FabSwingers.com forum: Married for affair.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sorry to offend anyone. I’m here looking for women interested in no strings descreet sexual meets. I’m married and looking for descreet sexual fun times. Looking for women who can accommodate around London and Essex. Finding it hard to meet people and impossible to get verified. Cannot attend clubs and only looking for weekday meets x thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry to offend anyone. I’m here looking for women interested in no strings descreet sexual meets. I’m married and looking for descreet sexual fun times. Looking for women who can accommodate around London and Essex. Finding it hard to meet people and impossible to get verified. Cannot attend clubs and only looking for weekday meets x thank you. "

All I got to say good luck your going to need it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On an unrelated note, I lost one of my sewing needles in a haystack earlier. Can anyone help me find it please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On an unrelated note, I lost one of my sewing needles in a haystack earlier. Can anyone help me find it please?"

At last. Someone who has a task that might actually be possible to accomplish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't let this distract you from the fact that in 1972, a crack commando unit was sent to prison by a military court for a crime they didn't commit. These men promptly escaped from a maximum security stockade to the Los Angeles underground. Today, still wanted by the government they survive as soldiers of fortune. If you have a problem, if no one else can help, and if you can find them....maybe you can hire The A-Team.

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By *icky-discoMan
over a year ago

oxford

I’ll get the popcorn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I,'ve done it, I had a married FWB who I hosted, so it's not impossible to find. XXX

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By *hestercpl4funCouple
over a year ago

chester

Even Jim couldn't fix this mate

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Jim fixed it for me , friends with benefits are out there , they will find what there looking for ,

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know of married women on fabs in your situation that can find this , so in theory it's doable.

Now for the downside, you're a man on fabs.

Personally I'd recommend (and I don't usually) that you may have more luck on a site for affairs, based on your limited time frame.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't let this distract you from the fact that in 1972, a crack commando unit was sent to prison by a military court for a crime they didn't commit. These men promptly escaped from a maximum security stockade to the Los Angeles underground. Today, still wanted by the government they survive as soldiers of fortune. If you have a problem, if no one else can help, and if you can find them....maybe you can hire The A-Team."

Hahaha

I'm single, bi and looking for a regular fwb and I've yet to find it!

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

It's good that you are honest but just one of those requirements is hard enough to forfil but all together is going to be pretty much impossible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The search for a particular needle from among a humungous tower of needles.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

There are definitely women that will meet you,how many I don't know. I would say try a site specific to your needs,but someone else suggested to that to a man once and they were shot down saying this was a good a site as anywhere to get sex. You would probably have to pay for that site though.

So yeah don't know really. Pay someone maybe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Married females are on this site to , looking for the same thing, sex a bit on the side an affair and a friend with benefits to hook up with when they can so its not so impossible as it seams,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are definitely women that will meet you,how many I don't know. I would say try a site specific to your needs,but someone else suggested to that to a man once and they were shot down saying this was a good a site as anywhere to get sex. You would probably have to pay for that site though.

So yeah don't know really. Pay someone maybe."

This is a good site for NSA sex imo better than the married affairs one. But as a bloke and limited time wise he's up against it on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've managed to find one, fwb on here, hopefully another after today, and I live in North Wales, so it can be done, just be patient and polite!!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

So yeah don't know really. Pay someone maybe.

This is a good site for NSA sex imo better than the married affairs one. But as a bloke and limited time wise he's up against it on here."

Yeah it's why I suggested he pay if he's getting nowhere,may not be what he had in mind but it's an option I suppose.

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By *imonP23Man
over a year ago

Shepton Mallet

Yes, paying for it is the best option. At least that gets results, quickly and reliably: this sort of situation is probably where escorts get most of their clients from. Whereas I've found the well-known adultery site to be a complete waste of time and money.

Your best strategy is a two-pronged approach. Book escorts, and also sign up for any free dating/sex site you can find (and maybe some paid ones if you have the budget for it, but be aware that you are unlikely to get a return on that investment).

If there is a specific reason why you feel the need to "play away" (sexless marriage, for instance) it might be a good idea to mention it. If there isn't, so be it... there are women out there who will not judge you (and even a few who actually prefer married men), they are unfortunately rare, but some do exist.

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By *imonP23Man
over a year ago

Shepton Mallet

Also, don't be so quick to write off the club scene. Many clubs open on weekday afternoons, making it easy for married folks to attend after booking an afternoon off work (I suspect they have spotted the niche in the market). And clubs are still the best place to get verified, either by others at the club, or by the club staff.

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

I wouldn't normally advocate lying but have you tried lying?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens, can personally vouch for the fact that married ladies are on here and looking.

That said this site isn't the best, for anything, so you are most definitely better off on a site more bespoke to your needs.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I wouldn't normally advocate lying but have you tried lying?"

Lying about the fact he's married? Op if you value your penis and you see it as a very important part of your wellbeing I would advise against that.

I know no-one can be certain of someone's marital status,but if I found out someone was married after saying they were single,said penis would be chopped up very finely with my cleaver and thrown in my green bin to be disposed of with the garden waste.

Leave the lying to your wife only,it's a lot safer.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

I wouldn't normally advocate lying but have you tried lying?"

Indeed as I keep saying why do cheaters on here say they are cheating? They are lying to their partners, so just lie on here as well.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

I wouldn't normally advocate lying but have you tried lying?

Lying about the fact he's married? Op if you value your penis and you see it as a very important part of your wellbeing I would advise against that.

Leave the lying to your wife only,it's a lot safer."

Really? You would be more pissed off to find out a casual sex buddy was married than his wife would to find out he was cheating?

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I'm surprised you've not been inundated, you're not asking for much

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

I'm surprised you've not been inundated, you're not asking for much

Indeed

Married

Wants to come to your place

Meets only in the daytime

Won't go to clubs (presumably as he doesn't want to be spotted out, which presumably means no dates of any sort)

Apparently too mean to pay for a hotel

Basically his only chance is some attached woman who doesn't work and is willing to take the risk of shagging him at hers.

So essentially a free prostitute cavalier about risk.

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By *oubyLoverWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Try looking for a couple where she meets alone. He might be happy for you to go round daytime and sort her out. Still slim pickings on this site tbh

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I wouldn't normally advocate lying but have you tried lying?

Lying about the fact he's married? Op if you value your penis and you see it as a very important part of your wellbeing I would advise against that.

Leave the lying to your wife only,it's a lot safer.

Really? You would be more pissed off to find out a casual sex buddy was married than his wife would to find out he was cheating? "

The reason I would be pissed off which is putting it mildly,is because I've been at the end of a husband having an affair only two year's after adopting our daughter's. I know the devastation that causes for year's to come.

I want to be no part of that,my heart aches for all those men/women on here who's partner is cheating. My ex had sex with one person over a few months,if I thought for one minute he was on here with multiple verifications,well I don't know that thought would be too much to bare.

I just don't want to be lied to,I hate lies. I can work with honesty,lies I can't.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

I wouldn't normally advocate lying but have you tried lying?

Lying about the fact he's married? Op if you value your penis and you see it as a very important part of your wellbeing I would advise against that.

Leave the lying to your wife only,it's a lot safer.

Really? You would be more pissed off to find out a casual sex buddy was married than his wife would to find out he was cheating?

I just don't want to be lied to,I hate lies. I can work with honesty,lies I can't."

Fair enough. I can understand that from your personal experience, but I think, on average, most people would be only a bit irritated by a swinging party lying, whereas their partner would be devastated.

Obviously it would be better if no one lied about anything, but it seems to me a strange order of priorities that you are willing to lie to your wife to get your end away but not randoms on here.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I wouldn't normally advocate lying but have you tried lying?

Lying about the fact he's married? Op if you value your penis and you see it as a very important part of your wellbeing I would advise against that.

Leave the lying to your wife only,it's a lot safer.

Really? You would be more pissed off to find out a casual sex buddy was married than his wife would to find out he was cheating?

I just don't want to be lied to,I hate lies. I can work with honesty,lies I can't.

Obviously it would be better if no one lied about anything, but it seems to me a strange order of priorities that you are willing to lie to your wife to get your end away but not randoms on here. "

I never actually said I would be more annoyed than their partner that would be a ridiculous thing to say wouldn't it!

I don’t understand it myself,but I've never cheated so I can't say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I,'ve done it, I had a married FWB who I hosted, so it's not impossible to find. XXX"

Pretty damned rare though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

End of the day its upto him what he does,alot of men on here are married and lying about it.atleast hes being honest.

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By *oubyLoverWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

"End of the day its upto him what he does,alot of men on here are married and lying about it.atleast hes being honest."

Not to his wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am not here to judge anyone.if he get caught then his marriage is over.but end of the day he is the one cheating so its down to him to live with it .he has to face his wife.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Am not here to judge anyone.if he get caught then his marriage is over.but end of the day he is the one cheating so its down to him to live with it .he has to face his wife."

I prey that don’t happen lol. It’s ok, been here a month or two and met no one yet lol ???? tv and films make having an affair look so easy lol ??

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By *oubyLoverWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

"Am not here to judge anyone.if he get caught then his marriage is over.but end of the day he is the one cheating so its down to him to live with it .he has to face his wife.

I prey that don’t happen lol. It’s ok, been here a month or two and met no one yet lol ???? tv and films make having an affair look so easy lol ?? "

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By *empsey and hotpieceMan
over a year ago

North west

I've got a question, and I'm not being pedantic.

Why stay in a marriage if it's not working?

We're only here once, why waste the limited time we've got?

I'm sure money, kids etc play a part but in my opinion they arnt reasons to stay. There's a solution to every problem.

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

OP you'll be ok, although loads of people say they look down on it on here, there are loads of women and men that only sleep with married people on the down low. So just keep sending your messages someone will bite.

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By *iBeRtInE70Man
over a year ago

around

Popcorn and time to sit back and watch the main feature ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've got a question, and I'm not being pedantic.

Why stay in a marriage if it's not working?

We're only here once, why waste the limited time we've got?

I'm sure money, kids etc play a part but in my opinion they arnt reasons to stay. There's a solution to every problem."

yes, but that requires some effort..unlike a quick shag! Some peoples' priorities seem very strange to me..

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"I’ll get the popcorn

Salted for me please

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've got a question, and I'm not being pedantic.

Why stay in a marriage if it's not working?

We're only here once, why waste the limited time we've got?

I'm sure money, kids etc play a part but in my opinion they arnt reasons to stay. There's a solution to every problem."

But my marriage is working. I never said it wasn’t. I love my wife and family very much. But I miss a kiss and touch sexually from another woman. I miss kinky taboo sex that my wife tried but diddnt like. So I’m here for SEX only nothing else. Sorry.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"I've got a question, and I'm not being pedantic.

Why stay in a marriage if it's not working?

We're only here once, why waste the limited time we've got?

I'm sure money, kids etc play a part but in my opinion they arnt reasons to stay. There's a solution to every problem.

Can you see what you have just written?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"I've got a question, and I'm not being pedantic.

Why stay in a marriage if it's not working?

We're only here once, why waste the limited time we've got?

I'm sure money, kids etc play a part but in my opinion they arnt reasons to stay. There's a solution to every problem.

Does your wife know?

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

"I've got a question, and I'm not being pedantic.

Why stay in a marriage if it's not working?

We're only here once, why waste the limited time we've got?

I'm sure money, kids etc play a part but in my opinion they arnt reasons to stay. There's a solution to every problem.

Why not be honest with your wife. Tell her what your sexual needs are and discuss them. If you love her surely you can do that

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By *empsey and hotpieceMan
over a year ago

North west

The fact that you're here means your marriage isn't working, your wife can't give you what you want which means there's problems.

If your wife acknowledges that you both arnt sexually compatible and that you have needs that she can't fulfill,and gave you her blessing to find sex elsewhere, then that's a different story, that's a marriage that's working.

I'm not judging OP, but I think you're setting yourself up for a big fall, cheating always gets found out eventually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't normally advocate lying but have you tried lying?

Lying about the fact he's married? Op if you value your penis and you see it as a very important part of your wellbeing I would advise against that.

Leave the lying to your wife only,it's a lot safer.

Really? You would be more pissed off to find out a casual sex buddy was married than his wife would to find out he was cheating?

I just don't want to be lied to,I hate lies. I can work with honesty,lies I can't.

Exactly this. Cheating is awful. Too many people doing it and use the judge away line. Judge yourself. You're a dickhead. Truly hope wife is having her cake too. What a prize to meet. "

There speaks the voice of decency.

Even on this site honesty is respected.

Too many people seem to think swinging is a place to cheat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ll get the popcorn

Salted for me please "

I like sweet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't normally advocate lying but have you tried lying?

Lying about the fact he's married? Op if you value your penis and you see it as a very important part of your wellbeing I would advise against that.

Leave the lying to your wife only,it's a lot safer.

Really? You would be more pissed off to find out a casual sex buddy was married than his wife would to find out he was cheating?

I just don't want to be lied to,I hate lies. I can work with honesty,lies I can't.

Exactly this. Cheating is awful. Too many people doing it and use the judge away line. Judge yourself. You're a dickhead. Truly hope wife is having her cake too. What a prize to meet.

There speaks the voice of decency.

Even on this site honesty is respected.

Too many people seem to think swinging is a place to cheat."

Exactly. The last two I met I sent them pics of wifey. Didn't hear back. It's everyone's business to know. I do not want to destroy someone else's happiness. Who knows how damaging it could be. What if it led to something really serious like self harm. No thanks I am single and ask to meet singles or couple's. Then I know I'm not shattering someone else's dream. If you can't stick to vows don't get married. It's disgusting to cheat. That's my opinion. Swinging is not about cheating. Respect is needed. And lying to a partner for sex with strangers there's no respect in that so who wants that. And the sense of self entitlement. Their times, their needs. What exactly is in it for me. Rant over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ll get the popcorn

Salted for me please

I like sweet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've got a question, and I'm not being pedantic.

Why stay in a marriage if it's not working?

We're only here once, why waste the limited time we've got?

I'm sure money, kids etc play a part but in my opinion they arnt reasons to stay. There's a solution to every problem.

Yup. Your posts just scream " I adore my wife"

She's a lucky woman indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup. Your posts just scream " I adore my wife"

She's a lucky woman indeed

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By *oubyLoverWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

"Yup. Your posts just scream " I adore my wife"

She's a lucky woman indeed

"So I’m here for SEX only nothing else"

Your post also screams 'I really respect whoever will meet me from fab'. Another lucky lady indeed.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

The man is asking for a meet not marriage guidance or a profile dissect

To the OP, if you start another thread in the meet section I will make sure it stays a meet request

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