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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have the site a go but it's time to go I think. Rarely get a reply and no one wants to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have the site a go but it's time to go I think. Rarely get a reply and no one wants to meet"

its tough but stick with it, i waited 6/7mths for a meet 1st time around, 2nd time iv been luckier mate. change your profile, pictures etc... but stick with it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the advice"

The thing is, as soon as you contact someone the first thing they will do before wasting time replying is take a look at how good your profile is.

And there lies your problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the advice

The thing is, as soon as you contact someone the first thing they will do before wasting time replying is take a look at how good your profile is.

And there lies your problem."

Oh I dunno

I think that username is a real turn on.

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By *oredShitlessxxxCouple
over a year ago

luton

Go to the right clubs...Jaydees we recommend highly.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

As others have said when anyone messages me the first thing I do is look at their profile. If I don't see anything that interests me I delete the message, often without reading it.

I can't offer you profile advice because you haven't asked for it (forum rules) however I would recommend doing a forum search for profile advice. There are thousands of threads already on here. Pick out the good bits and see if making some changes might help you get some replies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have the site a go but it's time to go I think. Rarely get a reply and no one wants to meet"

I have been on around 10 years on and off and it has gone downhill every year. I do get meets but mostly from other places.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

at least u still got the smile on u

i suggest you try dating sites half of the people on here are there

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Have the site a go but it's time to go I think. Rarely get a reply and no one wants to meet"

Sorry to be blunt mate, but with only one public pic (though better than many) and a profile that is super short and says very little, what do you expect?

You're just one more in sea of thousands. You have to market yourself to be appealing, otherwise no one will buy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have the site a go but it's time to go I think. Rarely get a reply and no one wants to meet

Sorry to be blunt mate, but with only one public pic (though better than many) and a profile that is super short and says very little, what do you expect?

You're just one more in sea of thousands. You have to market yourself to be appealing, otherwise no one will buy."

Good advice X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice. I just have to get some more pictures and I'm done but may make some tweaks

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Good luck OP x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Good luck OP x"

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have the site a go but it's time to go I think. Rarely get a reply and no one wants to meet"
Trust me mate you're not alone. Only the so called "studs" get meets, plain nice guys like us get nowhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody wants to meet me, so I go to socials. You gotta put the effort in. When people see me in person, I'm more successful.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"Have the site a go but it's time to go I think. Rarely get a reply and no one wants to meetTrust me mate you're not alone. Only the so called "studs" get meets, plain nice guys like us get nowhere"

Not true!

I've turned down more 'studs' who think they're gods gift because they have a 6pack than I can actually remember.

Give me a nice manner, respectful attitude, interesting conversation with a plain guy any day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If one gets more women wanting to meet them in the big wide world then why be here

- Mrs. J -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have the site a go but it's time to go I think. Rarely get a reply and no one wants to meetTrust me mate you're not alone. Only the so called "studs" get meets, plain nice guys like us get nowhere

Not true!

I've turned down more 'studs' who think they're gods gift because they have a 6pack than I can actually remember.

Give me a nice manner, respectful attitude, interesting conversation with a plain guy any day "

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have the site a go but it's time to go I think. Rarely get a reply and no one wants to meetTrust me mate you're not alone. Only the so called "studs" get meets, plain nice guys like us get nowhere

Not true!

I've turned down more 'studs' who think they're gods gift because they have a 6pack than I can actually remember.

Give me a nice manner, respectful attitude, interesting conversation with a plain guy any day "

Great to hear hope for us plain boys

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have the site a go but it's time to go I think. Rarely get a reply and no one wants to meetTrust me mate you're not alone. Only the so called "studs" get meets, plain nice guys like us get nowhere

Not true!

I've turned down more 'studs' who think they're gods gift because they have a 6pack than I can actually remember.

Give me a nice manner, respectful attitude, interesting conversation with a plain guy any day "

There is light at the end of the tunnel

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

If you're in Letchworth, you are in fairly easy reach of Kestrels/Abfabs, The Vanilla Alternative, Arousals and Jaydees.

Though I have only been to three of those they all have their various merits, and are all accessible by someone in your area. There are often socials especially in London which is practically on your doorstep. Try to get out there, make yourself known, meet people. And remember that profiles are like shop windows...your chance to explain what you have to offer, and why that lady should meet you and not the other 20 guys who messaged her today.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"If you're in Letchworth, you are in fairly easy reach of Kestrels/Abfabs, The Vanilla Alternative, Arousals and Jaydees.

Though I have only been to three of those they all have their various merits, and are all accessible by someone in your area. There are often socials especially in London which is practically on your doorstep. Try to get out there, make yourself known, meet people. And remember that profiles are like shop windows...your chance to explain what you have to offer, and why that lady should meet you and not the other 20 guys who messaged her today."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you're in Letchworth, you are in fairly easy reach of Kestrels/Abfabs, The Vanilla Alternative, Arousals and Jaydees.

Though I have only been to three of those they all have their various merits, and are all accessible by someone in your area. There are often socials especially in London which is practically on your doorstep. Try to get out there, make yourself known, meet people. And remember that profiles are like shop windows...your chance to explain what you have to offer, and why that lady should meet you and not the other 20 guys who messaged her today."

Kestrels/Abfabs is open every day and most evenings, is very chilled and an easy place for a single man to at least meet some people socially and get some veris.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have the site a go but it's time to go I think. Rarely get a reply and no one wants to meetTrust me mate you're not alone. Only the so called "studs" get meets, plain nice guys like us get nowhere

Not true!

I've turned down more 'studs' who think they're gods gift because they have a 6pack than I can actually remember.

Give me a nice manner, respectful attitude, interesting conversation with a plain guy any day "
Looks like your veri's have hit the gym since you met them then

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