FabSwingers.com forum: can anyone help?

By *immF OP Man
over a year ago

burton on trent

Hello,

I'm a bit new to all this as I have been in a relationship for 5years and now I'm single I want to have some fun. But. I don't seem to be doing very well. Iv had a offer, but I was late so they canceled. I was basically wondering if there was anything wrong with my profile statement or pictures. Or is it simply that I'm minging?lol.

Any responses would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Your profile is an exercise in negativity, nice to know you wud consider us couples if nothing better comes along tho

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Move further north. I'd do you!

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By *immF OP Man
over a year ago

burton on trent

"Your profile is an exercise in negativity, nice to know you wud consider us couples if nothing better comes along tho

Oh! Really? I never intended it to sound like that... I whole heartedly apologise for that.

I will change it to something else. any thoughts? I only wrote it like that because that was the order in which I felt most nervous about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your profile is an exercise in negativity, nice to know you wud consider us couples if nothing better comes along tho

Oh! Really? I never intended it to sound like that... I whole heartedly apologise for that.

I will change it to something else. any thoughts? I only wrote it like that because that was the order in which I felt most nervous about.

It can be difficult conveying what you mean. It does come across as a little negative and confusing but you can rectify that.

You have a face pic and can accommodate: all positives. Just leave plenty of time to get to your next meet, and good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

profile looks ok to me, like above said u have face pic can accom etc... seems all ok, and yeh u do make couples sound like second choice maybe just say single fems and couples....

but i have to say i see SOOOOOO many couples profiles on here saying no single males if we want one we will contact u etc...

its just the ratio on here of men to women to couples... and what folk are mainly looking for on here too... as a test to this!!!! im ur own post code do 2 searches....

using the same limits ie 20 -40 yr old etc search womens looking for men, and visa versa... and look at how many profiles... u will see the diff

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Wow ty for taking it on the chin

Think about taking out the im not bi bit, if a bi couple (like us) want MMf we dont approach random straight guys ,MMF is enjoyed by many straight couples too .

You might want to remember 99% of swinging is confidence, and if u havn't got it,fake it

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

being honest here

i looked at the photos and thought u seem my type

THEN

i read the profile and was instantly not attracted with all the negativity on it

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By *immF OP Man
over a year ago

burton on trent

Wow. Thanks for the advice. Iv altered my profile now. and I tried not.to sound negative.lol. see what u think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

@OP- buy a watch before your next meet...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow. Thanks for the advice. Iv altered my profile now. and I tried not.to sound negative.lol. see what u think.

thanks for me it will be a no Ist impressions

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
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over a year ago

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Maybe write more in your profile about what you really love and can offer to others, as just relying on the lists of interests is never a sure thing.

As others point out: learn from the feedback you'll get, as you seem to be doing.

Update your profile regularly too, as this keeps things interesting, and may catch people's attention, where they've been less interested before etc. As Burton is very close to the West Midlands, consider looking in both East and West Midlands too: the A38's a dream road - a lot of the time!

Good luck!

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By *immF OP Man
over a year ago

burton on trent

Haha. Thanks for the comments everyone.

Iv got a watch now thanks.

and I've bulked my profile out a bit. Just tried to explain myself a bit better. It's hard not to look like a cocky twat which I'm definately not. I just can't convey how I'm not a bell end like some ppl.

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