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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi All,

Tried alot on here and have been on and off for a while so do you think that my weight is stopping me from getting meets ?? Or profile maybe both xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It won't be your weight, bigger men than you get meets myself included). Yes, it will limit the options available to you but not to the point of drought. The only conclusion for a lack of response is either - your profile, your pic's, or how you put yourself across in a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see a lot of women looking for big build guys in their profiles, so don't worry too much about that. Even if you write respectful, thoughtful messages and include face pics, half of it comes down to luck and timing so don't beat yourself up if you don't get many replies. A lot of men are in the same boat because unfortunately there are a LOT of men here.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

It is unlikely to be down to just your weight. It could be down to many things such as the way you approach people, your pics, your profile, your location, age etc etc.

However, your current choice of profile pic isn't really an attraction. it's a bit difficult to work out what's in the picture tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm new to this and am finding it difficult myself. I dont know how this thing works and its becoming difficult to figure it out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try wearing a big sign on your neck reading "I am just another person on a sex site looking for sex" That'll do the trick

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By *aptain KinkyMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I get knocked back cos I'm too slim! I think your size isn't the problem.

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By *aptain KinkyMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Get some more pictures up, that would help I reckon. Maybe one in a well fitting suit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Transform into a woman. It’s frickin awesome

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Moan a lot and say you are leaving the site.

That will get you noticed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi All,

Tried alot on here and have been on and off for a while so do you think that my weight is stopping me from getting meets ?? Or profile maybe both xx"
Dude be honest you know what women and couples here are looking for and we are not it (despite myself getting 100's of hots daily in hot or not). At least you got further than I did with meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As someone who is morbidly obese, I find going to socials to be successful. There, people can make a full judgement on my weight and personality. My personality wins!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes the plan was to attend socials but work nights which is a complete pain in the arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes the plan was to attend socials but work nights which is a complete pain in the arse"

That's a bit of a bummer.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Tell me about it curse that bloody job lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell me about it curse that bloody job lol "

Daytime clubs could be an option, although not sure where in your area, possibly chams?

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