FabSwingers.com forum: Impotence from woman's perspective

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wondering how women cope in relationship where impotence is an issue yet male acts like gods gift, leering at other women and talking about sex like there's no issue at all.

How do you cope, protect your own self esteem when he is behaving sensitively around you when you are supportive and undemanding of him?

I understand it's male bravado and impotence is cruel but from the ladies perspective not the males what's it like living with it? Does it feel like they lose all desire, to even kiss and fondle or is it the same just minus an erection? How has sex changed?

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london

"Wondering how women cope in relationship where impotence is an issue yet male acts like gods gift, leering at other women and talking about sex like there's no issue at all.

How do you cope, protect your own self esteem when he is behaving sensitively around you when you are supportive and undemanding of him?

Appreciate it's a very sensitive subject and most men are loving and considerste...PM if you don't wish to reply publicly.

Thank you

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sensativity and understanding are needed for play to continue but failing that a trip to the doc for a bit of pharmaceutical help?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Wondering how women cope in relationship where impotence is an issue yet male acts like gods gift, leering at other women and talking about sex like there's no issue at all.

How do you cope, protect your own self esteem when he is behaving sensitively around you when you are supportive and undemanding of him?

Appreciate it's a very sensitive subject and most men are loving and considerste...PM if you don't wish to reply publicly.

Thank you

sensativity and understanding are needed for play to continue but failing that a trip to the doc for a bit of pharmaceutical help?"

Fixing his lack of erection is not what I'm getting at, assume thats been done. Its a view from the females perception and her self esteem I'm curious about if play isn't going well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

*perspective

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant send private messages to you. I lived with this for years and yes, it made intimacy difficult. In the end it stopped altogether. My ex was not into male bravado though or chasing other women That would have been difficult to live with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If my partner was leering at other women and being disrespectful the relationship would end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm assuming you mean the intimacy has gone from your relationship? Being a guy who loses interest in sex often is bad for relationships I've had in the past. At the moment I'm struggling myself, but I try and reassure my wife that nothing is wrong with us and that I'm in a bit of a slump. As for chatting about sex with people it's kinda me and it's what I've been like for years I think if that suddenly stopped my wife would really worry.

Just out of question does hubby know your on here advertising as a single woman? If not maybe introducing him to the life style would be helpful?

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By *RnMrsFreakCouple
over a year ago

Hull,England

A trip to the quack sorted any issues, he leers as much as I letch. If you're having issues with his behaviour then you need to have a chat with him really, not the internet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm assuming you mean the intimacy has gone from your relationship? Being a guy who loses interest in sex often is bad for relationships I've had in the past. At the moment I'm struggling myself, but I try and reassure my wife that nothing is wrong with us and that I'm in a bit of a slump. As for chatting about sex with people it's kinda me and it's what I've been like for years I think if that suddenly stopped my wife would really worry.

Just out of question does hubby know your on here advertising as a single woman? If not maybe introducing him to the life style would be helpful?"

It's not my hubby, I am single.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I cant send private messages to you. I lived with this for years and yes, it made intimacy difficult. In the end it stopped altogether. My ex was not into male bravado though or chasing other women That would have been difficult to live with"

I can't message you either lol

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