FabSwingers.com forum: Just joined fab, looking for advice

By *igerabbs OP Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

Hi folks, we're a married couple that are new to fab and the scene. We are so new to the scene that we haven't had any experiences yet or have a clue where to start with fab. Advice from other fab couples would be appreciated to help us get on our way. Profile review (turn on/off), pic advice, connecting advice and that sort of thing would be helpful as we are total newbies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi folks, we're a married couple that are new to fab and the scene. We are so new to the scene that we haven't had any experiences yet or have a clue where to start with fab. Advice from other fab couples would be appreciated to help us get on our way. Profile review (turn on/off), pic advice, connecting advice and that sort of thing would be helpful as we are total newbies.

Turn and run away

Real fast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Temper your expectations.

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By *igerabbs OP Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

Thanks for the help.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Hi op

This is raised quite often,couples find it veey hard seemingly to attract a single bi female and lots are looking for them.

Maybe try a ladies night at a club

You do have a shot of Mr too which helps

Good luck

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sending any face pic before a meet may be an issue for some. Even if the first meet us just a social, I'd still want to see a face pic first.

I'm not saying you should change this, if that's how you feel then fair enough, however, it may hamper your chances of a meet.

Poppy

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By *igerabbs OP Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

"Hi op

This is raised quite often,couples find it veey hard seemingly to attract a single bi female and lots are looking for them.

Maybe try a ladies night at a club

You do have a shot of Mr too which helps

Good luck

Miss"

Hi Miss,

Thanks for taking the time to look at our profile and giving feedback.

Unfortunately there don't seem to be any clubs here in Northern Ireland and if there are, they're impossible to find.

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By *igerabbs OP Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

"Not sending any face pic before a meet may be an issue for some. Even if the first meet us just a social, I'd still want to see a face pic first.

I'm not saying you should change this, if that's how you feel then fair enough, however, it may hamper your chances of a meet.

Poppy"

Hi Poppy,

Thanks for looking at our profile and giving us feedback. We're still trying to build our confidence with how things work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would advice to pay site membership as you will get more advantages.

Hang on! Have you done it already? Oh you don’t need my help anymore

Fruit x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We started by just chatting to people then met a nice more experienced couple for a social then went from there. As long as you makes steps to be as genuine as possible (image verification, swap face pics etc) you will find most couples really nice and willing to help. Then the fun starts.

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By *igerabbs OP Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

Thanks for the advice everyone. I think we're on the right track, just need to get some courage and message people now.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had a little success and would suggest that meeting at a social first, until you have verifications from a single woman may help. Obviously having verifications from other single women helps a great deal

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

As others have said, finding a single lady lady is going to be difficult. Especially so since you are unverified. That should be a priority. I'd suggest also looking for couples and just soft swapping if swapping is an issue, or just playing ff with the couple.

The comment about male being straight, so no single guys doesn't make sense. Loads of couples with straight men look for mmf meets.

Good luck, have fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seeing as you can’t find a club in NI, and assuming you’re interested in a club experience, may I suggest a holiday across the water and go via a club or two to try them out? Even just chatting could get you a veri and increase your chances.

Good luck.

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By *ogerNesszonesMan
over a year ago

Northern England

I can appreciate that it's difficult for couples to get together. The odds of both couples all connecting with, and liking each other has got to be far higher than with singles and threesomes - also a much higher chance of insecurities coming to the surface and risk of the green eyed monster raising it's ugly head.

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