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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been on here for roughly a month and don't seem to be getting anywhere? Icebreakers, how to start conversation, best pics and profile setup??? Help me please I need some fun?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ditch the cock pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes, lose the profile cock pic! and you need a lot more information on your profile. women will usually check a profile before even looking at a message, nothing much there and they'll just move on

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Maybe he will appeal to single fem profiles with next to no text and just one cunt pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe he will appeal to single fem profiles with next to no text and just one cunt pic "

thats a good point!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it any better really don't know what's to Muxh or to little info ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it any better really don't know what's to Muxh or to little info ? "

its a little better, but you need pics, not of your cock necessarily.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I hav one cock pic and 6 face pics but I don't want them to to be public for privacy reasons? Suggestions?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hav one cock pic and 6 face pics but I don't want them to to be public for privacy reasons? Suggestions? "

take a few torso ones then.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good idea will get some shot on any other tips for messaging people like yourself?x

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"I hav one cock pic and 6 face pics but I don't want them to to be public for privacy reasons? Suggestions? "

Would you be attracted to a profile of a woman who just displayed her close up cunt?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Very good point

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

So look at profiles that you are attracted to and try do similar with your own. Because I can tell you no one is attracted to the black silouhette profile on here with one cock pic profile. Apart from bi or gay guys of course that will fuck anything: but your profile affirms you are straight.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I see I will have take some better pics with face cut out but when I message I don't no weather I'm to forward any tips?

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

There are ways of showing part of your face to give an impression without displaying a blatant face pic. People want to get an idea of what you look like and preferably without having to ask you to send pics.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thankyou so much hopefully I'll get somwhere now

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By *rHornyGentMan
over a year ago

South East London

Get to a social and meet people there.

They can verify you.

Fun will follow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ditch the cock pic "

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Do your messages read anything like your forum threads looking for meets OP? If so then there's your problem

By the way if you use the Quote & Reply button we know who you're replying to with your posts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do your messages read anything like your forum threads looking for meets OP? If so then there's your problem

By the way if you use the Quote & Reply button we know who you're replying to with your posts "

Yeah " I need a release"

If OP seriously thinks thats gonna be tempting, he probably needs to 'ave a word with himself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope you don t mind but I ve taken some of this advice myself, it's difficult to begin with to understand what is best.. You may write an in your face profile and come across as slurry or you may tame it so that it comes across more like a post for a dating site, needless to say my cook pics are now by request only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 19/10/17 08:56:11]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too much what you want

Not enough what you offer

That goes for your text and pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it any better really don't know what's to Muxh or to little info ? "

We didn't see the old one so can't comment on the difference, however we will say that it isn't a very good profile to be honest.

Profile building seems a common problem that the new influx of younger members seem to have. Maybe it is down to inexperience.

Lots of good profile advice can be found at the press of a button on here. Our suggestion would be to do your homework before you contstruct your profile, not after.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Do your messages read anything like your forum threads looking for meets OP? If so then there's your problem

By the way if you use the Quote & Reply button we know who you're replying to with your posts

Yeah " I need a release"

If OP seriously thinks thats gonna be tempting, he probably needs to 'ave a word with himself"

Well there you go OP - straight from the unicorn's mouth

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

**HELP FOR NEWBIES/NO MEETS**

This section is especially for you singles and couples that feel the urge to pm me and ask for advice etc, now you don't have to it's all here for you!

1. Read FAQ section, particularly the part about no reply, no interest, it's not considered rude. Do not bother with the Sydney university shit on your profile, it means nothing.

2. Work on your profile: decent pics and a good bio, tick interests. Put a profile pic on.

3. Get photo verified, particularly important if you are a couple or single female.

4. Get cam verified to start, you can go into the cam rooms and ask someone to help you with this. Couples must both be on at the same time.

5. Read a profile before messaging, it's polite.

6. Read existing forum threads on profile advice, some very good ones.

7. Post your own thread to ask for feedback, (not a whinging, whining entitled one!).

8. Act on said advice.

9. Go to local socials/clubs, meet people in public places.

10. Lastly, enjoy your time on fab!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do your messages read anything like your forum threads looking for meets OP? If so then there's your problem

By the way if you use the Quote & Reply button we know who you're replying to with your posts

Yeah " I need a release"

If OP seriously thinks thats gonna be tempting, he probably needs to 'ave a word with himself

Well there you go OP - straight from the unicorn's mouth "

Some people say I'm blunt

I prefer straightforward

The words just fall out my gob some days. There's just no stopping 'em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well another day another pre unlos thread..

I can't even be bothered to get my rock out to sit and watch...

Shakes head and wanders back into a quiet corner of the man cave

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Get to a social and meet people there.

They can verify you.

Fun will follow. "
or go to cam rooms and ask for a verification there x

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By *rHornyGentMan
over a year ago

South East London


"Get to a social and meet people there.

They can verify you.

Fun will follow. or go to cam rooms and ask for a verification there x"

I thought they were stopping that...

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By *ink magnolia s yorksWoman
over a year ago

south yorkshire


"Ditch the cock pic "
they're boring and believe it or not vast majority of women don't sit drooling over cock pics, try body or torso shots, dressed or naked. But not over the toilet bowl

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain


"So look at profiles that you are attracted to and try do similar with your own. Because I can tell you no one is attracted to the black silouhette profile on here with one cock pic profile. Apart from bi or gay guys of course that will fuck anything: but your profile affirms you are straight. "

Err... speak for yourselves!

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"Been on here for roughly a month and don't seem to be getting anywhere? Icebreakers, how to start conversation, best pics and profile setup??? Help me please I need some fun? "

I know it's a bit of an unusual approach, but have you thought of opening up many different threads on the same subject in a short period of time? Say 24 hours?

It's bound to work.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Apologies OP, so how are you getting on?

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Your profile tells me everything I need to know.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Again apologies to the OP for going off topic x

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By *rHornyGentMan
over a year ago

South East London

Ditto. Ms and I have spoken and all is well.

Nothing to see here, so move along x

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