie about their age?! Can you report sometime who is a lot older than they say on their profile? Same reason women lie about their age ![]() vanity and hope they appeal to younger people | |||
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"Mine says 55, I'm actually 62 - but had no complaints so far." Perhaps change it to correct age then so you aren't deceiving anyone? | |||
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"Why do some men lie about their age?! Can you report sometime who is a lot older than they say on their profile?" Some women lie about their age too. | |||
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