FabSwingers.com forum: Transwoman requires advice

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'd love advice, I find being under TV/TS is a nightmare... so different, no wonder folk are to worried to approach.

If I've chatted away for hours with a few folk then innocently forget a convo from even one or two days ago, is getting dogs abuse fair?

I've tried rewording my profile crap... argh...

Help!! Xxxx

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over a year ago

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

Hi there, no simple answers i don't think. I would suggest using the filters, but they're mainly useful for cutting out the single men, but they are who you actually want (you say on your profile). No simple filter available that says "want nice men that will treat me as a woman not fetishise me as a ts"

I've coped by blocking single men, but that only works for me cause I'm mainly trans lesbian in my desires...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can get a bit confusing the whole tv/ts bollox lol mmm but we certainly don't do cocks in frocks that look like Paddington bear underneath... Thats just not our thing... But we do love a real transexual they are very feminine and should be treated as such.... We also had our first post op Transgender the other week and that was just awesome blew our mind and we mad a great friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People assume that if you are trans or female that you must fuck anything with a pulse and they do not need to treat you with respect, it fucks me off to be honest.

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

"I'd love advice, I find being under TV/TS is a nightmare... so different, no wonder folk are to worried to approach.

If I've chatted away for hours with a few folk then innocently forget a convo from even one or two days ago, is getting dogs abuse fair?

I've tried rewording my profile crap... argh...

Help!! Xxxx"

Thier is no real advice that would really work. I get very similar messages and try reply to them all regardless of what they say. If its the standard “ I want to slam you ass “ I just reply politely “I’m well thank you , how are you?” And that’s it. You could include in your profile towards the end of your bio a keyword to include in subject. This will show they have read your bio and will filter out some of the dickheads. But you’ll never get rid of them all .

Just keep smiling and be happy xx

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

You can't answer every single message on here . Bin the crap be selective

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd love advice, I find being under TV/TS is a nightmare... so different, no wonder folk are to worried to approach.

If I've chatted away for hours with a few folk then innocently forget a convo from even one or two days ago, is getting dogs abuse fair?

I've tried rewording my profile crap... argh...

Help!! Xxxx"

Hi I have to say you look to me like a beautiful woman

You should be proud of who you are, amazing!!!

Am sure a nice guy will see you for who you are too

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

"People assume that if you are trans or female that you must fuck anything with a pulse and they do not need to treat you with respect, it fucks me off to be honest."

it is a disgrace I agree but actions speak louder than words

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By *offee with MilkCouple
over a year ago

Over the roundabout and then turn right.

We would block single men anyway, then look for the ones we would be interested in. Once we send a message the recipient's filter is lifted, so they can reply.

If that person should turn out to be one of the nightmare guys then block and move on.

In simple terms, you take full control.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Such abusive people are idiots and embarrassing. It’s a pity that we can’t have a system where perpetrators of abusivemessages get given a yellow card when they do it once and then get banned if they do it again.

Online abuse is still abuse and it’s totally out of order.

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By *loria JamesTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham

Personally I think there should be a separate category for girls who have transitioned .

It's a totally different lifeste to a tv.

It still wouldn't stop the idiots though. Be very clear in your profile and state what you are after. If guys are rude block and move on.

You look lovely hunni so I'm sure there are some nice guys out there for you. Be patient and don't expect to much.

You could walk into a bar and struggle to find someone you like, Fabs no different.

Just remember you are fabulous hunni xx

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I agree that the gender discriptors on Fab are part of the problem there should be separated options for trans women and trans men.

To me a trans woman is a woman.

I'll post it as a suggestion, though I'm sure it has been suggested before.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your a very hot and convincing t-girl and that's your getting so many messages.

Take it as a compliment that you get so many messages, just delete the ones that aren't for you and report and block horrible ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can't answer every single message on here . Bin the crap be selective "

This,exactly.

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